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Who Speaks For Muslims?
Last night I went to hear an AMAZING speaker lecture on this subject. Dr. John Esposito is the Director of the Prince Alwaleed bin Talal Center for Muslim-Christian Understanding at Georgetown University, and a professor of Islamic Studies and International Affairs. He is the most dynamic speaker I have heard in a long time and made me long for my days as a grad student!
Dr. Esposito has written a book to summarize the findings of the most extensive poll in the Muslim world. Operated by the unbiased professional pollsters at Gallup, and surveying 50,000 Muslims across the world (in every Muslim country and all countries that have sizable Muslim populations), participants were asked questions about religion, issues relating to governance, and social and family values. The findings were very promising as they indicate that we in the Muslim world have more in common with the non-Muslim world in terms of these issues than you might think. To sum up he found that the overwhelming majority of Muslims wanted freedom of religion -- for EVERYBODY (including non-Muslims); a government that allows for participation in the political process (what he called democratization); equal rights for women; access to technology and education (with the understanding that they would be available for use in the way that Muslims see fit; not dictated by someone else); and a society that is orderly with a system of laws. The majority of people polled felt that Shariah should be A source of law, but not necessarily the ONLY source (and interpretations of Shariah were widely varying).
I'm reading the advance copy of the book now and will share more info as I digest it, if anybody wants.
Now, does anybody have any ideas on how we can focus on the commonalities and build a world of peace and understanding? 
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princess habibah said
Yes by allowing people ...Yes by allowing people to move to the country which suits their ideals, values, morals, and opinions on what a citzens rights should be and how the country is run. And respecting each and every country who does not plan to harm any other country and their citizens without all the superiority complexes that believe one system is better than the other in politics and warfare.
And oh yeah to get rid of the current monetary system because it only creates injustice, greed and poverty. As well as opening the door for free travel and citizenship all over the world to those who choose to adhere to their chosen countries policies.
qatari said
looking forward to it ...Looking forward to highlights from the book. Thanks for the post!
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nadt said
thanks for sharing PM, i ...thanks for sharing PM, i would have loved to go to this..it sounds very interesting....yes pls share the info on the book your reading...
heishi said
Of course... ....
jassKat said
Interesting point ...Interesting point Heishi, I am curious as to where you gathered this information from?
On a side note, when I first saw Independence Day in the theaters in the USA, the audience cheered and clapped when The White House was blown up. Does mean they were all anti american?
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princess habibah said
Heishi.. I think you ...Heishi.. I think you have raised some excellent points! And some of your observations have been spot on.
And others not so spot on.. I.E. your missing the mentality and history of those you speak about.. I.E. the pakistanis, the sudanese, the muslims in europe, and the mentality of muslims in their own countries. They each have unique situations and conditions that have helped form the common characteristics, opinions, morals and standards within each catagory.
It is only when one learns how each of these groups, subgroups and their condition have been formed that we can even begin to learn about why such things are happening with the muslims. Which will lead to more questions regarding the religion. I.E death to apostates, lack of democracy in the east, why churches are not readily accepted in many muslim countries and christians are regularly persecuted or denied religious freedom and tolerance in many of the countries who do allow "places of worship,"
A huge difference of belief to what is islamic and what is not islamic exists in the muslim world. Me and PM are currently in a huge disagreement between the fundamentals of Islam. And this disagreement is also being battled in the muslim world as we post.
In support of muslims from a western point of view though.. I think some of your accusations are undeserved as well. For instance, we just had a post about a catholic church being built in Qatar. As in the post above the majority of muslims believe in democracy. Of which I am in full disagreement and feel that this will cause more problems then help them.. (But that is my opinion based on Islamic texts) Most modern day muslims do not agree with this concept as islamic!
How could muslims dare suggest the establishment of shariah law and the disatisfaction of the dutch insult against their religion but isn't it part of democracy that one has freedom of speech and the right to have their own opinions and vote on them? Or does that just apply to the superiority of british/european/american moral? And as an inferior group of people, your opinion is that muslims should not be allowed to have a say in how they would like to be ruled because it goes against your (and those like you) political ambitions and goals. Why the hell did you let them in your country then????
Also the majority of pakistani muslims in britain love this country and feel grateful for the priviledges they enjoy here. Many pakistanis who are first generation often tell me that they are better able to practice Islam in England than they were back in pakistan. And few can tell the difference between a second generation coconut and a born english man.. unless you notice the difference in skin colour and nose shapes.
What is Integration? I never really liked that word because it is not clearly defined. How does one integrate in all aspects of british life such as pubbing, dating, dressing, working if it clearly goes against a persons moral values. British mormons are not considered aliens because they choose not to go to parties or pub meets where alcohol is served.
I live in britain and I feel more than comfortable living here despite some of the racism I receive. However, it is posts like yours that remind me that a great many people in this country truly do not like the fact that muslims are here and stand out in the practice of our faith or cultural prejudices some have inherited.
MR PAUL said
Habibi, you will always find a minority of Idiots, in ANY ...country, who will opose any change from their way of life, In UK, its called the BNP.
However, please dont judge us all by these few Morons !!
You said above that.." I live in britain and I feel more than comfortable living here despite some of the racism I receive. However, it is posts like yours that remind me that a great many people in this country truly do not like the fact that muslims are here and stand out in the practice of our faith or cultural prejudices some have inherited."
I take this to mean that SOME people opose the practice of Islam in UK, but doesnt Saudi forbid the practice of ANY religion other than Islam. That seems that Saudi wants the freedom to practice its faith in other countries, but, hypocritically, doesnt want any other religions in their homeland ??
Here in Bahrain, at least they allow ( and i quote from my residents guide here) Christian, Hinduism, Judaism, Buddism and Parseeism (?)
There is no trouble or violence between all these different faiths and beliefs, in fact, the only trouble is between Sunni and Shia factions !
I guess what im trying to say with this rambling is that, if you want to live in other countries, and practise your own faith, then you have to allow it in your homeland for others as well.
jassKat said
Very well said Mr. ...Very well said Mr. Paul!!!
I really liked: "if you want to live in other countries, and practise your own faith,
then you have to allow it in your homeland for others as well."
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MR PAUL said
Thanks Jass, but i feel im gonna get a barrage of insults from ...some people now, for my comments. I mean , after all, im just a non believer !! What do i know ?
smoke said
Fear not oh wise OLD man ...Fear not oh wise OLD man for my kitty cat is here to defend u, unless they come with sticks and stones then ur on ur own buddy. :)
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
MR PAUL said
Well, its work time. I will check back later to see the abuse !! ...T.T.F.N.
jassKat said
Mr. Paul, you did ...Mr. Paul,
you did nothing to insult any religion, all you did was point out hypocracy. Some times the truth hurts!
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Solid84 said
here we go again with the polls ...With all due respect PM, polls like this are meaningless. How is getting a sample that is only 0.005% of the population (Assuming that there are 1 Billion Muslims out there) be considered seriously?
And if it is taken seriosuly, why aren't other polls like the one by the BBC where 10% of the Muslims polled believe that Sucide attacks against civilians are justified taken as serious?
"here are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics"
Actions speak louder than polls.
joewilliams said
"Muslims...are rioting and ..."Muslims...are rioting and terrorizing the locals to replace British Law...with Sharia Law?" Sorry, have you been to Britain? I suspect you may have written this in a hurry so I don’t want to make a moot point, but this just simply isn't true. Tensions between faiths exist, unquestionably, but Muslims rioting to replace British Law with Sharia Law? Incidentally, a lot more suffering has been created in the name of Christianity (the faith to which I am a subscriber of sorts) historically. I suspect you probably wouldn’t try and get away with tarnishing the catholic belief system as pre-inclined to violence and oppression on the basis of such acts. Thanks.
Gypsy said
I was in a theater in ...I was in a theater in Canada and saw Qatar portrayed as a backwards hovel full of goats and huts. I also saw Iraq portrayed as a lucious jungle, people cheer when a bunch of Arabs were cut down, etc etc.
I also remember when some Christian fundamentalists boycotted the movie Dogma and had it pulled from theaters across the States. I remember cases of abortion doctors, homosexuals, and prostitutes all being murdered in the name of Jesus.
I remember people crying in North America and calling Timothy McVeigh a martyr when he was executed, despite the fact that he blew up a day care.
I remember Ruby Ridge and Waco.
Fundamentalists scare me no matter what religion they use as their excuse. They have a wonderful way of making a minority look like the overwhelming majority.
"I am not a pretty girl, that is not what I do, I ain't no damsel in distress and I don't need to be rescued. So put me down punk, I'm not a maiden fair, maybe there's a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere." Ani Difranco
PM said
Heishi ...You obviously don't know his work and have never heard him speak.
The rest of your rant can just be dismissed as someone who is carrying around a lot of self-destructive anger at the world. Have you and your wife worked out all your problems here yet?
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Frog__ said
Quite interesting posts ...Quite interesting posts :)
PM,
Your title / question is a bit irrelevant , isn't it ? Islam is a faith , a relegion and neither a state nor a nation trying to find a spokeman :) Such a question is just misleading.
Btw , Your response to Heishi is really disappointing. Maybe you just don't have enough time to read his post and u prefer to dismiss it all :) I expect a more intelligent reply from you. Habibah's post was really interesting as an answer :)
PM said
Frog, I have dealt with heishi in the past ...So am fully aware of the rage he has at the Arab and Muslim world -- and yet, is fortunate to be studying here by virtue of his father's work. He doesn't deserve the time it would take to respond to a lot of anti-Muslim rhetoric. I am tired of having this argument with small-minded people who hate the world.
And the title was derived from the title of the book/lecture. So go dump on Esposito, Frog. I'm sure you are itching to do that as it will help you promote your dismal and divisive view of the world
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Frog__ said
lol. I promise I'll do ...lol. I promise I'll do it but for other reasons :)
joewilliams said
Frog dumping on Dr John ...Frog dumping on Dr John Esposito. I'm sure you'll agree, it's quite an image.
princess habibah said
First of all ...First of all Frog..
Please do not try insulting pm by way of me.. or causing her to ill feelings in her heart.. by saying that my reply was better than anothers. All the replies on this website is based on a persons own information and opinion of what is Islam. And this is something from Shaytaan to say such things to another muslim. Even if it did not cause enmity in the heart.
I take this to mean that SOME people opose the practice of Islam in UK, but doesnt Saudi forbid the practice of ANY religion other than Islam. That seems that Saudi wants the freedom to practice its faith in other countries, but, hypocritically, doesnt want any other religions in their homeland ??
I think all british oppose in one way or the other some practices of Islam.. although not because they are neccessarily against the religion but because it is different to their own way of life which they feel is superior, freer and better devised. They do not for example understand why muslims do not touch or have dogs in the house. And tend to find such things odd.. As I was explaining to one lady that we do not allow dogs in our religion. Her reply was that dogs are such a great learning tool for children and she personally believes that every child should have the benefit of such a loyal companion. However, what I didn't say to her was that I personally saw it as inhumane to keep a dog in a small house and out of his natural way of life. They may be trained to enjoy life with humans but that is not necessarily where they would be happiest. Where as I believe they can be guard dogs to protect a large territory. And we all know how dogs are naturally protective. A bit like a man who feels the need to take care of his flock and provide for him.. It is in his natural nature (which is common for most men that is). So such trivial matters and differences of opinion are found odd.. by those who don't understand the reasons behind them!
And so I feel in this way.. that the british focus on little issues of muslims without trying to understand the reasons behind such actions, opinions and way of life. Subconciously, It is different from theirs and people become naturally accusatory and defensive because it means that there is a chance or belief their chosen way of life could be wrong. (I am not generalizing all people like this... but only sharing an example of a few)
The point is that people need to understand the history and mentality behind a persons action before they pass judgement on the situation.
Which is why I found it very interesting that you compared the situation in Saudi arabia to the one in the UK. The fundamentals and facts are entirely different in both situations.
First of all, the Uk asked for the pakistanis to come here. They did not ask them to change their religion.. And they did promise them tolerance in their religion and way of life. They also gave them citizenship and equal rights with all other born british. Allowed them to build mosques, business empires, where national clothing, and mix with those who they choose and feel comfortable with. The goverment allowed british muslims to marry people from their home countries and allow the spouses to apply for citizenship. I have noticed from a few of your posts that you would not neccessarily mix with a different football fan club for fear of prejudice and abuse ... and that was the same case with the pakistanis who came to britain to work in factories and were considered beneath the working class of the time because of the class system inherit within english culture.
Part of the law here in britain and democratic right is that the peoples opinions are valued and if enough of the citizens agree on an issue then that vote should be counted. My feeling from your post is that the british did not realize that muslims would reject your way as inferior when they got here and of course assume that all people of the world should vote and unconditionally agree with the opinions and way of life of White English/europeans which is in fact a very unconstitutional and reeks of superiority complexes.
Do you not agree that a great many educated white women and men have converted to Islam and adopted some of the muslim cultures. A choice and right that Britain has given them. And are these converts any less english or british because they have chosen Islam as their religion?? If they take off the hijab and beard then would that make them more english because they actually look the part?
Muslims in this country, like bahrain do believe in the right for people to worship their religion. However, places like saudi have made it quite clear from the start that a person who comes to saudi will have limited religious rights, will not be able to become a citizen, and will have to go back home once they hit retirement. They did not give any double standards with these promises nor did they decieve the people coming to saudi that it would be a place where one would be of equal status and rights with the citizens of the country. This is a far cry from the historical and current situation in britain where a class of beliefs and values is causing right hand movements such as the BNP who feel immigration is the enemy and the british have lost all nationalism. As I have said in another post, and yet to find the proof for it, that the majority of English do not agree with the immigration policies of the goverment. And would not make friends or have a spouse of an asian background. (which is for a variety of reasons).
And I suppose this brings me back to the social disease within the british culture. In that they find it difficult to speak up for themselves for fear of offending others! Or for whatever social reason they may have. Perhaps for these social and cultural reasons they were not honest about the racism against non whites in britain during the 1960's when masses of mirpuris came to work in factories and indian doctors were hired to work in the NHS.
For those who deny racism has ever existed in Britain during this time would be outright liars. As my mother in law never taught my husband Urdu because she feared it would offend the english. She wore western clothing because the english gossiped about those who wore traditional dress. And she stopped cooking with indian spices because some other housewives would make fun of the curry smell all over the person after cooking and in the neighborhood.. calling them dirty and unclean. (which I found odd because the majority of houses in britain didn't even have inside baths and toilets during this time.) In fact this may be the reason we have sitcoms making fun of those indians trying to be like the english in every way.. even though it was not natural for them.. We call them coconuts! I think it would be very narrow to think that this was a result of them loving everything english. And my guess would be that they found it hard to be themselves and fit into the culture and biases of your people and therefore had to pretend to be something they were not. Perhaps thinking that this was the way to survive and enrich themselves in material goods. (an idea that also came from colonialism was that the british are a superior race) and the countless times pakistanis have called my husband blessed for having a wife with blue eyes and white skin has caused me to realize this fact. Especially when asians are some of the most beautiful women on earth.
So st. paul the fundamentals are very different in both situations. there is whole load of reasons. And the ones I have mentioned are not even skimming the surface of each topic. It is also not the least beneficial in pointing fingers at each other and argueing over the issues. And no one is defending actions that are wrong by the muslims. As the point is to first find out the root causes and then confront the differences between both cultures head on so that people can have unity and UNDERSTANDING between each other.
And I believe that it is also upon the muslims who have chosen to live in foreign countries to show respect and try to understand their hosts. Rather than being so insular and expecting what is not rightfully theirs. We as a people, need to all let go of our biases and past experiences so we can make way for a brighter future. And the first step to getting rid of these biases is by opening our minds and realizing the reasons behind them and how our past experiences have affected our way of thinking and actions. And also having a desire to learn about the dynamics of other cultures and people without compromising our own personal beliefs.
princess habibah said
And St. paul.. I do ...And St. paul.. I do agree that their is alot of hypocrisy within the muslims and their beliefs.. Alot of double standards!
realsom1 said
oh I missed this ...oh I missed this discussion...joining soon
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Eve said
More alike than different ...I got out of Mr. Espositos talk that we are really more alike than different its just ignorance in the West and East keeping us apart. You can all debate religions til the cows come home but we are more alike than we would like to admit!! I am a Peace Pusher and hope one day people just want to call themselves PART OF THE HUMAN RACE THAN BY ALWAYS HAVE TO PROVE A RELIGION. The older you get the more you realize all the fighting and resistance is a waste of time and doesn't get us anywhere. His book is interesting.
PM said
You were there Eve? ...He was a really dynamic speaker and very funny, don't you think?
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Eve said
Best speaker in a long time ...Yeah I was there with a friend another speaker good to hear is Madelyne Albright, I go to hear everyone, when Hanan Ashrawi came to America they said she was a terrorist, she is a Palestinian Peace Activist and Educator, we are soooooooooo screwed up in the world, its like we deserve the world we have! I also love Doha Debates and try to get to them all or download them later. Mr. Esposito has such a good way of speaking and sense of humor.
PM said
Yes, Hanan Ashrawi is really motivating, isn't she? ...I also make it a point to catch the Doha Debates. I have to say that in terms of easy access to interesting intellectual activities, you can't beat Qatar
There are places that may have more going on, but the diversity here and the ease of attending these events makes it all worthwhile.
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manyana said
To answer you ...To answer you questions.
And here is another question while you're at it. If Muslims
want freedom of religion and want to live peacefully in free societies, explain
Europe. Why is it that Muslims in Europe refuse to integrate?
Do you see the contradiction in your statement (Free societies, integrate)?
If Europe is a free society then it should
accept the different cultures, religion and moral views of everyone. Your lot
have the audacity to come over to ME, work and complain about this region yet
you preach integration to Muslims in Europe. I
can only see this point as typical hate confounded by ignorance.
Why is it that Muslims as an extreme minority in Europe, after having
lived there for generations, are rioting and terrorizing the locals to replace
British Law (or Dutch Law or French Law or Danish Law, list goes on for quite a
while) with Sharia Law?
So you mean to say the archbishop of Canterbury
is a Muslim? See most of your opinions are derived from newspapers. Tell me one
demonstration that took place anywhere in Europe
where majority of the muslims took the streets and demanded shariah law to be
enacted? Answer this for me, How come Turkey is having a hard time joining the
EU and Bulgaria is being allowed yet the former has better human rights record,
economic development and freedom of speech?
And, if I may, one more. If Muslims want freedom of religion, why
are people who leave Islam and convert to another faith PUT TO DEATH?
This happens in every single Muslim country - including Qatar.
It's hush-hush over here, but the rule is the same.
OK...another extract from Jerry Farwell speech. You know the miracle about
this is people in their thousands and millions are still converting to Islam.
Care to explain this? Why should we change something that works...lol.
Anyways I see where you're coming from (ignorance) and
the only thing I can advice you on (if you truly want to understand my religion)
is to pick up a copy of the Quran and read it. Did Hitler represent the
Christians and should we generalize and say his actions symbolize what Christians
believe in? That's basically your view point on Islam.
heishi said
Wow ....
samawy said
some guidance ...I have been always promoting responsible dialogue and respect if at all issues connected to religion are discussed in forums.
I have read through all comment in this new post which was just a mere report of an event held in qatar. sfsg, i haven't noted any pure insults used.
BUT with the entry of Mr. heishi last comment and his use of 'evidence' to prove what Islam is, at least to his understanding, i fear the issue will get out of control. I am seeing a scenario of people saying everything anyhowly with no regard to ethics to protect their position at the expense of great religions and millions of followers.
Please PM and others, do not use Quran verses or Hadith to prove your points. They dont do any good. These things have an effect only with the presence of Islamic faith. As you have done earlier in this post, use just logic because it best fits our thinking. You know Quran is not for any mind to comprehend; it is for the believers, the mindful, the thinking .....
Forgive & Forget.
princess habibah said
Samawy.. I completely ...Samawy.. I completely disagree that the Quran is only for our own minds to comprehend. As I would not be muslim today if it wasn't for reading the Quran and hadeeth!
Heishi you make some excellent points. In fact these very same points are what salafi scholars of Saudi, the muftis, and people like myself have been fighting with the so called "learned" muslims for many years.
In your post above you mentioned that muslims have NOT spoke out against the terrorist Attacks. Actually a group of muslims knew about this mentality long before the west acknowledged it and have been speaking out about such atrocities and frame of minds. Furthermore I have personally known many callers in the west who were interviewed on the bbc however when they aired the show they only showed bung bung ding dings. I.E. those from pakistan or those who will show Islam in a bad light!
You are right about the muslims. But that really doesn't have anything to do with Islam. They are uneducated! POINT BLANK! We have everyone and their momma interpreting what they and their countryman think is Islam. So many sects and different beliefs is confusing. Especially when it is topped off with illiteracy, ignorance and other things. Please remember and look at the backgrounds and social situations of the muslims in europe!
So while I did mention in many posts that part of it is due to racism on Europes part.. I also(very vaguely) mentioned that a huge part of it is the lack of understanding of Islam and leaving part of the knowledge.
We have a hadeeth that says that in every generation the people lose a part of knowledge. I.E. they forget a part of the knowledge and fail to act upon it although it is in plain sight and they have no excuse to ere.
As for the quran and hadeeth you you have mentioned. You are right alot of muslims do take it to mean just that. Mainly because they listen to some scholar who has some political agenda and wharps and twists it to suit his goal. The majority of muslims take what many scholars (without looking at the condition of the person) at face value and rarely look into such things themselves. They easily are turned off by those who can and do produce evidence (baseerah) to show the true Islam as a result of their blind following. (Taqleed).
However, if one were to look deeper at these Islamic texts then we would see they came with a timeline! A timeline that can only be interpreted with hadeeth and how the sahaba and tabi'een have interpreted these verses.
Second of all, some of the hadeeth that has been mentioned are considered da'eef at the time of putting them down on paper. I.E. they do not have a valid or strong chain of narrators (isnaad). And it is a reminder how anything from man can be wharped, changed and made to suit the ideas and opinions of man of that time. Hence, the same reason that muslims do not believe in the Bible because they believe it to be changed and added too.. and taken away from over the years.
As for those hadith which are strong then I would say that your missing a big part of the whole picture. For instance the hadith about women (I don't know the strength) but if it is strong.. Would be understood by most muslims. I.E. everyone knows the meaing of "beat" in Islam is to tap very lightly without leaving a mark and is only to show disapproval which suits the nature of a women. After such a tap it is well known that the women is to not be abused again and that it things become out of hand she has plenty of access to help (or should be this way). Also before this very soft and light tap the man is recommended to abstain from sex to show that he is upset. Which is hard for both the man and women and gives them time to think more clearly about the situation. I.E. to evaluate themselves.
And this is another point.. that Islam has its own definitions for every word in the Quran and hadeeth. The definitions are not neccessarily the Arabic definition. And you will hear many times that this is the "islamic definition" of such and such word. Because Islam also defines what each of these words, ayahs and interpretations mean. Which I, as a women, find beautiful in Islam.
And this is where I repeat another concept that I personally believe. We cannot just look at Verse in the Quran and think we know what it says. We must first aqcuire knowledge with ikhlas (sincerety) so that we may truly learn what this religion says and if it holds any truth in it. "Whoever tries to aqcuire all of the knowledge at once will also leave all of the knowledge at once."
1.) Fard al-Ain knowledge- This is obligatory and compulsory for every single muslim to know whether male or female- no one is exempt from this type of knowledge
a.) Tawheed (You have to know Allah in order to worship him solely without any partner)
b.) salah (and how to pray as the Prophet prayed which can only be found in hadeeth I might add) So how people learn to pray who don't believe in hadeeth is beyond me!!
c.) Zakat
d.) Saum- fasting in Ramadan and the ettiquette of fasting
e.) Hajj
f.) Issues about purity. he does everything he can to know what Allah has made obligatory on him/her.
2.) Fard al kifaayah - That is knowledge that if a few muslims take care of then the responsibility falls off the people. And this is understanding the opinions(khilaf) of the scholars, knowledge of usool ul fiqh, memorises the Quran and hadeeth with understanding,
B.) salah.. is how we must know the Messenger and what he ordered us to do and what he ordered us away from with Wisdom and Honesty granted by Allah.
And this brings me back to the post by many muslims who think non muslims cannot read the Quran.. rather it is upon us, as muslims, to help and explain what the verses and Ayahs mean. Your differences, ignorance and double standards have become very plain to see by the non muslim world and this in turn IS pushing people away from islam. And by trying to sugar coat everything that you truly do not understand or have knowledge of is also insulting the intelligence of many westerners.
We should be strong about what we believe(with baseerah) and stick with it! Even if some people go against us!
PM said
Salaam Alaikum Samawy ...I am not one who goes around posting longwinded Quran and Hadith posts, so you needn't worry about me.
Furthermore, I made my point about what I think of Heishi and have experinced the dissatisfaction he felt with my comments in a lengthy private message. He just doesn't get it so there is no point in adding to the argument.
A life unexamined is not worth living -- Socrates
nadt said
PM..totally agree with ...PM..totally agree with you..he doesnt get it and its wise not to get into arguments with someone who can interpret the quran in a few paragraphs...
heishi said
Yes... ....
samawy said
Mashallah Princes Habiba ...Thank you PM and i admire princess Habiba for the vast knowledge on very fine things in Islam. But be careful to choose where to say it. Truth is not pleasing to many of us. Princess, what i meant in my comment is what is well said by you and i quote this paragraph from your post. 'And this is where I repeat another concept that I personally believe. We cannot just look at Verse in the Quran and think we know what it says. We must first aqcuire knowledge with ikhlas (sincerety) so that we may truly learn what this religion says and if it holds any truth in it. "Whoever tries to acquire all of the knowledge at once will also leave all of the knowledge at once." Heishi seems to be having a problem with Muslims and Islam. he does want to know which is which: teachings of Islam and conduct of muslims cant be equated. We are not required to be angels! I must accuse you for drawing your knowledge from websites which are known to criticising Islam only and not from 'scholars' as you mentioned. I was born a Muslim and has a degree in Sharia but i must admit that i don't go on giving definitions of verses or hadith just like that. I know what is at stake, i dont rush. Thank you. ________________ Forgive & Forget.
princess habibah said
Shaykhul-Islaam Ibn ...Shaykhul-Islaam Ibn Taymiyah said:
princess habibah said
So Sheikh ‘Ubayd ...So Sheikh ‘Ubayd al-Jaabiree continues:
Alexa said
Manyana, those texts you ...Manyana, those texts you printed, I assume they are straight from Q'uran?
Have you translated them into English?
I read Q'uran regularly, but my Q'uran is obviously in English, not Arabic.....can I assume your text is from an arabic Q'uran ?
See, I have read something like what you have shown here, but really, what I have read is totally different....is what I read manipulated?
Please let me know, because if what you have is true, I certainly have to re- think a lot of things.
samawy said
princes Habiba, amazing ...What great names and quotes did you post. People of integrity, piety and knowledge who sacrificed their lives and did great things behing the bars.
God Bless us all. I am out.
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Forgive & Forget.
heishi said
About the Quran Translation... ....
heishi said
Interesting Survey... ....
compmad said
heishi, I can't see your ...heishi, I can't see your replies to the above post. It is unfortunate if it is removed. Though harsh, your posts are thought provoking and spot on. One of the few quality messages.
dragonfly212 said
what happened with heishi ...what happened with heishi posts??? all gone by the wind???
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
jauntie said
could it be, Mila and compmad ...that heishi was dragging up an old forum ( just for the sake of it ) which had been dead for a month and had already been beaten to death?
there's a lot of that about at the moment.
where have people's originality gone? Just want to rake up old posts to start new arguments?
start a new one - be brave - make your own statements!
compmad said
No. If you look at all her ...No. If you look at all her messages the entire texts were removed. What happened?