GUYS DO U AGREE WITH THIS???

u have a stone heart senti! lol

Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN

I don't even care if my wife quarrels on silly matters....... I know, that she will come to me with a smiling face after sometime.

for some crying is not abt weakness or wanting the other person to say sorry or give in to the situation but instead for me when i do cry/shed my tears is because i am so angry/upset that i want to say things that i am sure is gonna hurt the other person (saying out of anger) but i am trying so hard to control it as once it comes out there is no way of taking it back so to speak. so i am controlling it so hard that instead tears come flowing down, most ppl in an angry state will say things (hurtful things) in the moment of anger and when all has subsided realize that and its too late as it is already said and done with and hence hurts the other person........

my mom once told me the tooth paste story- only take the amt that you need if you were to squeeze too much of out the tube ya cant put it back in =-same goes for things said when in the heat of the moment (does more hurt than good)  

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

tears are my outlet for an impending eruption boiling inside.

you cant take back whatever you have spitted, so better shed tears than spit a mouthful of words brought by hurt or anger that you can never take back when you calm down

If you believe, you will receive what you ask for in prayer

Well said that was poetic.

I am hurt, I don't want to hurt somebody..... so it comes out in tears.

Yes I agree with that!!!!

thank you oryx- how you sweety long time no see............

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

i cry when i'm so pissed..i dont cry to make my partner soft and pity me. it makes me cry coz it seems tiry to make each other understand and agree on one thing. although he knows that he is wrong! most of the time.

but what can i do? boys will be boys, girls will be girls..

besides, when a girl cries and makes their partners soft, her partner can use this tactic in the end and the real cause of the problem is never resolved. your partner would just justify that he can always say sorry but never really mean it.

but i am not saying crying is a weakness. we all hve our own reasons for doing so.

Maybe... maybe emotion becomes so intense your body just can't contain it. Your mind and your feelings become too powerful... and your body weeps. 
- Seth "City of Angels"

my tears  are not a weapon,but guys will be guys and will always think so..Most times the tears r coz i am soooooooo angry and aarrrghhh!!....cant get my point across..but no..i dont think women..or men..start a POA with tears..now, tht the tears DO melt a guy,well, thts another story entirely..)))))

LIVE and LET LIVE

Disagree...don't believe in game playing

 I may be blonde but I am wise

smile lots laugh more

Do you really think there r women who  use their tears and use game-playing tactics?If u hv come across such ppl, do share.. i'd like to know if such ppl exist outside of soaps..and anybody else,knowing ANY tactics, plz..let on,coz maybe I might finally be able to get hub to do my bidding!!

 LIVE and LET LIVE

I've had a mate who has used these tactics for his advantage.

They weren't always to win an argument but to win them over, if you see my angle.

Emotions can be crazy, especially when you add a little silly juice

"never hide behind closed doors"

 That's what my Father always say...

I may not cry but that doesn't mean I'm not hurt or breaking inside.

You may see me smile/laugh a lot around my friends but that doean't mean I don't have a problem and that's everything is fine with me.

I'm SCARED to cry because it would only mean that MY CUP is brimming FULL and when I'm emotional, i may do/say things that might hurt myself or someone else.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleonor Roosevelt

My wife cries....

What I beleive Its only a matter of two words or little understanding to solve the issues and not to wait until the long, time consuming water flow finish...

Wth husband and wife , nothing there to forget and forgive in a maximum 10 minutes and if someone start to cry ,,, it will take more time..

Try to solve it immediately,,,, as the counter part is your innersoul 

when they feel they are losing an argument or quarrel.

and who would want to fight with a crying woman. so she wins.

LOL

YOU DONT KNOW ME, DONT EVEN TRY !!!

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