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Homosexuality in Animals is nearly Universal
From the Birds & the Bees to the Dingos and the Dolphins, apprantely same sex sex is EVERYWHERE.
Homosexual behaviour widespread in animals according to new study
Homosexual behaviour is a nearly universal phenomenon in the animal kingdom, according to a new study.
Louise Gray, Environment Correspondent
Published: 5:19PM BST 16 Jun 2009
Dolphins have been known engage in same-sex interactions to facilitate group bonding Photo: GETTY
The pairing of same sex couples had previously been observed in more than 1,000 species including penguins, dolphins and primates.
However, in the latest study the authors claim the phenomenon is not only widespread but part of a necessary biological adaptation for the survival of the species.
They found that on the Hawaiian island of Oahu, almost a third of the Laysan albatross population is raised by pairs of two females because of the shortage of males. Through these 'lesbian' unions, Laysan albatross are flourishing. Their existence had been dwindling before the adaptation was noticed.
Other species form same-sex bonds for other reasons, they found. Dolphins have been known engage in same-sex interactions to facilitate group bonding while male-male pairings in locusts killed off the weaker males.
A pair of "gay" penguins recently hatched an egg at a German zoo after being given the egg that had been rejected by its biological parents by keepers.
Writing in Trends in Ecology & Evolution, Dr Nathan Bailey, an evolutionary biologist at California University, said previous studies have failed to consider the evolutionary consequences of homosexuality.
He said same homosexual behaviour was often a product of natural selection to further the survival of the species.
Dr Bailey said: "It's clear same-sex sexual behaviour extends far beyond the well-known examples that dominate both the scientific and popular literature – for example, bonobos, dolphins, penguins and fruit flies.
"Same-sex behaviours – courtship, mounting or parenting – are traits that may have been shaped by natural selection, a basic mechanism of evolution that occurs over successive generations," he said.
"But our review of studies also suggests that these same-sex behaviours might act as selective forces in and of themselves."
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tallg said
More proof - ...More proof - http://www.youtube.c...
*** WARNING - very funny, but very rude ***
qatarisun said
now it justifies same-sex ...now it justifies same-sex marriage in humans society.. uf.. feels better..
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Gypsy said
7 months where? ...7 months where?
Gypsy said
I know. :D It's a ...I know. :D It's a perfectly natural thing.
MissX said
It's not just those animals. ...It's not just those animals. Dogs in particular try and mate with other male dogs. Actually, dogs will mate with anything if it feels the need.
http://media1.clipad...
Gypsy said
What the hell are you ...What the hell are you talking about muhammadonly?
fubar said
"muhammadonly said what's ..."muhammadonly said what's your point gypsy? ..."
Ummm, let me take a stab in the dark:
"Homosexuality in Animals is nearly Universal"
By the way, humans are animals too.
qatarisun said
this muhammadonly is drunk.. ...this muhammadonly is drunk.. me think..
or else he should be banned for hijacking :)
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a.k.a said
off to get popcorn :) ...off to get popcorn :)
Silvia Abdullah said
wow...........i could ...wow...........i could imagine the extinct of the animal.
qatarisun said
muhammadonly , it's not HE who posted.. it ...it's not HE who posted.. it is SHE..
"you have been darting since last 7 months"?
gypsy, are you DARTING?
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teepatter said
gypsy ...what could you be trying to insinuate about this? or genereally what do you personally think about this?
tallg said
muhammadonly is implying ...muhammadonly is implying that he knows about Gypsy's current relationship status, but he doesn't seem to know her sex. Very confusing.
DaRuDe said
For Heaven Sakes ...she posted a topic to get your views on it not to ask her how she was or what she thinks about it.
cant you guys just concentrate on the topic rather than picking up on the author.
Gypsy said
Well I'm a she for one, and ...Well I'm a she for one, and I'm very happy in my relationship, no complaints at all. As for what I'm implying, I don't think I'm IMPLYING anything, I'm posting an article that says Loud and Clear Homosexuality is natural occuring and perfectly normal.
teepatter said
okay.. ...just wanted to ask what could be her or his own point of view regarding her own thread.
Alexa said
eh....brainwashed ...eh....brainwashed weirdos...what do you expect????
Surely not anything else but the usual???
lol
Let mad dogs bark at the moon...in solitude.
someonenew said
I personally dont think ...I personally dont think Homosexuality is natural.
"Ali Baba and 40 thieves" are now "Ali Baba and 30 thieves" ; 10 were laid off.
Alexa said
muhamadonly, IF you are so ...muhamadonly, IF you are so very much interested in Islam, (as your profile insinuates)..how can you do what you are doing here???
Does it not go against all that the REAL Islam teaches?
Let mad dogs bark at the moon...in solitude.
Alexa said
muhamadonly, IF you are so ...muhamadonly, IF you are so very much interested in Islam, (as your profile insinuates)..how can you do what you are doing here???
Does it not go against all that the REAL Islam teaches?
Let mad dogs bark at the moon...in solitude.
Alexa said
sorry, double post! Let mad ...sorry, double post!
Let mad dogs bark at the moon...in solitude.
Khalid the tiger said
Then lets not be animals ...Also tell me what things in your opinion, what makes the difference between a human and an animal?
Because it seems that there are some people already wants to say that human are animals.
Let us be clear and answer in which way humans differ from animals?
teepatter said
humans can change clothes as often ....
fubar said
According to Linnaen ...According to Linnaen Taxonomy, the animal family is divided as follows:
Classis 1. MAMMALIA
Classis 2. AVES
Classis 3. AMPHIBIA
Classis 4. PISCES
Classis 5. INSECTA
Classis 6. VERMES
Humans fall into the mammalian class.
http://en.wikipedia....
Ambat said
This is old hat.Bythe way won't the best thing be to swing both ...ways?So you are never short of partners?Is that common in the animal world too??
Just curious,don't we have better topics to discuss on this forum??
teepatter said
homosexuality ...indeed is a natural occurence since day one.there is not much fuzz about this i guess-animals just got later publication.
Gypsy said
Well someonenew, sorry to ...Well someonenew, sorry to say it but all the evidence points towards the fact that it's a naturally occuring thing, and that it might even be beneficial. And yes, humans are animals, like it or not.
ilovelife21 said
Gypsy.. ...you are absolutely right..
it's a natural thing indeed..
humans are animals but we're not supposed to act like animals.Respect is the key to a peaceful world. =)
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Gypsy said
Frankly I think animals act ...Frankly I think animals act better then people. I wish all people would act like animals.
The Dude.... said
Indeed Gypsy, More women ...Indeed Gypsy,
More women should act like animals. :-p
That would please men in Qatar for sure :-P
The Dude.... said
A wiki quote, as I am too lazy to explain.... ...Male homosexuality as hyper-masculine
There is evidence of a correlation between sexual orientation and traits that are determined in utero[1]. Williams et al. (2000) found that finger length ratio, a characteristic controlled by prenatal hormones, is different in people of distinct sexual orientations.[1] Another study by McFadden in 1998 found that auditory systems in the brain, another physical trait influenced by prenatal hormones is different in those of differing orientations, likewise the suprachiasmatic nucleus of homosexual men was found by Swaab and Hopffman to be larger in homosexual men than in heterosexual men, [2], the suprachiasmatic nucleus is also known to be larger in men than in women [3]. Gay men have also been shown to have higher levels of circulating androgens [2] and larger penises [3], on average, than straight men.
Gay men have more older brothers on average, a phenomenon known as the fraternal birth order effect. It has been suggested that the greater the number of older male siblings the higher the level of androgen fetuses are exposed to.
[edit] Male homosexuality as feminine or hypo-masculine
In a 1991 study, Simon LeVay demonstrated that a tiny clump of neurons of the anterior hypothalamus—which is believed to control sexual behavior and linked to prenatal hormones—was on average more than twice the size in heterosexual men when contrasted to homosexual men. Initially he could not rule out that this may be due to AIDS since all of his homosexual male subjects had died from it before the autopsies were performed. However in 2003 scientists at Oregon State University announced that they had replicated his findings in sheep.
[edit] Female homosexuality
Girls with congenital adrenal hyperplasia (an autosomal recessive condition which results in high androgen levels during fetal development) have more masculinized sex role identities and are more likely to have a homosexual sexual orientation as adults than controls [4][5][6][7][8]. An alternative explanation for this effect is that the fact that girls with this condition are born with masculinized external genitalia leads their parents to raise them in a more masculine manner which then influences their sexual orientation as adults. However, the degree to which the girls' genitals are masculinized does not correlate with their sexual orientation, suggesting that prenatal hormones are the causal factor, not parental influence.
ilovelife21 said
WHEW! ...good thing I don't have all these problems and confusions..
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Ambat said
Dude do you mean ...fornicating in public ???
kumaran_63 said
Animals are best in lot of ways but this is not correct Gypsy ...Hai Gypsy,
6th sense to be used here.Animals are having 5 senses only.We can learn lot of better from animal but not this.
I like female company only and i feel safe in her hands.
Ha ha ha .Alexa mad dogs barking to Moon/sun.If dogs bite human, but in turn can we bite dog back.Ha ha ha But we can throw stone to it .chu chu chu chu.
ha ha ha Gypsy you have taken intersting subject but how many will say truth.
Gypsy said
We didn't "learn" it from ...We didn't "learn" it from animals. It's natural. You're either born straight or gay. There's nothing you can do about it.
The Dude.... said
Gypsy, your partially right, ...Gypsy, your partially right, some children are formed into 'gayness' and 'extreme sexual behaviorism' due to psychological damages stemming from early childhood.
The Dude.... said
Ambat, No I did not mean ...Ambat,
No I did not mean that......
But hey, now that you mention it...
Why not!!!
Gypsy said
Yes, SOME are, but not the ...Yes, SOME are, but not the majority...unless you're talking about gay guys here. :P
Khalid the tiger said
No, take this example ...A bad apple in a box will exploid the other good apples in the same box.
Gypsy said
By saying that Khalid you're ...By saying that Khalid you're implying homosexuality is "bad" which it isn't.
Stone Cold said
Animals may have brains but ...Animals may have brains but not intelligences. They can be forgiven in this respect. Like human, they can be desperate when on heat, and shall go for any illegal holes available. I don't think its fair to call them gay since dogs dosen't even knows that he is a dog.
The Dude.... said
Khalid, that is called ...Khalid, that is called cross-contamination.
I guess in the ME, were the number of gay people (if offended please read gay as HAPPY) is higher than anywhere else in the world, they create gays just by having sexes separated in schools.
Gypsy said
How do you know they don't ...How do you know they don't know their a dog? You know you're human. And the research shows that some animals engage in Homosexuality but not all. And some ONLY engage in homosexuality. Perhaps they just haven't been trained to think of it as bad and realize that it isn't harmful.
fubar said
Khalid, are you also saying ...Khalid, are you also saying that homosexuality is contagious?
Perhaps that might be the reason that there is such a high prevalence of it here in Doha. All the boys, driving around all night long with their friends in Landcrusiers, drinking tea together, smoking sheesha together, watching movies together...
Are you saying that's why so many of them are gay here?
Khalid the tiger said
here is some more differences if you like ...“Desires” – As one of Most Basic Differences of Human and Animal Mind:
Generally we consider animistic, or magical or other superstitious ideologies as baseless or irrational, but these are after all an important source of understanding the functionality and capabilities of human mind. Even these ‘irrational’ ideologies are the unique characteristics of human beings. Any other known life form doesn’t possess any form of superstition. Study of superstitions can give wonderful insight into our true nature or essence. Humans want to control the external world events but at the same time long for that they may not have to do any effort for the purpose. They tend to find easy solutions for every task. Mostly they perform those tasks in just daydreams. More ‘practical’ people take help of a magician. Wise people ask help from supernatural beings. Scientists insist that only materialistic causation principle is the solution for performing any task. But tasks before humans may not always be accomplished by the material causation principle. Humans want to defeat death, which causation principle may not allow. But religion offers its solution in the form of belief in after-life.
But all this apparent and observable human behavior is actually a clue, which can lead us towards finding the true human nature or essence. Some times we consider human desires as something negative. But this “desire” is one of the most basic differences between humans and other animals. Here term ‘desire’ doesn’t include instinct based bodily needs
for more information:
http://khuram.wordpr...
Khalid the tiger said
Knowledge is another difference ...There is fundamental difference between human and animal mind, due to which humans possess ‘knowledge’ whereas animals do not. Actually ‘knowledge’ is the ‘theoretical awareness’ of any thing or phenomenon. Only humans are theoretically aware about their surrounding environment as well as about their ownselves, so only humans possess ‘knowledge’. I have discussed this issue in brief, and in quite general way, in my essay on topic: The Knowledge Explosion in the Modern Times.
Instead of considering ‘human knowledge’ just as some kind of advancement in so called ‘animal intelligence’, which some modern philosophers do, if knowledge were defined as “theoretical awareness of any thing or phenomenon” then other animals, at once, would be ousted from the domain of knowledge. And if only humans possess knowledge and animals possess no knowledge at all, then surely there must be a fundamental difference between human and animal mind, which is responsible for the fact that only humans possess knowledge whereas other animals do not.
for more details please see the link
http://khuram.wordpr...
The Dude.... said
religious peoples that have ...religious peoples that have problems with homosexuality blame GOD (or how you address your creator) and basically state that Gods' creation is an imperfect design.
Now that collides with most religions as
1 - Love thou neighbor, God demands respect for his Children.
2 - God is not to be challenged nor questioned
So, in my view, any person that treats homo's different or tries to ban them from society is messing with Gods' creation, therefore a sinner.
The excuse that it is the work of Sheitan is irrelevant as this does not fall "under free" will but under the biological evolution of the human species.
Gypsy said
As it says Khalid: "Here ...As it says Khalid: "Here term ‘desire’ doesn’t include instinct based bodily needs"
Sex, like food, sleep, warmth, etc. are instinct based bodily needs. We intinctively need and want sex, and it's not desire that determines which sex we are attracted to, but instinct.
Khalid the tiger said
please read the full article ...Thanks
The Dude.... said
SWALLOW A FORK..... ...SWALLOW A FORK.....
Gypsy said
He's a Pakistani blogger on ...He's a Pakistani blogger on WordPress Khalid? Why should I listen to anything he says?
fubar said
What a daft statement:"And ...What a daft statement:
"And if only humans possess knowledge and animals possess no knowledge at all, then surely there must be a fundamental difference between human and animal mind, which is responsible for the fact that only humans possess knowledge whereas other animals do not."
How is it that you know that NO animals possess knowledge?
Words fail me... How can humans know what animals think, know or feel?
What did this guy do, ask his cat whether she was aware of her surroundings, and when the cat didn't say 'yes I am aware' he just assumed the animal doesn't possess the knowledge??
And does this mean that humans with severe developmental impairment, and do not possess "knowledge" (according to the definition above) should be called "animals"?
Should Shafallah be renamed an "The Shafallah Center for Animals with Special Needs"????
The Dude.... said
Humans are animals, humans ...Humans are animals, humans however are a bit more complex. That is why we are on top of the food-chain.
Let me refer to a bugger called Freud, he had something to say about 'Id' "Ego' and "super-ego'.
However, who is to say that animals do not have their own perception of life, maybe they are living in their own 'awareness' but on a entirely different level.
Vegas said
Dang I'm tired...I thoughtthat said America not animals... ...You can't teach experience...
kumaran_63 said
Gypsy you are correct sex also like other common natural thing ...Hai Gypsy,
Yes sex is also like sneezing,coughing,urining,hungry,sad, laugh ,and emotion feelings.It is a quiet natural feeling i accept.But from this thread what you want to say " Are you supporting homosex/lesbisam?"
From reading all your comments , it is indicative that you are supporting this homosex habits?
I hope you are have full rights to support any thing as you like.
But common public dont like this.
Because god created man and man to have sex in family way, then why to need some unusual ,ugly habbits????/WHY?
But from your comments i understand you are cute and clever and have lot of presence of mind.
ok reply me.
kumaran_63 said
Sorry spelling mistake ...Because god created man and women to have sex in family way, then why to need some unusual ,ugly habbits????/WHY?
really sorry spelling mistake. again ana again sorry QL's
The Dude.... said
simplemindedness is a bitch.... ...Kumaran...
I guess talking to you equals carrying water to the sea...
since I am a nice guy I will give it one last shot.
There are people like yourself that refuse to understand the origin of homosexuality. People like you that refuse to understand the basic biological flaws, while it is scientifically proven. When in developing stage in the womb you also get a portion of X and Y chromosomes, if you get too much of any you might turn out gay. This is a BIRTH DEFECT. How the hell can you blame somebody for that?
Now, what is CRIMINAL when producing children if is blood-relatives marry, have sex and produce slow-learners, retards, border-liners and very likely also gays. All scientifically proven.
britexpat said
It may be nearly Universal ...It may be nearly Universal in animals, but should the same be applicapable, acceptable for Humans ?
Sorry, but IMHO , it isn't just about "nature". There are other issues like society, norms, values, religion etc which come into play..
flanostu said
camels are the gayest of all ...camels are the gayest of all animals.
The Dude.... said
Brit, what has society, ...Brit,
what has society, norms, values or religion to do with wanting to stir the poo poo exit?
For me it is either
1) Biological
2) Psychological (behaviorism stemming out of abuse and such)
here I have seen 20 year old boys with wigs and titties, the same I have seen where I hail from. These worlds have absolutely nothing in common.
qatarisun said
kumran, Why are you talking ...kumran, Why are you talking on behalf of ‘common public’?... In my country homosexuality is legitimized. We don’t find it weird or abnormal. We don’t consider same-sex couples are sick or bad or wrong.. as a matter of fact, i have many friends-gays, and let me tell you, they all are really nice and very interesting people...
and why 2 gays cannot have a "sex in family way"? I know one couple of gays who are happily officially married, so they obviously have a "sex in family way"...
... it is just the way other people are built and are living their lives..
at the end of the day it doesn't hurt anyone around. And this is the key thing.
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The Dude.... said
Sun, this is where religion kicks in.... ...Some religions are slowly adapting to society, some are reluctant to recognize the necessity of liberalization.
The way of the world.
qatarisun said
brit... i agree, up to some ...brit... i agree, up to some point society might have an influence on some individuals.. but only if these individuals already HAVE it in their blood(or body, or wherever).. ok. it's like a singer. One has a talent to become a best singer ever... he might be a taxi driver all his life, and never discover his talent....or opposit, no matter how much you push one to learn something, it just doesn't work, because the "seed" is not there... or like some people start painting in the later age, under certain circumstances... so of course to develop certain qualities you have to be placed into the certain ground to enable to grow... some do develop it, some don't.. But the bottomline is it is already IN YOU, in your blood... otherwise it will never give fruits..
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qatarisun said
eh? my previous post got ...eh? my previous post got trimmed? or something wrong with my computer?
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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
hapy said
So do these birds and bees ...So do these birds and bees also have anal sex?? or just two female birds raising young ones means homosexuality!!
hapy said
HOW FRICKING BIGOTRY is this ...HOW FRICKING BIGOTRY is this of homos to label same sex parenting as homosexuality.
Vegas said
I can't believe we are discussing animal homos...LOL ...You can't teach experience...
The Dude.... said
Like you said Vegas, You ...Like you said Vegas, You can't teach experience.
Hence, I guess hapy should take it up the bum at least once.
He does appear a bit 'anal'.
hapy said
Fukc you mofo The Dude ...**** you *** The Dude
The Dude.... said
Hapy, No thank you.... I am ...Hapy, No thank you.... I am straight, and have swallowed a fork previously.
I understand you desire to explore, but I suggest you first investigate if somebody is 'up for that' and only after request him to do the 'anal' part.
Good luck in your quest: discovering your sexuality, it is quite an interesting journey which is a normal part of life.
Good luck son.
hapy said
Yours behind is well ...Yours behind is well explored with white sticks
The Dude.... said
Lol... I expected more from ...Lol...
I expected more from your reply, oh well...
Never mind.
fubar said
Brit ...Your post is obviously contradictory:
You write:
"It may be nearly Universal in animals, but should the same be applicapable, acceptable for Humans ?
Sorry, but IMHO , it isn't just about "nature". There are other issues like society, norms, values, religion etc which come into play.."
So on the one hand you say that in animals homosexuality is natural and commonplace, but that humans aren't animals so it shouldn't be natural within the human species.
Then you say that when it does occur in humans, it is for purely 'humanistic' reasons - ie as a result of social pressure or religion or whatever.
So it occurs in nature due to natural conditioning, but when it occurs in human beings it is as a result of totally non-natural causes???
donosa said
In this world that we live ...In this world that we live in, in this century that we live in, we're supposed to be free. Free to choose what to do with our lives, what to wear, what to say. We're also free to choose who we marry, who we have sex with, and who we don't. I have a lot of gay friends, my best friend is a gay guy who I love so much, he's so kind and such a good person, very down to earth, and with so many values. I don't really label him "GAY", he's so much more than just that. So that's why it upsets me when people call them "sick", "weirdos", etc.. as if a person's value is only about its sexuality!
A person's value to this world has nothing to do with who that person has sex with. Sexuality is just a part of our lives, even if you say that being gay is a lifestyle, it really is just about the sex.
Respect has to be the key to all of this. Not trying to explain if it's natural or if it isn't, if it's a mental disease (like some sick moralists try to think) or they born like that. For it is not us who shall judge anyone. "God" gave us free will, right? At the end of the day, I think you will be judged by your actions towards your brother, not who you slept with. And if you can't understand and respect your brother... SHAME ON YOU!
Alexa said
Here are my 2 cents....so, ...Here are my 2 cents....so, some religions say being gay is wrong...ok fine, I have no problem with that.
I DO have a problem with people who believe in above mentioned, and want to push THEIR values on people who believe otherwise.
It is quite simple....if you don't like it, what ever it may be...IGNORE it. It is, obviously, none of your business.
Let mad dogs bark at the moon...in solitude.
stevethetyke said
Why am I not surprised that ...Why am I not surprised that this so called study hails from California!!? What a load of Tosh! Juvenile Male Lions separate from the pride when coming of age, I wonder what them dirty b*ggers get up to in the bush on their own? And why is it always the Women who come out with the sympathy for Queers? some sort of "Sisters in Arms"? I am sorry Girls but until you know what it feels like to be a MAN,you really arent in a position to comment. Also you very rarely see a couple of Dykes invited to a girls night out!!
majidmajidi said
dude, ...you dont know how come society, values etc come in this issue?
do you wear clothes, dude?
fubar said
I'm a guy, and I find the ...I'm a guy, and I find the discrimination against homosexual men (AND WOMEN) sickening.
As Alexa says, if your religion says 'don't be gay' then don't be gay. But that doesn't give you the right to tell others who don't follow your religion not to be gay.
Muslims don't tell Christian women to cover their hair, and Christians don't tell Muslims not to drink, so why should religious types feel they have the right to tell gays and lesbians not to be gays and lesbians?
Mind your own business.
The Dude.... said
Majid, your missing the ...Majid,
your missing the point by 500 miles.
Society - has NO influence on whether somebody is gay or not
Values - has fukc all to do with being gay.
It is either, in the vast majority of gays
1) Natural, by birth. (you may call it a birth defect if you please)
2) Psychological
britexpat said
I am sorry if I take this ...I am sorry if I take this with a pinch of salt. I disagree with the use of the word "Universal"..
I also have read research on homesexuality and same sex coupling. Whilst i agree that the "gene" may be present in all, I also believe that society , its norms and other factors including religion play a major part in whether that "gene" is activated or not.
I recall reading that the Spartans used to encourage homosexuality amongst soldiers because they felt that it created a stronger bond amongst them and thus caused them to lay down their lives for each other.. Now is that natural selection or enforced selection ?
majidmajidi said
good point, ...brit
Alexa said
brit, let me ask you ...brit, let me ask you this....as we all know, homosexuality is against the law in Qatar, and in Saudi, for example. Obviously, the society in these countries do not encourage homosexuality. Yet, there are plenty of homosexuals.
Now, would any half way sane person make the choice to be homosexual? Knowing all the difficulties he/she would have to face?
I think not.
This, IMHO, totally rules out the possibility of choosing to be gay.
It also rules out, IMHO, society playing a role in "activating" the gene.
Let mad dogs bark at the moon...in solitude.
fubar said
It's like choosing to be ...It's like choosing to be blind, or choosing to be autistic.
It doesn't make rational sense to any thinking person.
Why choose to be something that is illegal, typically not socially accepted, and will cause you a lifetime of heartache?
You wouldn't. No one would. Gay people are gay because that's the way they are, not because they choose to be.
More pertinently, none of my gay or lesbian friends say that their sexual orientation is a matter of choice. They knew they were same sex attracted when they were only small children aged 5 or so.
All of them have heterosexual siblings with whom they shared the same parents, schooling, social background, cultural background, etc. None of them were abused in any way when they were young, and they don't recall a 'trigger' that 'made' them gay. In their opinion, they were gay since the day they were born, whether they like it or not.
I'm more inclined to believe the testimony of my gay friends than I am likely to listen to the rantings of ignorant heterosexual people who are just trying to guess in their own minds whether or not it's a choice.
If you're not gay, you wouldn't know.
Simple.
britexpat said
Alexa.. ...I beg to differ..
I believe that in these countries, because of the restrictions, they DO opt to be gay, just for the sexual aspect. Most of these gay guys get married and usually turn to a fully heterosexual relationship after that..
fubar said
Brit, I agree that within ...Brit, I agree that within this region there is no shortage of guys willing to have sexual liaisons with other guys as a way of relieving sexual tension.
But - they aren't gay.
They would never define themselves as gay.
They would never define their sexual exploits as gay.
They would never define their sexual partners as gay.
They are heterosexual guys who engage in homosexual behavior out of desperation.
They are, for the purposes of this argument, irrelevant.
Qatarkid said
Animals do the bizzarrest of things .... ...dogs and pigs eat their own crap..so its natural and there is nothing wrong with it... so lets all do it.......... Right?
No.... but.... no but what???????????
The Dude.... said
Brit, A soldier seeking ...Brit,
A soldier seeking sexual comfort with another soldier, is still psychological.
There is no gene.
It's X & Y and the disproportionate presence at birth that makes somebody gay, yes or no.
It is seldom a conscious choice. Somebody seeks because he feels he needs to search.
The Dude.... said
Alexa has a good point, btw. ...Alexa has a good point, btw.
britexpat said
So Anne Heche or Lindsy ...So Anne Heche or Lindsy Lohan are gay. Yes or No ?
abuabdullah salman said
!!! ...didn't u guys find a better topic to discuss about!!!
being a human, u better first solve ur own complications rather than pulling the speechless animals into this crap!
anyhow, i don't mean to offend any1.. but this topic disgusts me! sorry mates m off.
Peace be upon you.