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China Syndrome's picture

What happened here?

Seems to me some of us were having a sensible discussion about prostitution in Qatar and the thread vanished???

Am I missing something?

I did not see anything deserving of sensoring/editing unless we look at the original post, and I am sure that could have been dealt with seperately and so keeping the thread 'alive'.

Or is it being implied that we bury our head in the sand and pretend it does not exist here?

Can we continue here ...................?

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Cornellian said It's not that China, it was ...

It's not that China, it was deleted because the thread was trolling and promoting prostitution, such threads that promote something whether it was prostitution or otherwise gets deleted. But it wasn't cause of the topic itself so we can continue here :-)

 

CYman's picture

CYman said It was a prostitution spam ...

that's why it was deleted. I was the one who reported it to Qatari.
Nevertheless the thread was becoming interesting. I'm sorry :(

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

 

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Cornellian said So let's talk about it here! ...

So let's talk about it here! :-)

I'm surprised that prostitution is that open in what is considered a conservative country, I mean if it's so obvious that these women are prostituting them, then I'm sure authorities know about it...the question is...why aren't they doing anything about it ?

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said OK, thats understandable, ...

OK, thats understandable, thank you.

It also underlines mir83 and my point that we believed prostitution is less tolerable here in Qatar.

However, the fact remains that prostitution is wide spread in certain places in Qatar and thrives, until something is said by somebody, and then the routine mass deportations take place.

It goes quiet for a while, and then the 'night girls' start building up in numbers again to the level they are now.

My last sentence, before the previous thread was deleted was something like this, 'mark my words, the ladies will vanish any day now. Over the few weeks after that, their numbers will slowly increase again, and the cycle repeats it's self'.

Obviously somebody is behind this (a pimp), as a sponsor for these girls.

 

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Cornellian said If someone is actually ...

If someone is actually behind this (which I believe so), it has to be someone in a high position, someone who has control over authorities...what other explanation is there for the lack of action by the authorities ?

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said Cornellian, somebody ...

Cornellian, somebody answered this on the previous thread just before it was deleted. I cannot recall the poster, but it was suggested that some body in authority, possible with some 'wasta' to throw around, was probably behind it. My apologies if I have not recalled what was said precisely, but I would go along with that theory anyway. There are just far too many girls, far too often, in so many places for it to be anything else.

Unless somebody knows differently ofcourse ................?

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said looks like we are on the ...

looks like we are on the same wave length here. I would guess that the authorities are 'bending' to a certain extent under the threat of this 'person's' wasta. The final breaking point is probably reached when the religious fraternity start to object/speak out.

 

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bajesus said prostitutes ...

Arrrggghhhh my country is going to the dogs!! Oh well you know what they say....if you cant beat'em join'em! JK :-P

 

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Cornellian said But if that "pimp" is ...

But if that "pimp" is powerful enough to keep the authorities quiet, then he must be powerful enough to keep the religious fraternity too.

I think no matter what anyone says or does, prostitution will always exist everywhere, because there will always be women who need the money and men who are ready to pay.

 

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novita77 said bajesus ...

who join who? did u acknowledge what china syndrome said? i meant as your point of view as a local?

 

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Cornellian said Don't feel bad bajesus, ...

Don't feel bad bajesus, prostitution has been the most acient business in the world, and it's everywhere...it's nothing to do with qatar...it's to do with mankind itself.

 

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bajesus said They should close Qube ...

And thats half your prostitutes gone!

 

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mir83 said Prostitution syndrome ...

Exactly that seems to be the only valid reason... So Oasis doesnt have any pros as far as I knw and they dont ostensibly act in a way so as to coerce the customers in a friendly mannner.... I have been to most of the clubs out here and the image here is like maintained ...Culture is the only thing out here...So my question is that what are the penal charges and how different are they for an asian and a western man running behind pros ? I have seen majority of the brits running arnd with these chinese females... I guess the syndrome is just like 'the Other side of the grass is always green'

The place is filled with pimps perhaps.... Dubai is also not too tolerant there are police vans always on the go in jeeps to monitor the place, So finally the same old question: Shud prostitution be legalised as in the west?

 

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Cornellian said Not really, they'll just ...

Not really, they'll just find somewhere else to prostitute.

 

bajesus's picture

bajesus said Oh Corne ...

My sweet corne....tell me something I DONT know! not only that I know plenty of "people" who pay for their services and guess what? only 1 is Qatari.

 

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Scarlett said prostitution legal in the west??? ...

not in America...but we sure do have prostitutes..but they are illegal and are regularly busted and thrown in jail..course quickly released as soon as their pimp posts bail for them. corne is correct..its the oldest job and will remain so as long as there is a market for it...which there always will be...

 

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mir83 said Lets see ...

Hey cornellian I have very less knowledge about all this out here.
WHy dont we guys meet up at the Oasis/Qube next weekend? Give us an orientation about the culture and the place....That wud be a gud idea perhaps? ONly then we will get a better picture of the place... Our knowledge is limited to extremism and all that the media world projects about the islamic world and its levels of tolerance....

Its just like they had banned all bikinis at the Diplomatic club and then at the DJ parties I find all the females esp the lebanese & indian origin wearing nthng precisely.... Its just turning out to be opposite.....

 

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Apple said I dont think some big fish behind... ...

I dont believe that there is big fish behind this trade. But AGENT? Yes! and some of them were thrown in jail and some are now sitting in their hometown.

It could be one reason why the authority put restrictions to issue tourist visa on single woman of certain nationalities. It was also in the papers(i read) that hotels & travel agencies were given warning and controls over issuing tourist visas. But of coarse they could not ban every single woman entering the state.

Its easy to get tourist visa, go to any travel agency or NO-star hotels, bring QR500/ with you and the persons passport copy, return back after 3-5 days and you'll get the visa for your friend. So imagine if you are an AGENT to this ladies, do you think you need big wasta in bringing them here? NO! but on the other hand, its sad to think that the authority became paranoid that even a single descent woman who came as tourist are considered as suspect in this business:(((

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said According to a poster on the ...

According to a poster on the deleted thread, apparently he/she observed 30+ prostitutes in the Oasis, so I guess they do have prostitutes there.

And your in dreamland if you think that 50% of the girls will be gone by closing the Cube. They will go else where, thats if the Cube caters for 50% of all prostitutes in Qatar, which I doubt it.

As was said already, prostitution will always be here (and every where else) in one form or the other, always has been, always will.

The question is then, what are the pros and cons of legalising prostitution here in Qatar? Would it be a good thing, or a bad thing?

 

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swissgirl39 said silly ...

Sex without love sucks and is silly.The only joy is the joy between to lovers hearts.
:-)

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spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*

 

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China Syndrome said Ok, granted, maybe you dont ...

Ok, granted, maybe you dont need to be a big cheese to get the girls here in the first place. But with all the high profiling of this business, seems everybody knows about it, somebody must be stopping the immediate deportations once they are here.

I guess somebody is in somebody else's pocket somewhere!!!

 

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rizorido said Suggestion ...

Hi there, I am not sure I understand what you guys are talking about !!
I have been here almost 3 years now and have not seen one...anywhere...

Yes I do not do clubs and hotels but I go everywhere else and have not seen pros anywhere...

Do you have any ideas where these gals are hiding during daytime? I am not a night man !!

If so PM me or gimme phone numbers that you might be keeping for a rainy day or a good friend !

As I said I do not like clubs and I will not....

Thanks and have a nice week-end...

Mine will depend on you !!!

Hehehe :-)

 

Apple's picture

Apple said Well... ...

If you bring cheap food products from somewhere, and you got loads of hungry customers in someplace. What do you think?

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said I suppose there are not a ...

I suppose there are not a lot of places for these girls to 'flaunt' themselves during the day time. Can you imagine them walking around Villagio taunting for business lol. A sure way direct to the airport .... do not pass go ....!! or the nearest police station.

Anyway, they are probably recovering from the night before and catching up on their beauty sleep. Also, I assume their customers are probably at work anyway.

Sorry rizorido, your going to have to become a 'night man' and get your self out and about during the dark hours if you are that desperate for a bit of 'companionship'. Unless there is a sleepless 'gal' on QL who is going to PM you for some overtime lol, or maybe a pimp might drop you a line!!!


 

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bajesus said China Syndrome ...

Although it might be true that there is an abundance of prostitutes here but still, don't you think you're still exaggerating a wee bit? I mean like you said "prostitution will always be here (and every where else) in one form or the other, always has been, always will" but please dont think for one minute that the authorities condone something like this or that they allow themselves to contend with this issue. Moreover, your claim that "some body in authority, possible with some 'wasta' to throw around, was probably behind it" is still based on mere speculation if nothing else so unless you have some solid proof to back up your claim dont go around putting flase ideas in people's heads and feeding into their fenzy by saying things like "legalising prostitution here in Qatar" and passing it as fact.

 

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swissgirl39 said prostitution is a dirty business ...

Most of the girls hate it but they have no other choice to do it.They are sold from the own family because the family is poor and the girls are the only thing to bring some money home.Guys,is it really funny to support it?So much crime is behind that business.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*

 

mir83's picture

mir83 said Sex & Love ...

People like sex only when there is love... Its true.. But how come when there is prostitution there are no AIDS cases reported in the News... I have seen only articles written about people from Dubai as having infected with AIDS..But there havent been any article on Locals being infected with AIDS.... I think we need as a group perhaps visit such places and find for ourselves wether there is prostitution or not or as the thread claims how true it could be?
Even I have seen very few filipinas or chinese females with expat males out here....

 

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Gypsy said From what I've read about ...

From what I've read about human trafficking most of these girls are brought in to be waitresses or domestic servants and when they arrive here they are pushed into prostitution. So my guess is it isn't one big pimp but several little ones, probably working under the guise of a legitimate business.

The most important thing to remember is that most of these girls are not out there doing this because they want to be, most of them are uneducated and have no other choices. Many are force ably addicted to drugs and abused.

And if you push them out of the bars they will operate from their homes.

I'm a firm believer in the legalization of prostitution, simply because I believe that it isn't going anywhere and by legalizing it we an edge in ensuring that the women (and men) are not victims of human trafficking, abuse and they have the proper medical treatment and protection.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

 

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swissgirl39 said mir83 ...

Not with arab males but with brithish,american and other westeners.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*

 

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CYman said Apple, I don't agree with you ...

I will repeat what I mentioned in the deleted thread.

I went to Oasis ground floor bar with some friends. There were more than 30 chinese girls practically blocking the entrance chatting to each other and. We had to force our way through. Within an hour or so these girls were all over the place keeping company to "gentlemen". Btw I am not a "gentleman" lol. In the next one hour their numbers started diminishing as they were leaving with the men they were at the tables.

If such a massive show of prostitution does not need a protection of a big fish, then what?

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

 

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Gypsy said Baj my guess is that the ...

Baj my guess is that the authorities in Qatar treat prostitution like the authorities in every other country. They only do something when the situation gets to extremes or theres complaints. This isn't because they are lax or bad cops, but because there is more important things to worry about then busting some poor girls who probably get smacked around by their pimp every night.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

 

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Apple said exactly! bajesus... ...

Again CSyndrome, I dont think you can find "pimp" here in QL or a "sleepless gal" to recommend Rizodiro!

Been in QL for quiet long time, but never encountered those, i'm always on the look at classified ads and nothing so far!:P

 

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novita77 said apple ...

'Been in QL for quiet long time, but never encountered those, i'm always on the look at classified ads and nothing so far!:P'

---> Thats because as soon as one came up always get reported straight away to Qatari. Off topic a bit, how about male members who advertise massage for female customers only?

 

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CYman said I agree with Gypsy, ...

prostitution should be legalised. It's the only way to keep some kind of control over these activities, like periodical medical check ups, hygiene, over-exploitation issues, drug using etc.

If anybody has the opinion that by closing down the places where they are hanging out, they will just disappear he/she is wrong.

As Scarlet said in the US prostitution is illegal and yet according to The National Task Force on Prostitution over one million people in the US have worked as prostitutes in the United States, or about 1% of American women.

This proves that even the wealthiest and stronger country on the planet could not stop the phenomenon.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

 

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bajesus said Gypsy your guess is as good as mine's ...

That's why I firmly believe that if people want to be taken seriously they should start backing up their claims with proof/facts.

 

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owen said darn..i missed the original ...

darn..i missed the original thread?!..anyone can give me the summary..a bit lazy here to read..:P


 

bajesus's picture

bajesus said Gypsy your guess is as good as mine's ...

That's why I firmly believe that if people want to be taken seriously they should start backing up their claims with proof/facts.

 

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China Syndrome said "somebody answered this on ...

"somebody answered this on the previous thread just before it was deleted. I cannot recall the poster, but it was suggested that some body in authority, possible with some 'wasta' to throw around, was probably behind it. My apologies if I have not recalled what was said precisely, but I would go along with that theory anyway. There are just far too many girls, far too often, in so many places for it to be anything else."

Sorry bajesus, you misunderstand. I was quoting another post made on the deleted thread, as you can see by my reference above. I did not state that it was fact, and hence can not therfore be accused of implanting false ideas, this is a discussion.

As for the authorities, I agree with you, I dont think they condone it, but as cornellian said, the authorities must obviously know about this problem, therefore, why the lack of action? Can you explain if they dont condone it, why not act?

I am Sorry if I upset you in any way bajesus, I did not mean to, everybody, including yourself, seem to be nice people here, so dont take it personally.
This (prostitution) is a problem every where, not just here in Qatar. Even many other countries are faced with the decision on whether to legalise prostitution or not, I believe it is a hot topic in the UK at the moment.


 

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Gypsy said It's easier for the cops to ...

It's easier for the cops to deal with it if it's out in the open where they can monitor the situation. I know here in Halifax they moved it off the streets and into brothels and the cops monitor those pretty heavily. If that's condoning it, so be it, but it's a lot safer for those women now.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

 

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Apple said Cyman ...

Those 30 chinese girls are just chatting w/ each other! they're not having S or walking naked in public? So, why they need protection?

Oh! come on, we dont have solid proof to accuse the authority of backing here.

 

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Gypsy said Complete guess on my part ...

Complete guess on my part but I would say the girls in the Oasis are brought in as waitresses or housekeepers for the Oasis. My guess is they all have domestic servant visas.

In Korea we had the Russian dancer visas for the prostitutes brought in.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

 

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Apple said Lack of action??? ...

Quote: (ChinaSyndrome)
"the authorities must obviously know about this problem, therefore, why the lack of action? Can you explain if they dont condone it, why not act?"

>How can you be sure that they're not taking any action on this?

That's a heavy accusations on the part of the authority, CS? better be careful and make sure you can back your claims;))

 

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CYman said Come on now Apple ...

I understand and appreciate that you have never been to such places and you don't know how things work. These women ARE prostitutes. Due to respect to the forum I don't want to get into details....

I am sure that almost all western bachelors and a lot of middle easterns and also asians who can afford know well about this place. How come the authorities are sleeping.

They are ready to break in someone's bedroom just to catch him with his girlfriend whom she is been with for years maybe and they don't see what is happening in the open before their eyes?

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

 

Apple's picture

Apple said Novita ...

LOL! at "male members who advertise massage for female customers only?"

That's another case:))

Those are FREE-pros & Trolls!!

How are you?

 

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bajesus said I guess this I guess that ...

Blah blah blah! Seriously, I think epople just like using the word wasta too much! lol.....Dont worry China Syndrome, I didnt take anything personally....Im just trying to be objective here. Sometimes, out of fairness, we have to look at things from a different perspective ;-) Afterall, isnt that what QL is about?

 

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bajesus said CYman ...

If you want us to be fully convinced of what you've witnessed at the oasis you better elaborate otherwise be prepared to be 'misinterpreted'( like being a racist) by other members because you werent careful with your words.

 

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bajesus said Oops ...

dp

 

China Syndrome's picture

China Syndrome said It maybe as gypsy said, they ...

It maybe as gypsy said, they probably have more important things to do.
So possibly they decide to deal with it in one big swoop now and then rather than a little bit every day.

 

Apple's picture

Apple said Cyman.... ...

Pardon my ignorance of those places, but believe me, the Authorities are having an eye on this. Why do you think there is difficulty in issuing visa for single woman nowadays?

But, pros or NOT pros, so long they dont act weird in public places like malls/corniche and there is NO any report or any complains from their sponsors, the police have no reason to catch them.


 

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bajesus said Exactly apple ...

Its when it becomes too egregious that more severe forms of punishment should be undertaken. Besides, prositutes are people and those who pay for their services are people so it could be anybody! and if you don't steer clear from the few places where YOU KNOW such activites are taking place then it's not really the authorities fault now is it?

 

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jauntie said I thought I had heard ...

that The Ramada (sports bar) used to be where the ladies of the night hung out, until the hotel 'cleaned up it's act' so to speak.

I'm not surprised at what CYman said at all! although I've not been to the Oasis a friend of ours, who has been here for a couple of years now, DID mention the Oasis in similar terms. He isn't the type to go there, but was something he mentioned when we asked about places to go and what the places were like.

I met a WASTA pimp once! (although I didn't then realise that was what he would be known as) But that was in Saudi and another story and a long time ago ... suffice to say I was with Saudi girls and thought I was going to an 'all girls' party! Ain't life interesting ;D


 

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China Syndrome said ........... OK, look at it ...

........... OK, look at it from this percpective, we have had reports of 30+ prostitutes in Oasis, lots of people are aware of this from the postings here. Lots of other people are aware of prostitution at other places, so we can assume it is widely known by now.

As cyman said, somebody tells tales of two people in a relationship, and they are 'raided'.

So where is the action here?

....... and it is not a 'heavy accusation', read again, I merely posed the question

"........... why the lack of action? Can you explain if they dont condone it, why not act?"

Whats heavy about that?

 

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jauntie said PS ...

The girls knew it wasn't going to be 'all girls', they duped me. I've dined out on the story for years! lol

 

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CYman said Bajesus ...

can you make yourself clear of what you mean that I was not careful with my words.

It's crystal clear guys and gals. More than 30 chinese girls, most of them wearing really sexy, slutty I would say outfits, were standing between the entrance and the bar looking for customers. The place was not crowded. As it started getting busy with just men (no even one couple was there) they started approaching them. Men also started approaching. Some time later almost everyone of these girls was on the tables or on the bar with a man. By the time we left about half of them left with their companions.

Now what else do you want to believe me. I haven't followed them further :)

Gypsy, I have no idea who brings them in. I am pretty sure that it's all organised. Everybody can make his/her guess as to who is behind this.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

 

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swissgirl39 said question to all guys here ...

What is the reasom to go to womans like this?If you know exactly bevore you another was with her and after you another one will be?What is it who makes men happy to do it and what let them enjoy it?
Maybe my question is funny or stupid but i really cant see it what it is.

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spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*

 

Apple's picture

Apple said Pros.... ...

Try reporting/complaining to authority of any private place that conduct prostitution, and see how they will react on this?

You cannot report a hotels or a bar like Oasis & Qube! coz its just the pick up points for these pros.

And that's should hotel or bars are...... for The Guests! Pros or NOT Pros if they're inside a bar or hotels, they are entitled to the same rights as a GUESTS.

 

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jauntie said Basically ...

If the men know the girls are there for the 'buying' then those places where it happens will continue and those of us who would rather NOT see all this just don't go there.

My concern would be that the girls may be trapped in this 'job' and THAT is the not good - that is too gross to think about - but I think this is the main question here.

 

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mufy said pros or not pros.. ...

real men always find good chicks...
if u have a big *&#/-a-t-/, you dont need a BMW to pull a chick
anyone knows that story..?

http://braveatheart.blogspot.com/http://braveatheart.blogspot.com/

 

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China Syndrome said Good question sg39, ...

Good question sg39, fortunately I am very happily married with kids and no desire to visit elsewhere for these services:-)

But a previous poster, rizorido, appears to be actively seeking these girls, maybe he can respond to your query?

 

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swissgirl39 said China Syndrome :-D ...

Glad to hear that from you.Wish you all the best with your family and may god bless you always and keep sadness and sorrows away from you.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*

 

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mir83 said Lets satisfy the claims ...

HI Cyman i guess lets go to the oasis once...I have never seen here or come across pros out here in the open... So lets schedule some sort of a QL meeting over there and chck the place out... If cyman and others wanna satisfy that there is genuine prostitution in this place..... How about next weekend?

 

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bajesus said And again CYman And China ...

I ask you this "if you don't steer clear from the few places where YOU KNOW such activites are taking place then it's not really the authorities fault now is it?". Like apple said, these girls or prostitutes have every right to be their as much the guests do and if the people who are paying for their services and enjoying it why are you complaining?....I thought you people were all for freedom of choice. Why do you continue to take issue if YOU CHOOSE to go to the very few places where these ladies are conducting their business?...and not even reporting to the authorties about it then insist that they're not doing much to "solve a problem" that I dont see existing! doesnt make sense at all!

 

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jauntie said ho hum ...

I made a long reply to swissgirl, but I'm on dial up here and the darn internet connection died as I was about to post it. *sigh*

Short version is I don't find the behaviour of men in this situation we speak of to be abnormal in any way.

Maybe I've been around the block too many times, but I consider it simply human nature and not just in men either! No time to type about sociological facts and fiction here ...

But I DO worry about whether the girls have an option ..

 

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bajesus said sorry If I appear to be angry ...

I'm just trying to prove a point here! ok I'll go back to my cave now....lol

 

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jauntie said mufy ...

hee hee you made me smile there. But I ain't sayin' why ;P

 

CYman's picture

CYman said Hi Swissgirl, ...

There are so many reasons people go with prostitutes. No wonder why it's been one of the most popular jobs since humans existence on earth.

First you find the sex starved people who even go with animals, never mind prostitutes.
Then you have those who are obsessed with buying, thus owning a woman, even for 1 or 2 hours, or even minutes.
Also you find men who find it difficult to make relations and this is the only way to be with a woman.

The most weird is to listen to men telling stories about their encounters with prostitutes and getting pride out of it. So I guess so many different reasons are there.

Mind you it is estimated that in the US 20% of prostitutes are male :)

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

 

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swissgirl39 said CYman ...

Wow!20% male?Didnt know that.But i know sex sells.Smile.It is a big buisness and a danger and dirty one.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*

 

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yv2r said Every one are talking about Prostitution, but how many have ...

Every one are talking about the Prostitution,Prostitutes,Pimps ,Watsa,how to hook some one, what wl happen if complained to police ..bla bla.

Only very few are thinking what made these people to come in to this profession.

If we just think for a second the amount of agony,presure,humiliation these unfortunate people undergoing,ofcourse they may be paid very little as major chunk might be going for people who protect them,

but if think the diferent taste of their customers asking these unfortunate to render the services for the money they have paid in many natural , unnatural ways, they have to carry differnet weights,tastes,perform what thier esteemed customers demand.

What ever they do ,its all just for the sake of money to support themselves,their loved ones.

Its very sad.

 

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CYman said bajesus ...

why do you get offended? I find this a very nice thread with people telling their opinions. We did not say that the authorities should lock the poor girls in jail. It's just the hypocrisy that irritates some of us. A young genuine unmarried couple gets reported and they end up behind bars. At the same time some pimps, I don't know who, are making big money out of the dirty business.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

 

Apple's picture

Apple said easy money! ...

There are so many ways to make money legally and support their family.

 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said Legalized prostitution U.S. ...

Under Nevada state law, any county with a population of fewer than 400,000 is allowed to license brothels if it so chooses (NRS 244.345).

In Rhode Island, the act of sex for money is not illegal, but street solicitation and operating a brothel are.

The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions.
Alfred Lord Tennyson (1809 - 1892)

 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said and if a woman does it for free... ...

or for pleasure she is a whore or a slut. It's an uphill battle all the way.

 

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bajesus said CYman ...

I was not offended at all but I apologize if I appeared that way. But see that's exactly the point....it's so easy to be misinterpreted and taken out of context that one should be careful with their choice of words and have sufficient evidence if they want to support claim....I do agree that this is a nice thread and I like the different opinions expressed here but I don't consider it to be a "sensible discussion" when people try to pass hearsay as the truth...like it or not to some extent that is what you appear to be doing (at least to me)...there might be a possibility that its organised prostitution and some "pimp" is behind it but there's also a possibility that its not....until then if I dont hear solid proof to back you and others up then Im going to continue to consider it as mere hearsay...and that is just 'my' opinion...nothing personal ;-) God I am exhausted!

 

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jauntie said CYman, dear ...

I think you will have to go and get yourself laid and pay for it to prove your point *G*

 

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sharfi said sexy workers ...

man u cant call them prostituion any more,..... they sexy workers now cuz its a fashion now young guys get paid by old mama's for one night stand ,so we cant call guys are prostittuion but we call both sex are sexy workers,check it out
Playa

 

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bajesus said Furthermore ...

As a Qatari I feel obligated to project as truthful an image of Qatar as possible. Bear in mind that QL is a source of information which provides insight for many members/non-members who have not visited or come to Qatar yet...be objective...that is why I stress the "be careful with words" part :-)

 

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jauntie said and as a Qatari ...

we are guests in your country and happy that you feel you wish to see how us ex-pats think, by joining this forum and wanting to know us.

however, we are here on this forum to express our thoughts and give opinions, not to be muzzled.

I don't think that was qatari's idea when he opened QL.

We DO have other qatari nationals in QL and they enjoy the banter and appreciate that we, as expatriates, are trying to help other expatriates in an expat world! :D

Peace

 

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Scorpio said bajesus 'truthful image of ...

bajesus 'truthful image of Qatar hey!! Do you really want to go there...LOL

 

mir83's picture

mir83 said Lure of sex-Money Money business ...

Bearing in mind all the gudelines and the fact that it wants to become a tourist attraction like Dubai, what my opinion is that Prostitutes exist everywhere on this earth, but each one has the choice & not the obligation to remain in the said profession for making money. But AIDS is quite rampant in the UAE. Will such a place(like Qatar) gradually denigrate its values and give a legal recognition to illegal professions like Prostitution and many will face the same sort of culture shock.. Only time will tell....

 

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China Syndrome said I know what you mean ...

I know what you mean bajesus, and I understand. However, a lot of people here have observed the prostitute scene, and their reports are truthful, I believe cyman also, (oasis) no reason not to. Unless you have positive proof to discredit their statements, you cannot class them as liars, just because you have not seen it for your self.

As QL is a source of information, as you say for many members and non members, we expect them to believe us on all other subjects i.e. visas, hospitals, schools, shopping etc etc, so why not this subject aswell.

It is only a discussion and they will draw their own conclusions from what is said all round from everybody. And I am sure they will have already decided, from what you have said, that Qatari's are also proud of their country, and rightly so, as much as the next person is of theirs.


 

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Jamesbond 007 said A question from all QL ...

What will be the first step for the reformation of that type of men and women?
How thier behavior will be changed from bad one into good one.?
I think if we provide them a better way from the bad one, then ,offcourse they will not involve thierselves in prostitution again.
And is reform only the responsibility of authorities, not us as well.?

 

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bajesus said Jauntie ...

I can only speak for myself and not other Qatari's on here. I think you misunderstood me. Anyway, I said what I had to say and I think China got my point so I accomplished something I suppose.

 

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KellysHeroes said Definition???????? ...

Am afraid this thread might not reach where it is supposed to.

Anyhow, there are some points that need to be clarified or highlighted:

1. What is the definition of pros? is it simply sex for money (without asking and without wasting time)? This issue would indirectly answer sg39 question about the desire for pros's

2. Remember that pros is the oldest profession in history.

3. Pros exist everywhere from the most conservative countries to the most liberal ones, also amongst all religions.

4. Would somebody answer me how would a poor bachelor (male or female) survive for one or two years if not more without love+sex or without sex at least.

5. If such a need for sex exists, should it be controlled (areas allowed, medical inspection) or just left to be practises by anyone anywhere?

I am not in a mood to write my thesis about these points over the weekend. Just staying lazy at home enjoying the A/C breeze :)

Guess we should think of a table about the count of "known" pros per club/area :)

 

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jauntie said hear! hear! china syndrome ...

I love living in Qatar and wish the Qataris well with their plans for the future.

and, bajesus, you asked about joining social groups when we go out (in the Social Group) I just wish more Nationals felt able to. I don't mean the occasions involving alcohol, just the coffee evenings or trips on a dhow etc. but I guess it isn't possible :(

 

mir83's picture

mir83 said Reforming ...

Education is the mother of all enlightenment. Education coupled with moderate religious reforms are to some extent helpful....

 

bajesus's picture

bajesus said Well Jauntie ...

Things are slowly changing for the better but Rome wasn't built in a day so we just have to wait and see.

 

Gypsy's picture

Gypsy said You're very very wrong there ...

You're very very wrong there Mir83, most prostitutes, especially the ones in Aisa, are not prostitutes by choice. They are victims of human trafficking and slavery.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

 

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jauntie said :o) bajesus ...

It would be a pleasure to chat with you outside these threads - I 'lose' the 'thread' quite often *S*

But, seriously, I love living in Qatar - same as I enjoyed Saudi and (to some extent! Iraq) all those years ago - mainly because of the people I met, both local and expat :D

 

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Scorpio said mir83 ...

A great number of prostitutes are forced into prostitution….oh and moderate religious reforms aint going to help put the dinner on the table every night mir!!

 

Gypsy's picture

Gypsy said Nobody is saying that Qatar ...

Nobody is saying that Qatar is a bad country because it has prostitution Baj. EVERY country in the world has prostitution. Which is why it should be legalized and controlled, not shoved under the rug.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

 

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