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Anybody gone through their own personal wars?

heero_yuy2's picture

I will tell you the truth. I will be going through this kind of phase as of now for reasons maybe some of you were familiar with. But before I jumped into it, maybe some of you who went to such different types of personal wars can enlighten me with your story and the consequences that may arouse...so that somehow you can all convince me to contain myself in what I'm going through and ease or change my situation to normal.

So far I'll give you a hint of what happened: I now consider two of my former close friends as enemies...and I don't want to declare war yet. I don't need to state the reasons why. Possibly you all know it before...

Thank you all for reading.

heero

adey's picture

adey said Yeah ...

I invaded Poland today!
No one noticed.

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."

 

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nadt said God, isnt there enough wars ...

God, isnt there enough wars going on, just forgive and forget..

 

indorachel's picture

indorachel said well heero ..when people do ...

well heero ..when people do that to me and declare war to me ..I notice but you can't change what you can not change ...I just live my own life and go on with my life ...there is more friend in this world than the one who want to enemies us....keep up the positive spirit

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said You cannot just forgive and forget ...

...if they keep on doing it eeeeeverytime to make you look silly!

I am a man who always forgive and forget...but this time, I've learned my lesson...

>:-(

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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Alexa said Heero, I used to do that ...

Heero, I used to do that kind of thing in high scool.....but I am all grown up now ! YAY!

You mess with the cat, you get the claws....

 

adey's picture

adey said Seriosly. ...

dont speak to them,

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said The problem, alexa ...

...is both of them are all grown up now and they continue doing it!!

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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heero_yuy2 said adey, I don't speak to them ...

They speak to me! With all their usual alibis and lies!!

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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heero_yuy2 said Yeah, that's what I keep saying, indorachel ...

'Old habits die hard.'

read my last reply to adey's post for the reason...

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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indorachel said some grown up still do that ...

some grown up still do that you know ... even they claimed themselves grown up too .... but what I know ..im just throwing my thought ...We probably do that when we dont realize it ...if we do and they claimed we're not grown up ..is their problem ...we just live our life , right ...we all human being we all make mistake ...I think that's the point ...People Just Human Being ......... God love His creation ... what more us His best creation

 

Alexa's picture

Alexa said Jeeez, just tell the to f ...

Jeeez, just tell the to f off.

You mess with the cat, you get the claws....

 

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azilana7037 said *yawns....2 former friends...now ENEMIES ...

That's fact #1

fact#2 you don't need to state the reasons why. Possibly "WE" all know it before

My question--> are they from QL?

fact#3 these 2 ex-friends always make you look silly

My comment--> aren't you already? (just kidding)

SERIOUSLY...unless your declaration of war includes erasing them from the face of the earth, then what's the point?

I think you're MAN ENOUGH to confront them that:
- you don't like what they they're doing to you
- you want the the acts to stop

have you tried TALKING to them?????



 

indorachel's picture

indorachel said sorry heero didnt get that ...

sorry heero didnt get that before I post it ...well enjoy you life ...and keep up positive spirit coz that's all you can do right

 

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Scarlett said the best revenge is to totally act like they ...

don't exist...that way it will get to them that they are so insignificant to you that no matter what they do, it won't matter...works every time, BUT, you have to believe in it too...or you will just be acting.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.

 

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azilana7037 said gave my 2 cents worth of opinion so ...

stop whining and face them.

Are you a mouse or a Man?



 

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azilana7037 said I agree with Scarlett ...

those people are insignificant iota in your existence so why raise a fuss...

I myself have a lot of patience with OBNOXIOUS GOODY GOOD shoes...but once I reach my end of line. I will defo tell them to "F" off...



 

corleone's picture

corleone said havent lost yet... and not ...

havent lost yet... and not planning to anytime soon :)

 

azilana7037's picture

azilana7037 said hello Corleone...are you one of the 2 ...

who were pestering heero?

Shame on you....lol ;-P



 

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Scarlett said Azi...did i NOT hear you say something??? ...

:P..just kidding!!

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.

 

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indorachel said read this about ...

read this about friendship

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Alexa said Indo, that is actually ...

Indo, that is actually cute!

You mess with the cat, you get the claws....

 

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azilana7037 said Got that, My QUEEN ;-P ...

I'm off...mr. sandman is here...

ta ta



 

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indorachel said Thank you alexa ...im gonna ...

Thank you alexa ...im gonna keep reminding people that friendship is like an egg ....so sorry if you going to get sick by it ...he...he...

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Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said slightly cracked??? ...

Heck, I'm almost broken in two!!

Azi...sleep well...I'm off to study the inside of my eyelids also..

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.

 

corleone's picture

corleone said so if i call you an egghead, ...

so if i call you an egghead, please consider it a compliment :D

cracked egghesd ftw!

 

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AbuAmerican said deleted ...

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Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said lol abu... ...

are you ignoring us??

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.

 

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indorachel said OK guys im off to bed ... I ...

OK guys im off to bed ... I m probably an egg even I broke to two pieces ...I'm still make a good omelet right ...I hope so ...night - night everyone

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AbuAmerican said lol no Scarlett just ...

lol no Scarlett just commenting on adey invading Poland. I deleted it.
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corleone's picture

corleone said kage bunshin no jitsu ...

kage bunshin no jitsu :x

attackkkkk

 

adey's picture

adey said Hmmmm, intriguing Abu ...

:)

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."

 

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mjamille28 said just ignore them, after a ...

just ignore them, after a while, they'll soon tire of pestering you that they will give up and die... oh did i just say die, i meant disappear.... :P


 

Winn's picture

Winn said Scarlett: Beg to differ. You ...

Scarlett: Beg to differ. You are not a cracked/broken egg. You are an egg that cracks people up!! :-)

Heero: Call 800-SUPARI and negotiate a deal to take care of ur friends.

Lead me not into temptation....I can find it myself!!

 

Vegas's picture

Vegas said I don't know why you peeps can't forgive and forget... ...

You can't teach experience...

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Because that's the way they wanna make me feel angry ...

...but the problem is...they make me get more angry with what they're doing!!

I'm not sure if they're reading this as maybe they ain't interested in the internet or something...but if they do please, stop doing it! It's still pretty obvious! And insulting! You want me to make war on you two??

RE:Vegas

Because they are my officemates...and what's to do everyday than work and do their 'fake' stuff.

Heck! She even 'throw' my 1 Corinthians 13 letter!! It's for her to learn if you want me to forgive!

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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mjamille28 said hopeless.... ...

hopeless....

 

Alexa's picture

Alexa said Hmmm Heero...could it be ...

Hmmm Heero...could it be that you have BO ?:0

You mess with the cat, you get the claws....

 

azilana7037's picture

azilana7037 said heero...you got "balls" to tell them at their face? ...

spilling your gut here in QL won't do you no good.



 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said They know it before I can tell them, azi ...

Another one that I hate about them. They easily get gossip even if I haven't said anything yet. And this may be the only place they cannot reach me...yet...

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

greentea's picture

greentea said hmmm... Azi, i think it's time for Heero to ...

scratch it and fire it off to face his 2 ex-friends...

Seriously Heero, confront them and after that ignore them... keeping it boiling inside may put you in trouble later..

 

mjamille28's picture

mjamille28 said if he can... ...

if he can...

 

chocolate's picture

chocolate said Heero try conquering hate ...

Heero try conquering hate with love. Be extra nice to them.

 

mjamille28's picture

mjamille28 said confront them, tell it to ...

confront them, tell it to their face and work something out...

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Actually, people, it's them who needs explaining ...

It's them who made the one-year lies. Nobody's taking action. All they do is...walk pass by me and make me look silly. I'm getting tired of those BS their doing!

Re:chocolate

I have been veeery nice to them for more than a year. They only used my niceness. Will I do it again?

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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mjamille28 said nobody's taking action,.. if ...

nobody's taking action,.. if they wont do something about it, then you make the move. if you want to put an end to all this, you should, rather than wait a lifetime for them to do something, which obviously, they wont...

 

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chipmunks said they matter to you? i can ...

they matter to you? i can read here that all you can do is ignore them and not talk to them anymore, they don't deserve your attention

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said I stopped talking to them, chipmunks ...

They never ignore me.

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

chipmunks's picture

chipmunks said try to ignore them and if ...

try to ignore them and if work will got affected bring it to your manager

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Tried my best that work can't get affected ...

...but they're using work as a reason for them to do it.

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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heero_yuy2 said It gets better everyday ...

They meet in the morning when no one is around and in the afternoon downstairs with also no one is around.

Let's start the war, sha'we?

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

Foolish_me's picture

Foolish_me said Maybe they just want you to ...

Maybe they just want you to start the war? and have been planning on it since day one.....

 

owen's picture

owen said heero..just a thought.. ...

heero..just a thought.. would you reconsider reflecting at yourself.. maybe the problem started all from you... and from there you could at least solve this ongoing issues of yours..

just my thought buddy..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said I'm tired of solving issues, owen ...

Been doing this since my dad died when I was 14...

It didn't start through me. If it did I would've averted it or solved it from the start...

I just can't understand why I always 'accidentally' caught them in spite of ignoring it since...

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

mjamille28's picture

mjamille28 said so dont... ...

so dont...

 

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someonenew said heero ur such a drama queen! ...

heero ur such a drama queen! why dont u grow up and be a man???

I dream of a better tomorrow where Chickens can cross the Road without having their motives questioned - Unknown

 

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owen said i see.. so i guess this ...

i see.. so i guess this isn't meant to be solved at all.. continue ignoring them, say nothing.. know nothing... if it's really getting into you and everything else is being affected.. leave that company..change workplace, change of people around you...

not easy..but you can't feel like this for long, right?
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Of course I wouldn't solve the issue, mjamille ...

They should. Not me.

Sorry, someonenew. Can't explain the situation where I've been dealing with now. Try filling my shoes sometime to know the feeling...

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

mjamille28's picture

mjamille28 said heero, no amount of words we ...

heero, no amount of words we say here will ever help you in any way,...only you can deal with what u face right now...best of luck..

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Owen, that'll be the final solution I'm going to take ...

Leave the company...but for the sake of my family, my grandma and the house loan...I will not.

All I need is to stop them from doing it. Kept on ignoring since but, as i said, it just...always...accidentally...get caught by me...and i'm getting tired of their stuff!

I tell you it's not easy, owen, since it's...everyday...

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

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Foolish_me said I agree with mjamille :) ...

I agree with mjamille :)

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Thank you, mjamille ...

You've been kind. I know everyone of you tried the best to help me out, humor or not...and I appreciate it.

I just wanted this nightmare to end...:-(

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

owen's picture

owen said heero, then wake up.. ...

heero, then wake up.. :P

Good luck to you.. you needed it.. and more prayers to you to overcome this probs to give you more patience..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

 

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wishdom said I just wanted this nightmare to end... ...

then face them ..be a man

ooh! dont be teenage drama queen daig mo si lindsay lohan

"I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision."

 

azilana7037's picture

azilana7037 said NOW I GET IT!!!! ...

Geeezzz....this is getting lower and lower...

their (your ex-friends) problem is N.O.Y.F.B.

You're the one getting affected...S1new is right...so much Drama just for this!?!?!?!

WTH is wrong with you?



 

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a merry can muslim said since Abu deleted his... ...

Adey was only able to invade Poland without anyone noticing because he walked in backwards and they thought he was leaving.... =)

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Mom_me said When friends become a drag ...

When friends become a drag just come out of it, amicably.

 

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AbuAmerican said Adey's invasion conducted in ...

Adey's invasion conducted in Qatar.
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