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is love forbidden here in doha?
im a lady who lives here in doha. met a local man and fell in love. i just came here to work, never in my wildest dream that I would be involved with a local man(Qatari). doha, qatar will always be special to me... well, nobody knows what will happen. we are against all odds. everyone knows that it would be almost impossible for a qatari man to marry other nationals...
sad but true, nobody knows what will happen tomorrow. is the saying "love conquers all" true?
we'll see....
in shaallah.
Xray said
SAD ...SAD
arabia hellua said
i know ...i feel like crying...
Nefertiti said
Are you for real???? ...I know one filipina marry a Qatari man..
And this man is really good man (according to my stepmum).
Some Qatari marry other non Arab nationals if this Qatari already adopted the modern civilization! specially those who studied in European countries.
But of course you have to convert your religion and also wear Abaya! If you really want to marry him!
Xray said
keep crying this will be ...keep crying
this will be good for you...until starts feeling relaxation.
mjamille28 said
for me, races and ...for me, races and nationalities really doesn't matter.. it shouldn't be an issue as long as you two love each other.. there's just the question of religion...
lovinni said
is this cupid's fault? stay ...is this cupid's fault? stay away from the arrows!
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
arabia hellua said
conversion and abaya ...converting to islam is not a problem, wearing abaya is not a big deal :) we've been together for a year and a half but i haven't been introduced to his family.
saying i love you is so easy right? but its not enough. so, i don't know if im doing the right thing. still in a relationship with a man who is torn between the family culture and love for me.
would these local men lose something from the government like benefits if they marry non locals?
Tigasin321 said
Its not going to happen my dear ...I am sure he feels a lot for you but he won't marry you. If he was serious he would have explained to you all the difficulties and consequences and would have introduced you to his family. There is too much of a cultural gap and in the Arab world "face" is very important. Marrying you would cause his family to "lose face".
I feel sad for you but it is better to face up to the realities. It might work if he was prepared to leave Qatar and live with you in another country but it is unlikely he would do that.
In any event, I wish you luck and hope things work out for you.
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
realsomeone said
Why dont he break the ...Why dont he break the boundaries of this Arabic culture and marry you, if you are (a believer). I am sure he would have opened a path for many.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Nefertiti said
as what you have said.. ...love conquers all!! you'll never know so dont lose hope!!
arabia hellua said
but why? ...if these local men cannot marry non-qatari ladies, then why do they start a relationship in the first place??? for fun? play? or intimacy-that they cannot get from qatari ladies unless they are married? is it like that? or filipinas are low-maintenance? that's why they stick to us?
that's so cruel.
well, before getting into the relationship he laid all his cards to me that marriage is almost impossible. but why is he still with me? and he just keeps on saying that he wouldn't want a local lady to be his wife.
cupid's arrows just keeps on following me...
Tigasin321 said
Probably for the following reasons ...Filipina girls are often fun, sexy and beautiful. They are also often natural and un self conscious and laugh easily. As you say, he can probably find intinicy with you and have a lot more fun with you than he can with a local woman. Its almost impossible for him to go out with a local woman.
I am sure that he does want you but saying love conquers all is not enough. I am sure he also loves his family too. No matter how this turns out, someone or many people will be hurt. Like I said before, the cultures are just too far apart.
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
arabia hellua said
tigasin ...so, should i end this? i know it may sound so stupid but it's not easy as it sounds....
Tigasin321 said
arabia hellua ...I know its not easy and I am not qualified to give you advice. You have to do what you think is the best thing for you and I wish you all the best.
Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about
a merry can muslim said
Is love forbidden here in ...Is love forbidden here in Doha, you ask?
No... It is allowed... but only on Mondays...
They call it the American dream because you have to be asleep to see it... --George Carlin
realsomeone said
I advice you make ...I advice you make consultation with him and made decision together, he maybe strong man and can break the boundary or you reach agreement to end this together, but i think you should not take unilateral decision.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
arabia hellua said
lose face? ...i dont understand, why would they feel like that? discrimination? bec their housemaids are filipinas?
then they will just end up marrying someone they dont love, then infidelity comes in, then????
i hope these issue in their culture would be justified.
in shaallah...
Reniel said
if he cant marry you because ...if he cant marry you because of those issues, why continue? maybe your dreaming of a fairy tale ending just like my friend.
she had a 4-yr relationship with local man which she ended a month ago becase her man eventually married his first cousin. during those years he promised her that he will do everything to marry her even though its nearly impossible because she's an asian (my friend though is naive enough to accept all this without seeing any concrete proof for four years).
smoke said
just forget him and move ...just forget him and move on....i'm there :) single handsome and when i squint my eyes i look pinoy whatever that means lol
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
_[]~SMoKE~[]_
arabia hellua said
thanks ...oh well, i can't say anything more....
love can lead to insanity...
ok, its clear now. i have to end this. i work here, in his country and he's just around... we're ok, no other issues except this.
why did i ever enter into this kind of relationship.
it all boils down on me..
thnks guys...
brandylady said
I wish you well ...you have a hard decision to make but sounds as though you will be hurt more if you don't end it, hurts but being together years then ending will be worse.
janeyjaney said
He may be in love with you ...He may be in love with you but I guess there's no more he can do to lead your relationship to marriage.
He is bound to marry a local lady in time.. where will you be? It's hard but you have to look out for yourself too.
You have come to this realization, maybe it's time to do something about it rather than prolonging the "idea" that things might be different and can eventually work for the 2 of you.
This is where I say, "Reality Bites!"
It does, hey.
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Tabugie said
love...love... ...Love knows no boundary! I know someone who fell in love and married a Qatari! She was a devout Christian but have to embrace Muslim (as they say for the sake of love). Not to mention, you are working in a Muslim country. Sometimes, religion plays a vital role in a relationship! Hope you make the right decision! Marriage is sacred (thats how it should be)
Vivo Bonito said
love will find its ...love will find its ways...
~~~ There is no substitute for victory yet there is risks of too much oversight... ~~~
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Tabugie said
hmmm... ...ask him where your relationship will go! filipinas ARE NOT LOW MAINTENANCE!!! it so happen, we are caring and loving people!
britexpat said
Love is NOT forbidden in Doha.... ...In most of the Middle East, Marriages between "ARAB" men and non Arab women are discouraged, both by the state and the culture...
You are a mature female and must know what you are letting yourself in for.
No-one can make the decisions for you. I would suggest a sincere heart to heart with your partner.
Hope it all works out for you.
sonam said
If he want to marry you he will introduce with his family ...If he want to marry you he will introduce with his family, If he cant do that, than it mean its sure that he cant marry you becasue of his family/rellgion, and culture.One More real thing is they compare Other nationality gilr with House Maid.
But its will be really hard to you end this relation..becasue love is like war easy to start hard to forget and end.
wish you all the best.
Platao36 said
"well, before getting into ..."well, before getting into the relationship he laid all his cards to me that marriage is almost impossible. but why is he still with me? and he just keeps on saying that he wouldn't want a local lady to be his wife.
cupid's arrows just keeps on following me..."
Arabia hellua: Would like to let you know that i'm having a similar situation, differences are that my girlfriend is morroquian and not qatari and i'm portuguese but she also keeps telling me that she doesn't want a local for her husband. :)
Just hope will turn ok for you, i also didn't met her familly but that's because she doesn't want them to know about us, when we were at Morocco, we had to go desert places because a boy and a girl can't "french kiss" in public, single girls can't go private with single men, etc....
And, to marry her i'll convert too, will you convert for love or because you truelly belive Islam?
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
DaRuDe said
ah silly ...that aint happening never forget it gal. if you think he is serious aask him to introduce you to his parents family.
jassKat said
If he isn't willing to ...If he isn't willing to introduce you to his family, walk away before you waste any more of your feelings on him.
tra la la
DaRuDe said
oh no Jass ...he will come up with excuse my family is out of country
or its too early to talk to them
or they are odd with me these days
and blah blah blah and in end he will say oh sorry they refused you can go.
jassKat said
You are right Da, there will ...You are right Da, there will always be an excuse until this girl finally ends it with him. He wont end it because he is getting everything he wants from it.
Once you meet the family though, you can be sure he is serious.
tra la la
DaRuDe said
So arabia hellua ...better stop building castles in dream and GET BACK TO WORK
mallrat said
ms. a. are you sure your bf ...ms. a. are you sure your bf is single???????/
..
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After the game, the KiNG and the PAwN go into the same box.
-Italian Proverb
sonam said
I have my freind vallen love with local man ...I have one Filipina freind fallen love with Local Man, When she ask him to introduce with his family, He always say after two months.Now its been 1 and half year still she is waiting for two months..
mallrat said
ms. a. just so you know... ...i have a filipina client/friend married to a qatari.
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she is chaka (isn't that pretty), but this shows how powerful love is.
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and yesz they are still living together here in Doha, with three beautiful children.
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After the game, the KiNG and the PAwN go into the same box.
-Italian Proverb
Andreichik said
Be who you are and say what ...Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter & those who matter don't mind.
Why do you ask other people to keep your feelings to man or to stop???? Enjoy by present moment... maybe you will never meet someone like he is.... don't think about family or his money - if you love him - enjoy with him, work and be happy!!!!!!! Good luck!!!!! And don't lose your love........
nadt said
Well its very sad that you ...Well its very sad that you are going through this but i agree with Darude and Jasskat....if you are happy with the current arrangement, enjoy it but obviously you want more out of this relationship and maybe you should be kind to yourself and find someone who is proud to be with you and to introduce you to the family. Good luck...
Vegas said
Why you filipinas give it up to someone who will never have you? ...What are you thinking???
Kinda pisses me off as it hurts the filipina reputation...
Think filipinas...
I know alot dont have internet...
Spead the word filipinas...
take care your own....
Everywhere else I been filipina take care of each other??? Why not here???
You can't teach experience
brandylady said
hey vegas ...methinks you just broke your one liner rule ;)
qatarisun said
yeah, BL.. i am also ...yeah, BL.. i am also impressed by the lenght of Vegas' speech!!!
you can feel he is really pissed off..lol..
wow.. such a long monolog...
salax85 said
oh my my my dear... i dont ...oh my my my dear... i dont want to even start here.
first of all there is NO such rule that locals cannot marry foreigners. and if u r gonna embrace Islam and obey his customs... i c no obstacles. but ofcourse the question is... the million dollar question is... well actually since ur heart is priceless... i will say the priceless question is.... how d o e s he feel for ya?
Vegas said
Yeah I know QS normally I come on one line....It's cool ...You can't teach experience
Vegas said
It just not filipina.This contry makes me so sad... ...It's like survival...
The women wouldn't do what they got to do if they make a decent salary.The guys are screwed.They just have to get what they get.... Am I in the right thread???
Anyway you know what I mean...
You can't teach experience
juandelacruz_qatar said
wow super ...hey kabayans does anyone remember inday badiday?i think she is needed here, keep it up arabia hellua, this kind of post will make us SIKAT...
I know the ways of women; they won't come when thou wilt, and when thou won't they are passionately fond.
notfromhere said
Ugh, not again ...Oh don't get me started on this one AGAIN (says the American Christian woman married to an Arab Muslim man).
I agree with JassKat... and Darude... and Salax....
I know lots of women - Filipina, British, American - married to Qatari men. Some converted, some didn't. Some wear abaya, some don't. All are raising Muslim children.
Lots of guys, not just Qatari guys, string women along and give excuse after excuse about why they aren't ready to commit.
Arabia hellua, you are the only one who can decide if this guy is serious and wants a committed relationship. Love does not necessarily conquer all. You need to get to know him well enough to know how his family feels about it and how big of an influence they will have on his decision. In some families it's huge, in which case marriage wil probably never happen. Other families are less strict and it's not a big deal.
Good luck.
punky said
whoa vegas! ...of cuorse pinay take care of each other, maybe you just dont see it...
anyhow arabia...you can't just make a decision because evrybody seems to be telling you to end it and to open your mind and all that...and you are a big girl, I know somehow you know how all this is going to end up if not sooner...right?
you can enjoy the moment now and cry later,after all it is not everyday that you get to be in love.
"Life is too short to make it shorter"
DaRuDe said
WoW Vegas ...waaaaaattaaaaa long comment you posted guess you are getting bored at home.
Swift06 said
:( ...very difficult to give an advice, only you can decide for yourself.
如果您認為我是母狗! 您應該遇見我的媽媽!
Swift06 said
arabia hellua - music for you ...http://youtube.com/w...
如果您認為我是母狗! 您應該遇見我的媽媽!
DaRuDe said
Swift06 ...what about me no music for me:/
Swift06 said
Darude here's music for you ...http://www.youtube.c...
如果您認為我是母狗! 您應該遇見我的媽媽!
salax85 said
so wherez ur mother swift06 ...so wherez ur mother swift06
Swift06 said
salax85 ...why? you want to meet her? :P
如果您認為我是母狗! 您應該遇見我的媽媽!
salax85 said
i want to continue your ...i want to continue your picture message... to know whats next after i thought so..
timtan said
He will never mary you,,, ...If he is a local like you say, He will never mary you,,,
Local guys like to have g/friends for outside their own country. They cant do with a local girl what they can with you...easy to see why he has not introduced you to the family. why would you spoil a good thing when you can live in both worlds... local man at day and party believer at night.......
You never know if you never go
abuabdullah salman said
listen dear, first of all ...listen dear, first of all lemme make u very clear with the fact that there is no such rule that a national(qatari) cannot marry an expat. so there will be no difficulties in matter of government.
as about converting your religion, its good if you agree with the religion of your guy and are ready to believe in it, but hamdulillah, islam is a religion which does allows a muslim man to marry a christian or a jew girl.
and as about you said that he havent yet even introduced you to his family, then i would also like to add that its not necessary for the family of a guy to interfere in his this personal matters (after he is matured), he has the total right to marry anyone even if it is against his family wish, but none theless he is supposed to provide you with all your rights being his wife and has to fulfill his responsibilities and duties towards u.
but as you said that this man already told you that marriage is not possible in your relationship then i dont understand that why on earth are you still stuck with him! its very clear that if he is not gonna marry you then he is only playing around with you, fulfilling all his desires.
though being a muslim, i would suggest you to get out of this relationship because as you said that the man is not ready to get married, then you are just wasting your life behind him and he is doing nothing else than increasing his sins, to which he will be answerable to the Almighty.
Peace be upon you.
kenyaqueen said
I am always excited to go to ...I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.
kenyaqueen said
arabia ...You have already answered your questions. If a man introduces you to his family within 4 to 6 months of a relationship it is a good sign that there is real love there. Your boyfriend is probably thinking somewhere along line of yeppie! yum!, yum! Why should buy the milk when I can get it for free. He is just not ready to marry right now and it sounds like he has his life all mapped out and eventually he well dump you and move on. I would suggest that if he is getting sex from you on a regular basis that he won't want to dump you anytime soon or at least until he meet a traditional wife and even then who know he may keep you on. If I were you I would move on cause as long as you are giving him his yum, yum he won't be going anywhere.
arabia hellua said
oh well ...it's nice reading the thread from u guys. most of them are brutally frank but its the reality. someone's asking if my man is married, no. he is single.
it hurts though, somebody said that it's possible that the only reason this man is still with me is because he get what he desires.
this man is different from other arabs, i just don't know how to explain to you guys. our relationship does not only revolve with money and sex (sorry for the term).
this relationship that we have is NOT a "CLICHE". I know most of u are thinking that the reason why im stuck with him is because of money or material things. No, not like this. Im aware also that we Filipinas are known to be gold-diggers. I'm sorry, there could be some but not all.
This local man is just an ordinary man. He's not a rich and famous qatari (everyone thinks that way when they hear the word "QATARI").
Well, I think being matured and old is not enough when it comes to this kind of situation.
Isn't it funny if I will ask him "will you marry me?"
Or it could be this way also, I cant ask anything like where this relationship would go because I'm just scared of the answer that I would get.
There was a time already when his mother is askinh him to marry a local lady but he refused bec he doesn't like her. He's 29 now.
I don't know where this craziness is leading us.
so sad. I feel like crying again... I'm such a cry baby, such a loser.
Pls feel free to say anything, i wont take it personally.
Thanks.
arabia hellua said
to abuabdullah salman ...you're right i think...
should i demand him to introduce me to his family?
what i wnt is this man to have the initiative to introduce me gto the family without me asking for it.
can i ask once more? what's the usual reaction of the family when a non arab lady is introduced to them???
is it like a mortal sin? or it just reminds them of their kadamas and all???
Gypsy said
The only reason he can't ...The only reason he can't marry you is because he doesn't want to. Stop kidding yourself sweetie and move on.
Visit www.qatarhappening.com
Reniel said
1)by all means do not ...1)by all means do not hesitate, tell him what you want from that relationship. then remind him with his promises. ask what are his plans, where is the timetable for that? at 29 he should have that.
2) 'this man is different from other arabs' my friend told me the same story. he's single, 30 yrs old, not that rich compared to other qataris, she was even introduced to his brothers (no more parents), he refused to be married to his cousin, went to the Philippines twice, etc...
but after four yrs, he eventually married his cousin, then he wants to keep her since he dont expect to be happy and he 'truly' loves her. sweet no
novita77 said
arabia hellua ... listen to ...arabia hellua ... listen to what Gypsy said. It is very plain and simple...
True said
arabia hellua don't listen to ppl ...don't listen to people, sometimes it is really hard here, but both of you have to fight if this is what you are facing.
Apple said
Arabia-hellua ...**post edited!**
Take King Edshel advice:)) couldn't agree more on that!
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"A LADY IS A WOMAN WHO MAKES A MAN BEHAVE LIKE A GENTLEMAN" Russell Lynes
tatess said
True ...there is nothing worth fighting for. it is very clear from the beginning that it is impossible for him to marry her. So it's as simple as that. he just want to satisfy himself and she obviously is hoping for an impossible love affair to end up in an altar.Move on and dump him.sorry arabia ,your body is just being sexually abused . a waste of your time.you know what? i pitty you for believing that this guy is different from other arabs and that your relationship does not only evolve on sex and money.Hey, wake up.
8rmcj8 said
Arabi-Hellua... ...I agree with apple...
If you are just "IN" for a BF-GF relationship, enjoy what you have..but if you're hoping for more, stay away!
"before getting into the relationship he laid all his cards to me that marriage is almost impossible. but why is he still with me? and he just keeps on saying that he wouldn't want a local lady to be his wife."
I think you cannot blame him if you'll get hurt in the end because he already told that MARRIAGE IS IMPOSSIBLE RIGHT FROM THE START. ALSO IT'S EASY TO SAY HE DOENS'T WANT A LOCAL AS HIS WIFE..why be miserable with him if you are bound to me happy with somebody else who is willing to offer and give you more than what you would want!
as the saying: "there are many fishes in the ocean"..
(correct me if this is wrong??) you'll only get hurt if you allow it!
janeyjaney said
Arabia.. You already know ...Arabia.. You already know the answer. It's right in front of you. Why should you prolong the agony?
And don't say that your relationship is not "cliche" or whatever, when we're in love we think that OUR love is the best and different from the rest (wow, it rhymes!). That's what love sometimes does to us, it gets to the point where it's a bit surreal (but nice).
They are right, do what your heart tells you but God gave us brains too to take care of the heart when it gets lost.
I hope you'll find clarity. ;)
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_alma_ said
nice one.... :-) ...is it on Mondays??? :-) i thought it is on Fridays....ah yes maybe Mondays...because Fridays is family day... ;-)
UkEngQatar said
Arabia.. ...Novi and Gypsy are correct.Like Abdullah mentioned that there is nothing against a Muslim marrying a Christian or jewish girl, as this very common in Lebanon even Yasar Arafat wife was Christain.
I think the truth is that he does not really love you enough to be bold and brave.. Love is not for the faint hearted it takes sacrafice. I dont want to give you a lecture. Ask your self you what do you really want? Coz it is pretty that your relation to this guy is what we say in England, a bit on the side..
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arabia hellua said
wheeeew.... ...true enough... can't say anything more.
nice reading your opinions, anyone is still welcome to post.
and by the way, LET ME CLARIFY AGAIN, MONEY IS NOT AN OBJECT IN THIS ISSUE. hard to believe right??? We are not one of those qatari-filipina relationship.
So, what is he waiting for? a cousin to marry him?
Are you trying to tell me that these local men go out with non-arab women bec of intimacy??? there are a lot of arab women out there who are playing around...
_alma_ said
i agree with kenyaqueen...i ...i agree with kenyaqueen...i think he is just fulfilling his desires on you...try to move on...im sure you will be in love again...alot of guys waiting out there...
goodluck...
King Edshel said
Arabia ... ...You've been with the guy for more than a year and I guess you know him better than anyone.
During this period:
- Did you caught him cheating on you?
- Did you saw him showing interest on other ladies?
- Was not he there for you when you really needed him?
- He never mentioned to you anything about marriage?
- He never told you anything about future plans for both?
There are many questions to ask and from there you would know the answer yourself if he is serious or not.
Some people do see only one side, never think of the other. Hearing from other people, having bad experience with others does not mean that you should face the same or have the same end.
Many people would always try to generalize, ohhh see this is an Asian girl with an Arabian guy ... Look look this is another Asian girl with an European guy ... As if those girls are not also humans or have the right to love and live their life like the others.
The society look in the middle east is not fair sometimes, they won't accept this based on the culture and strange believes. God made the difference between people only in the good deeds that they are doing. Not the color, nationality or whatever.
Simply the culture and traditions here won't make this meeting a pleasant experience or a nice thing to do [meeting the parents]. So don't pressure the guy with this one, maybe he can talk to them first and if they would ask him to or would show a sign of agreement. That would be the time to go and meet them.
Anyway, you know the guy better than anyone here ... Just try to isolate yourself as much as you can
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
arabia hellua said
king edshell ...hamdulillah, no cheating at all. no signs of infidelity. we never talk about marriage or meet the parents.
he's not the typical arabic man who would change his gf in a span of 3 weeks or less.
well, thanks for the post.
jassKat said
Why dont you ask him then ...Why dont you ask him then about where your relationship is going? If you have been with him that long you should feel comfortable enough to talk about anything!
tra la la
britexpat said
These scenarios occur all over the world... Relationships happen ...where one partner wants commitment and the other one doesn't. The usual result is that one partner becomes an EXPAT!
britexpat said
These scenarios occur all over the world... Relationships happen ...where one partner wants commitment and the other one doesn't. The usual result is that one partner becomes an EXPAT!
thexonic said
There's no such thing as ...There's no such thing as love, its just an illusion. Perhaps if he knew there was no future, then why did he approach u?
By the way, ask him to go to MOI and get permission to marry u. There are hundereds of Qataris married to non Qataris, even non arabs.
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arabia hellua said
marriage ...is it normal for ladies to ask for marriage???
will u marry me???
timtan said
Totaly agree with kenyaqueen ...As long as you give him pussy he will be there, what guy would not, he may already be engaged to a muslim lady and have all the wedding plans set. But as we say keep putting out the cream and cookies and they will be eaten. And without guilt, You know the answer on what you have to do,,,But being a female you will bend to his lies and demands because of all your insecurity you hold.. Be strong, stop mattress dancing with this guy,,,, I hate people that are always being used,, but even more people that will not stand up for thenselfs when they know they are right..
You never know if you never go
MollyfromCanada said
Oh honey... ...move on to a man who would be proud to introduce you to his family and even prouder to make you his wife. You sound like a sweet loving girl and you must believe you deserve much more than this. Wishing you all the very best of luck.
Molly
arabia hellua said
sex/pussy? ...a lot of women out there are sexier and prettier than me. i just hope its not all about these.
it's hard to break up with someone who's good to you right?
please don't lose your temper/patience on me, i just want to have your ideas and opinions.
arabia hellua said
ooops... ...seems like u are generalizing qatari men :)
Reniel said
u dont ask 'will u marry ...u dont ask 'will u marry me?'
ask what are his plans for you, is marriage part of that? if yes, when? where? will he able to stand-up for you if his family turn their backs on him because of you?
Reniel said
dont get upset if some would ...dont get upset if some would tend to generalize. for ten months here in doha, an officemate then a new friedn here has the same story as yours, falling in love, fought for it then they end-up wondering, why their BFs could tutn their backs on them just like that.
anil_fig said
Its your decision ...in the end. All the answers here are conflicting.Some say its Ok but the majority say get out of it now.
It all depends what you want out of life.
If you are happy and content now and you are ready to face a very hurtful breakup then whos to say.. go along.
But if you start thinking with your mind and not with your heart then you would realise there are only downsides to the relationship if you wish to call it that. From what I see its only one sided. You give he takes.
Remeber guys dont think with their mind. they think with their d..k. Get my drift.
Best sit and ponder and take a quick but well thought of decision. Fster the better to save you heartburn.
swissgirl39 said
dont listen to much to others ...because they dont know him and they dont know anything about your relation with this guy.you just talk to him very frank and open and straight,and dont leave bevore you didnt get all your answers.and yes,its not wrong even to ask him if he would marry you,because its normal this days when a girl asks her boyfriend.so all the best to you and again,its more then a year now,dont give up so easyli,ask again and again untill you get all ur answers.
cheers
swissgirl39 said
and by the way... ......its always difficult to talk about relation things in a open forum cos you get 100s of different replys and they confusing you maybe more.so let not others decide for you,decide for yourself!
all the best
worldexplorer said
another sad, typical story ...One of a MILLION stories I've heard - SAME STORY, DIFFERENT WOMAN and it always ends the exact same every single time. The men turn their back on the woman and never look back.
Sorry for this brutal honesty but, yes, they start relationships with non locals because they will sleep with them while the local woman will not. I mean, where are you going to be with him intimately? Does he take you to some private apartment or a hotel? Qatari men are absolutely allowed to marry non-Qataris. There is a process for it. If he's not marrying you, it's because he doesn't want to marry you. If h