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ballinkg's picture

Hello everyone,

First of all this is in no ways (spam) this is a call to everyone that is a memeber of this site for help.
I am a american who has been coaching basketball here in qatar for 3 years now. I have been here for the last 7 months without work and unable to leave because of a bank loan i took out to help my mother fight cancer before she died.
Now i have been put on a blacklist for traveling and unable to leave the country. I have gone days without eating trying to save any and everything to solve this problem. f anybody is willing to help me so that i can get home and obtain future employment it will be greatly appreciated.
Thank You and God's blessings

Kenny

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Meaningful said why dont u go to American ...

why dont u go to American embassy in doha and they help you out?...

I dont live with example..Reather I prefer to be an example!

 

ballinkg's picture

ballinkg said Been there!!! ...

that was my first stop to solving my problem but they are unable to help.

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said Wow, what a nightmare .................... ...

Kenny, are you actually saying that, as an American, the American Embassy will sit by and watch one of it's citzens starve to death rather than assist with repatriation?

You mention 'blacklist', who exactly is stopping you from leaving, your ex employer, the courts?


 

goaboy's picture

goaboy said hey dude you american ...

get to the us base here and just leave they cant even touch you.

 

RED_POPE's picture

RED_POPE said I don't buy your story dude. You are ghosting. ...

You actually want us to believe your sad story?
I don't buy it, I don't sense an emergency on your behalf.
Except someone trying his best, in taking my money.

I hope that no one will fall, for this guy story.



I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said RP ................. ...

That was my first impression, especially after the publicity surrounding the Indian man that was stranded here - Similiar story, loan to pay, and the subsequent support he received.

I gave this guy the benefit of the doubt for now, 'till he clarifies what I asked. But looking more like you are right ................. if he is so desperate, where's he gone now?

 

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ballinkg said RED-POPE, I expected cynical ...

RED-POPE,
I expected cynical peoplelike you to respond but im going to stoop to your level and fight back with ignorance.yes i expect people to believe my story because for 1 i have no need to try and con someone for help and 2 i have never taken a dime or handout from another human being my entire life.
I have been through every avenue to try and resolve the problem myself and have not been able to this is the reason AND ONLY REASON why i have come to a forum and toldmy story.So before you judge someone that you have no idea of who they are maybe you should ask them a question first and then form a reputable opinion..
I invite you to ask me anything you want or to even meet me.

 

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ballinkg said goaboy, thanks for the ...

goaboy,
thanks for the advice but then i have to worry about the consequences of leaving a country without permission and i dont want that headache..

 

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ballinkg said china, yeah that was my same ...

china,
yeah that was my same response so i took it a step further and even called the US state department and sent a email to them but i have not gotten a response from them yet.
The court has placed me on the blacklist which originated from the bank.

 

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jauntie said A basketball team! ...

Qatar have a basketball team?

I suppose you were coaching at a school, right?

 

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ballinkg said yes jauntie there is a ...

yes jauntie there is a league here comprised of several teams.The league runs usually from december to may. They play their games at Gharraffa stadium.
Alot of people do not know that there is basketball in this country because it is not promoted at all.

 

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Alexa said Ballinkg...how about the ...

Ballinkg...how about the Sheikh who owns the team? Have you applied to him? And why are you out of work?

A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa

 

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ballinkg said Alexa, I have tried numerous ...

Alexa,

I have tried numerous times to reach out to him but because he is in the background and never came to the club it was almost impossible to reach him taken that no one would give me his mobile number. All i was able to do was leave notes for him at the reception of the club and hope that they were passed on to him some how.

I am out of work because i was released because my team was not doing well this season.

 

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Alexa said Ah, yes, to release the ...

Ah, yes, to release the coach if the team does not do well enough is rather common......now, I do not want to pry....but did you not take into consideration this could happen to you? As i said it is rather common.
It will be quite difficult to get money from people that do not know you, after all, you are not one of the 'mistreated expatriates", you are American. I have to say, I do not have much hope.....do you not have anybody at home who would be able to help you?
And how much money are we talking here?

A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa

 

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brutus_ceasar said Dude those people that ...

Dude those people that recruited you, have you asked them?? Have you applied for another job?? You can try any job here so that you can save something to pay the bank. Surely the American Embassy here can do something for you.

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ballinkg said brutus_ceasar the people ...

brutus_ceasar

the people that brought me here are the one'si went to first when i found out that i was unable to leave and they offered no helpat all.

if you have any information of someone that is hiring please leave the information because i have checked as many places as i know.


 

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Alexa said ballinkg, what else can you ...

ballinkg, what else can you do besides basketball?

A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa

 

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Dracula said Al Khor basketball ...

Al Khor basketball team.
Just an ideea.

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ballinkg's picture

ballinkg said Never had to do anything ...

Never had to do anything else been in basketball all of my life. I guess given the opportunity i would excell at anything that i do.

 

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ballinkg said Dracula, Al Khor doesnt have ...

Dracula,

Al Khor doesnt have a basketball team atleast last season they didnt.

 

indorachel's picture

indorachel said i see someone looking for ...

i see someone looking for native english speaking teacher ...thats something u can consider

 

ballinkg's picture

ballinkg said Indorachel, yeah i just saw ...

Indorachel,
yeah i just saw that gonna see what her requiremments are..thank you

 

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Dracula said ballinkg ...

i have some serbian friends - basketball players to Al Khor.

Keep fighting,bro!
Last month it was a hell for me.
Same story like you.
Never ask for money! Asking for a job it's normal but dont be a beggar!
Send me - (PM)- some details.Maybe there's a job for you.
Good luck.
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flanostu said drac! i missed last night, ...

drac! i missed last night, had a prior engagement sorry.

 

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Dracula said flanostu ...

Sports night - check my new album on facebook.
It was a GREAAAT night! :)
my head...my head!
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flanostu said excellent, excellent! ...

excellent, excellent!

 

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RED_POPE said ballinkg ...

ballinkg raise your right hand, place it in top of the bible or the Koran.

Repeat after me:
I Ballinkg, American citizen living in Qatar swear or affirm in telling everyone, the truth and only the truth in public forum in Qatarliving of your problem.

Here is my donation of information for you my fellow Yankee.

http://qatar.usembas...

Public Services

Other Services
Assistance in getting funds

Should you lose all your money and other financial resources, consular officers can help you contact your family, bank, or employer to arrange for them to send you money.



I hear St. Patrick was from Whales!"

 

bullet's picture

bullet said better hang yo self ...

suicide is the best way to go back in America...if yo prob was true why the embassy can't help you out,or why the authorities didn't arrest you in yo loan problem...maybe you are tryin to raise money out of this site...QL people...don't believe this guy unless he gave a proof...poor guy...i'm sorry but yo problem seems so untrue

 

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indorachel said guys he didnt ask money ...

guys he didnt ask money ....it never said in his thread ....he need help such as job or other than that ...not begging money .....

 

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Intelligent said help... ...

SOrry to hear about you. I wanted to tell you some thing. If you take a loan from a bank, that loan is already insured. If you remember the time you took loan they would have deducted some money or you would have paid some that is the insurance actually. Even you go back to america and never come back the bank never loses a dime. Infact they recover it by insurance. So be cool and dont think that you are black listed coz of loan.

Secondly the only thing you can do is find some job to get setteled first. And you will find lot of good people in QL to help you get one.

I really felt very sorry to know about your situation.

Good luck finding a good job.

Regards,

 

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ballinkg said bullet, You should be ...

bullet,
You should be careful with your words. Especially when saying that someone should commit suicide. Maybe you've though about that at somepoint in your life. if you have nothing positive to say you shouldnt say anything at all. There are people in this world who just open their mouths so they can hear themselves speak and maybe your one of them and if that is so to bad for you.

 

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ballinkg said Red_Pope Since you are such ...

Red_Pope

Since you are such a negative person do me a favor since you find it so easy to find comfort in someone else's problem and have nothing but negative things to print do me a favor since i have already spoke to you about this issue call the American Embassy and ask them your self if they do anything for someone in this situation that way maybe you can stop being so negative.

 

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ballinkg said Indorachel Thanks for the ...

Indorachel
Thanks for the comment but as we both see people read what they want to read even if it isnt what is stated. ignorance is bliss and as i see there are people who find more comfort in putting someone down and taking joy in another's misfortune rather than giving a helping hand. I hope that one day nothing bad ever comes to these people and they need the help of another human being.

 

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ballinkg said Intelligent Thanks for the ...

Intelligent
Thanks for the information

 

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China Syndrome said It appears that .............. ...

this guy has given out enough information now for anybody to verify if they want to check him out. If you have doubts, I suggest that's what you should do. He has come back to fight his corner, I for one will give him the benefit of the doubt.

He is not asking for any hand outs (cash), he seems to proud for that.

So lets give him a break and see what we can do.

Unfortunately I am of little help, not being an American, so cannot advise there, and not in a position to give anybody a job.

ballinkg ............ sorry you have been treated like this in what is a so called 'civilised' society (it is not as you have found out!!!)

Assume you took Dracs offer up and contacted him?

Anybody else got any job leads?

 

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ballinkg said China, There will be ...

China,
There will be ignorance in any civilized situation that we encounter in today's world. I expected to recieve some negativity when i put my story up here so i was ready for it. Drac and I have been in contact and he is gonna help as much as he can with my appreciation.
Like i said to 1 of the other people who wrote to me i pray that some of these people never find themselves in a situation where the help of other human beings is needed. I pray that the people that contact them in thir time of need treat them better.
Thank You

 

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ballinkg said China, There will be ...

China,
There will be ignorance in any civilized situation that we encounter in today's world. I expected to receive some negativity when i put my story up here so i was ready for it. Drac and I have been in contact and he is gonna help as much as he can with my appreciation.
Like i said to 1 of the other people who wrote to me i pray that some of these people never find themselves in a situation where the help of other human beings is needed. I pray that the people that contact them in thir time of need treat them better.
Thank You

 

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honey said ballinkg ...

sad to hear your story..same to indorachel here i understand you were asking for help to get a job so you can survive..

Do you have car? do you know Doha well? i suggest you apply for real estate agent. Some company here are good, i can give you some number of the Managing Director that might need some more employee. Pm me if you are interested.

 

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RED_POPE said Ballinkg, the help beggard. ...

Ballinkg, the help beggard.

Hey coach, How in the hell you expect me to follow your instructions in a basketball game? Specially, when you are asking me to call the US embassy for you!

I believe, that the one, in dire straights is you and not me. Do your homework and be honest to everyone.

Anyhow, your story has no essence, no real pain and it has no backbone to fill my cup of mercy.

What a coincidence?

Your story comes out to the lime light, after someone else post, about the woman beggars in Doha.



I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

 

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nicaq25 said btw ballinkg how did u know ...

this site (Qatarliving)?..You can't blame some of us here being skeptical about you, but one thing I know for sure about what you said:'have been put on a blacklist for traveling and unable to leave the country', because some banks really blacklisting for travel those who do not pay their loans.

 

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ballinkg said red_pope You are a real ...

red_pope

You are a real character. First of all what is a beggard? lol.... Secondly no one asked for your mercy,and thirdly as far as a post of some women beggers i dont know if that was posted before or after me so just do me and alot of other people a huge favor and stop commenting here cause you are in plain english just ignorant..Finally, I told you to call the Embassy for yourself since that was all you could talk about when i already stated that I had spoken to them on numerous occasions.

 

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ballinkg said nicaq25 Some one told me ...

nicaq25
Some one told me about the site.I never put blame on any one for being skeptical about my story but i was always taught that it is easier to ask questions first before formulating a opinion.

 

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RED_POPE said ballinkg, THE FAKE AMERICAN ...

ballinkg said:
anybody is willing to help me so that i can get home and obtain future employment it will be greatly appreciated.
Thank You and God's blessings

LOL. You never had any real questions, Just a motive.

1-Here is the strange part of your employment, you got laid off, after three years of employment, but you did not use the money you saved in the bank, or your last monetary entitlements of employment, to paid off the bank loan.

2- Yet you decided to stay in country for 7 more months without a job, spending your money, on who knows what.

3- Probably you got kick out RECENTLY, from the house by your girlfriend or boyfriend and know you are finding your self in big trouble and homeless.

4- I don't even think, that you are an American citizen, just some Bozo pretending to be one.



I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

 

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ballinkg said Red, This will be my last ...

Red,
This will be my last reply to your ignorance because quite frankly it isnt worth the time or effort especially to deal with someone who is as unhappy with themselves as you are since it seems your only form of self compensation is this web page.
1.never was kicked out of my house by my WIFE not girlfriend.2 sorry but i am an American citizen but since i have seen some of your post it seems your hatred towards Americans is pretty pitiful.( must of been rejected by an American woman..lol or man for that matter)3.you are right my post didn't contain questions but a motive and that motive was to see if someone had any ideas how i could solve this problem (the most intellegent thing that has come out of your pathetic mouth so far). So dome a favor and keep your remarks to yourself especially when it comes to me since you have no significant or rather constructive advice..

 

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RED_POPE said What ever rocks your world ...

What ever rocks your world bozo!



I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

 

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goaboy said listen dude best option the us base ...

just get there take your i.d card stating your an american explian to them the problem even if there are problems deal with them later man just get to your country believe me you dont want to be in this country during ramadan without a job it sucks big time .if it was me i mean if i was an american i would have left the next day.by hook or by crook it dosent matter just get out of this place.

 

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goaboy said do you have your passport with you ...

ifg you have it you can leave

 

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goaboy said your country has a lot of power ...

use it dude your american

 

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nicaq25 said ballinkg...I didn't really mean anything ...

harsh for your side. But seems unbelievable that an American asking help here.But,why not?It happens in your country too. Those homeless people lining-up for food stamps & clothes at some charitable outlets.So, that someone who pointed out you to QL might have an impression that QLers are generous people?Hope you can find some.
And you're still lucky, because the authority didn't put you behind bars because they really do that for some loan offenders.

 

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thexonic said They put people on black ...

They put people on black list when they leave the country, how did they blacklist u inside the country?
2) Americans are usually worshiped over here, u must be kidding.
3) American embassy can make Qatar make changes in their rules for Americans, but cant help u out... What did I miss out?
4) U can't eat but u have internet?

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goaboy's picture

goaboy said listen man forget the loan ...

just leave trust me get to the us base best solution they cant stop you the us is defending this country.

 

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RED_POPE said Thexonic ...

If you worship me, How come you never visit my Confession Booth?
I know you are my favorite raider of my kitchen. LOL



I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

 

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thexonic said Red pope isn't your Kitchen ...

Red pope isn't your Kitchen your confession booth??? Lol.

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Intelligent said Help Needed... ...

Hope Ballinkg you would have found some good opportunities by now with the help of QLers.

Try calling Qatar Scientific Club or better visit them. Long back they were looking for coaches. I dont know if they got or still looking for. It is on salwa road.

Good Luck and Regards,

 

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RED_POPE said US embassy services ...

When i was overseas in 2003 an American business friend of mines, got mugged and his wallet stole, including all his baggage.
Completely strip down.
He did approach The US embassy, they loan him some money for food, rent for the hotel and bought him the plane ticket.

All he had to do, since it was a burglary, he had to get his police report, fill the paper work with an active bank account with proof of employment, the affidavit, signed by one of his family members as a co-signer for the monies loan to him.

He got re-issue a new passport and some cash for traveling for the amount of 2500.USD and left the country.

Know you tell me, If this guy can do the same.

How come you guys keep pondering he is American?
His justification does not match his clarification.

If he was living in this country, according to his statement for 7 months, at his own will. The Dumb Nuts, instead of paying his loan and trying to get the hell out of dodge, he choose to stay here.

I said again he is not American, just another Bozo pretending to be one.

Know that he has no money and facing eviction, know he wants help.

All he has to do, visit the consular services representative and explain his problem.



I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

 

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amnesia said Your solutions are ...

Your solutions are simple.

Go to the Ministry of Labour and see what they say
Go to the Human Rights Authority and see what they say.

Go to the BASE and they'll get you out of the country.

It's quite simple. You are required to pay back your loan (it's written in the contract by the way) to get out. You can't pay it back without a job. So that is when the authorities intervene to help out.

I don't understand how the American Embassy is refusing to help you.

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ballinkg said thexonic, To respond to your ...

thexonic,
To respond to your post they blacklist you FROM leaving the country which i found out when i tried to leave and they stopped me in the airport at the immigration station. secondly i have internet because the friends home i am staying in has it.

 

ballinkg's picture

ballinkg said Intelligent Some QLers have ...

Intelligent
Some QLers have been extremely helpful and offered some useful solutions. Thanks for the info on the Qatar Scientific Club im going to get there and check that out.
thanks

 

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Intelligent said ballinkg I think Red_pope is ...

ballinkg I think Red_pope is seriously in love with you lolzzz... He is trying for so long and I think nobody is noticing it lolzzzz....

Keep this nurishing lolzzz.... What a lovely couple lolzzzz....

Regards,


 

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Intelligent said Actually I made my last post ...

Actually I made my last post funny coz I feel bad reading comments of Red_pope in that way. Why people like to fight all the time. If you think some one is not right or you are not able to understand him. Let him do what he is up to. There will be no good in fighting.

Do live in peace and let others to live also.


 

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ballinkg said amnesia, I have been to the ...

amnesia,
I have been to the Ministry of Labour and the only advice that they would give was to find a Qatari to be a gurantor. Where is the Human Rights Authority located i haven't been there yet.

 

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Oryx said ballingkg ...

so what other work have you been looking for???
what work are you qualified to do?
If your story is true - then you have been rather naive...sorry

 

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SPEED said Guys ,,,, can you all please stop bashing him ? ...

He is American or African makes no difference in the eye of GOD .. All are human being and this can happen to anyone .... All he is asking for Help ... !!
If you cannot offer him help at least say 2 good words..

We (Qlers) are here to help/ guide people who are in need or looking for some guidance/ advice ...

Best solution is to invite him in one you your gathering
... discuss his problem in the presence of other Qlers and offer him help whatever you can ppls can ...

Am sorry but am really sad to see how some of you are questioning him without knowing him??


 

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kenyaqueen said I believe your story, I ...

I believe your story, I don't understand why you didn't borrow money from the states because that is where your are from. Why would your mother be in qatar with you if you are only there for a short time cause the basic health care is practically free there. Anyway I can help you with a few dollars so you can eat. But not until monday as the banks are closed. You can send me your e-mail address and I will arrange to send you something through western union.

good luck

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.

 

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ballinkg said Kenya My mom wasnt in Qatar ...

Kenya
My mom wasnt in Qatar she was in the states before she passed away. And i appreciate the thought but im not asking for money i was asking for solutions to solve my problem but thank you anyway.

 

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kenyaqueen said Ok, your welcome and no ...

Ok, your welcome and no prob. I hope you get out of your situation.

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.

 

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kenyaqueen said just a suggestion folks, If ...

just a suggestion folks, If your not sure about the fact regarding how the american embassy can or can not help their citizens you can always check on their web site.

Pope, your friend must have had other circumstances involved in his case other than being stripped of everything! Because it is almost unheard of that the will provide money loans to get ordinary citizen home even with a co signer. However, they do provide the assistance of getting a passport back if lost or stolen, they will provide advice only in legal matters, they will help you contact your family/friends and of course evacuation but very difficult to get any more help than this. Anyway if you folks have concerns check out some of the facts first.

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.

 

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tallg said Agreed with kenyaqueen. ...

Agreed with kenyaqueen. British embassy is the same. Main role is to represent Britain in the country it is in. They will help citizens with the basics like renewing passports, and will act when an evacuation order is received, but they are not obliged to help people out of trouble they get themselves into (financial or otherwise). Of course they take each case on it's merits and act accordingly, but it's a common misconception that they're there mainly to help its citizens.

 

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kandioglou said Ballinkg ...

Please can you tell me why you have stayed all these months and where? I can not understand it
Ms. Sirina Kandioglou-Zeimpari.

 

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ballinkg said kandioglou i have been here ...

kandioglou
i have been here for all this time because i am not allowed to travel because they have put a block on my name at the airport. i have stayed with a friend that i met while here.

 

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Alexa said Ballinkg, why don't you try ...

Ballinkg, why don't you try the hotels? Maybe they need somebody for their gyms?
Also, you might be able to advertise as a personal trainer...maybe somebody from your team can help you out with that.
Also in a few weeks you could contact the schools, particularly ASD,they might want a basketball coach.
Do you speak Arabic? If so, you could also try the arabic schools here.
Just some ideas....

A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa

 

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ballinkg said Alexa No i dont speak ...

Alexa

No i dont speak arabic.I have spoken to the american school and some of the other english speaking schools right before they finished last semester but they had no openings for this coming school year

 

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Alexa said How about the hotels then? A ...

How about the hotels then?

A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa

 

ballinkg's picture

ballinkg said alexa appreciate it i'll ...

alexa
appreciate it i'll check them out.

 

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britexpat said Look , the guy is in ...

Look , the guy is in trouble.. He says he cannot feed himself.. Why doesn't someone from QLSG meet him, confirm his situation..

then we can perhaps have a whip round to get him through the month for food at least..

 

Alexa's picture

Alexa said Good idea Brit, and since ...

Good idea Brit, and since you seem to be a sensible person, why don't you go?

A sense of humour is just common sense dancing, sadly, common sense has left the building and is dancing somewhere else.
Alexa

 

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britexpat said Alexa.. ...

I'll be honest with you..

I am a real sucker for lost causes and get taken in very easily.. I don't think I would be the right person for this..

I would gladly contribute to the cause though..

 

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China Syndrome said Quite simple ............................. ...

Somebody from the QL social group invite him to the next gathering, you seem to have plenty of them.

Then more than one person can evaluate this case and report back here with some hard evidence/or just convince the non believers.

Then, as BE said, some proper help can be sorted. There will be more support once some of the regulars here confirm it. Also, more advice might be forth coming once this is confirmed as a genuine concern.

I for one would not like to be in a similiar position, would you? ........... what a nightmare!!!

 

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ballinkg said China, I would have no ...

China,
I would have no problem meeting anybody from this forum at anytime. I have nothing to hide. i put myself out there by writing to this forum so for 1 I had to put my pride aside and ask for help. If you or BE or anyone else would like to meet for a cup of coffee or something i have no problem with it just give me a time and a place.

 

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RED_POPE said BALLINKG ...

Make sure to bring your passport with you, that way we could confirm your identity and nationality.



I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

 

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Dracula said a similiar position? ...

a similiar position? ........... what a nightmare!!!
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ballinkg said red You do me a favor, you ...

red
You do me a favor, you meet me that way i can put a end to your skepticism..

 

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Dracula said any news,bro? ...

any news,bro?
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ballinkg said Drac, nothing yet but some ...

Drac,
nothing yet but some of the people from here are checking somethings out for me and have been extemely helpful so im gratefulof that.

 

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eu61 said Im not going to lie you, Im skeptical but... ...

I would like to know,

1) what figures are we talking about? depends on that we can figure out if you can solve your problem working as waiter for some weeks or you will need to work as engineer in QP for years... it is not the same sort of help needed.

2) what are your priorities? goaboy told you can leave the country through the american base (I dont know if it is possible or not, anyway that's not the question) and you replied that you dont want that headache???? consequences??? If you can go out of the country (again - Im not sure, but if that chance is real), who cares about a non-paid loan in a local bank in Qatar??? do you think anybody is going to know if you have a debt in a little country in the Gulf?

So, is it your priority to go back home? (I assume your interest in coming back is low as far as you dont have any job here) or do you want to stay in the Gulf and thats why you are looking for a job to clear up your file in GCC?

I dont understand very much your position, your needs and your priorities.

Im not stating here that get debts and run away is a nice practice, but if you setup priorities in your life (you want to go back home), you have to assume the consequences (maybe they ban to come back, maybe they ban you in whole middle east... but at least, maybe you will be able to restore the debt later from US little by little...)

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War looking for peace,
is like fornication looking for virginity.

 

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Andrews said Hi.. guys.. any one from ...

Hi.. guys..

any one from QLSG met mr. Ballinkg.?

One thing Iam quite sure If he is not in a desperate situation he would'nt spent his time in replying to all this bullllllllshheeeet questions.

somebody update me plssssssss


 

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kenyaqueen said Yes please update us as ...

Yes please update us as quickly as possible. I have faith that this mans story is true. I have somewhat been there myself. Not as bad as him but I know the feeling of being down and out in a country with no money. I travelled to morocco, rabat from casa blanca. I arrived on a friday nite. To my horror there were not banks open and none of the money changers would take a travelers check. I was totally out of cash. But thank Allah for the good people of rabat. I explained my situation to the clerk at the first hotel I stopped at and he gave me a room for the weekend. I did not ask him for anything more. And to my surprise he said here take this money you'll need to eat. I hadn't even thought about food at that point. his gesture was so welcomed and appreciated by me that I left him the biggest tip i have left anyone in my whole life.
Thank Allah he believed me or I would have been out in the heat for three whole days.

Ok thats my story and I'm sticking to it.

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.

 

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ballinkg said eu61 I'll let yoiu know my ...

eu61
I'll let yoiu know my priorities. 1- my first priority is to get out of doha and get back to America as quick as possible.When replying to goaboy what i was saying was i dont wanna be trying to sneak out of the country and putting someone else in jeopardy by helping to sneak me out. And no it is not possible to go through the american base. I have no desire to come back to the GCC so clearing my name to come back here to work is not a issue. 2-As far as my need it is simple a waiter job would not get it done for me. I hope this clearified my position priority and need for you.

 

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ballinkg said Andrews No no one has QLSG ...

Andrews
No no one has QLSG has met me outside of this forum but 1 guy from here has been in constant contact with me over the phone. I invite any member from here to meet me outside this forum for i have nothing to hide and would be more than happy to spend 5 minutes with them.

 

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DaRuDe said I Dont Know him ...

And i never invited him who is he where he came from no idea.
 

 

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