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Qatars, against homosexuality ?

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Hello, i'm a 23 years old French boy, who has just accepted a great job offer in Doha. I'm so happy to come there but there is a few problems i can't resolve myself.
I'm a gay personn and i've just had a look on that map ( http://pegaze.kd2.or... ) who shows that Qatars, as United Arab Emirates and most of arabic countries forbids homosexuality. I can understand that i'm on way to live in an Arabic and Muslim state, and i've got a huge respect towards religions, but I can't refrain to question myself.
I'm a very masculine and straight looking boy, and no one can really know physically that i'm gay. But i heard some stuffs on another forum about a special police force called CID. I paste the exact text of someone :

<< The C.I.D. (Criminal Investigation Division) are everywhere. There are special units of the C.I.D. that go to places frequented often by gays just to entrap us. There are also other risks. I heard about a guy that made a date through the internet, and when they met, it turned out that the other guy is an Islamic Fundamentalist. The Fundamentalist told him that he is doing terrible things, that God will punish him, and just to be sure, he'll be sure that the C.I.D. gets word of who he is also. >>

Somebody could tell me if this is true ?
Does people are really looking for gay people to punish them ?
I'm kind of affraid by that, even if i never show my sexuality, i'm scared.
What are the incurred punishments about homosexuality ?

thanks a lot

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rMs_000 said no no.. qatar is full of ...

no no.. qatar is full of gays and lesb !.. no problem at all.. u are welcome !!!
*wonder how many more minutes this post ll live ..

go get a life dood !!!

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PITSTOP said Homosexuality is forbidden in Islam, ...

and Qatar is an Islamic State.

But - truth be told, there are a lot of gay men here in the country. I know of some and they are very secretive about it. You can't really trust anyone these days. You will not be able to walk around holding hands, etc etc.

I always wanted to ask homosexual's why - but couldn't get around to it.

Anyway, -- yes it is forbidden, so watch out.

 

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vips_one said Well it depends really... I ...

Well it depends really... I mean if you are open about it and all you might get in trouble... but yeah... There are things that can't be discussed on a public forum...

 

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popcorngirl said It's like most illegal ...

activities over here, such as bringing Pork in, getting booze for your mates who don't have a licence. Just be yourself on the sly.

I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!

 

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popcorngirl said I will hoist that up the ...

I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!

 

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adey said Pitstop ...

"You will not be able to walk around holding hands"

Safe to say that is the one thing he could do all day every day without a second glance! lol

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."

 

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PITSTOP said PM, I actually know a lot .. ...

And I am good friends with them. But I would never get myself into their business especially if you aren't bringing it up on their own.

One did talk about it, but never managed to explain why? So - it is indescribable!

People can get deported once figured out. Simple. Its against the States religion.

 

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adey said PM ...

Would be funny to test it out. If questioned one could say that one is getting into the swing of the local culture.
What are they going to say?

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."

 

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PITSTOP said adey, to be exact .. ...

I meant showing affection in public.

 

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adey said Pitstop ...

You cant do that even if you're married.

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."

 

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PITSTOP said WE both know people who have been in trouble .. PM ...

It's a shame, but its how things are here. Plus it isn't just frowned upon in Qatar or the Arabic States. Many Foreign States as well disapprove -- its just not accepted.

 

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PITSTOP said adey, and I support that. The country doesn't accept it - so why ...

not just follow the rules?

People who want to make-out in the streets go to Italy, France, Spain -- you get the drill.

 

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popcorngirl said Adey ...

You can, I see people kiss each other all the time here. The locals are always shaking hands, kissing each other. Was in Carrefour the other day and saw and heard 2 French couples meet. They all kissed each other. I don't think affection being shown here is the problem most people make it out to be.

I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!

 

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adey said Pitstop ...

I was just making the point that gay or straight it makes no difference - just keep a low profile; but men holding hands in public is acceptable, probably more so than between a man and a woman.

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."

 

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flanostu said welcome to a country where ...

welcome to a country where it's frowned upon to hold your wife or girlfriends hand, yet acceptable to hold another man's hand.

tell me that's not promoting homosexuality!?

 

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PITSTOP said Finally ..!! hehhe ...

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popcorngirl said Flan ...

It is an odd world we find ourselves in.

I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!

 

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PITSTOP said flanostu, you must me kidding ..? ...

I walk around holding my husbands hand, so that isn't true at all. I hug family members in malls as well.

Who's said it is frowned upon?

 

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flanostu said don't worry pitstop, i ...

don't worry pitstop, i always give a kiss to my female friends if i see them.

i also gave the finger to qatari guy that offered me lift in his car.

 

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popcorngirl said Flan ...

:-)))))))

I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!

 

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pegaze-paris said ok ok ...

thank you for you answers, sorry for the offence :S

 

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mallrat said flan, be careful with that ...

flan, be careful with that finger, i bet they'll love that sign, that's why ride is being offered:)


 

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dweller said I think ...

it could cause problems duckie, better to keep out of it.

 

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groover5320681 said anyone is welcome here, ...

anyone is welcome here, unless you've broke some rules....

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mallrat said groover, you are ...

groover, you are right....
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pegase-paris
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chadqa said Not what you think... ...

You can come here & enjoy being happy & gay, lots of gays here i've seen specially some locals that came from the famous clan here... you can be who you are but make sure you aren't wear tube & lipstick that will put you on trouble in the future...

 

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gadarene said my friend,with your sexual ...

my friend,with your sexual preference,you couldn't pick a better place on the planet if you tried!! :)...this country is teeming with gays my friend,officially of course,it's illegal but you should have absolutely no problem finding guys of the same orientation...good luck! :)

 

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odinah2k4 said I think you'll be fine as ...

I think you'll be fine as long as you don't put make up & all that everytime you go out. Qatar got plenty gays, i heard there are many in Qatar University...

 

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britexpat said I suggest you stay where you ...

I suggest you stay where you are.. This is obviously not the place for you..

 

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faisal alkaabi said you dont have to mention it ...

you dont have to mention it that you are gay or what ever if you respect the country rules no one can do any thing with you , but if you thinking to do it in puplic so CID , ISF ...etc will catch you


 

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tomatoe said hey ...

if the mic is in the middle and if u r to the left of the mic and if i am to the right , ya both are correct.

When u r in Rome be a Roman, are u asking for a license,
hope not brother. this is u r choice, besides i m sure its going to be a fun time between 4 walls, so keep it zipped.

 

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seny0rita said gay or not gay, be careful ...

gay or not gay, be careful with the people you meet in the net.
and u're a straight looking gay, u say..i think ull be fine.
thinking out loud: ur'e probably one of those men who look so fine but are gay. two kinds of fine men in the world...either they're taken or gay. sigh.
good luck in your new job!

 

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cynie said welcome and have a nice ...

welcome and have a nice stay! dont think about it,dont make it a problem,just follow the rules here in Qatar,and ull b fyn

 

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Stone Cold said Yuk...but then why do you ...

Yuk...but then why do you prefer doing ass hole when there are lots of women around? Thats not what God wanted us to do..am I right?

 

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seny0rita said /-a-t-/stonecold but then ...

/-a-t-/stonecold
but then again, humans in nature don't always and almost never do what God is telling to be done..
another point, how could u wonder if he prefers to stick it up from behind? say, others at times prefer to eat with their hands even when theres spoon and fork. others prefer not take their daily baths even when theres a resource to water. not to sleep in bed (eg. futon), even if they can get one. others prefer to not pray and not "bow down" to God and yet God requires us to. why dont you also question all that?

 

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Gypsy said /-a-t-/ Adey & PM, did ...

/-a-t-/ Adey & PM, did neither of you see the Steven Colbert report where he talked about Qatar. He and his producer held hands for one minutes so they could adapt to the culture. :P

There's a HUGE gay sub-culture here, as long as you aren't riding down the Corniche on a rainbow float wearing chaps and waving a rainbow flag...or vicariously making out or having sex with a guy in public (and this applies to Heterosexuals too) then you'll be fine.

Rule of thumb in Qatar is keep your private life private and that applies to everyone.

 

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Omar Waheed. said pegaze-paris ...

Well there are many gays here in Qatar .. But its Forbidden in Qatar.. So better you watch out and dont do anything wrong otherwise if C.I.D will catch you so they will not listen a single word and directly deport you to your home country

 

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Qatari1 said so better stay where you ...

so better stay where you are..

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Formatted Soul said Do Qatar Airways have any ...

Do Qatar Airways have any preference for gay Cabin Crews? I heard in QR many are gays... this one's profile also says Cabin Crew...

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Stone Cold said Really, on the other hand I ...

Really, on the other hand I like these social workers. Decent job by days and servicing job by night. Gives you some sort of quickie in time of needs...Just when I need you most.....Randy Vanwarmer

 

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Omar Waheed. said Formatted Soul ...

Yeah you are right... There are many gays in Qatar Airways..Infact the Qatar Airways Cabin Crew Rect. Team mostly select those who are gays.... huh

 

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Arien said FS- May be the management is ...

FS- May be the management is concerned about the female crew safety onboard and during layovers abroad. Straight guys will be a worry when gays wouldnt harm. ;)
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Mandilulur said PM, you missed Colbert's ...

PM, you missed Colbert's Qatar report?! Gotta catch up, girl. It was cute.
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lilBoPeep said Sad that people here have to ...

Sad that people here have to hide their true identity. Some cant choose who they land up as or love!

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dweller said Omar ...

"Yeah you are right... There are many gays in Qatar Airways..Infact the Qatar Airways Cabin Crew Rect. Team mostly select those who are gays.... huh"
I assume that the "Rect. Team" is recruitment?

 

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Omar Waheed. said dweller ...

yeah right Rect. is recruitment team :)

Cheers !!!

 

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dweller said I only ...

wanted clarification PM ;-)

 

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Omar Waheed. said dweller ...

yeah i just worte in a short form ;-)

 

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dweller said Omar ...

I did appreciate that it was a shortened version. Maybe it's my mind but "rect" in the context of this thread could have had other meanings. um yes?

 

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Omar Waheed. said dweller ...

ahh really ... Which other meanings?

 

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AbuAmerican said Probably better to stay ...

Probably better to stay where you are.
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Stone Cold said Oh come on senyorita, the ...

Oh come on senyorita, the chemistry inside me is too reactive. Fe2 + O2 = Hard Iron

 

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Gypsy said Only the homophobes will ...

Only the homophobes will tell you to stay where you are pegaze. Like I said HUGE gay community here.

 

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AbuAmerican said Yea pegaze, you just missed ...

Yea pegaze, you just missed Doha's annual gay day parade. They are everywhere and out in the open. Rainbow flags, chaps, YMCA blasting and all.

Only people with some twisted agenda tell gays to come out here.
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UkEngQatar said There is no problem with you ...

There is no problem with you as a person coming here, however trying to establish any kind of relationship is very hard. First there are not many like minded people here to understand that.

But if you coming here for the job then no problem. There is a lot of forbidding things happening in Qatar, like prositution as one example. As long as you keep your personal opinion and sexuality to yourself and don't disclose to anyone it should not be a problem.

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Gypsy said ROFL. Yes, damn my twisted ...

ROFL. Yes, damn my twisted agenda! How dare I tell the truth that there's LOTS of gay people here!

 

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Ingesu said A bit of everything... ...

I guess it is not that Qatar is against homosexuality, it is just that 'THAT' term does not even exist, it is not consider as a real thing, just as a matter of the moment...

A bad joke but very true according to some:

An Arab was interviewed at the US Embassy for a U.S.A. visa.

Consul : What is your name?
Arab : Abdul Aziz.
Consul : Sex?
Arab : Six to ten times a week.
Consul : I mean, male or female?
Arab : Both male and female and sometimes even camels.
Consul : Holy cow!
Arab : Yes, cows and dogs too !!!!
Consul : Man ........ isn't it hostile ?
Arab : Horse style, dog style, any style.
Consul : Oh..........dear !
Arab : Deer? No deer, they run too fast !

Apologies if it offended anybody, meant to make you laugh.

 

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dweller said Nice one. It made me smile. ...

Nice one. It made me smile.

 

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The Dude.... said Whatever you do.... Just ...

Whatever you do....

Just keep it behind closed doors, just like straight people and you'll be fine.

If you are gay you will be equipped with a gay-dar (radar for gayss) and you will be able to spot them from miles.

Just stay away from me..... I swallowed a fork.

 

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biggmoh87 said yeah, the CID agents are ...

yeah, the CID agents are everywhere, you don't even know if their right next to you. I've heard that they are looking for gays here in Qatar and arrests them.

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The Dude.... said CID is a normal presence in ...

CID is a normal presence in most of the ME-countries. Personally I really appreciate this concept.

Police for traffic and assistance to civilians and criminals to be handled by an invisible organ that normal people that adhere to the law will not encounter.

I like it.

So, in essence it does not matter whether your gay or straight because 'public display of affection' is forbidden anyways.

Plus that CID is looking for gays seems bullshit to me as many men here walk hand in hand.

Again, it is very very simple here. Stick to 3 simple rules:

1 - Do not do drugs
2 - Don't be intimate in public
3 - Act like a civilized individual

Seems fairly simple and easy to me.

 

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legal_pad said You got plenty of those 'Gay ...

You got plenty of those 'Gay People in the Pinoy community' they are not that hard to distinguish them.

Just listen and look, how they behave in public, they cant hide all those feathers all the time.

 

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ABCABCABC said It is shame on you to say ...

It is shame on you to say this!!!!
especially the non respect for the country giving you opportunities to come and work and have a good life.
if you go anywere in the world you should respect the rules and traditions and religion, and because qatar give the chance to all nationnalities and religions to come and help all doesnt not mean allow them this.
this is your problem and you should sort out and not bring the bad attitude with you here to affect the good peoples living in doha.
for all others writting comments please try to look for what this kind of attitude could cause as seekness exp: LA SYPHILIS : may be u dont know this disaster but it come from french in 2001 in revanche from the homosexul.
plz make some search and you will understand.

 

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ABCABCABC said you are great really i ...

you are great
really i respect you, better for him to stay were he is .

regards

 

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ABCABCABC said reply for faisal alkaabi ...

im really chocced faisal

haw u say this
you are not arabic and you are not muslim ??

really strange
naw i will think twice about arabic and muslim !!!!

 

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PM said Actually you are wrong about this one Dude ...

CID is targeting gay men through set-ups and sting operations. One should be very careful about getting involved with a gay Arab, as you never know if it is an entrapment.

 

 

 

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PM said abc, you are pretty ignorant if you think syphilis just came to ...

Qatar in 2001 because of a French homosexual.

 

 

 

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM


 

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PM said Syphilis is sexually transmitted through heterosexuals too abc ...

STDS are not limited to gay men and actually can be quite a problem for Muslim men who practice polygamy or have "girlfriends" -- which is quite common here.

 

 

 

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM


 

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verisimilitude said Shut up PMS ...

Your attack on polygamy and Islam is uncalled for and irrelevant to the topic
Stop trolling you old tramp

 

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verisimilitude said the bottom line pegaze-paris ...

It is illegal in Qatar. And I hope if you or any one does anything that is against the law of the land, be caught and put in jail and punished accordingly...
If you come here and keep your sexuality back home, then you cannot be caught, the very fact that you are scared of being caught shows what your intentions are
Its pathetic that so many people are offering a helping hand to a person who wants to violate the laws and cultures of a country...

 

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Meaningful said Only britExpart gave him the ...

Only britExpart gave him the right answer! yes THIS IS NOT THE RIGHT PLACE FOR YOU ...stay where you are, having lots of guys in qatar doesnt mean u can come and do ur gay business here...do it where you bcz it is official allowed, this is Islamic country, and YES there are CID everywhere where in qatar. and To all muslims who suported this gay to just dont worry and come here , You know what responsibility u are taking from Allah to suport this act.

DONT LET YESTERDAYS DISAPOINTMENTS OVERSHADOW 2MOROWS DREAMS!


 

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Scent.of.a.woman said i think, ...

you should not consider coming here, not even GCC,
best of luck.

you can't change it

 

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azilana7037 said pegaze-paris, where art thou? ;P ...

He posted this topic 10/05/2009 and not once he replied to any of the comments or posts here.

Maybe he's already here in Qatar and having a (great) time of his life :-P



 

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The Dude.... said Meaningful.... You really ...

Meaningful....

You really have nothing 'meaningful' to say do you?

Your a nice example of ignorance. Deny whats in your own backyard... The people you addressed, maybe 25% of the total...

So where does this, roughly estimated, 75% come from?

Your backyard, indeed.

 

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PM said You should watch your language and behavior vermin ...

I was responding to the ridiculous points brought up by abc and not speaking to you.

 

 

 

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verisimilitude said PMS... incessant troll... Chronic Islamophobia ...

and you should watch TV or something and keep your dirty thoughts off the web
abc has never said anything about syphilis being brought to Qatar by the French
What he said about Syphilis is not clear and he should clear it up
But in any case, it is an established fact that STD incidents in male homosexuals is extremely high and there is just no denying that fact
Don't put words in abc's mouth simply because you want to go on one of your Islam bashing trips...
You know bloody well this thread has nothing to do with polygamy or Islam or Muslims and you bringing it in was in poor taste and uncalled for you trolling hippo... I like that... trolling hippo... hmmmm...

 

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Meaningful said Dude get a life , im not ...

Dude get a life , im not responding to you ...what is it to do with 25% and 75%.

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PM said Vermin, you really should watch the name calling ...

or you might find yourself banned -- AGAIN.

Perhaps you can explain what abc was referring to because it sure seemed as if he was saying that a French homosexual was responsible for syphilis here. In fact, even you can't explain it and presumably you speak the same language/translation.

 

 

 

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fubar said Most western countries used ...

Most western countries used to ban homosexuality too, but people still did it.

The gay guys I know here *love* it. All guys, hardly any women, most of the clubs only have guys in them, you can go to cafes and restaurants and movies with other guys and it doesn't look strange, and you can even hold hands in public and it's acceptable.

It's a personal choice of course, but my gay friends have lasted much longer living in Qatar than straight people, and they've all had a great time.

 

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legal_pad said fubar ...

fubar said:

It's a personal choice of course, but my gay friends have lasted much longer living in Qatar than straight people, and they've all had a great time.

A nice great gay time is more appropriate.

 

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Zaen said I think... ...

it is not only against the states religion, it is against humanity. I think all of us, from base of our heart, understand that homosexuality or lesbian life is an abnormal way of life. Human is created in a pair, in two genders so they will like and love each other, not with the same genders.
Just a suggestion, it's better you comeback to your normal life, a normal life of human being. I believe your heart is always telling you that it was wrong, listen to it.

 

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Oryx said dont worry ...

pas de probleme mon ami
c'est la vie en rose ici!

 

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koKa89 said well ...

forsure Perverts and homosexuals exist in qatar

even through youth qataris them selves ~,~ unfortuntly.

ps:(do u feel ur normal human saying ur a gay?!


 

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verisimilitude said PMS... stop lying ...

This is what ABC said...

"please try to look for what this kind of attitude could cause as seekness exp: LA SYPHILIS : may be u dont know this disaster but it come from french in 2001 in revanche from the homosexul. plz make some search and you will understand."

I used some common sense and I found out that this is the incident that he was referring to... LA... 2001... Syphilis

http://www.laweekly....

I've never been banned... but its fun watching your meaningless trash talk about me being from Iraq or whatever... cos that's what you are... trash

 

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The Dude.... said Meaningful... You are not ...

Meaningful...

You are not responding to me for which reason?

A - The truth shall set you free, yet you rather go to life blindfolded

B - You simply have nothing to say anymore as you have engaged in a discussion which you can not win.

C - See A.


 

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The Dude.... said The Dude is enjoying the ...

The Dude is enjoying the verbal 'bitch-fight' between PM and Veris.

GO GO GO!!!


 

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rafsanjani said verm.... ...

dont get into the trap of the mafia of QL.... i guess you know what i mean, right?
this mafia group will talk troll, bash islam, use abusive words to address you and when you will reply, they will warn you to be banned.
and you know what? somehow, you will be banned as well !
what should you call them, mafia of QL, right?
but, hei, dont consider yourself alone here, ppl have started noticing it, lately though, and a huge blow is coming ...
take care man. best of luck.

be humble

 

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PM said huck (rafsanjani) what does "talk troll" mean? ...

 

 

 

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PM said LOL now I see you are Irani "faculty" -- ...

in your dreams....

 

 

 

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