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My Muslim Husband
by Sumayyah Meehan
It's been 12 years since I married my Muslim husband and the road has truly been long and winding, but happy. At the time we got married I was Catholic and had no intention of converting to Islam.
My new husband was very understanding and only asked that I at least try to read an English translation of the Quran from time to time. I agreed. We soon moved to Kuwait as the U.S. economy was so weak at that time and it was impossible to earn a good living.
The minute I stepped off the plane I was thrust into a whole new world that was full of Islam, Muslims, cultural traditions and a whole new way of thinking. To say that I was shaken to my very core, in blind terror, is an understatement. All I wanted to do was to jump right back on that plane and fly away from this strange new World.
Yet through it all, my Muslim husband was by my side every step of the way. When I found that his mother’s cooking was too spicy, he made sure that other food choices were available, including American gourmet items like McDonald’s and Pizza Hut.
When I was homesick for my family in the US, he stayed up with me all night consoling me and offering to take me "home". Through every happy moment, every illness and on the days when I was so sad I could barely summon a smile, my Muslim husband has been right there holding my hand.
He is my best friend, confidant, and the father of my children. He equally shares in changing dirty diapers, spill patrol and nipping temper tantrums in the bud. Nothing fazes him, not even kids throwing up on his brand new shirt or his having to wash the dishes when I am too tired to move.
It's unfortunate that Muslim husbands, especially, get such a bad rap in the Western media. Quite often Muslim husbands are portrayed as control freaks who force their wives to wear "Islamic garb".
The reality is that both Muslim husbands and wives often choose to follow an Islamic code of dress because it is ordained in the Quran and Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad. It is not an issue of force or a war of wills.
Allah Almighty says in the Quran what means,
{ Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: That will make for greater purity for them: And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty. That they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof } (An-Nur 24:30)
For me, personally, I came to Kuwait wearing a t-shirt and blue jeans. I wore what I choose and neither my Muslim husband nor his Muslim family said anything to me.
However, my husband did continue to ask me to read the Quran. His gentle, and sometimes nagging, reminders paid off. I finally started reading the Quran and my hunger for more and more Islamic knowledge grew.
I searched and scoured until I found the truth I had always been looking for within the pages of the Quran. I made the decision to become a Muslim and I went shopping for my first hijab all by myself.
My husband turned into my teacher as he taught me all about Islam, fasting and the Islamic prayer. When I made mistakes or faltered, he did not scold me but increased his own efforts in teaching me everything properly.
His patience was remarkable as my own grew thin. I wanted to know a lot about Islam and it was just not something that happened overnight. But it did happen.
Islam has brought a sense of calm to my very being and a serene atmosphere to my home as well as my marriage. Since I became a Muslim I have noticed that I am less stressed or worried about the future.
I have a lot more patience and do not get as flustered as I used to with the little nuances of daily living. Through the Quran and Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad I have learned what this life really is all about and strive every day to engage in good deeds that will open the door to the next World to come.
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أبوبابو said
two things, realsomeone: ...1.When you are lost...when you have an emotional & spritual gap inside your soul, when you want something strong to hold own to...Islam is the answer!
2.You don't force such a great religion on people. They will realize its majesty, and will come to it with their own will. This is where her husband succeeded.
If he had shouted on her: HIJAB...ALCOHOL...PORK...HELL..FASTING...EATING IN PUBLIC...WHY YOU TALK TO MEN?...etc, he would have give the worst impression about Islam.
realsomeone said
Totally in agreement with ...Totally in agreement with you bro. i liked this story.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Alexa said
Realsomeone, she is lucky to ...Realsomeone, she is lucky to have found a man like her husband.
You mess with the cat, you get the claws....
realsomeone said
Alexa ...Absolutely I think he was a man of patience and caring. and that is the way it should work, things do not happen overnight specially the person can like your faith and culture when you give them time and be a good role-model.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Alexa said
Realsomeone, yes, that is ...Realsomeone, yes, that is very true.
You mess with the cat, you get the claws....
Platao36 said
Real: Interesting article, ...Real: Interesting article, but as others, it's 1 example, if someone decides to go look for similar issues, i bet it will be found examples of muslim women that changed religion but never the less, we are all free to post about that kind of issues.
God bless you Realsome ;)
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
realsomeone said
Platao actually the reason i ...Platao actually the reason i liked the story is not because the women changed her religion but because how the man treated her.
and yes you will find lots of stories of Muslim men that treated women wrongly but that is not what Islam teaches. I dont defend the character of individuals but i usually defend the perfection of "Islam" which when correctly practiced produces a positive fruits.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Arien said
Cool Husband.. But I dont ...Cool Husband.. But I dont think he had any strong intention of converting her.. he gave her the freedom to decid.
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greentea said
i like the story realsomeone ...i can somehow relate *winki wink*
أبوبابو said
what a great post, platter ...you have added enormous value to this thread!
And it all comes from a single brain cell! Imagine if you had two!
SheDBabe said
Maashallah! ...Touching story! I must admit as a Muslim I love these reverts stories.. My own husband been one as well. Its so beautiful to hear of people actually "choosing" Islam as their religion and inevitably most of the time they are stronger Muslims as a result cos its not something they blindly followed without knowledge and it does take a lot of courage if one is to follow Islam correctly! So may Allah bless this lady & her family.. & Jazakhalla khair Realsomeone for posting!
realsomeone said
same here ...:) My wife is revert too.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Arien said
Realsomeone.. May I ask ...Realsomeone.. May I ask you..The religion never teaches anything bad or negative to human kind, any religion for that matter..BUt in Islam ,,why extremists are born than any other??.whats wrong and why is this happening? what can be done??
Its juts a thouhgt. I am personally not against any religion.
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realsomeone said
Arien extremism is a ...Arien extremism is a political agenda or a result of discrimination. Islam doesnot teach extremism indeed it promotes "moderate view".
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
charanmafiriyals said
I am beating my wife almost ...I am beating my wife almost everyday as I am a non-believer.
Ban Spoon Feeding not Me
أبوبابو said
it's due to the amount of aggressiveness against them ..."why extremists are born than any other??.whats wrong and why is this happening? what can be done??"
if you look at modern history, almost all the (western) aggressions are against Muslims and their lands:
Zionists invaded Palestine, USA is supporting the zionists, Kashmir, USSR invaded Afghanistan, Kosovo, Serbs killing Muslims, Albania, Bosnia, Somalia, Iraq, USA invaded Afghanistan, Chechnneya, Israel attack Lebanon every now & then...etc.
The only solution to fight extremists and stop the people from supporting them, is: don't give them the reasons! LEAVE THEIR LANDS (Specially Palestine)!
Arien said
I agree to you 100% , none ...I agree to you 100% , none of the religions teaches extremism and war.
But the end result is, war in the name of religion.. allover..killing 1000s of innocent people. There may be political agendas involved..
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realsomeone said
I am not sure if anyone is ...I am not sure if anyone is killing people for religion but possibly for nationalism, land, political agenda etc.
but what you see now a days in Muslim countries is a result of indiscriminate aggression and people want to revenge but some of them took the wrong way for revenge (such us killing innocent people).
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Supernurse said
Lucky her! ...Lucky her!
PM said
I've always thought the best way to draw people to Islam is by ...by demonstrating the goodness and peace in one's own life through one's own behavior and nicely answering questions without being defensive or harsh.
"AbuBabu" said it best (and can't believe I am saying this -- lol!):
"f he had shouted on her: HIJAB...ALCOHOL...PORK...HELL..FASTING...EATING IN PUBLIC...WHY YOU TALK TO MEN?...etc, he would have give the worst impression about Islam."
So true.
A life unexamined is not worth living -- Socrates
ernie said
very intresting story, Iam ...very intresting story, Iam american been in this great country since Aug 2007, I met arab woman who happen to like her very much because of her behaviour, she is God fearing and i met her in some of friends house where their family friends were invited for some function, she didnt talk much but when when we started talking about Islam she was explaining very well, i requested to talk to her more asking if i can invite her she refuse unless if its family gathering, we talked many times on phone as i requested her to teach me about islam. now i love this woman and i have already went to fanar where she advised me its a right place to get to know more about islam, i have read some books they gave me but still i need some more to know iam ready to convert if she agrees to marry me, i told her this and iam looking for a more secured job in oil companies so i can sattle here. Im ready to fight for it as my present job is a contract of month to month. i still need to be in this country to learn more and to show her parents that I accept Islam and ready to marry her otherwise they will not accept me if im not true to Allah. besides i like this country very much to sattle here if she agrees then our life will be within the gulf. she is a very good muslim person. she made me who i am.
I found the true life in Qatar!
Platao36 said
rEAL: Thanks for ...rEAL: Thanks for explanation.
Extremists are everywhere, just that for years we all heard about Israel-Palestine conflict.
In Europe we have I.R.A and E.T.A., the difference is that they don't target people but cars or buildings and always warn people to abadon a certain area before the bomb goes off.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
akprinz said
very well said ...May allah bless the couple and strenghen the IMAN of all muslim bro and sisters
nice too nice said
Religion is not the cause ...Religion is not the cause for exrtremism. But the people belongs to one religion always been on the receiving end and when they reacts against the aggression/attrocities, the blame goes on the religion. It is the media propaganda to project all extremism on a particular religion. When a muslim involved in even a personal argument, that will be highlighted as "Muslim fight", while the other religious people even kill someone, that will be notified as "a person killed his neighbour". That is the way Media brings the news to public. So extremism is the creation of media and master minds behind those dynasties.
britexpat said
A fortunate woman who found love, religion and happiness all ...in one..
Obviously the athiests and agnostics will pooh pooh the religious aspects, as is their right as per their beliefs, but for many religion can provide the guidance for a happy and fulfilled life.
esdm6002 said
..... ...A man is taking a walk in Central park in New York. Suddenly he sees a little girl being attacked by a pit bull dog . He runs over and starts fighting with the dog. He succeeds in killing the dog and saving the girl's life. A policeman who was watching the scene walks over and says: "You are a hero, tomorrow you can read it in all the newspapers: "Brave New Yorker saves the life of little girl" The man says: - "But I am not a New Yorker!" "Oh ,then it will say in newspapers in the morning: 'Brave American saves life of little girl'" – the policeman answers. "But I am not an American!" – says the man. "Oh, what are you then? " The man says: - "I am a Saudi !" The next day the newspapers says: "Islamic extremist kills innocent American dog.
Who said nothing is impossible?? I've been doing nothing for months...
Platao36 said
esdm: I'll take it as a ...esdm: I'll take it as a joke, but it makes me remember how some folks here react whenever someone has a different opinions from them.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
esdm6002 said
... ...it was a joke mate.. i did give the heading "joke"... dunno where it dissappeared...
cheers!!
Who said nothing is impossible?? I've been doing nothing for months...
tess_916 said
Realsomeone, this is a very ...Realsomeone, this is a very interesting and lovely thread. It proves that love breaks all barriers on religion, language, culture and geographical borders. In this day and age, true love still exists afterall. Love is never about having the same interests. But it is about looking at the same horizon at the end of the day.
Platao36 said
ESD: LOL Only God Can Judge ...ESD: LOL
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
Platao36 said
TESS: THANKS, I'm in a ...TESS: THANKS, I'm in a similar situation but some folks here called b*tch to my gf just because i ain't muslim.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
nadt said
Nice story, good luck to ...Nice story, good luck to both of them..
Esdm....ROFL....thats a good joke..
realsomeone said
lol Platao your case is ...lol Platao your case is different Mate. as i told you before you should abide the rules and your loved one too, if she is God fearing Muslim (she cant marry a Non-Muslim, Sorry for you).
but also you shouldnt convert for a girl, learn the faith first and led it with positive light without paying attention to the media.
ernie your story is interesting. but also like platao dont convert to marry the girl that wont end in happiness.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
rayyz said
Realsomeone ...So is the article about her Muslim husband or her conversion to Islam?
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realsomeone said
rayyz ...Well as the title says the article is mainly about her Muslim husband but she brings her reversion later in the article.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
LifeisBeautiful said
Congratulations for her loss ......to the lady...now she can find each and every truth that she could not find in her religion. God Bless her and condemn her previous religion to hell. I pity her actually.I wish everyone who converts looks at their religion deeply before deciding to jump ships. Every religion has same messages.It's just that the grass is greener on the other side and we as human beings consider the most 'practical' option as the best option.The lady in the story has to spend her life with her muslim husband and her muslim in-laws.Therefore,the most practical option for her was probably to convert.I call such people - People of Convinience.
Anyways,it's good for her family life. May god bless her.
Life is Beautiful...Indeed!
Platao36 said
real: Like someone posted, ...real: Like someone posted, "love breaks all barriers on religion, language, culture and geographical borders", no ofense buddy but i wont go further to prevent hurt your fealings.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
realsomeone said
Platao ...you dont hurt my feelings come on its ok to discuss, i know that is ur believe but I believe in Love too but there is a reality that cannot be denied.
LifeisBeautiful I dont know how you can think that this women lost when she feels that she is the victor and by the way i dont agree that all religions are same. i believe all religions that promote one God are from the same God but God sent his messengers and religions in different times and i believe Islam is the relevant one for today until the day of judgment.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
abohmaid said
thank u ...thank u
LifeisBeautiful said
Thanks realsomeone ...Appreciate your post. I'am a dumb ass non-believer.Please Pardon my Ignorance.I'am an ignorant spritually retarded non-believer.I don't know the ways of the wise men like you.
Life is Beautiful...Indeed!
rayyz said
Realsomeone ...You seriously didn't expect her to make a big jump and write an article saying she made a huge mistake right?
I have my reservations over your claim that Islam is relevant for today until the day of judgement. If ever there was a need for God to prove his religion and a time for a messenger, it is NOW! Human race has progressed so much in last 50 years that they didn't so much in last 3000 years before 1950! If there was a time for a religion to adapt and humans needed a reminder, it is NOW!
Moreover, its been 1400+ years since a messenger has come, its about time I guess.
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Echo said
I don't believe Islam is ...I don't believe Islam is relevant to now at all! In fact I think it, and all other religions are completely irrelevant, outdated and archaic and give us no practical advise for living in today's world.
Formatted Soul said
Whay are they converting only for LOVE? ...most people I know converted because they don’t have any other option to marry a Muslim Girl/guy. Only few of them really converted because of their liking towards the religion. I haven’t ever met any converted Muslim who did it because of the religion...hidden motive is always LOVE.
Plato - you are also learning Islam because of your Muslim Fiancée right?
Formatted Soul said
Ray ...You don’t have any testimony? LOL
rayyz said
FS ...We're not getting into that! :P
But yes I so agree with your previous post.
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Scarlett said
conversion... ...to a religion should never be based on love of another human being. It should be based upon your beliefs in the religion itself.
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
Echo said
It would be great if ...It would be great if everyone converted because they truly believed in the religion, but it's just not realistic, especially with a religion that bans marriage outside of the religion, as is the case with women in Islam. The men who love these women have no choice but to convert.
realsomeone said
LifeisBeautiful i dont know ...LifeisBeautiful i dont know what you mean by that, but what i was trying to say is dont marry the girl marry the religion and the girl should follow.
Rayyz i respect your opinion but i have a very different view and yes Islam is very relevant today that is why above 1 billion citizens of this world enjoy its beauty TODAY.
formatted Soul i dont call becoming Muslim a conversion i call it revert, Allah knows best and he knows what is the intention of people like Platao who say they want to convert because of a girl that their choice but i guarantee that relationship is not gonna last long until one of the two changes their way complete otherway around.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Echo said
There might be 1.5 billion ...There might be 1.5 billion people who SAY there Muslim realsomeone, but how many actually practice it?? From my experience here there aren't many Muslims who practice Islam properly.
realsomeone said
Well that is their problem ...Well that is their problem Echo, practicing the religion is not the religions problem its the person's. if they practice good for them if they dont bad for them.
the majority i know practice it even though there are seasonal Muslims.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Echo said
Well it's not accurate to ...Well it's not accurate to say that Islam is relevant because 1.5 billion people claim to be Muslim, when a good portion of that don't practice it, is it?
realsomeone said
its absolutely relevant for ...its absolutely relevant for day to day living, goverment, business, law and in every field. when implemented correctly.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Echo said
Hmmm, is that why there's so ...Hmmm, is that why there's so many places correctly using it?
Platao36 said
RS: oNLY 1 QUESTION, why can ...RS: oNLY 1 QUESTION, why can this woman be happy and convert for love but i can't convert by love, that makes me feal or any other man from any other religion that Islam isn't that perfect as muslims say, it descriminates, this history could be considered has fake, once the muslim man is so marvellous towards his non muslim wife, but i, non muslim, can't be marvellous to my muslim girlfriend, maybe future wife.
Sorry Realsome do not intend to offend, just leting you know how it makes me feal.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
rayyz said
Echo ...But Realsomone has previously posted a topic which says Islam is not in need of its followers, its the other way round. So whether anyone does or doesn't practice the most relevant method, it still is relevant in today's times!
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realsomeone said
Platao- My friend ...Platao- My friend responsibilities of man and women are different, women gives birth to child man do not, lots of arguments and conflicts will arise between the non Muslim man who is the head of the family and the Muslim women.
Allah knows best of this matter.
Echo its individual responsibility to practice Islam its not collective for the community, its the single person that will be accountable for what he/she do in this world on the day of judgment.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
rayyz said
Realsomeone ...Another question that arises is, what is the correct method? Shia or Sunni? Both claim to be correct! Both have way different ways of offering prayers especially when there is a very well defined way of praying in Islam. Keeping this point in mind either one of them is wrong for sure.
However, both are allowed to visit Makkah, whereas, Christians or Hindus aren't. What's going on here?
I have only highlighted a major difference in Islam. If you start going in-depth, there are so so many differences, who knows who is right and who is wrong? Have you ever been to smaller towns in India itself let alone other parts of the world, they're all following and practising Islam way different than what people do elsewhere. Who is right?
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realsomeone said
rayyz ...The correct way is the Way of the prophet muhammed (pbuh) and the Holy Quran which is widely available with correct documentation.
Allah knows best.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
rayyz said
Well then why are Shias ...Well then why are Shias allowed in Makkah?
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realsomeone said
Anyone who claims to be ...Anyone who claims to be Muslim is allowed in Makkah. period.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
LEGENDWAR said
No! ...No! Not /-a-t-/ all...!!!
Ahmedis do claim of their Muslim religion but are not mounted to Muslims nor are allowed in Makkah.
Get Clear...
blablabla said
Lifeisbeutiful, I just ...Lifeisbeutiful, I just couldnt stop laughing, im still laughing infact....
just blahblah;
blablabla said
Its difficult to have wisdom ...Its difficult to have wisdom in religious talk especially in Islam. you cann't help, you have to say what religion says...
just blahblah;
Platao36 said
Realsome: If that's the way, ...Realsome: If that's the way, love doesn't matter, than my racional side tells me that Islam isn't a solution but a problem and that it really doesn't represent God's word.
All humans are equal, at His sight, anyone stating different is a liar. It's too sad, my friend. Discussions are normal, but both have the same rights and obligations, in Europe, women are the responsables for the kids education. To be able to discuss and leurn and understand we need to be tolerant, and one day even muslims will understand it. That God/Allah enlightens your way before it's too late.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
Platao36 said
Blablabla: You are right, ...Blablabla: You are right, how can you belive in a religion that it's irracional?
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
realsomeone said
My friend we are talking ...My friend we are talking Islam not western culture, if you want to have your own culture then a Muslim girl is not for you that is the teaching of Islam whether you consider intolerant or not for us its a sign of obedience to Allah.
and any God fearing Muslim should abide the rules no matter how difficult it may seem.
Islam is all about wisdom.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
blablabla said
Plato, I think even ...Plato, I think even christianity or Judaism are not rational for that matter but their followers, to be wise, are making it look like!
just blahblah;
LEGENDWAR said
Faith.. ...Human consider faith prior ... but not a religion...
Never walk on a so called made route. Look into it, search for the Truth, Move it n' Then Play.
Matter a fact, any of man called religion is wholely not a book to be read and saved in mind.
We are living on a Planet b/w different communities & casts. Never consider oneself right from rest of the facts but concentrate on, why different casts gets created pretty often!
Leave a sign ... of vat one is!
rayyz said
I'm lost too! ...I'm lost too! LOL
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Platao36 said
Blabla: Yes, that's why i ...Blabla: Yes, that's why i never give much importance to religion, it splits people, religion will always be the cause of hate between all humans.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
Platao36 said
Legendwar: Exactly Only God ...Legendwar: Exactly
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
owen said
this is a good story... very ...this is a good story... very inspiring to some of us..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Platao36 said
Owen: Inspiring? Only ...Owen: Inspiring? Only inspiration i see is that Love is superior to any religion.
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
blablabla said
Its your choice. but be ...Its your choice. but be optimistic people are changing now, humanity is winning over religions..
just blahblah;
alsboy said
Touchy... Sweet...!!! ...Atleast der r people here, who giv respect...!!! God bless u!!!
owen said
the husband did not put ...the husband did not put force on anything about Islam and let it be guided/motivated by his faith and patience... which leads me to my question, seldom for a man to be like this (no offense to any guys here)
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
realsomeone said
Owen agree with you, its ...Owen agree with you, its rare.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
blablabla said
Owen, well Ive been loyal to ...Owen, well Ive been loyal to my muslim wife(Im muslim too) for years but couldn't change her though I did all this coveted husband did for that lucky woman!
just blahblah;
owen said
blablabla it's not all being ...blablabla it's not all being loyal.. what can i say, i guess she needs more to see something in you to make her follow what you exactly wants... as what was written above, the man did not show any impatience..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Platao36 said
Blablabla: I wanna belive it ...Blablabla: I wanna belive it too, just feal sad with this kind of descrimination
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
blablabla said
My patience is what my wife ...Owen,My patience is what my wife doesn't like!!
just blahblah;
realsomeone said
blablabla ...How do you want to change her thoughts? to where? if you are Muslim and she is Muslim the topic is irrelevant for you.
if you are talking about convincing her in general that depends on your personality.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Formatted Soul said
blabla ...its you or your wife who converted to Muslim?
blablabla said
FS, No, we are born ...FS, No, we are born muslims..
just blahblah;
owen said
errrr.. so as real said, ...errrr.. so as real said, this topic is not relevant to you? ...what was your issue again?
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Muhandis said
What is considered as ...discrimination by some people today, will probably be considered as justice in the future. Human has very limited capability to know everything. God knows the best.
blablabla said
Owen, I don't want to make ...Owen, I don't want to make it a topic either. just saying things can be otherwise...
just blahblah;
LifeisBeautiful said
Why don't we all agree... ......to a simple truth that All Religions are a result of Marketing genius. I have written and debated enough about the relevance or irrelvance of religion to understand this. The more we exchange ideas about religion,the stronger it's success is. Religion is a demon which is out now in full force to devour mankind. Please don't hang this spritually retarded non-believer for saying so. May I rest in hell.
Life is Beautiful...Indeed!