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Should a muslim man ask the permission of his
Should a muslim man ask the permission of his wife if he wants to marry once more? suppose the man has met the guidelines for getting marry, or not anymore
pls advice
vichu said
very bad thinking...if u r a ...very bad thinking...if u r a husband b loyal to ur wife...if u have kids,it is the most and worst way of thinking.
Gypsy said
Pig. I hope she leaves you. ...Pig. I hope she leaves you.
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DaRuDe said
you dont need to tell her ...you need to take her permission
Maaya said
Dont do ..Dont do ...Dont do it brother..
Life is a PARADOX!, What you want, you don't get!, What u get, you dont enjoy..., What you enjoy is not permanent, What is permanent is boring..., Thats life,
You will get bored of the second and third wife too one day...
Find ways to spice up.. cheers
owen said
marry again...your wife or ...marry again...your wife or another lady? please clarify, don't want to jump into conclusion here..
swissgirl39 said
poor her.or both women very poor. ...you not lucky enough with one,then neither you will be with 2.2 women means double your troubles and problems.
or should i say poor you???
anyway all the best to you.
rami-leb said
Your wife is an idiot for ...Your wife is an idiot for marrying such a dog like you. And your next wife is stupid if she sees how badly you want to treat your first wife and doesn't realise that soon enough you will treat her just as bad.
I hope your current wife leaves you miserable and lonely, and your next wife turns out to be as stupid as she sounds.
britexpat said
where are you ? ...do u want to divorce or do you want to marry in secret?
countrylady13 said
LIE U MEAN ...this causes big problems,be a man tell her,look after her the way a good man should,BETTER STILL,JUST HAVE ONE WIFE, THE GRASS IN NOTTTT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE,AS MOST MEN THINK GGGGGRRRRRR
NPA said
are u legally separated? if ...are u legally separated? if not... it will be good to circumcised u again and have a vasectomy...or a total cut.
dharma.naidu said
hello mis marraige for what ? ...marraige is hel in my point of view . dont enter in that ........... plz . as ur wish yaar
dharma.naidu said
girls will love anothers except who loves her ...girls will love anothers except who loves her
Alexa said
well, I assume you are ...well, I assume you are Muslim.....best to ask your imam.
BUT...looking at your question, it shows me you are a dog of the worst kind.
A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa
Vegas said
Maybe he just wants to make more than one woman happy??? ...Forgiveness is life...:)
owen said
the author is from ...the author is from Philippines (as per profile)..sadly, there's no divorce there... only annulment, if your question above implies that you want to marry again another lady, then you have to establish the "why" to nullify your marriage first..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
3sure-hunk3r said
people you have to understand ...we are allowed to marry up to four but iam thinking of up to 2 only...I love this other girl i knew her for long time, and i love my wife and kids too..
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"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
qatarisun said
vegas... ...or to make both of them unhappy...
Tigasin321 said
I think Vegas is right ...Maybe he is a great guy with the capacity to make lots of women happy. I think he just wants to spread the love. What could possibly be wrong with that?
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
Gypsy said
Pig Pig Piggy! I hope they ...Pig Pig Piggy! I hope they BOTH leave you!
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owen said
oh so you are muslim ...oh so you are muslim then..
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Alexa said
Tig....only if he is in peak ...Tig....only if he is in peak physical condition...and THAT i seriously doubt!
besides...if he even considers doing it without telling his current wife...well, he is a DOG!!!!!!!!
A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa
qatarisun said
ok ok gals.. ...let's deside whether he is a Pig or he is a Dog.. please vote!
britexpat said
Gyps.. ...I wish you wouldn't beat about the bush. Please just say what you really mean.
Alexa said
Hmmm, I like pigs and ...Hmmm, I like pigs and dogs......ah, I know...COCKROACH!!!!!
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Alexa
Tigasin321 said
Well Alexa ...I say we should give the cat a break. I mean he might be in peak physical condition and he may just have too much love for one woman to handle in which case is only fair that he should have another woman.
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
Gypsy said
I'd say cockroach poo! ...I'd say cockroach poo!
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qatarisun said
ihs! Alexa... ...roach...i was enjoying my 'syrian style' salad... I almost threw out...
yes! that's who he is...
Alexa said
Right...let us see what the ...Right...let us see what the current wife thinks...she ought to be the best judge of affairs,non?
Hunky boy....bring your wife on...we have something to discuss with her........lol
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fieryangelinthesky said
and in the philippines ...even annulment is allowed still, you have to prove to the court beyond reasonable doubt the basis for your request such as your partner is mentally and physically incapacitated, there was coercion (or shot gun marriage)occured, physical abuse and the like.
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Alexa said
Hellooooooo, he is ...Hellooooooo, he is Muslim....he is allowed to have 4.......read the posts please!!!!
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Alexa
qatarisun said
Hellooooooo, we are not in ...Hellooooooo, we are not in Philippins!
3sure-hunk3r said
why you women so enrage ...why you women so enrage when it comes to situation like this..? man heart beats more than 72 times and why not to fall in love to into another woman?
.my will is to satisfy the feelings while fulfilling the legallity with out compromising my faith. I can love them all i have a big heart....
the only problem is how can tell my wife without hurting her...but for sure she will
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qatarisun said
more than 72 times? ...in a life time you mean?
huff2u said
yes, if he is a muslim he is ...yes, if he is a muslim he is allowed to marry 4..
owen said
Helloooooo.. alexa and QS... ...Helloooooo.. alexa and QS... :)
even he is not in the Philippines.. still if he got married there, then the couple are stipulated under the Philippine marriage law.. hmmmm, now with him being muslim..that i dont know how will it be..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Tigasin321 said
I am with you buddy ...I suspected you had a big heart and just wanted to spread the love. Go for it, I say.
Why are you asking these bozos anyway? You are a man dammit. You don't need their permission, you don't need anyone's permission. Just do it dude and enjoy yourself. Keep spreading that love.
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
Gypsy said
What a load of bull ...What a load of bull patootie! A man hearts beat more blah blah blah. I hope your wife falls in love with someone else and leaves you crying you cockroach.
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3sure-hunk3r said
I even think ...I even think that this is the best way... than to have relationship out of wed lock! what you prefer then?
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. All I though I Can get good advice from you.. regret all got is slap!
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. maybe i can get good favorable answers from Yahoo!!
"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
Harry99 said
May I play the devil's advocate an say that I sense a bit ...of hypocracy here.. In other posts, most of you, especially Gypsy have basically advocate the notion "to each his own", so what's dfferent here ?
Is it because a woman is involved ?
Firstly, let me say that I think he's a toad for even contemplating such an action..
Having said that - He say he's a Muslim and Islam allows for up to four wive at any given time.
Now even thow he's a moron, he can , n religious grounds get married.
However, perhaps the law in the country ofwhich he is a citizen may oer ride the Islamc law..
Gypsy said
I think you being castrated ...I think you being castrated is preferable.
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Gypsy said
To each his own as long as ...To each his own as long as you don't hurt anyone else, what he's saying will hurt his wife and his children greatly.
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qatarisun said
helllooooo owenn ...and that's what we mean... he IS a muslim in Qatar, the muslim country.. what does it have to do with phillipins???..lol..
Tigasin321 said
Stop calling him a toad, cockroach etc ...I think you chicks are just jealous he didn't pick you so just back off.
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
Alexa said
And takes all your money ...And takes all your money with her.....
See, I have no problem if a man wants to marry another woman. This is stated as permissible in qu'raan, under particular circumstances and for particular reasons.
You, cockroach, from what i can see, don't fulfill any of them.
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Alexa
fieryangelinthesky said
3-surehunk3r, ...First, you have to find out what will be her opinion with muslims marrying two wives? What are her apprehensions and inhibitions? Once you have the answer, that would be your call now whether to marry again another lady or not.
The bottom line, which is more important to you, the feelings of your first family or your own satisfaction?
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owen said
helloooooo QS...let's ask ...helloooooo QS...let's ask this guy first.. i have been on my first post on this thread..
did they get wed in the Philippines or here.. if here or any gulf country, then khalas, legally got no issues with it.. he has to deal now how to tell this to his wife..
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countrylady13 said
FAITH ...i think u men use being a muslim to do what u like,like marry 2, 3 4 wives.JUST TELL HER, DONT BE SCUM, BE A MAN.WE ARE WOMAN THATS WHY WE ANGRY AT U,MR 3SUR HUNK3R. WATEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
qatarisun said
LOOL.. tiggy... ...go go make your preparations...don't waste your time here.. the Big Day is coming!
Harry99 said
QS.. ...You mentiond the "P" word.. Can't do that..
Gypsy said
Agree with Alexa, there's ...Agree with Alexa, there's pretty strict criteria to marrying more than one woman in Islam, and pig vomit here, doesn't even meet one, especially if he's considering doing it and not telling her.
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swissgirl39 said
if you are a real man you divorce the first then marry the new ...if not you are only a big cheater!!!!
qatarisun said
oh.. i didn't take a look on his pro ...he is phillipino...sorry owen...
i also wondering if his second proposed wife knows that he is marries yet...it also might be a surprise for her...
bubz said
its better u talk to her...c ...its better u talk to her...c may be the things would get right for both of u
or least take her permission before doing that to avoid further complications
babe fat said
if he is amuslim he wouldn't ...if he is amuslim he wouldn't ask th Q... coz he knows the A...
but he wont's to some one to tell him it's ok to marry the other lady in secret and behind the wife's known...
but he couldn't find anyone to tell him it's ok...
now he wanna try yahoo...
i think he knows also that his wife is gonna leave him if he tell her...
what do u thing 3sure-hunk3r am i write or not??
Tigasin321 said
Don't listen to them man ...Remember you are an optimist with a lot of love to give. Just keep spreading that love. Take a couple more wives. I mean gee, you are allowed four. What's wrong with just taking one more?
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
owen said
at last QS....... :) go ...at last QS....... :) go check again his profile..maybe that is one reason why he is getting bald fast coz of too much pressure how to tell his wife "this"..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Alexa said
This is the thing that ...This is the thing that REALLY pis.es me off......people like him judge others on religious grounds and then do stuff that is MOST CERTAINLY unethical...religiously and morally.....and then they wonder why they get all the flak.....pretty stupid, me thinks.....but then again...what is new....
A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa
3sure-hunk3r said
tigs maybe right ...tigs maybe and absolutely ur right!
Im married in the phil. and phil. law recognised the muslims personal/family issues..
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"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
3sure-hunk3r said
owen you must be joking ...owen you must be joking!!
"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
Formatted Soul said
check with your wife ...Being a muslim she may be prepred for that, if she gives you permission, then marry the other one and double your trouble. Its better than one night stand anywayz..lol
KatKutter said
Again with ignorant speech on Islam ...It is true that muslim men are allowed upto 4 wives, however, the conditions set forth in Quran for having multiple wives is near impossible to meet. Especially in this day and age.
Therefore, unless this gentleman wants to commit a sin, he must not only gain the consent of his wife but he must also ensure that he treats them both perfectly equal in all things. This a requirement under islam, all wives must be treated equally with no favortism, otherwise its sin. I don't know about you, this sounds impossible to me. So unless you have super human control on your emotions, i'd avoid marrying more. I'd also advise you to tell your wife, its the minimal decent thing to do.
Please, stop making all encompassing statements that misleads people regarding islam or any other religion.
goodluck said
objection! ...I know several muslims who married 2. none of their first wife is happy. though they appeared happy, they did say it's not their choices, their husbands married to the second secretly and bring it to the first one.
You are a muslim, u know the reason why Mohhamod (SAW) married 4 (even though I don't agree). You also know that your wife would be hurt. You know what, I perfer u had a fair and let it go. there are plenty men with "big heart", it's not the problem for man, it's the problem for wife!
Further more, woman has the same "heart" as u, how abt ur wife tell u first that she loves another...think the pain u have then say "Love".
owen said
3sure-hunk3r... ...on which comment?
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
QatarKiwi said
Aren't you the guy looking ...Aren't you the guy looking for Baldness cure a few days ago? Is this bacause you are trying to woo the new lady?
Anyway, I think its only fair to say yep, go ahead, so long as your wife is allowed take another husband.....
Seems fair to me and a bit of give and take. Good luck to living as a foursome
Tigasin321 said
Women's hearts are a little smaller ...so they can't give as much love as a man. If a man has a really big heart then he needs more than one wife. Its just logical like physics.
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
qatarisun said
hey roach! ...and where is your first wife? in Phillipins??
3sure-hunk3r said
alexa i wonder ...alexa i wonder which of my question is un ethical and unreligious ground? tell me which one!?
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"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
Harry99 said
Tig.. ...A bigger heart requires ore blood to be circulated, which sends less to th pecker.... So what's the use of two wives ?
Formatted Soul said
Let your wife also marry again.. ...Let your wife marry another man, when you are busy the other women. she can also have a good time with her new husband. LOL Would you let her do that?
Tigasin321 said
Yeah Harry99 you have a point ...but if you have a really big heart and a really small pecker then my original point still holds up (no pun intended).
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
babe fat said
i don't know why u women r ...i don't know why u women r so angry???
he is not ur husband ant ur bf so b fair with the guy...
Karin said
. ...i think your wife knew this could happen when she married you...but had you discussed this issue before marriage things could have been different. for sure she would be hurt and your relationship might change and never get back to how it used to be. are you willing to face the consequences? if yes then tell her gradually...BUT "no easy way of breaking one's heart".
Harry99 said
Good point.... ...However, If you've also got a baldng head, then the folicles may be sucking up an extra few centi litres, leaving nothing for Mr. Pecker..
qatarisun said
listen.. ...it just recently was a post about a wife in Phillipins and her husband that made pregnant another woman here.. i am wondering.. is that the same "love story"?
owen said
wohooo... QS is learning ...wohooo... QS is learning veerrrry fast.. :D
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3sure-hunk3r said
whats wrong ...of getting marry the second time? look here in qatar.. in saudi.. i mean anywhere it exist! why can't I?
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"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
Harry99 said
QS.. ...Can't be.. Tha would mean that he was having an affair and that is immoral and unethical.
3sure-hunk3r said
qs its not the same ...qs its not the same here, I have not yet into and still planning, the difference is iam muslim and im allowed to do so, and iam not going into as the other stry had happen i want it legal.. marry in the nice possible way bec. cant resist this feelings...
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"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
3sure-hunk3r said
now where is alexa?? ...now where is alexa?? you wont find any wrong in my post..only your imaginations and emotions that you cant control...thats a woman thing anyway .. thats why...i need a good avdice shouldnt or should I?..
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"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
Alexa said
Well then hunk....go and ...Well then hunk....go and read qu'raan, see if you qualify for another wife. If you do...I will not say another word.
A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa
qatarisun said
3sure-hunk3r , nobody say YOU CAN'T ...but don't do it in secret! since you love your present wife as you say, shouldn't you at least to discuss with her your issues??? what a love-lavished man !
owen...lol.. always use to...lol...
britexpat said
3Sure.. ...Even if Islam allows it, It does nt mean it has to be done. Just because you "feel" like it, does not make it the right option.
Islam allows up to four wives, but there are very strict guidelines. Do you understand those and can you comply with the?
Its very easy to say "I feel like doing this", but as an adult you haveto look at the conequences - on your wife, your children (if any) and the whole family.
owis said
Girls please dont take this ...Girls please dont take this personal :)
but Man if you can justify the reason/s and justice between the two wifes then go ahead
God bless you all
swissgirl39 said
owis please ...he said his first wife will not be happy.so dont advice him to go on.
swissgirl39 said
and by the way he said he has already childrens ...so what will they think when they older?would they be happy to know her father is married with another one?i dont think so.
logicsays said
Imagine a muslim woman ...has to live all her life in fear of the day when her husband comes to tell her he is marrying another one, younger, mor beutiful ... and he is entitled to it
It feels like a knife or a dagger into her heart after she has given him all the love and has given him her heart ..
and if she is not happy with that with one word from his mouth she is divorsed and he is free to marry the other wife so to keep the family and for the sake of her children she has to shut her mouth and live with all the pain ...
I do not think God would be happy with this .. is this God's will for humans ? God has created one Adam and one Eve while he could have created one Adam and Four Eves, why didn't he do so from the time of creation if this was his will
God be with you and your wife, children and future wife for all the sufferings you are bringing to them ..
"The best way to predict the future is to create it".
3sure-hunk3r said
brit, alexa who ...brit, alexa who sets the strict guide line? is this from the prophet u mean this priveldge is only for rich people?..who can measure love?....is God unfair? yet he give us this diverse characters or he wants us to live a decent life.. and made religion easy for us?
tell me...?
"BOrn optimist nothing can keep me too low for too long."
qatarisun said
i heard from one chinese girl ...that in some remote chinese villages a woman is allowed to marry few men at the same time... I started to consider immigration to China, and settling down at one of these villages…
Alexa said
Hunk, no matter what you ...Hunk, no matter what you say, it made VERY clear in Q'uraan what is permissible and what is not. The evidence is clear. If you want to question it or discuss it away, that is your perogative.
I am out of here.
A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa
britexpat said
3Sure.. ...You misunderstood me or you haven't been informed properly.
From what I know, and I am no expert, there are guidelines for marryng more than one wife..
You have to treat them all "fairly". You have to treat them equally - this means that what one receives , so must the other etc etc.
Unless ofcourse you divorce te first one.