can Qatari girls allow marry indian????

so Qatari female Qler answer you that why they dont marry you.

Im going to be honest and blunt. I think its because most qatari woman dont find indian men very attractive. Im just telling you what I think, Im a Qatari man and to be honest I dont care where your from it depends if I like you enough.

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सोनम दि नेपाली बाबु

Qatari ladies, were never been allowed to marry any foriegner even to any arabs, so why wonder? Qatari Ladies are born to marry Gulf men only. but i know one, The father of the lady is half Indian, and the father, arranged a marriage to her for an Indian Groom but i am not sure if the Indian is allowed by the government to stay here or even live here...the lady is Qatari, her grandmother was an Indian.
But many Qatari men are married to an Indian ladies...i know alot.
 

"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches  you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."

being a God fearing down to earth person...not being proud just wana share that i have been close to a few ...

Its just that i was not a Qatari or a muslim which they only found out after i told them ...or else i would have been married to one by now...

1 thing to appreciate Qatari women know how to respect their Men...

All other women too know it...but seen a lot in Women here compared to their guys...

cjnuzri: its good lesson to know more about Qatari women but its true that Qatari woment not allowed to Marry other foreigner i guess i am ryt?

This is very much typical in cast-based or religion based close knit societies, like Indians or Qataries or say Muslims. Girls are never actually 'allowed' to marry outside their cast or religion. But the girls from other cast (Preferably Higher) or religion are happily allowed in.
Sad but true fact. Westerners may find it difficuilt to grasp as they are pretty much free societies.

I don't think it is the question of findindg someone attractive or otherwise. The real thing for the girl is fighting the tough battle to break the rigid religious or cast bonds.

Well, just for my knowkedge, do Qatari women are allowed to marry westerners? or are there any examples of this kind?

Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored.... Boredom is a choice. - Wayne W.

adeel Qatari women are very attractive, i know a few myself but Not being Qatari it was a no go for me.

Why Not!

You said - "This is very much typical in cast-based or religion based close knit societies, like Indians or Qataries or say Muslims. Girls are never actually 'allowed' to marry outside their cast or religion. But the girls from other cast (Preferably Higher) or religion are happily allowed in."

A small correction - The girls from other castes are not allowed either.It works both ways and the key factor is 'marriage'. Having an affair or even having children is acceptable - not religiously but atleast socially if managed well. Marriage outside the caste and even class is a big issue.

Qataris are equally conservative that way. But here I think it's the 'class' or the perceived social status that counts more than anything else. Sometimes I feel - If you can afford a ferrari you can marry whoever/whenever/wherever...lol:)
Life is Beautiful...Indeed!

Barkas girls are not Qatari's, they are from Yemen Origin
these marriages took place in 80s and early 90s.

How are you?

Well said. Strange fact is, We, as a society, don't want our girls to go out, similarly we even don't want our boys to go out and get convert.

In such complex conditions, I think, my family is a big big exception, a real secular one. My two nephews are married to a Christian and a Muslim girl respectively. And one of my sister is married in a Muslim family.

So, for me it is like getting the best of the both worlds...Delicious Rum cake and Shirkhurma too...LOL

Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored.... Boredom is a choice. - Wayne W.

i am 100% agrry with you .

SHAHEE

can i ask why u are so curious about this issue...
if INDIAN man can marry a QATARI woman? :)

the matter of fact that Qatari's standard of living is too high too aford by average Indians mainly due to their lavish customs, traditions and cultural rituals.

The Shriaa law doesn't forbid anybody to legally marry a Qatari but just to protect their own caste, tradition, culture and heritage. The seniors in the community doesn't permit their males/females to tie-knots outside the frame.

It is similar in India; one has to go through the firewalls to have inter-caste marriages. Must have heard of many cases of burning girls (honor) for marrying outside the caste.

The story is different for expatriates in Qatar, in case of people serving here for generations; will not get full rights. From here the Qatar tolerance starts...you are a foreigner here and will remain an Alien always

Open up your eyes and accept the matter of facts.
Be happy to be here as guest and always remain as good guest; Don't try to become a family member.

Mariam, I had a friend, a revert from jamaica who was here recently and he was looking to get another wife so he was exploring several avenues as to how he can find a wife here. This was one of the issues put to him, that there was a law that permitted foreign men to marry older Qatari women ('anoosa).That was how i found out about it.However things are different for him an American compared to lets say Tenguvalapil from kerala (no offence i have nothing against indians).Like I said most indians here are either drivers , tea boys or construction workers or are in Jobs where they don't earn much, so how on earth will they be able to sustain the lifestyle of a Qatari women whose 1 abaya and housemaid and driver may be costing Tengu's monthly salary. I remember when i first came here and was applying for work in IT I was told, we are very impressed with your CV you are British, British educated with lots of experience but our head of dept from India earns so much(very little) and if we employ you we cannot afford to pay you, besides we cannot pay you more than our head of Dept if you will be under him.Sorry.

So no offence but I cannot afford to marry a Qatari at the moment so it would be difficult for Tenguvalapil to be able to afford it. it is a matter of culture and a matter of changing people's habits. Most qatari women i know do not know how to fry and egg, never picked up a spoon in their lives, had every thing done for them. How would Tengu ( he has become famous now) be able to cope with that.Besides, marriage to a qatari does not give residence so this indian would still have to be at the mercy of someone else who would sponsor him.The least problem with his wife and he is on the next plane to Kerala with no access back to Qatar ever in his life.

Culture, language, traditions, food habits, marriage rituals etc are a very important part of one's life.. I can never imagine getting married to someone whose culture is so vastly different from mine...Since I am from Pakistan, I can only imagine getting married to a fellow Pakistani or some North Indian who speaks my language who has the same traditions. Same goes for Qatari women. They are allowed to marry only Qataris or other GCC nationals.

I think it is difficult, but not impossible. After all, a Qatari lady can travel with her Indian man to India (or elsewhere), get married there, and live happily ever after. now, finding one that would actually want to do something like that is another story altogether.

Whoah, Aisha, haven't seen you around for so long...

I know someone else who will be happy to know you're back, too! Nice to have you around.

I guess it has to do with culture and acceptability of the family.

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HE WHO DARES WINS

Is there anything like 'colour - no bar'? The tune of this forum is that the Qatari girls cann't marry Indians but they can happily marry 'Whites'.

Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored.... Boredom is a choice. - Wayne W.

No It's not the color that stoppes Qatari women from marrying Indian men. I mean, there are Qataris of color too my dear.

Dua: Amen :-)

" I am hopeful that with global education and islamic teachings things will change and improve in near future.
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I hope so.

Dua: Amen :-)

Thejam said "I am sure if she was to marry a British, American or aussie there would not be much of a problem. I can't see them locking up a British or American here over the issue of marrying a local girl".

Well, I know coloured Qataris too....lol.

I think he should be reading your reply too.

Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored.... Boredom is a choice. - Wayne W.

UkEngQatar ...be very careful of the "Thakur" clan...in North India

Read Uttar Pradesh / BiharProvince....mostly the rich Thakurs, who have huge estates.....most usually have a gun....

They are the ones who are capable of killing their even own daughters if they elope with someone other than their cast!

not 'Some', it should be 'Many'. If it is the arranged marriage then yes, it is normally within the caste limits. If it is the love marriage then as you know 'love sees no boundries'.

Castism is truly a disease, and the education is the only solution imho. when are we going to get rid of it, God only knows. But I think it is going to continue for some more period as is the case with Racism.

Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored.... Boredom is a choice. - Wayne W.

If the guy is handsome...has nice job....good own big house....then the "arranged marriage" is not forced.

If the guy is ....rich & handsome but a known womaniser....or a known drunkard.....then it becomes "forced".

The marriage against his or her will is a forced marriage. Usually it is the girl who doesn't have any right or opinion in such a situation. Sometimes, when the girl or boy has fallen in love with the boy or girl of other cast or religion, then the parents try to separate them. And force them to marry to one from the same cast. Usualy this kind of marriages are made for the honor or something like pride of the family. In this type of marriage at least one member has to live in the unhappy relationships throughout the life.

Arranged marriage is normally made with the consent of both parties. Mine is an arranged marriage too. There are matchmakers who are ready with the database of eligibles. Then, there are friends and relatives too, who can suggest a suitable match for you. The boy and girl meet each other in presence of their families. And then they can meet several times to reach the final decision. They are both free to take their own decision.
This is the most prefered form of marriage in India. God forbid, if anything goes wrong after marriage, at least they don't lose the strong emotional support of their families. And this one is surely the plus point if they have kids. I personally don't see any problem in this type of marriage as the percentage of successful marriage is the same in both Love or arranged types. In India, it is the marriage of two families rather.

But there can be a hidden agenda in arranged marriages and that is the issue of Dowry. Usually the Girl's parents have to pay it, sometimes going beyond their capacities. This is really a pathetic tradition in some casts.

Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored.... Boredom is a choice. - Wayne W.

Thanks for the detail explanation..Good information,

Coming from the west never could digest the thought of an arranged marriage.. But as you said it does work for a lot of people.

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HE WHO DARES WINS

shreeya ...lol you did well...too

...it can get more complicated than I explained.

VB the thread should be reworded Why would a Qatari Girl ever want to marry an Indian?

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HE WHO DARES WINS

And do you think it will be good for her to do that..leave a life of luxury for a simple life?

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HE WHO DARES WINS

Yes with with the law of the Gulf Countries, I would dare even to think.. You remember the Saudi Princess who was executed in Public in the mid 80's for such crime..

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HE WHO DARES WINS

i think your friend didn t married with his girl friend because he s not a muslim guy and u said never give up your life to one girl????
exsuse me but what do mean exactelly ??do u egg him on to have 100 girls friend or what????

I'm of a certain age, where it was socially the norm to grade people by sex, age, religion, race, ethnicity, nationality etc.

Now things are different. International Law protects the human rights of everyone, though enforcement of this is patchy. However it's about time that people of enough intelligence to operate a keyboard would stop trying to justify medieaval, even primitive, attitudes. We are all trying to do our best, judge people by their actions, not their race, etc.

The Egyptian man are allowed to married to filipina women???

Born2win I really LIked your TERM "LESS MAINTENANCE AMERICAN GIRLS"

As in Quran Allah says "You can marry a women 1 or 2 or 3 or 4".."but select ur women in the right way."

Mohammed (pbuh) said select your women for marrying wisely..the most wise man is who , tat got a girl with VIRTUE.

There are 4 reasons to marry n women...the best women is that , in which having VIRTUE.

Allah said in Quran "Today we had completed the Quran 4 u, n remember me, and No Arab is superion that non Arab & a Non Arab is superior than Arab"

so there is no CASTISM in Islam... :)

[mod note: please don't make unjustified personal attacks, and please don't post false information]

Diamond, you say that you have seen many marriages to people outside of Qatar, im assuming the outsiders were all muslim though?

this thread still alive.

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First of all a topic came up in class yesterday about one of the benefits of marriage is sharing money.
the girls fell around laughing...who would share your money with their husband?
you spend HIS money ....... so you must have the cash these ladies are high maintence.....

Second...have you seen some of these Khaleeji boys?
they are gorgeous.....and Dora beat me to it but they are well groomed and smell lovely.

Third - many indian families pay dowry to the man... here it is the other way round....another thing that will get girls laughing - paying to marry a man!!! perish the thought

"why Arab Girls NOt getting marry indian man?"

your grammar makes me want to cry.

who assigned you the thread policeman? besides, the topic is pretty much covered. they can if they want to, most families will disown them and if the man isn't muslim her religion says she'll go to hell...now get off my case.