Your opinions needed - Women in Qatar.

b consious always u r in the world of two different sexes which really attract each other when they are in a very close interaction

Did it ever come across your mind, dear MD, to read carefully my post? I said : maybe she wanted to get laid...i assumed that she is looking just for the good F***, that's it... why not? and you know, nothing even wrong with that! but it depends HOW and WHEN you do it...if you could notice, I keep repeating: “… offer herself IN THAT ugly WAY” …Listen, it happens: you are in your 20s, I am in my 20s, we meet at some bar, we drink a lot, we LIKE EACH OTHER (it means I like you and I know you like me)...we wake up in the morning, we even don't remember each other's name. We say 'buy' and everyone goes his/her own way... But this is not the case...
1.The woman approach the man who is accompanied by other woman - wrong
2. She is a waitress and she is at work, and she is there to serve the clients, not to harass them - double wrong
3. She even has no idea whether the guy liked her or not - no any pride whatsoever

So …either she desperately wants to get laid, or she is a prostitute. And whatever the reason is, it's not acceptable to harass the clients... Forget about woman’s pride. It is just against the rules in any service business. Can you imagine if for example entire hotel staff or "Four Seasons" will send their clients such messages? Do you still consider it as “nothing wrong with that”?

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Here I have to correct you, QS. A man in company of a woman is far more attractive to another woman than a "loner". I always used this tactic when I wanted to stir up a new one. Called a "worn out" girl friend to make me look "hotter". It works like this.

adnan, I didn't "mean" it. Don't worry.

qatarisun, i clearly got the picture...my point is, regardless she is a prostitute or not, she is still a human being...living her own life the way she wahts it...the " 2 thumbs up go to her bravery...as i said, she is brave and confident enough to pursue what she
wants...

am not tyring to glorify her motives behind, just her guts to do it...

if a woman gives her card, she is a prostitute (?)....
in case of a man giving his card, how will u call him, qatarisun????

"never allow somebody to be ur priority when u r just his/her option"

She must be liking him and told him that.

We are talking about the same thing, QS. And, of course, I like teasing you. But, think again. A woman in her working environment (where she probably is 7 days a week). What other chances has she got to initiate a social relation? In the malls, maybe on Fridays? When bachelors are not allowed? I think she did the right thing. There she had the greatest chance to succeed. I would call her "clever".

then I am hopelessly stupid...coz i will never understand what makes woman to make such an embarrassing move..

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then I am hopelessly stupid, too...coz i will never understand what makes man make such an embarrassing move..

Ok, I'm understanding that you people have misunderstood something.

The waitress was given the business card of the blond chic that was sitting on the table beside us. She was just the messenger.

by giving resturants name and waitresses discription, you have essentially got her fired.

Should not have mentioned resturants name.

BullDog: I described the lady that gave her card - and yes it happened at Oishi Sushi :D

I love the food.

You might wanna write your post carefully, poor waitress was called many names here.

OMG! that was funny! all this time we've been talking about the wrong girl. Haha! Poor Waitress! :-(

May she forgive us.

cheers,
paul

Not to sidetrack the subject, but you mentioned that you love the food at Oishi Sushi? me too! but I wonder would you still love it if the restaurant didn't belong to your sister? hmmmm....something smells very 'fishy'! ;D

hi speed, i think i already explained that "thums up" thing...just read carefully about my first post...thumbs up for pursuing what she wants...thumbs up to have the guts to do it...thumbs up for taking her chances...

got it, speed...

by the way, i dont glorify nor condemn prostitution...
who am i to judge them????

"never allow somebody to be ur priority when u r just his/her option"

You can't teach experience...

you know folks, I have heard the following statement in many forums to the effect of "people don't behave this way and that way here in Qatar" or some other country". But let me tell you that you are all wrong. What ever behaviors I see in my country I see in your country. Including selling sex, murder, inappropriate behavior from citizens. For example there was a forum about two weeks ago about a bunch of young boys who harassed a woman while she was driving through a particular area, some one made the comment that this behavior is not indicative of youth for qatar and now your saying that the sex trade doesn't exist there amongst people of qatar and it is only asian women or white western women who do it. Well if you check out some of the online articles, qatar is thriving off the sex trade whether it be girls forced into it or if they are asian or local born women. Matter of fact I read that qatar is number 3 or 4 country in the world with the highest rate in the sex trade. One of the reason why you may not see local women there as much is because they are more private about it or they go to saudi to do it. Anyway get over this thing that these things don't happen in your country cause they do.

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.

kennyqueen: You are very right with what you are saying, but if you read my question - I would like to know what men think of girls that do that? And Girls how they perceive such a behavior from other girls?

How the topic/thread has gone with the comments from the members - thats another thing. Each member states his or her opinion and that is fine. It isn't a personal issue to any of us.

I don't want to offend anyone with my replies, so please all be cool about it. Personal attacks on anyone isn't cool either, so if your comment is rude or mean; buzz of - right?

Yes it is normal for a girl to be attracted to a guy she likes, but it is approaching the situation without considering other peoples reactions is wrong. Yes who are we for her to care about our feelings of such behavior, but still - it is ones self respect. There is always the right time and the right place to do things.

I wish you all a wonderful and happy day today.

If you have nothing to do today, please feel free to go down to Losail International Circuit to watch and support the local and foreign riders race Round#5 of the Qatar International Road Racing Championship.

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I actually would. I've been a loyal eater at many restaurants that I still go to, and I don't just appreciate the food at places, but the atmosphere and ambiance of the places.

Oishi Sushi, and no I'm not advertising on her behalf because I don't think I need to, - is easy going and a fun place to eat at. The Japanese Chef has changed a lot of things on the menu and it is improving. When the place opened, I hated the food - with time, the taste got better.

Personal Opinion.

I could recommend places if you want. :D

MagicDragon - "...A man in company of a woman is far more attractive to another woman than a "loner".

Hell, no. At least, generally, not the decent ones, not desperate, who are professional / educated and not after your money. (I said "generally", ok?) Those who feel the need to compete, are not confident in themselves.

Btw, a man in the company of another woman is, on the face of it, unavailable (whether attached, engaged or married), so no point wasting time even looking. The most will be friend only, even great friends but nothing more.
/Yeah, deep sh*t if more women think like me. You hope not.

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MD - "A woman with a nice little pet dog is also easier to talk to. Ain't she?"

Y'mean like Paris Hilton? Sure... not even in your dreams.
/But well, what do I know about mega rich socialites.

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Finally read this - hey, PITSTOP you misled everyone (unintentionally, of course I'm sure).

"The waitress was given the business card of the blond chic that was sitting on the table beside us. She was just the messenger." - Aiyah!

So your original question - "I would like to know what men think of girls that do that? And Girls how they perceive such a behavior from other girls?"

Now that the frame of reference is straightened out (sorry, had no time to read through all the posts earlier) - as long as not working there, good. Bad taste to approach a man like that esp. since biz mtg but I guess, she realized that her window of opportunity was tiny and might as well grab it while the grabbing's good.

/Don't ask grab what..

//I wouldn't be as bold as she was - but that's just me. I'm shy... ok, I'm a coward.

///Pls ignore all that I've said above. Perception of the situation was different.

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the big deal editor is that pitstop is more than likely not as good looking as this other woman and maybe felt a little threat. Maybe she had a thing or two for this man herself. You know how "catty" women can be. I see it all the time.

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.

Chill peopl. Y is it such a big deal? Pitstop, i kno how embarassed u must've felt. But lemme ask u something, wud u hav had the same reaction if some guy had hit on u?
Different people have different ways of doing it, but i'm sure all of us hav /-a-t-/ some time or the other heard some really cheesy pick up lines. & looking bak /-a-t-/ it now, i'm sure its a good laugh too.
Not saying what happened was right, but just saying try to c the lighter side of things.

What a disgusting way to talk about women...
'worn out'....and drag them out to make you look hot....

gezzzzzzzzzzz zero respect. :(
i will say no more about what would make you look hotter!

for her , i see that she is a very cheap girl

and for you i advice if u gave her a 5 QR and told her to go play outside

Now my initial comment seems blurry all the sudden...

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

My objection please..."pitstop is more than likely not as good looking"

How did this thread suddenly turn to insults about pitstop, she was just asking for opinions and i dont recall her insulting anyone.

where is that place i want to go there tomorrow night to see who she picks up from our QL gang. 2 are gone and i want them all to be gone.

She was a woman that wanted to meet a guy.

Who cares?

It's not a Qatar exclusive thing. It's not a foreign women thing.

She was a woman that liked the guy and wanted to get to know him.

I'm not really suprised by some of the small minded thinking...

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U have something against russians? or u simply have prejudices for the slavic women???