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Everyone wearing the same clothes is silly

Timbo's picture

Come on I mean every person in a country wearing almost identical clothes every day is a bit odd isn't it?

Think of the poor kids who lose their mum in the supermarket......you'd never see her again. Dad's no help either, he's wearing the same as every other dad.

Don't get me wrong I'm not slating the abaya or thobe I just think a little more individuality could be incorporated into the national dress.

Why is there not a thobe of many colours, or an Armani thobe. A stripey one or a paisley one?

Pin stripe thobe for work, or a nice gingham.

Tell me I'm wrong? I think it's the way forward

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britexpat's picture

britexpat said To each his own.. Chairman ...

To each his own.. Chairman Mao made everyone dress alike, but they could tell the difference. If they're happy..............

 

Lan's picture

Lan said Don't be so sarcastic. maybe ...

Don't be so sarcastic.

maybe they also think that your clothes are a bit silly. don't you think?

Try to respect every one's individuality, culture and habits. Nobody appointed you a designer for the qatari people.


 

dragonfly212's picture

dragonfly212 said your post none other then an ...

your post none other then an insult to the local people. hope the admin delete this thread. Admin please do something.

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r7's picture

r7 said Lan ...

Nice answer :)



 

vukpop's picture

vukpop said Good idea! Why dont you tell ...

Good idea! Why dont you tell this personaly to some Qatari or better Saudi, they will be very happy. GCC countries were waiting your idea for decades.

"Omne vincit amor et nos cedamus amori"

 

goodluck's picture

goodluck said colors will demonstrate ...

colors will demonstrate colorful desires for life.

 

raindrops's picture

raindrops said They look nice in white ...

They look nice in white thobes and abayas. sometimes you can see the young men wearing the ghutra in different way.

 

kismet's picture

kismet said I don't find it silly at ...

I don't find it silly at all. this is their culture.
Plus, they are different, if you look closely, the abbayas differ in the cut, sleeve shape, patterns on them....

Men wear different cuflings, the colour can be white or off white or cream or sometimes in the winter black....

Your thread is silly, not them wearing their clothes.

Kismet

 

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RED_POPE said Are the smells ...

Are the smells different?
I'm thinking of an advance olfactory gene.

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lipstick's picture

lipstick said wrong, guys in thobe are f. ...

wrong,
guys in thobe are f. hot,
you don't like hot guys,
because you are not.
.
chaud

 

JaYTeR's picture

JaYTeR said Leave them alone... ...

Its not of your business... as long as its look decent, no problem with that... and no one will change it just for you...


 

Cornellian's picture

Cornellian said As Queen of the World, I ...

As Queen of the World, I demand we all wear mermaid suits :D

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield

 

vignale's picture

vignale said Timpo, ignorant Thread from ...

Timpo, ignorant Thread from you. We are guests in this Country and it's not up to us to change how their National Dress is. It's practical and nice.

 

Alexa's picture

Alexa said I want Lederhosen..... A ...

I want Lederhosen.....

A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
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MR PAUL said There is a Muslim lady here in Bahrain, who makes ...

Abeyas in various colours , styles and materials, and she is trying to provide an alternative to plain black. And by all accounts, shes doing well, with her products been very popular...So what Timbo says isnt an attack on GCC people nor is it a stupid comment....

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britexpat said Mr Paul... Timbo is wrong.. ...

Firstly ts culture, but its also practcal in a sense.By eeryone dressing the same, the class system disappears at a stroke.. You can see a group of Bahrainis / Saudis / Qataris etc sitting together and there is no ditinction between them.

 

dragonfly212's picture

dragonfly212 said i find his thread is silly ...

i find his thread is silly and stupid, come to borneo jungle why the primitive people there almost wear nothing and is fine, cos is their tradition, their customs and they live on their land, they can do what the want. So yes this thread is stupid.

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Ganda's picture

Ganda said everyone ...

has the right to choose

has the right to comment

has the right to post a topic

has the right to agree

has the right to disagree

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whoami's picture

whoami said first of all it's tradition ...

first of all it's tradition and culure.
Second of all they're not all the same.

You can find a variety of colours, it's the attention to detail that matters in our culture.

E.g. the pen, the cufflinks, the watch. They usually add 'flair'.

Then you have the shape of the pocket, the lining, the different collars, the buttons, the shape of the thobe.

Then you have the different ghitras. Different colours. Most prefer white, but that's their choice.

Then there the way you wear the ghitra.

There are many different thigs and ways.

In winter they use different material, and they are in a variety of colours INCLUDING pin-stripe.

Next time, pay attention to the detail.

Oh and who said there aren't designer thobes, there are Versace thobes, Gucci ghitras, I myself have a Valentino thobe.
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nadt said Although the black abayas ...

Although the black abayas are very nice, but it would be nice to be able to find other colours here without the hassle of having them custom made...Would be nice if someone started doing this here as well. Mr Paul is right i dont see this as an attack, more like an observation.
Maybe Alexa can start this trend here with her great designer skills..

 

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mr_rob said I don't understand why ...

I don't understand why everyone is suddenly attacking Timbo after a simple observation / comment. He's not attacking the national dress, more asking why it's not more colourful or varied, i.e. is it by choice, culture, etc.
As Whoami kindly pointed out, it's a difference in culture and to people who know what they are looking at there is a great deal of variety.

"Never argue with idiots. They'll drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience."

 

Timbo's picture

Timbo said Wow you guys really take ...

Wow you guys really take everything way too seriously. Chill your boots!!

I didn't say they couldn't all wear exactly the same thing. I am all for everyone wearing exactly what they want. Just think it would be a nice change.

I bet that in the next 20 years you will see plenty of variety coming in. The culture loves fine clothes and designer labels so why not have them have a crack at putting some variety into the local clothes.

By the way the losing of the parents in the super markets comment is funny. It just is. I mean I used to lose my mum and it terrified me and she wasn't wearing the same thing as everyone else as well as having her face covered.

 

Timbo's picture

Timbo said oh and Lan I like being ...

oh and Lan I like being sarcastic so I will keep doing it. I also have no doubt that they find some of my clothes funny. I am also not at all worried if they mention it on a forum.

I'm sure if there is an arabic version of QL somewhere they are probably saying exactly that. Something like "why is that ridiculously good looking white guy wearing those horrible shorts, thank goodness he isn't in an all white thobe or we wouldn't stand a chance with the local ladies".....if he was talking about me :)

 

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dmigtysolomon said everyone is entitled to his/her opinion... ...

just say what you like. we all know our limit, others just want the thrill of stepping in the thin line.

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

 

Timbo's picture

Timbo said Yes I do love stepping in ...

Yes I do love stepping in the thin line. Can't get enough of it...

 

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Scarlett said Its like Whoami said.. ...

OBSERVE...and you'll notice the subtle differences in the Abayas and thobes. I find it entertaining to look and enjoy the differences in the ladies abayas...Have to admit tho that they've changed a LOT in the past 5 years...used to the embellishments were only in black, such as embroidery or at the most a few sequins...now you see crystals and colors..a lot of them! I think they are lovely...

As far as how does a child find their mom in the store when everyone is wearing black? Simple..they know their mom's stance, and mannerisms. Better question is how do you teach a very young child to eat with chopsitcks when most adults can't do it???!!!

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.

 

canarybird's picture

canarybird said whoami - good for ...

good for you I actually like the way they dress here and don't see any reason to change the tradition.

 

Murali's picture

Murali said don't talk abt these things ...

Better you don't talk about these kind of things this is their tradition..... if possible don't post this kind of threads again.

 

lamea's picture

lamea said i agree with scarlett, ...

i agree with scarlett, abayas are more colourful than they used to be but the essence is gone.Traditionally(and religiously)abayas should be subtle and not attract attention but now we have loud and at times gaudy work on them which demand attention. the main idea,which is to not draw attention, is gone.
well timbo is right children often get mistaken and run to women other than their mother,especially if they are in niqab, but this rarely happens.
a friend of mine had a similar incident where a qatari man mistook her for his wife and started scolding her in arabic for being late!!! She was apprently wearing a niqab and abaya similar to his wife's. My friend replied in english, he realised his mistake and apologised .actually his wife also standing just a few metres away.

 

Gypsy's picture

Gypsy said Murali just because it's ...

Murali just because it's tradition doesn't mean you can't question it. Jeez. It's a tradition of my grandmother's people to kill a bear and blow smoke up its nose to appease its spirit and people question that little tradition all the time (in fact they don't do it anymore for obvious reasons). It's tradition in some countries to circumsize little girls,etc. I'm not comparing wearing a thobe or abaya to those things, but I'm saying traditions are meant to be questioned.

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lamea said well timbo the white thobe ...

well timbo the white thobe is perfect for the weather here. Cant say the same for the abaya. tried wearing it once but i was boiling. hats off to the women who actually wear it thoughout the year.

 

dmigtysolomon's picture

dmigtysolomon said Unless the tradition is religion-related one,..... ...

then no doubt, you can only comment on it but never question it. But if it is a custom or country or regionalized thing, by all means, give your suggestion but do not expect everybody will agree with you

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

 

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Gypsy said Female circumsizion is ...

Female circumsizion is religion related dmigtysolomon, are you saying that shouldn't be questioned?

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Murali said Gypsy ...

This is not a Democratic country so you better don't question otherwise you know what the result would be :-)

 

diamond's picture

diamond said I don't think I would use ...

I don't think I would use the word silly.

I like wearing abaya sometimes because it gives me a feeling of unity and identity. I guess it depends on the way you look at it...on a worldwide scale there are very few who wear abaya khaliji (Gulf) style so in that way we are different. On a domestic front although to some non-abaya wearers it appears to some that we all look the same in abayas, the reality is different. I get my abays hand made, as many do, and there are so many types of materials and designs.

I can spot the differences in thobes and abayas a mile away( figurately speaking!). Often the differences will tell you where the wearer comes from in the Gulf (Qatar, Kuwait, Saudi, Emirates, Oman, etc). Hemlines, collars, cuffs are all giveaways on thobes for a knowing eye.

I guess all the world wears a cultural uniform of some sort. Ask yourself whay you wear the clothes that you wear. Isn't it because you wish to be identified as belonging to a certain group?
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Harry99's picture

Harry99 said Gypsy.. ...

I don't know how we got on to Female Circumcision, but I think its cultural and not religion based... I don't think Christianity or Islam or for that matter Hinduism dictate this. i may be wrong!

 

Gypsy's picture

Gypsy said Murali I don't think anyone ...

Murali I don't think anyone is going to get in trouble for asking why people wear thobes and why they can't have polkadots. This may not be a democracy, but it's not a tyranny either.

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Gypsy said The religions doesn't ...

The religions doesn't dictate it, but the people who practise it say they do it for religious reasons. Therefore...

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bleu said britexpat said: You can see ...

britexpat said:
You can see a group of Bahrainis / Saudis / Qataris etc sitting together and there is no ditinction between them.
We can see the difference! :)

I think the thobe is much more comfortable than anything else, and white=cool!

There's also some symbolism in the thobe, it resembles the shrouds we are covered in which we are buried...

 

Harry99's picture

Harry99 said Bleu ...

I think Brit was being complementary, meaning that there is no class distinction.

 

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flanostu said In the future, we will all ...

In the future, we will all wear shiny one-piece bodysuits every day.

 

Supernurse's picture

Supernurse said flanostu..shiny one piece ...

flanostu..shiny one piece body suits?? which means what??

"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid."
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)

 

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flanostu said supernurse, you haven't ...

supernurse, you haven't watched any sci-fi movies?

 

Supernurse's picture

Supernurse said no.no. not my thing, i don't ...

no.no. not my thing, i don't watch any movies darlin....

"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid."
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)

 

flanostu's picture

flanostu said well in most sci-fi movies ...

well in most sci-fi movies everyone's wearing the one-piece jumpsuit. it's quite amusing lol

 

bleu's picture

bleu said Harry99: I know :) ...

Harry99: I know :)

 

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annc said on a similar (well, not really) subject ...

planning tickets home for next december (ramadan time)- I am again prone to question- what is it with the "the whole damn country has to fast" thing?? living is southeast asia, it was NOT that way, culturally, at all. they always said that to fast, and truly honor Allah by your fast, it had to be a true and real sacrifice, much like "sitting at a bountiful table, and refusing food". Here, it is no sacrifice at all- it just isn't available!!! Wouldn't it be much more significant, if food was available and abundant, and a devout muslim CHOOSE to refuse???
just an off topic note

 

annc's picture

annc said on a similar (well, not really) subject ...

planning tickets home for next december (ramadan time)- I am again prone to question- what is it with the "the whole damn country has to fast" thing?? living is southeast asia, it was NOT that way, culturally, at all. they always said that to fast, and truly honor Allah by your fast, it had to be a true and real sacrifice, much like "sitting at a bountiful table, and refusing food". Here, it is no sacrifice at all- it just isn't available!!! Wouldn't it be much more significant, if food was available and abundant, and a devout muslim CHOOSE to refuse???
just an off topic note

 

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