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I don't want to be an Indian Boy!!!!

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Wish I was a western boy or even an arab

I’m an Indian, I was born in India, raised, studied and worked in India, then I came over to Qatar. I had a different mentality than otherIndian boys in here, of course as an Indian boy there are rules coming from religion, culture and traditions that have to be followed. But I never cared about any of it, I lived for me, for whatever makes me happy.
I always respected these rules, I don’t break any of them on public. I think everybody should have the freedom to do anything they want. I’m an agnostic so I don’t do everything religion ask for, simply because I don’t believe in it . The conclusion is I do whatever, the sky is the limit for me it’s my choice my decision.
Why do Indian boys have to be a copy of something that they are not. A copy of a smelly little boy that only exists in a scary tale, in the scary tale, this Indian boy has to smell of Onion and Garlic and Coconut oil at all times. He should only meet his wife a couple of times before they get married as she might run away from his smell.

What made me write this article is that one Friday I decided to go to a shopping mall here in Qatar I got dressed, got to the mall then the bouncer at the door says: show me your wife.
I asked: why?
He said: because you’re an Indian!!!!
I said: so…
He said: Indian bachelors are not allowed in the mall!
I said: Indians can't go shopping
He said: no only Families, Arabs or Westerners. You go and join your friends from Philipines, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, Nepal, Bangladesh and go shop at a grocery store
So turns out the government in Doha had posted a rule which is “not allowing single guys to go shopping on weekends” I think it’s unfair I want to spend my money what the hell does the law have to do with it???????
Everywhere you go here, you will notice the double standards laws and regulations. It is totally racist. I hate being an Indian boy in Qatar , wish I was a white boy

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silenced said poor you sandeep. have a ...

poor you sandeep. have a talk with superwoman.
you two are having the same issues. :)

 

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balasang_nakpay said nice one sandeep...lol..... ...

nice one sandeep...lol.....

 

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sandeepkadian said lol Silenced. I am just ...

lol Silenced. I am just checking if the same number of people get bothered about an Indian boy as for a Qatari girl.

My post is in funnies though ;)

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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Gica Contra said Marry Superwoman and change ...

Marry Superwoman and change her citizenship in Indian one. Like this, problems are solved.For both of you. :)

 

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Dot.Com said lol ...

10 + u got ;)

 

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anteeca said Now i have more reasons for proud to be a pakistani ...

As no body can stop me in Shopping Malls even if i am going without family, no body can stop me in clubs. As a pakistani i feel free to go anywhere

Proud To Be A PAKISTANI
.~*AnteecA*~.

 

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sandeepkadian said Gica I owe you a beer for ...

Gica I owe you a beer for that brilliant suggestion :))

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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silenced said sure they are bothered but ...

sure they are bothered but they cannot say anything.
keep it to yourself sandeep, u r only an indian guy in qatar, :P

 

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silenced said lol /-a-t-/ gica ...

lol /-a-t-/ gica

 

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Fawmy85 said sandeep, are you okay? ...

sandeep, are you okay?

 

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Gica Contra said Only one beeer? You're a ...

Only one beeer? You're a rich guy, you gonna marry a Qatari lady! :))

 

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Klos said sandeepkadian ...

It's not allowed to offer alcohol to Gica!

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shanawazt said woowww that was a nice one ...

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sandeepkadian said lol Gica :)) Ok I will make ...

lol Gica :)) Ok I will make it 1 week's free supply of beer for you but no more ;)

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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tatay. said sandeep versus indian in ...

sandeep versus indian in qatar....

 

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sandeepkadian said Oh just read Klos's post. ...

Oh just read Klos's post. Offer withdrawn Gica, I repeat offer withdrawn.....

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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mohannad said what happend to people??????????? ...

I don't want to be an Indian Boy!!!!
I don't want to be an qatari girl!!!!

 

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sandeepkadian said Mohannad please note the ...

Mohannad please note the section it is posted under....

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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Gica Contra said Don't listen the bugger! ...

Don't listen the bugger! Listen to your heart...

 

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arabic_nightingale said hahahaha!!you gave me a good ...

hahahaha!!you gave me a good laugh there sandeep!
i've read the original version of this rant by superwoman.:D

"I am not a native English speaker. So don't mock me for my grammar mistakes."
- anonymous

 

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Klos said I don't want to be! ...

I don't want to be!
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sandeepkadian said But where is the superwoman, ...

But where is the superwoman, I thought she would make an appearance here :(

No superwoman to the rescue here, Will check in again in a bit to see if she has rescued the thread.

If she does Gica the offer will be back in place..

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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Dot.Com said sandeep ...

better not to compare urself with a huge Troll ;)

 

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mr_qatar said dont copy superwoman ...

hey sandee i will gve u 100 points but plzz dnt waste our time by doing such a foolish things 4 just a single point..& plzz dnt try 2 stole anythng..

"War is not fought to determin who is right, only who is left".

 

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twenty said sandeepkadian feel me same ...

sandeepkadian

feel me same

 

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mr_qatar said lol ...

indians r not allowed in shopping mall...ehheheheehhee

"War is not fought to determin who is right, only who is left".

 

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exiledsaint said Are you trying to take my ...

Are you trying to take my job Sandeep???????

 

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flanostu said and your cricket team sucks. ...

and your cricket team sucks.

 

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Klos said That Hurt, flanostu' :) ...

That Hurt, flanostu' :)
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britexpat said Sandeep.. ...

Heartfelt congratulations for asking probably the best question on QL this year and also a very pertinent one.

You are not alone. Many Indians males have made the same comments to me. It is natural to want to be like "the others". To be able to shop wherever, whenever and with whomsoever you want.

To me , It is very unfair that Indian ladies can shop till they drop and are not asked for IDs when entering such establishments. However, please try and see it from you culture and the long term benefits..For example, you may dally too long in starbucks and have too much caffeine and before you know it you are talking gibberish and the lungi has mysteriously riden up to your waist.

How would your loved ones feel ?

Just be happy that things are changing slowly for the better and your time may yet come..


 

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abdullahrafe said GO PAINT urself SANDDEEP ...

well sandeep paint yourself to white and i think that might work

 

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Jaryz said lols sandeep...nice one ...

u posted first! i tried to write also titled "I DON'T WANT TO BE A FILIPINA GIRL"!!!but well you beat me to that...lolssssssss

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sandeepkadian said Britexpat I mentioned in my ...

Britexpat I mentioned in my OP I am different from the other Indian boys, the biggest difference being I don't wear lungi :(

Exiled you are the inspiration behind this, never ever can I dream of taking your job :)

flanostu hmmm one tournament win and you are best again, Brit who won the Ashes this year ;)

Actually I was not trying so much to make fun of superwoman but of all those people who got worked up about her post and started posting all sorts of nonsense.

Thanks for all your comments though..

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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edifis said LOL Sandeep good Piracy! ...

LOL Sandeep good Piracy!

 

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exiledsaint said Sandeep I salute you, we ...

Sandeep I salute you, we need more posts like this and less on the killing the infidel.

If you ever need to get in a mall on the weekend let me know, I hate racist day and those brown secuirty guards never dare to argue with a white westerner even if he has asian friends....

 

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sandeepkadian said edifis the original ...

edifis the original discussion wasn't to my taste hence this :)

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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Aisha said I like this, and I like indian people; many friends of mine :-) ...

LOL what a couple you both are hehe.. Assuming she is an old member of QL ;-) LOL /-a-t-/ her BIG TIME

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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Qtr.Choco said Same TOPIC AS THE QATARI ONE ...

This must be a joke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

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sandeepkadian said mr_qatar take all my points ...

mr_qatar take all my points but please let me post such stuff :(

Qtr.Choco read all the comments, you will get a clue.

exiled don't worry I am just getting started. There are more where this came from :)

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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exiledsaint said Bring it on Sandeep, I like ...

Bring it on Sandeep, I like to see the competition....

 

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shreeya said You are a gypsy male, ...

You are a gypsy male, Sandee...lol

Everything's gonna be alright!!!

 

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Klos said that's true, shreeya. Ask ...

that's true, shreeya.

Ask google about their migration

 

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sandeepkadian said I would have preferred alpha ...

I would have preferred alpha male shreeya but I guess I am wishing for too many things at the same time :(

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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salex85 said hahahahahahahaha.... crazy ...

hahahahahahahaha.... crazy good one.

just to add... if u stare back at those gate securities taking their jobs more seriously than dumb american cops and are able to just say "whats your problem man... ?" they will pee in their blue pants... some times if u really intend to be rude.... use the ef word... it all works... good.

 

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FranElizabeth said Haha ...

Ha, Sandeep- brilliant!

 

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Stone Cold said Borrow someones wife for a ...

Borrow someones wife for a trip to the mall sandeep. Now you are part time married.

 

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yang_ying said lol... ...

not a new issue...

 

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Aisha said haha ...

"You are a gypsy male"

loooooooooooooooooool is it that obvious about SW, I thought it was just me..

-)Dua: Amen :-)

 

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beywald said lol.. very nice what a ...

lol.. very nice what a wonderful way to start the morning... i hope superwoman reads this..

"There are three types of men:
One who makes things happen;
One who watches things happen;
One who wonders what happen."

 

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bleu said LOL, at least you're funny. ...

LOL, at least you're funny.

 

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labda06 said haha sandeepkadian, ...

haha sandeepkadian, FUNNY!!!

--------Do I look like Bambi's sister???-------

 

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Formatted Soul said lol that was funny...had a ...

lol that was funny...had a good laugh early in the monring...
Wish Superwoman answer all your questions..lol

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mdluqman said LOL Macha. You must arrange ...

LOL Macha.

You must arrange to meet SuperWoman.


 

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rheeza said sandeepkadian. ...

LOL.. funny.. if you don't want to be an Indian boy!! Tell me what u want to be a SUPERboy??

 

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north_me said Its not funny at ...

Its not funny at all..
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Its really, really, really funny...hehehehehe!

MO RIN...YUN LANG!!!

 

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sandeepkadian said I liked stonecold's idea. ...

I liked stonecold's idea. Anybody interested in lending me a wife for the weekend??

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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foolish said good job sandeep... ...

you made me smile today :D

 

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Dot.Com said sandeep ...

don't miss the chance, and get in touch with stonecold.
;)

 

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Ice Maiden said This is one of the reasons ...

This is one of the reasons QL is so endearing......the endless laugh riot

 

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Victory_278692 said What a revenge, Sandeep with SW.... .... ...

lets mutually exchange oh sorry you both are moaning on natural gift from your parents so register your complaints with your parents.

Forwarded your request ot Indian embassy for cancellation of your pp and citizenship ;-)

Any more country men/women to crib at Ql? Lolz


 

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EXLegend said its a hillarious tragedy as ...

its a hillarious tragedy as i seen its true.

 

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brave_heart said Its true, but for me I wish ...

Its true, but for me I wish I'm a Qatari boy

 

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sandeepkadian said Victory what have you ...

Victory what have you done!!!!

Atleast you should have waited till I secured the passport of some other country :(

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity. - Albert Einstein

 

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ajinpt said That was hilarious Sandeep , ...

That was hilarious Sandeep , I appreciate it. and u brought the FACTS of racism wrapped in the shade of superwoman's popular post earlier this day..:-)

----If you can't CONVINCE them, CONFUSE them!!!

 

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pwb78 said Very funny. Nice post. ...

Very funny. Nice post.

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Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.


 

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abu_nidal said clothing ...

try not to wear as Indian's: dark colors shirts and old fashion pant's, and that huge Indian shoes like scuare of it front looool
u can do ur hair as Arabs stylish, put some new perfumes as hugo boss or Dunhill not the coconut, clothing at depenhams are on close out this month, so its not expensive.

But at the end u must believe that all Muslim are equals on the Islamic religion regardless any low show u invertly.

and for me personally, i respect all nice ppl.

Pedro Pal

 

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