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I’m really excited and happy that we will start a QL group for our volunteers! This is just great. After the QL Blood Donation Camp1, the QL visits for children with special needs, and a couple of charitable projects organized by our dear QL members, we’ll have our own , hopefully growing, group!! Yaaay

Thank you brother qatari!

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han19 said aisha ...

first attendance? PRESENT MA'AM:-D

i am with you.
but like you already know, i am held up with other priorities now, and like you, may not be able to attend all functions or events but insha'allah will try to be a part of all.

do you think its the right time to think of the picnic we had planned earlier?
let me know.

charmed, gypsy gal, shraddhay????????????

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Cornellian said count me in ! :D ...

count me in ! :D

 

charmed's picture

charmed said hey for sure ...

im up for it! i would love to do more charity work! ( will give me an excuse to see you all again too! Han i havent seen you for ages!!)

I love the idea, can we do something with old people? I love old people!

 

Aisha's picture

Aisha said hey galz! ...

"do you think its the right time to think of the picnic we had planned earlier?"
I don't know han19, the weather is really hot nowadays.. But it's ok with me.

Cornillian, yaay, you welcome dear :-D

Charmed,
"can we do something with old people?"
Sure!! will talk to you all about it really soon.

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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azilana7037 said I would love to join your group ...

Honestly, I'm taking my time to decide which group to join. But, if it's something to do with medical, geriatrics and children with special needs...my hands up and feet too...lol

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Aisha's picture

Aisha said azilana 7037 you welcome! ...

Don't worry, I think you can join as much groups as you want!

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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keshav59 said New Volunteers Group ...

Hi Aisha, It is wonderful thinking n I really appreciate n share your ideas. Even I love to be associated with any such activities which are helpful to the society/mankind along with recognization to QL Group identity. To be frank, I hardly get leisure time other days except on Fridays. So let me know if I can be helpful for any sorta contribution of services.

 

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han19 said What do you think?volunteers ...

even if we cant attend, but if can get a meet going, it will be an action in the positive direction.

welcome cornellian, keshav,azilana.
hi charmed..
.couldnt meet you earlier during the abbaya shopping as it was my birthday , so was totally held up on that day.

aisha: the trip to the old people's ward is pending.....we had to call it off the last time....so we have a couple of activities on our agenda.

1. visit to the old people home/ward.
2. picnic for the kids: we will have to keep it for the evening, 4pm sorts.
3. blood donation drive again for those who couldnt do it the last time.
4. holding a charity bazaar or collecting old clothes/items, food and arrange for its distribution at labour camps or to necessary embassy who can do the needful.
5. getting contacts from volunteer organisation who conduct fund collection for the sick,who cant pay for their treatment, sometimes the plea comes in the paper, we can do our share in raising this fund.
6. meet other charitable organisations
7. get a contact at qatar volunteers organisation who can help us with our activities.

how does this sound? any other ideas?

In India, esp my place, we have orphanages, where individuals give money for a mini feast to be organised for the kids, so its like we can have it every weekend or monthly or something like that. dont know how it works out here.food is expensive in india, and other than the basic food, kids in such places cant dream of eating delicacies prepared for them.so we usually donate a bulk and the orphanage decides how to go about it.

whats the convenient time for everybody.....for me it would be friday evening and saturday. like i said, i wont be able to come for all events but i will do my best to help organise it.

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charmed said yeah friday and saturdays ...

for me too! Great ideas Han i hope we get to do them all! Would be great to be able to do something worthwhile with my spare time out here! Maybe we should all brainstorm what we want to do and then meet up and discuss!

 

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Cornellian said yay that sounds great guys! ...

yay that sounds great guys! we can even visit the special children's school....hmmm...it's called Shafalah I think. Anyhow, can't wait to get these activities started ! :)

 

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gypsy gal said Count me in ...

How did I missed this thread yesterday....Anywayz count me in....I am there for any such events..we will have to sit together to plan something good. Fri-Sat would be fine with me. Let me know.....lets do something good.

han19- As usual you always come up with great ideas.......lets start working on these.

 

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Aisha said wow girls you rockkk ...

WOW I’m loving your ideas, girls! And yes I agree with charmed, we should brainstorm first.. HOWEVER, I’m so sorry (I don’t want to sound sexist coz I’m so NOT) but the brainstorm meeting ( in a coffee shop or something) will be only for girls :-P We are already a females majority.. OR we can arrange a meeting without me It’s ooook ..you guys will keep me posted I know :-D

Anyway, It’s my midterm exams this week and the one after.. but I can manage to do it if you ALL agreed on one date. SoOoOoOoOo please just keep the brilliant ideas going and catch me up!

AND, I’m thinking we can arrange some sort of a brief intensive course (something like a practical lecture by a professional) for our volunteers (guys and girls) and anyone even outside QL. It’ll be about the volunteering principles and things of sort. If you don’t mind, we can start working on this and if you think about it and its results, it IS in itself a very charity work. We can arrange some sort of certificates for the attendees and we can make a price for the tickets. We will use THAT money for some charitable purpose that we will agree on :-) We will need many people to work on that project regarding the contacts, settings, publicity, public relations..etc SO we have to plan this all if you liked the idea.. if not then just ignore me lol

Keshav59, han19, Cornellian, charmed, gypsy gal.. THANK YOU ALL!!!

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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sfd24 said I am In..Treasure123,Neo,Sindbad ...

Thanks Han for informing me about this group. Sure i am IN this group.
Hi Treasure, Neo, Sindbad, Ram ,Truth,Please join the force

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han19 said aisha ...

you are supposed to speak to the lady at the hospital to try for a visit to the old people this saturday ie 28april2007.
what needs to be taken for the old people is basic necessities, like toiletries maybe some new clothes...so if we are meeting people in a ward, get the number of men and women.

what do you think

to the men,
as girls we will meet and discuss but whatever we do will be communicated to the men...pls dont mind.....any inputs from the men will be taken head on, be assured about it.

we are in this together.

so lets take this slowly and steadily.

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iwael said Is it only girls group? ...

Is it only girls group?

if not, I am in as I was responsible for 16,000 Volunteers training in the Asian Games, I might add some value

 

charmed's picture

charmed said hey guys ...

just let me know when and where and i will be there! If men are coming then my hubby will come too!!

 

Aisha's picture

Aisha said you welcome brothers ...

Hi volunteers! WOW what a response!
Sfd24, the group is not exactly one yet.. we are waiting for that new feature by qatari.. you know it’s like the emails groups discussions.. lol we kind of started earlier, way earlier :-D

iwael, no it's NOT only for girls.Only some outings are. But you guys can organize your own outings too.WE ALL belong to the same group and communicate online mostly. If you don't like it this way then we'll change it don't worry. Let's see what the majority says.

About the hospital visit:
See, I talked to the lady and it turned to be not as simple as we thought lol. Girls, we can go just by ourselves like we’re friends or family coz we don’t exactly represent any organization or anything of a kind.. not yet ;-) .. so we’ll be there without anyone introducing the sections to us. It’s okayyyy I know the place and people there and I’ve been there. BUT if we were “obviously” a group then we have to write to the one in charge about our visit and say are we men or women or both.. and are we gonna visit the men or the women or all..etc. It’ll take time of course... beside; they won’t have us in the weekend if so.
And I talked with them about the gifts and all, don’t worry :-D

Basically what I’m thinking about is that we the girls just go there by ourselves on Saturday (what time do you prefer) and AFTER THAT we organize a visit to all of us some time in the future after writing to them. What do you think?

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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charmed said yeah that sounds good to me ...

saturday is a good day for me to do! I love the idea of that hun! bless you! it wont matter that i dont speak arabic will it? I can just smile a lot ( you know me girl!)!!!

 

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Aisha said smiling is good :-) ...

Most people there are too old and sick that they HAVE to stay at the hospital.OR came from poor families ( or no family at all) that can’t afford a nurse.Others are really young with similar health problems.So, there will be no much talking.. just smiling, shaking hands and things alike.let me do the FEW talking :-) we’ll go to the women’s.
Also, I was thinking we visit the coma patients (accidents youth victims mostly). Every time I go there I feel closer to God I don’t know why!! I feel for them and all,but there are many lessons to learn as well.
Let’s pray for them and their families AND, for the God's sake Let's learn how to appreciate more what we’ve dared to take for granted!! Youth, health, Time, family, good looking, clear mind.. etc etc etc!! We SHOULD be happy with these all!!

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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han19 said i will be smiling too ...

Oh dear....we do need a reality check.what yousaid is so true aisha. its only when we see someone else's misery that we realise how perfect we are subhanallah and yet we cry over silly things.

i am with you on this.just make sure that it wont be an awkward scene for anyone over there, if we need to take a longer route we can do that too.

who is the late bird on saturdays, we may have to try to schedule around them. i can be up at 5am as everyday :-(
gypsygal is also an early riser, i think.

how does 8am or 11am sound? aisha...can you pick me up?confirm this becasue i will have to make arrangements for the kids

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gypsy gal said I am ready any time ...

I can come any time... where is this place? If you want I can pick you han. Let me know.

 

Aisha's picture

Aisha said ok girls! ...

Sur han19, me or gypsy gal will pick you up!

So who's coming, girls? Plz confirm!

About the time, how does 10 to 11 sound?

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

Aisha's picture

Aisha said gypsy gal, it's Al Rumailah Hospital ...

It's somewhere next to Hamad hospital.. lol you know how terrible I am when it comes to places and directions!

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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Cornellian said I can't this saturday, I got ...

I can't this saturday, I got exams :(

 

DaRuDe's picture

DaRuDe said Aw Cornellian ...

No Problem there is always a next saturday :D
Girls Cancel this saturday:P

 

han19's picture

han19 said what time does your exam get ...

what time does your exam get over cornellian?
we could adjust to suit you too, say in the evening 5pm or something.

if morning, 10-11 seems fine, i am ok with even earlier than that 8-9am :-)the thing is, i will be up early and will be wondering how to pass my time, since the kids will be asleep.10am, they are wide awake.then leaving them at home is difficult.cant take the kids to rumailah.
let me know.

i know where rumailah is.

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Cornellian said I got a kinda stupid ...

I got a kinda stupid question, so I know where rumailah is but hmmm...what are we going to do there ? Is there like an elder's section or something ?

 

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han19 said corny corny corny ...

nothing is stupid dear.
what are we going to do there....actually nothing much.

the purpose of visiting such places is basically to give company to the resident patients.they have a resident ward or something similar where they have long term patients. these people are just left to the system, their family comes to meet them but how happy can a person be all alone in a hospital without family.

all we want to do, with aisha speaking arabic, is to convey that we care and try to do something for them to make them happy, get them something if they wish, if they ask for a porsche cayanne, i cant think of it, but if they ask for cologne or something similar, then why not?

when we went to the speech institue, we did not undrstand most of the kids, and we dont have teh capability to understand their requirement, but there was a joy filled in them when they saw the toys and so many people, even the care takers were so happy.

before aisha gets busy with her other plans, we must pay a visit to the school with some more stuff for them. this is the way we can help.by giving something, although material and try to spend some sort of quality time with them.

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han19 said 10-11 will be difficult for ...

10-11 will be difficult for me since my hubby has a meeting at 10am.
aisha, is evening possible? say 5pm.

however suits all.

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Aisha said ok :-D ...

Is 4.30 ok?
-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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han19 said aisha ...

4:30pm should be cool.
what about others?

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DaRuDe said hmm ...

No interesting Topic today :( getting bored this person maid run away tell him hire a new one :P

 

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charmed said yeah any time is good with me ...

but will need directions as to where the hosipatal is! im hopeless at finding places! let me know if i need to bring anything! i love the idea of sitting with the coma patients too! its going to me amazing to go there, like you guys said sometimes we all need a gentle reminder to show us how lucky we are in life!

 

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Aisha said charmed ...

No we wont bring anything THIS time :-D will tell you why later.

Ok girls please tell charmed where the hospital is. The driver knows lol you know I don't drive BY CHOICE ;-)

Charmed, I might call you tonight after I ask him.

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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Aisha said who's in? ...

Okay girls, if you are coming send me private messages plz with your names and contact means.

See you there!! yay!

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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Mystica said I'm in! ...

If it's just visiting I don't really mind!
Blood? I remember the last time I wanted to donate blood to my best friend Malou she had miscarriage, I have my husband with me when we went to see her at the hospital. When they are about to get some blood of me, they said, not possible! as I don't have enough blood for myself! I looked at my husband and he asked, Why you're looking at me like that?
He can't say no! as he has enough blood to donate.
So, for sure if I'm going to attend blood group donations? he will never come with me again, why? he's afraid of needles!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!!!

 

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han19 said jane ...

your penguin makes me so happy, its so adorably cute.

hop on jane, send aisha a PM. we will see you at rumailah tomorrow 430.
aisha, i think gypsygal will pick me up at 430pm.confirm this pls.

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Mystica said Glad you like it! ...

I can't help it! I always wants something to inspire me! and plus this QL kept me busy! Nice to be here in Qatar!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!!!

 

Aisha's picture

Aisha said hey girls ...

LOL kiarajane so your hubby is afraid of needles hehehe

Ok han19.

See you all there!

Anyone needs a ride? Kiarajane is asking :-)

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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gypsy gal said I will .... ...

han I will pick you at 4.30 pm, so we will be there only around 5. I will call you tomorrow for your exact home location. Aisha and others reach there by 5.

 

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Mystica said Aisha ...

Just text me who needs a lift okey? you've got my number.
See you there girls!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!!!

 

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Aisha said /-a-t-//-a-t-/ ...

Okay girls, the final date and time will be sent to your mobiles. Please do not post details here.. Just PM me plz, thank you :-)

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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Aisha said kiarajane ...

Thanks dear.. That is sooo sweet of you!

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

han19's picture

han19 said our visit to the hospital ...

aisha, charmed, kJ, and gypsygal.

thank you so much for a womderful visit to the hospital, its really humbling.

KJ, you are a walking party on its own,,,,,insha'allah you will always be happy.
charmed and gypsygal, hopefully we can get something going like this on a permanant basis.

the patients, although free people are prisoners in their own bodies, and it just reminds us to be grateful to our Creator for giving us a beautiful life.Subhan'allah.

aisha and fauzia.....you are truly beautiful people to do carry out such selfless acts, insha'allah you will always see happiness in everything you do.

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Cornellian said How did it go guys ? what ...

How did it go guys ? what did u do ? I wana gear all the details! Unfortunately I couldn't make it cause of the work I got and all. But count me in for next time! can't wait till then!

 

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Mystica said Thanks! to all the girls with me today! ...

Bless you all for all the good things you do and for the future you plan.
It's been a lovely day with you, Aisha, Charmed, Gypsy gal and Fauzia. although it's breaking my heart to see such a situation that way! the scene I've seen there is not what we want to happen to us later on! take it as a lesson that one day, we'll all be old too! but if we show enough love and caring to our family, I'm sure they will not abandon us that way! I knew for sure that God is great and is always there to look back on all the good things you do and still about to do! people who don't appreciate other people is their lost not yours!
Got to go to bad kids has schooling tomorrow!
Good night and God bless you all!!!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!!!

 

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Aisha said sorry caronellian!! You HAVE to come next time!! ...

Yeaaaaaaah what a quality time we spent with those beautiful patients!

You girls were amazing. It’s unbelievable the joy we can bring to a lonely heart in one single visit..

Such outings break hearts big time I knowwww! BUT they are eyes-openings as well. I for one needed that seriously..

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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Mystica said Aisha! ...

You make me cry today! I wasn't expecting this but I always wanted to do this, I was involve with this volunteer groups before during my youth as I told you!

I always tell my husband I will look after his Mum even though she's horrible and don't like me at all! even though she generalizing Filipino and told my husband not to marry me before!.
Until now, although I've been married with her son for 12 years! she still don't like at all, the sound of Filipino what a great reputation we have!!!
After all, Although nobody loves me when I was young, but I wasn't brought up to disrespect elders!!!
And that's the reason why my hubby don't give up on me, because he knows I have suffered enough! but here I am as happy as you can think of! No one can guess what I've been through but one thing for sure I have never done bad to people but wanted to do as much as I can to make them happy!!!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!!!

 

Aisha's picture

Aisha said Oh kiarajane ...

"No one can guess what I've been through"
Nope!! NO ONE! Bless you dear.

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

han19's picture

han19 said KJ ...

you forgot me...how could you...waaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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gypsy gal said Take care of your health.... ...

Aisha, han, charmed, kairajane…it was really nice to be with you all yesterday evening. I met Kairajane for the first time…..she is cool.

I was thinking all night, one thing I realized is whatever we have in life…. how successful we are ….the most important thing is when we get old we should be healthy enough. Never be a burden to ourselves or to anyone around us.

We met many ladies there… they are all in the Hospital for many years. They don’t have a choice…...so they end up being there. Some of them are abandoned by family…some cannot afford to get treated in their home country. Anyways those who could communicate with us were very cheerful and accepted the reality of their life.

But……one very old blind lady…..was there with her packed bag in her hand…… waiting to leave the hospital any moment... It really touched us… as soon as she heard us…..she asked us if we have a car to take her home……. But the sad fact is that she don’t have anyone to take her home…. or anywhere to go.

I really appreciate the Hospital management and staff for taking good care of them. Most of them cannot eat themselves…change themselves……or do anything of their own.. The nurses are doing their job wholeheartedly. It was good to hear from them that once in a while the hospital management take them out to Sheraton…. Marriot etc for breakfast or lunch. Isn’t that a great gesture from the people who really take initiative for such outing……They really deserve a break from their boring Hospital life
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charmed said it was great ...

seeing you all again yesterday and meeting KJ for the first time! what a sweetie you are!! Bless you all!

It was amazing to meet the people there and share their laughter! that lady which could sing all those songs and speak all those languages, and the sweet old lady who just wanted to go home but had no home to go to, and the sweet lady who wouldnt stop dancing! my favorite thou was the old guy in his wheelchair who was praying and had a happy smile for everyone who walked past him!

we should defintaly make this a regular thing and bring small things along to brighten up there day!

 

Cornellian's picture

Cornellian said Sounds like it was a ...

Sounds like it was a fantastic trip, we should definitely make it a regular thing, I can't imagine how happy those people would be to see that there's someone who cares about them. Can't wait till next time :)

 

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Aisha said yeaaaaaaaaaah ...

We HAVE to make it regular thing! I couldn't agree more. We have to make it official too ;-) Let me & fawziah work on that.

"my favorite thou was the old guy in his wheelchair who was praying and had a happy smile for everyone who walked past him!"

Charmed you like him because of his tatto haaa ;-) lol... He was really cool Persian man :-D
And he has this beautiful peaceful tone of voice while praying.. tells you a lot about his spirit.. I like the fact that he was praying in the corridor.. so all people around can enjoy the scene and the sound :-)

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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Aisha said gypsy gal and all ...

“one very old blind lady…..was there with her packed bag in her hand…… waiting to leave the hospital any moment... It really touched us… as soon as she heard us…..she asked us if we have a car to take her home……. But the sad fact is that she don’t have anyone to take her home…. or anywhere to go.”

Yeaaaah gypsy gal.. this is really sad.. Not only because she has no one, but also because of the “hope” she kept.. Keeping a hope is really brave thing to do because it means that you accept the risk of losing it, while giving up hope is the easy way to live life as it is and simply go with the flow.. In THAT age, being THAT determined is just so powerful of her..
So you think that she really believed that there is a way OUT? I think deep inside she knows the truth.. The metaphor of the “blind cat” she made says it all.

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You know girls; I’m really surprised that none of us actually cried right away! Lol if I saw anyone crying I’d burst into tears myself, but none encourage me to do that hehe you toughm tough girls :-) I like it that we kept smiling and talking to them in a cheerful way. Yay bless us :-D

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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