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What will you feel if your wife leave

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What will you feel if your wife leave you to be with her lesbian lover?
I got a call today morning from my favorite cousin, he seldom gives me a call (we communicate thru e-mail) so I knew from the tone of his voice that it was an important call, so when he told me the news i was dumbfounded. As he was pouring his heart-out asking for my advise if they will just go back to manila and start a new life (they were in canada with 3 kids) i cannot give a clear answer, im just mumbling and i knew i didn’t make any sense, i even joke that if is ellen de generes i will understand her wife.
Is my cousin wife also a lesbian? i swear there was no indication that she is,when i met her.

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Bluemountain said Your cousin doesn't know ...

Your cousin doesn't know what his wife wants.

Learn from VIDEO of lesbian. Than he will know what he should do.

 

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qatarisun said that's how wild canada ...

that's how wild canada affects innocent people...
tsk, tsk, tsk...


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britexpat said QS.. ...

Another different world.. Full of mischief..

Miss Saigon: As for your question. I would be very pissed off..

 

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miss saigon said qatarisun ...

the family migrated only feb. of last year, too much too soon to have an affair.

 

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qatarisun said Miss Saigon, As for your ...

Miss Saigon, As for your question "Is my cousin's wife also a lesbian?", i would say "YES", since she now lives with her lesbian lover...


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qatarisun said well, then we have to admit, ...

well, miss saigon, then we have to admit, that in cold climate people change their orientation much sooner..


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qatarisun said lol.. Drac.. sorry, but ...

lol.. Drac.. sorry, but Chilly and Silly are QATARI product...


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shoeaddict said miss saigon ...

the relationship was never meant to be in the first place
time for your cousin to move on and accept it.
what about the kids?how are they taking in all of these?

 

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miss saigon said hello shoe, ...

i just say that my cousin was devastated, he just want to bring the kids (ages 14, 10 & 7 all boys) back to manila asap.

 

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Bluemountain said Your cousin doesn't know ...

Your cousin doesn't know what he has to do in cold chilly weather

 

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shoeaddict said miss saigon ...

now is your male cousins time to be strong and to really oversee the welfare of his kids.
i have one question though-has he explained his situation with his kids?
i really do not care much for a mother who leaves her children for her own personal satisfaction...sorry

 

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miss saigon said bluemountain ...

they were just starting a life to a new place.

my cousin is engineer by profession and do odd jobs there and the wife is a dentist and works as a caregiver.

maybe after having 3 kids and work 3 odds jobs my cousin forgot to bring the romance back.

 

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Bluemountain said Hahaha I am an engineer in ...

Hahaha

I am an engineer in my country. I migrated to Australia in June very chilly winter. I have three children and working as Waiter in a hotel at night. My wife work in a laundary in a day. We have only one and half hours after I back from my work and before she go to work.
I never wasted those one and half hours every days.

Hope you understand.

 

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miss saigon said shoe ...

i also asked my cousin about it, the eldest have a hint because he asked my cousin why mom is now staying in xxx house.

 

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shoeaddict said just be supportive ...

to your cousin and cousins kids.
very tough time specially to the youngest.
question-does she have visiting rights?is she going to take custody of the youngest?
bugger,questions,questions.....

 

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Bluemountain said He shouldn't send back his ...

He shouldn't send back his children to your country.
This is their life. He should be there for his children life.

This is my suggestion. Don't care what she is doing now.
Concentrate on work and raise the children for their future.
he will forget her in one day. I am sure. I know this is the most difficult time for him. IF he is strong, he will be al right in within 2 to 6 months.

Don't rush be patient. RUSH can be mistake and you can not get back again.

GOOD LUCK.

 

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Bluemountain said Thank you DRACULA I will ...

Thank you DRACULA

I will give you one of my TOMATO JUICES

 

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bubbly1975 said i agree with ...

i agree with BLUEMOUNTAIN,

better for them to stay in canada and REstart.
better chances, better life for the children,
it will sure be hell for him,
but eventually, with the children to keep him busy
he will be fine... HAVE FAITH.
leave the wife be if she chooses the other path.

he must be strong for the children...
HE IS THE BEST THEY WILL EVER HAVE.

 

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miss saigon said the kids ...

were ok according to my cousin, they introduce her as a family friend.


 

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Jackfrost said Lucky man, search for photos, i wish my wife left me for anyone ...

Power to the non believers, it’s a great feeling to have and hold.

 

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miss saigon said Bubbly ...

yes that was my advise just stay, maybe its shame that wants to run-away from it all.

 

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Bluemountain said Canada is not small, if ...

Canada is not small, if possible
move to another city

 

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bubbly1975 said shame will be everywhere ...

shame will be everywhere miss saigon.
geographical changes won't make SHAME go away.

shame and guilt are within...

it will stay for a period of time...
until he lets go of it...
and MOVE ON!

i really wish them well,
ALL MY PRAYERS...

 

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Jackfrost said Bloody carpet lickers, taking a job from a man again. i hate em ...

Power to the non believers, it’s a great feeling to have and hold.

 

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KellysHeroes said unfortunately it is becoming a trend ...

on the same token.I wonder what will the wife feel if her husband is bi and having a boyfriend. Answer would be "it is the fashion of the 21st century". So no harm

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Jackfrost said Sorry drac. it would not be a pretty sight would it ...

Power to the non believers, it’s a great feeling to have and hold.

 

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kamote_ka said better join them for a ...

better join them for a 3some.....

 

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agg822 said why they have to bring back ...

why they have to bring back the kids?
the parents, or at least, those who are acting as guardians, should weigh the pros and cons of moving back to manila or to stay where they are. keep in mind that innocent babies are relying on their judgement, choices and decisions.

 

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Stone Cold said The damage has been done and ...

The damage has been done and too much sins to be forgiven. Ask you cousin to divorced his wife. There are plenty more much beautiful women then her for replacement. Problem solved.

 

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fpgnww said que sera sera ...

what done is done....let him face the good future for his kids....dnt waste his time for nothing...however ask himself WHY? maybe his wife feels better with her lesbian GF than her husband in terms of sex!!! for sure something is lacking!!!!

 

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MissX said I think I would prefer if my ...

I think I would prefer if my partner left me for someone as the same sex as him. I imagine it is easier to come to terms with a biological inadequacy, rather than some abstract personality inadequacy, that will affect how I view myself, and compromise my emotional stability.
Probably.

 

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bubbly1975 said miss x, those words just hit ...

miss x, those words just hit the mark! bull's eye.

 

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legal_pad said Wife leaving you Hi and dry. ...

If my wife decides to leave me, let it be. Just sign my divorce decree and good bye biatch!

I'll hire a lawyer and I will accuse her of abandonment in the moment she steps out of the house

By calling the cops on her and filling a complain against her.

She will be EVENTUALLY strip from any rights, specially when you have in hand a pre-nuptial agreement with that person and you got more Money than her.. Money talks and bullshit walks...

If children are involved, she better not even think of the full custody rights

and Again , If she decides to leave.

Graduated from Xavier Institute for Higher learning.


 

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mmyke said Can he date,,, ...

his wife's girlfriend??

 

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Bluemountain said You never know, he might ...

You never know, he might have second marriage in his life as GOD is giving him a chance. Take it from positive site.

I wanted to but I have no chance. If happen to me I will be very happy and start looking for a new partner.

 

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