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First lonely birthday ... :(

Sincerelyurs's picture

This is my life's first lonely birthday as my seperation case just about to start in Embassy.. So husband not on talking terms so I don't know what to do? :(


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supernova2016 said Happy BirthDay ...

Happy BirthDay

 

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Birdee said Happy birthday to u dear, may ...

Happy birthday to u dear, may the coming years of life bring joy n peace for u. may happiness accompany u today, tomorrow and always and may trouble be a stranger to u...focus on the positive aspect and leave the rest upon God. have a good day.

 

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coxtown_rajan said Dont get in to emotional ...

Dont get in to emotional feelings, stay with close friends and share your feelings, you'll find relief.
sure you can win back those good old days lonely also.
..........Many happy returns of the day......

Life is similar to Boxing game.........
Defeat is NOT declared when you fall down.....
It is declared only when you refuse to GET UP .....

 

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JhonsonMustafa said Don't worry. Surrender to ...

Don't worry. Surrender to Almighty and seek Help from HIM.
Its is already warning from GOD the closest enemies are your closest relatives.

"Oh Lord. I am left Alone. Please guide me through rest of my life and make my livelihood more easier and bless me with new companion who is afraid of you."

Now Pray Lord with following Prayers...

"Oh Lord secure me. Save me from evil of man. You are the Lord of Mankind and king of Man kind"

Don't worry. Be happy. Evil always brings you worry about tomorrow. Since you are afraid of tomorrow as what will happen "KEEP ONE DAY FASTING FROM SUN DAWN TO SUN SET AND DON'T TALK TO ANY ONE AND TALK TO GOD THROUGH INNER VOICE"

Then Tomorrow will be new day for and new way will be created.

Drive away the Evil who brings worry and get hold of Belief and Faith of GOD who created you from nowhere.
And do not think of your husband who is merely a man and FORGIVE him. FORGIVING IS GOD'S PROPERTY and dwell in GOD's Property and GOD will be satisfied and New LIFE will be created for you since HE is the CREATOR. Believe in HIS CREATION and HE will create NEW LIFE for You.

All the Best. GOD is with You.

 

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Speedysid said Happy Birthday ...

Do the right things with the right intentions, and you'll never go wrong! :)

 

Tien Shan's picture

Tien Shan said come join me we can make a ...

come join me we can make a fun birthday girl,let me know if you wish

 

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FlyingAce said Happy Birthday... ...

Happy Birthday...

 

seasons's picture

seasons said Wish you a happy birthday.. ...

Wish you a happy birthday..

 

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dezertryder said be with your parents.. wishes ...

be with your parents..
wishes to have next bday with your hubby

 

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Molten Metal said my sister ...

Have courage, pray hard.

Try to get the support of parents & any willing relatives,Accept the circumstances in realty.

Be hopeful, wish you not only one [ birth ] day but full life filled with joys .. may all your dreams come true !!

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ghazalz's picture

ghazalz said If the matter is not so ...

If the matter is not so serious, call your husband and start a new beginning...








Sign

 

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Drovers dog said Suck it in and move on ...

You dont need people in your life to make you happy, suck it in,, your better off,, you can do as you want and no having to report to your husband all the time,, go for it girl, suck it in girl

......................................................again its Not my fault i was born from the lucky country downunder,

 

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britexpat said Ignore the bugger. Go out and ...

Ignore the bugger. Go out and have a great time. Happy Birthday.

 

FlyingAce's picture

FlyingAce said Agree with brit..... Life is ...

Agree with brit..... Life is too short, Enjoy every second of it!

 

Ruby23's picture

Ruby23 said many many many happy returns ...

many many many happy returns of the day :)

 

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Rizks said Me too agree with britey, go ...

Me too agree with britey, go out and have a blast of time...how about having a chilled karak chai at my emporium ? :)

Happy Burpday to you, may you live happily till the END.

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IlikeQL's picture

IlikeQL said Husband comes much later in ...

Husband comes much later in life than parents, brother, sister and friends.
Spend time with them. Forget the man, he is not worth remembering.
Happy Birth day and God bless you with all happiness

 

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Colt45 said Umm ...

Tell me where you wanna meet and I will show you a good time around town... if you have the money honey, I have the time ;-)

Oh! Happy Birthday btw... don't look at it as getting older, look at it as getting closer to God :-P

 

TailChopper's picture

TailChopper said send me your number, i ll ...

send me your number, i ll send you the jokes

 

ayubatif's picture

ayubatif said I don't know ...

Just sit alone and think about the moments you spent with your husband, recall his character. If your issue conflicts with that, then there must be something wrong or a misunderstanding. There are always possibilities for that since we bow down in front of our ego and neglect the importance of relations and the consequences of our decision of separation. BE WISE SISTER, HOLD ON AND THINK ABOUT IT A MILLION TIMES. YOU WILL CERTAINLY COME UP WITH A SOLUTION.

 

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tinkerbell10 said TC u ol bat! Just use the PM ...

TC u ol bat! Just use the PM facilty - why number?? :) Howdy mate..:)

And happy birthday Sincerlyurs...:)

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TailChopper's picture

TailChopper said Tinker babe, am good, there ...

Tinker babe, am good, there is no privacy in QL :(

 

Colt45's picture

Colt45 said TC ...

a thousand jokers are out of a job and you're trying to be one today? :-(

Wassup bud? ;-)

 

TailChopper's picture

TailChopper said hahha, Am good mate, i know ...

hahha, Am good mate, i know my jokes arent funny anymore, but no harm in trying
am good, what ar you up to ?:)

 

Colt45's picture

Colt45 said Oh.. not much ...

just getting through now days with a li'l time pass on QL ;-)

 

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Shaktimaan said First ...

First lonely wishes :-(. Hope we can compromise.

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mozaismyhero said Time to move on, this may be ...

Time to move on, this may be hard but it will pass eventually and who knows something much better might be around the corner.

 

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Formatted Soul said nowreasontosmile? Happy ...

nowreasontosmile? Happy Birthday yoursonly...:)

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Pappu_Pager said first ...

of all happy birthday :)
now please concentrate on the corners....lols

 

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Rizks said are you thelucyshow ? ...

are you thelucyshow ?

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tinkerbell10 said Yo TC...yeah yeah....been ...

Yo TC...yeah yeah....been there done that...LOL

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TailChopper's picture

TailChopper said hahahah Tinker, you got me! ...

hahahah Tinker, you got me!

 

painther's picture

painther said why don't you invite these ...

why don't you invite these lovely hearted QLers, barring me, on ur b'day? it'll never remain a silent affair :)

 

zaxabi's picture

zaxabi said yess ...

we will plan for a B'thday party....a great one

 

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gibrans_world said Do some soul searching. ...

Did you look for solace and happiness outside the marriage while still married as you now do??

I think this is the time for you to sit down and look inwardly and see what your faults and shortcomming were that lead to the end of your marriage.

Do some soul searching.

 

ingeniero's picture

ingeniero said Happy Birthday! ...

Happy Birthday!


 

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Talhaamir said Happy Birthday.. ...

Wish you a Happy Birthday..

Plan for a Birthday party....a great one, call your friends and have a good day....

 

gibrans_world's picture

gibrans_world said Better still... ...

do some soul searching as to why your marriage failed.

 

Colt45's picture

Colt45 said Gibrans ...

Do you have to rub it in? You made your point across once, leave her be :-(

 

gibrans_world's picture

gibrans_world said I just want her not to get ...

I just want her not to get carried away in celebrating rather than contemplating.

 

Firebolt's picture

Firebolt said try to find hapiness in you ...

try to find hapiness in you dont gibe up

:D

 

britexpat's picture

britexpat said gibrans.. ...

I am sure she has done that a thousand times.. i know i did when "she" walked out on me :O(

time to move on ..

 

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shafy88 said Happy birth day..... ...

Happy birth day dear! just chillax and relax, will organize a party tho ,,,

Yes it's bit harsh,but let it go, there should be up and down then only life gain joy, otherwise it will be like clock same way , same path no changes!!! lets face the reality!

Come on lets party!!! :D

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tinkerbell10 said I didnt want to get into this ...

I didnt want to get into this but i cant stay quiet.

Gibrans - the lady may have issues but that does not mean she shudnt celebrate! One cannot stop living just cuz the marriage failed. Plus how do u know she hasnt already done the contemplating?

And seriously all she sd was she was having a lonely birthday! Not asked advice on her marital woes!

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"One of the hardest things in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn"

 

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Victory_278692 said Yes, LIFE goes on...Cheer and ...

Yes, LIFE goes on...Cheer and EnJOY

 

tinkerbell10's picture

tinkerbell10 said Exactly Vic...Life HAS to go ...

Exactly Vic...Life HAS to go on......

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"One of the hardest things in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn"

 

Colt45's picture

Colt45 said Hmmm ...

But life still goes on... I can't get used to live without, live without, live without you, by my side... I don't wanna live alone :-(

 

Lubna Sherzamine's picture

Lubna Sherzamine said Happy Birthday. May God bless ...

Happy Birthday. May God bless you with a wonderful blessed year full of happiness. Be strong!!!!

 

tinkerbell10's picture

tinkerbell10 said Awww Coltey ...

Awww Coltey bwoy!....tissue???...:P

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"One of the hardest things in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn"

 

Colt45's picture

Colt45 said Oh No Tinks... ...

I was just singing that song :-P

 

tinkerbell10's picture

tinkerbell10 said Ok!...:))) ...

Ok!...:)))

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"One of the hardest things in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn"

 

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painther said but tinker, if some1 comes to ...

but tinker, if some1 comes to QL, a public forum, and uses words- lonely b'day, seperation, husband, talking terms, what to do? etc, obviously people will suggest in their own capacity.....it may be good, bad, suitable unsuitabel..whatever..
I see a trend, people ask advise in QL and then criticise 'helping' people who take time to view their point of view....
...

 

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tinkerbell10 said Painther - i completely agree ...

Painther - i completely agree but its also seen on QL when things take a turn towards the BY PRODUCT of a topic - nothing but bashing happens. If we just focus on the birthday that wud be best.

As to the words like lonely, separation etc - she will know when she sees a full inbox of friendsheep PM;s.......

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"One of the hardest things in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn"

 

painther's picture

painther said ..lol on PMs, i don't know ...

..lol on PMs, i don't know others but got a resonse to my PM, :P

 

tinkerbell10's picture

tinkerbell10 said u did????...chupe ...

u did????...chupe rustom....LOL

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"One of the hardest things in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn"

 

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moving over soon said have a great birthday x ...

have a great birthday x

 

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moving over soon said have a great birthday x ...

have a great birthday x

 

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moving over soon said have a great birthday x ...

have a great birthday x

 

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moving over soon said have a great birthday x ...

have a great birthday x

 

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moving over soon said have a great birthday x ...

have a great birthday x

 

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Disturbia said ENjoy your birthday. It only ...

ENjoy your birthday. It only happens once every year >;p

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Sincerelyurs said Thanks..... A LOT :-) ...

A dime for every sweet thought n suggestion. I made it quietly.baked a Choco cake for myself and enjoyed it.

Yes I m trying to move on and go back to Coubtry with the help of Embassy.

Yes last two years no financial help from husband no pocket money no social outings no visit to malls no permission to water my plants since last one year I can't even wash my clothes because he feels I will use more detergent if I feel like going out and eating it never happens if I feel going out for morning or evening walk not allowed. No tv package with proper channels no access to milk biscuits or bournvita etc for kids no access to fruits on regular basis.

Yes still I m trying to cope up a lot but now I m slipping in depression and I know that to get a fat insurance money might be my husband wants a dead wife instead of a happy smiling living wife.

Yes I know he is running in affair with a school receptionist who is a divorcee but still I m tryin to cope up at me best.

I just want a simple happy life. Is it a crime?

Thanks again for all wishes :)))

 

Sincerelyurs's picture

Sincerelyurs said Thanks..... A LOT :-) ...

A dime for every sweet thought n suggestion. I made it quietly.baked a Choco cake for myself and enjoyed it.

Yes I m trying to move on and go back to Coubtry with the help of Embassy.

Yes last two years no financial help from husband no pocket money no social outings no visit to malls no permission to water my plants since last one year I can't even wash my clothes because he feels I will use more detergent if I feel like going out and eating it never happens if I feel going out for morning or evening walk not allowed. No tv package with proper channels no access to milk biscuits or bournvita etc for kids no access to fruits on regular basis.

Yes still I m trying to cope up a lot but now I m slipping in depression and I know that to get a fat insurance money might be my husband wants a dead wife instead of a happy smiling living wife.

Yes I know he is running in affair with a school receptionist who is a divorcee but still I m trying to cope up at me best.

I just want a simple happy life. Is it a crime?

Thanks again for all wishes :)))

 

Sincerelyurs's picture

Sincerelyurs said Thanks..... A LOT :-) ...

A dime for every sweet thought n suggestion. I made it quietly.baked a Choco cake for myself and enjoyed it.

Yes I m trying to move on and go back to Coubtry with the help of Embassy.

Yes last two years no financial help from husband no pocket money no social outings no visit to malls no permission to water my plants since last one year I can't even wash my clothes because he feels I will use more detergent if I feel like going out and eating it never happens if I feel going out for morning or evening walk not allowed. No tv package with proper channels no access to milk biscuits or bournvita etc for kids no access to fruits on regular basis.

Yes still I m trying to cope up a lot but now I m slipping in depression and I know that to get a fat insurance money might be my husband wants a dead wife instead of a happy smiling living wife.

Yes I know he is running in affair with a school receptionist who is a divorcee but still I m trying to cope up at me best.

I just want a simple happy life. Is it a crime?

Thanks again for all wishes :)))

 

vilia's picture

vilia said Well u not alone. i guess ...

Well u not alone. i guess many people here n there r spend their BD alone too or even worst no one notice (including me). So peace.... n Happy BD ^^

 

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