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One of my good friends, DK and his wife, used to be a happily married couple as they usually felt the need to start a quarrel at the same time. They would never go to bed mad…stay up and fight till all the thirteen years’ allegations and wrong doings against each other had been recalled to decide who would say ‘sorry’ first. Overall it was a pretty successful marriage till DK landed a job in Qatar and got hooked to a social web portal called Qatar Living in the evenings. His wife described his new found passion as a habitual repetition of a compulsive and obsessive behavior, unable or unwilling to stop, despite its harmful effects. But DK maintained QL was a stimulant to his central nervous system, which increased alertness and alleviated his fatigue caused by his work, though admitted, at times, he suffered from mild headaches and increased heart-rates as to what thread he was posting on. His wife would often notice in him withdrawal symptoms during weekly grocery purchases and the times when deprived of the pleasures of posting.

Things got serious when she started noticing an alarming change in DK…that he no more had the urge to start up quarrels in the evenings. On the other hand, like earlier times, his wife often felt bored watching Indian soaps and looked forward talking on current controversial issues. Earlier, the chat would often turn personal and eventually they could only satiate themselves arguing on who was right and who wasn’t. But now, things got pretty upsetting for her as any provocation was being responded to with a smile or ‘Yes Hun!’, ‘Will do Hun!’, ‘You are right Hun!’, ‘Not a problem Hun!’… and the conversation would be nipped before a meaningful fight could begin. It was then she felt ignored and decided to fight for her fighting rights. QL was thought of as another lady in DK’s life who was to be done away with.

Such a serious allegation was more than DK could bear so stopped logging in at QL while she was happy she finally got back her man to quarrel with.

What good are tact and versatility to a man when they only unsettle his marital bliss?


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Molten Metal's picture

Molten Metal said they say ...

A woman marries a man thinking he would change but they - women - are mistaken !

Welcome back , KR !!

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FathimaH said DK's wife ...

seems to have a lot in common with Fathima's husband. Not to mention her daughter,mother, sister etc.
No one can accept that when it comes to QL, I can multi task.They think I spend way too much time here, and neglecting them,though I am even able to repeat exactly what they said to prove to them I really was listening!
My sister many times threatens that she'll never come over to my place if I continue QLing when she's around.
And my lil brat is the worst. The other day she was slyly suggesting to her dad that he ought to ground me from using QL! And mind you she is quite familiar with all our regular QLers usernames and often speaks about you all like as though you are family, but she just detests the time I spend online!
What is it about QL that causes so much marital family discord,eh?

"And the slaves of the Most Beneficent (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and sedateness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness"(Surah Al Furqan:63)

 

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Knight Returns said Fathima, Its because of some ...

Fathima, Its because of some good evening qlers like you, that I like posting here and look forward to comments..

Whenever she becomes too suspicious and wants to see what exactly I do here, I show her some of my OPs in the funnies to let her know she's always on my mind..:)

 

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FathimaH said Great idea,KR ...

Believe it or not, my hubby and I had a similar tiff just awhile back, but I was able to calm it down by showing him this post..at least now he knows I'm not the only one!

"And the slaves of the Most Beneficent (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and sedateness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness"(Surah Al Furqan:63)

 

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asterix--- said Thank God! I am Single, other ...

Thank God! I am Single, other wise My Wife would have either Thrown my Tablet away or Kick my Arse..... ;)

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damselindistress said could be the same argument ...

could be the same argument with my boss......, if he finds out!(and I am sure I am not alone with this one ;) lol, am just kidding.

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FlyingJD said Nice read.:) QL is for ...

Nice read.:) QL is for working hours only :)

 

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ramil26 said my secret, i dont do QL at ...

my secret, i dont do QL at home, i just peak on weekends, and i just comment on those threads worth commenting.. most of the time i am on reading mode.

 

getaway's picture

getaway said now this is very gay my ...

now this is very gay my friend !

 

drsam's picture

drsam said seems problematic to log in ...

seems problematic to log in to QL when at home? easy: do like i do: just open QL when ur at work :)

 

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Molten Metal said drsam ...

That is much bigger problem, you will be getting paid for the time you secretly did not work ? What that amounts to be ???

Not to mention the company equipment & utilities misuse ?

And carelessly promoting it on a public forum ?

Where is the trust your sponser has put into you ?

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Molten Metal said remind you self ...

drsam said beat his expectations and ...

beat his expectations and market/coworkers' average. as simple as that.

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Molten Metal said I am reminding myself ...

Molten Metal said Report ...

About colleagues who use QL site in duty hours on company's work stations and misuse time / equipment

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drsam said what makes u think my sponsor ...

what makes u think my sponsor doesn't know or doesn't agree?
when and where did i promote it carelessly on a public forum?
he who knows where i work, or my phone number, or my clinic prices/services please step forward.
i never answered any question/answer looking for a dentist. only gave general guidelines to help, never promoting.

ur injust Molten Metal

 

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Molten Metal said drsam ...

I am afraid tomorrow people who work at the control towers of the air ports may try to emulate you & you understand the consequences of that.

My request to all ... if you do any thing which is not ideal just do not high light at any common place & keep it to your self.

Please forgive me if I was a bit hard with my words.

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Molten Metal said drsam : someone admits sleeping on job - at QL ? ...

denzilwashing said Im so sorry , my eyes were ...

Im so sorry , my eyes were closing here at work , and i was really sleepy , so i thought writing something would make me wake up , appologize.

Sun, 27/05/2012 - 2:26pm
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Molten Metal said drsam : 2nd case for you study ! & there are many ? ...

damselindistress said could be the same argument ...

could be the same argument with my boss......, if he finds out!(and I am sure I am not alone with this one ;) lol, am just kidding.

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Sat, 26/05/2012 - 10:53pm
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drsam said molten metal answer my ...

molten metal
answer my question if u dare
-where did i promote my business on QL?

as of your concern about QLing when at work, it's none of ur business.

 

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drsam said dble post ...

dble post

 

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drsam said triple post :( ...

triple post :(

 

Molten Metal's picture

Molten Metal said drsam ...

What I said was promoting ' use of QL on duty ' not your profession or work .

I never said anything regarding your job or business.

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MarcoNandoz-01 said Join our " Pray Ql AWAY!" ...

Join our " Pray Ql AWAY!" Spritual Rehab centre.

No, Not Everyone Has A Moral Right To Feel Offended By Just Any Satire or Criticism...

WATCH " The dancing boys" This short documentary will blow your mind http://www.youtube.c...

 

stealth's picture

stealth said QLers Anonymous anyone? ...

QLers Anonymous anyone?

 

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drsam said doesn't look like that. edit ...

doesn't look like that. edit it and clarify it.

 

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