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Few days ago we were going for our daughters health check up, on the signal our driver saw a girl from Philippine crying and asking for help. My wife called her and asked what happened? she started crying profusely. after a lot of effort she regained her senses and showed her swelled face and bruised hands, then she told us that she worked as a full time house maid with an Egyptian family, and was sponsored by them. The lady of the house treated her so badly, she was without food for two days and forced to do all the chores in the same condition. when she couldnt do chores to the lady's satisfaction she shouted at her and thn began kicking her and beating wid bamboo stick. she requested to give her belongings so that she could leave but she refused.she even snatched away her slippers..
Somehow she succeeded in running from there but had no money to go to the embassy..therefore we asked our driver to drop her thr..
It was really horrible to see a human being treating other in such inhumane manner..being maid dosent mean that a person has lost his/her dignity.

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samia08 said egyptian are very very bad ...

egyptian are very very bad .....i wonder why

 

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_______________... said you are good samaritan, but ...

you are good samaritan, but egyptian no. 1 ha...

 

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sir dolly said karma police!!!! ...

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anteeca said VERY SAD ...

Its not about EGYPTIANS or any OTHER NATIONALITY, its all about the culture and principles....

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samia08 said si si anteeca . those ppl ...

si si anteeca .
those ppl are very bad trust me .

 

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metrocity said Some of them are bad , don't comment all egyptians are bad ...

Some of them are bad , don't comment all egyptians are bad, but its very sad, should take strong action against such people.

 

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SCORPION-THREE said I believed, if not today.. ...

I believed, if not today.. someday they will face the consequences of what they did. If not by the Law of People, for sure by the Law of God.


 

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rein said i experienced the same. i ...

i experienced the same. i was on the way to work and suddenly i saw a filipina walking and crying, i took her with me at work. she told me the same story, but her masters are qatari. then i took her to phil embassy.
its really heart breaking. maids are also humans. those people are so cruel, they dont have a heart

"Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak."

 

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anteeca said i know samia ...

but we cant balme to only one nationality, in each country some bad and some good but everyone should give respects to others, i dont know why people misbehave with theis maids and servants and interesting part this that they live with them 24 Hours, 7 days week, 60 Days month and 365 days year,,,,,,

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Ms.Chief_vous said i have a friend (from arab ...

i have a friend (from arab country) & she warned me off Masries, i asked why cause as to date, all Masries i know are good friends/colleagues?

regardless of nationality, there's a lot of bad everywhere.

...thanks for the correction... ^_^

 

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amitafnitram said indeed, egyptian men are so ...

indeed, egyptian men are so cruel! i also had one experience with my previous company!

 

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rj_sniper007 said my sympathy for the filipina girl ...

thanks for helping her.
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Ms.Chief_vous said Thank you Najimijpr & family ...

Thank you Najimijpr & family for being kind hearted...
May Allah (p.b.u.h) continue to bless you....

 

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rein said ms. chief ...

misries? you mean egyptians? its masr :)

some egyptians are nice though..

"Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak."

 

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mabelqat said a very good samaritan indeed. ...

a very good samaritan indeed.

 

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AngelinaBallerina said actually culture and ...

actually culture and nationality have a lot to do with it! In my vast experience of hiring nannies/housemaids..whatever..they much prefer to work for western families, I know, they all told me....now I wonder why that would be???

 

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odinah2k4 said I believe in Karma, someday ...

I believe in Karma, someday something like that will happen to their daughter. Who kills with the sword, dies with the sword

 

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yousri said I agree with Anteeca. Its ...

I agree with Anteeca. Its not about nationality, its a culture in 2nd richest country.

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Stone Cold said They are learning fast from ...

They are learning fast from the Taliban ways

 

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anwar4annu said Get those basturd out of the Doha. ...

Let those family people to be in jail.
Egyptian cruel,mean,basturd,all quality in one place.

 

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anteeca said TALIBAN ...

Stone Cold, have you ever been have personal expereince with TALIBAN? I heard before 3 years that 2 western Females Journalist embrassed islam because of Taliban......? Now.....TALIBAN...
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slim said feeling bad for the lady... ...

feeling bad for the lady...

 

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chinitasai08 said oh how sad... i think ...

oh how sad... i think there's a lot of stories like that here... soooooo sad.

anywayz, najmi ur so kind to do that for her...hope more people like u :)

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astigD90 said arabic ...

Why do some arabic people always did this kind of penitence?? We're both human being, we're not like an animals to do this evil things, so sad for my countrymen for what had happened with her, i really don't know why they threatens this kind of animal people, is it because of insecurity??? especially in Religion, dont you??

 

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rj_sniper007 said astigD90 ...

ehem.. please leave religion out of it.. you are threading on dangerous water.
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Stone Cold said Not really anteeca, but they ...

Not really anteeca, but they have double standards treatments for women..like animals if you like. Is that them that gives destruction to your country of lately.

 

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chinx_lady said im so grateful to hear that ...

im so grateful to hear that you help that girl..may allah bless your kindness.

 

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Happy Happy said najmijpr ..Report the beasts ...

I wish you'd taken the abused girl to the police station instead of driving her to the embassy, the latter is partner in crime, and a pivotal player in the miserable state many house helpers are inhumanly submerged in, in Qatar and elsewhere.

Salam


 

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prettymeeh said filipina & egyptian ...

not all egyptians are bad..i am filipina and my husband is egyptian and he is the best guy in the world..its not about the nationality, its all about personality and how they was raised by their parents..and for your information the egyptians are the oldest civilization in the world who teach the principles and good manners..

 

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Don Robert said Not all egyptians are bad, I ...

Not all egyptians are bad, I agree, but I haven't encountered any good egyptian yet since the day I worked here in the middle east...

"egyptians are the oldest civilization in the world who teach the principles and GOOD MANNERS"

good manners? from where did you get that idea?

 

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UkEngQatar said The core issue here is bad ...

The core issue here is bad treatment of a maid by the Sponsor family not the nationality of parties involved, This kind of bad treatment is only because of the Sponsorship rules in this part of the world, which are no short than Slavery. .

Until these are changed the same will happen again and again, either be a flipina, an Eithopean, Indonesian or a Sri Lankan maid.

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neyo1985 said lol ...

BAD M*T*E*F#$%!*^!

 

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Happy Happy said UkEngQatar ...Slavery is something ...

Slavery is something and criminal act is something else. This sponsor is a sadistic criminal, IF this story is true.

Salam

 

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Happy Happy said "beating wid bamboo stick"..where do they get a bamaboo stick fr ...

"beating wid bamboo stick".. where do they get a bamboo stick from, the jungle or the circus ?

Salam


 

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Don Robert said Sponsorship rule is one ...

Sponsorship rule is one thing but animal behaviors of employers is another thing...even if there's no sponsorship problem here, things like this would still happen due to the unacceptable attitudes of some employers.

 

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pilyo27 said I agree with Don roberts ...

I agree with Don roberts statement... need to revise sponsorship law...

 

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salman icon said I dont want to believe that ...

I dont want to believe that nationality has anything to do with this type of cruelty or misbehave or manners but I have seen the same situation several times especially Egyptians.

I have noticed mostly egyptians are bad in conversation, manners and and far behind with etiquette. Always they are ready to fight. I dont mean 100% egyptian are like that but most of them are. Even I have seen Egyptian ladies are also having the same nature.

I have seen in Qatar 2 Egyptians families in my apartment whose husband was beating his wife very roughly and she was crying all the day. her weeping and crying sound could be listen easily from my flat. I was very disappointed with this type of cruelty but I could not do anything bcoz they were family and having young children.

it is so sad.

 

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mical said Najmjpr, thanks much for the ...

Najmjpr, thanks much for the kindness..the one up above bless you of what you did...
Sadly, a lot of cases like that and I guess majority of the principals are egyptian...i'm just wondering why....These people when visiting to our country, we treat them with so much respect but they treat us badly, regardless of what the condition is, they are not suppose to do that...
Law of Karma will prevail at the end...

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Moh Nader said Fake Story ...

Cuz Egyptians like to eat too much and they never punish someone by food . . . but they can fight only.

 

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nephi2kph said naj........ ...

in behalf of the filipino community here in doha...thanks so much for helping our kabayan's...
may god bless you and your family..

 

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Moh Nader said Labour Law ...

Labor law give chance for this kind of bad people to do that . . . where is human rights . . .

 

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tess_916 said Being a Filipina, I am ...

Being a Filipina, I am grateful for your kindness you have bestowed to one of my countrymen. On the other hand, I am appalled and shocked (although I know there have been hundreds of cases like this) that this girl is treated inhumanely. The Philippine and Qatari governments should enact laws that will help and protect these domestic helpers as they are the most vulnerable to these kinds of treatments. I am also angry at the employment agency that has sent this filipina abroad, without tracking or monitoring the status or condition of the girl. What they only care about is how to dispatch poor girls like her and get money out of it.

 

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tess_916 said In the malls I often see ...

In the malls I often see them: Domestic helpers of different nationalities come in tow with their employers, with small kids to watch and shopping bags to carry, like robots who does not complain. Then I also see them in food courts or fast food chains without nothing to eat or drink, while their employers are on a different table, eating and unmindful of another person that they need to also feed.

 

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Don Robert said You are very correct Tatess, ...

You are very correct Tatess, employment agencies should track and monitor the workers that they sent abroad at all times to protect their welfare. Our employment agencies for me is the first culprit in this specific problem. If they just give a little more of effort, this would not often happen.

Anyway, like Nephi said, in behalf of the filipino community here in doha, thanks to a good hearted fellow like you, though we filipino's and indians such as yourself sometimes battle here in QL, we still have our unity in times of trouble.:):)

 

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Khalid the tiger said Well here is one small story ...

A boy went to a burber (hair dresser) to get his hair cut and the burber nade a bad cut, the egyptian mother saw the boy (her son) and became very angry, she told the boy go to the burber and tell him that he is invited for lunch, the burber became happy, when the burber reached the mother house, he was taken inside and tightened on a chair and the mother came and started beating him.
Really big portion of egyptian women are bad.

 

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jihad.marei said Dear All ...

Dear All,

With respect to all above comments, i would to point out the following:
1- This behavior has nothing to do with nationality neither religion.
2- When X nationality holder acts to take a bad action, we can generalize the case.
3- But on the other hand if each one of us sees him self as an ambassador to his country and religion as well, we will be good to each other.

without any doubts we are grateful for what you did to that poor girl.

regards,

 

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Don Robert said I wan't to believe you ...

I wan't to believe you Khalid but I don't want somebody to bash at me today..lol:)

 

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junarc2003 said that's really sad... thanks ...

that's really sad... thanks for helping our kabayan... God bless you..
"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."

 

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somwerNdmiddle said it's really not good to ...

it's really not good to generalize egyptians as what is depicted in this forum as every nationality has its own rotten tomatoes.

my hat's off to you najmpir and your family for helping our distressed kabayan.

 

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foci3173 said barbaric act of an egyptian! keep up the good work ...

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Hu Wan said The Phil. govt. should ban ...

sending filipino women to work as domestics here in the MidEast! How many of our women have suffered much, not only from egyptians, but from nationals of the countries they serve in. Here's the the list of countries the most number of abuse our women get: Jordan, Lebanon, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia, UAE, Qatar.

Tell me, what do these countries have in common?
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sir dolly said they have in common filipino maids!!! ...

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juandelacruz_qatar said nice one dolly........... ...

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dima_123 said salamat...... ...

keep it up

 

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coolmirror said Apart from nationality.... ...

Why are some people so rude to other persons when they are also human beings just like them.

 

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dima_123 said i know some ...

egyptian who are really bad,bad m************s!am not saying all of 'em, i knew a few!

 

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esther said THEY ARE VERY BAD THEY ...

THEY ARE VERY BAD THEY DESERVE TO BE IN JAIL MAY GOD HELP THAT LADY...AND SEND THOSE PEOPLE WHO DOESNT HAVE HEART FOR OTHERS....

 

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neelia said Astig, Please understand ...

Astig, Please understand what you are going to post first...message not clear my fellow countrymen..Better say it in Tagalog...

 

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Natur said Hu Wan ...

Tell me what all the maids in the list of countries you listed have in common?

 

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neelia said A Good Samaritan ...

Najmijpr, As a Filipino citizen, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the kindness you have shown to my poor fellow Kababayan (countrymen). I felt pity for them (Helpers). Being deprived of proper education in our country was the main the reason why many of them accepted low paying job and quite risky knowing that they have to work inside a house of a strangers much more to a foreign land. Unfortunately, this type of problem is recurring and will never stop from happening again not unless our Country will be able to stand from its' own feet enough to sustain its people so that Filipino ladies will be spared from being sent abroad to work as Helper/Maids. Only then, some of these foreign Bastard will come to realize how important these people are noting some of thier common lifestyle which shows their extreme laziness beyond you can imagine and not to mention many of them smells like a rotten pig meat.

 

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neyo1985 said ha ha ha! ...

rotten pig meat.......ha ha ha...........lol........ha ha ha.........help i'm dying........lmao

 

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sjs said GOOD SAMARITIAN ...

THANK YOU FOR BEING A WONDERFUL PERSON

MAY YOUR TRIBES INCREASE

GOD BLESS YOU

 

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neelia said prettymeesh, girl I agree ...

prettymeesh, girl I agree with you that not all Egyptians are cruel as I have good egyptian friends too, but you don't have to add anything that makes you obviously sounds BIAS...Well, you are right these people are historically on top of the list among the early civilization..but what do you think about the stories on the bible - when they mistreated the Israelites...beat them, have them work 24/7 and even killed some...

 

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stanley_mnl said thanks ...

najmi ur very kind

interligent person hahahah...LOL

 

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najmijpr said We advised her to report it ...

We advised her to report it to the police but she was scared because that lady threatened her of putting blame of stealing things from her house..

 

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najmijpr said Happy.... ...

Your responses are definitely making me think badly abt the Egyptians and thr culture..instead of feeling bad for the girl u r passing stupid comments..

 

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xhameel1 said they eat hammos without ...

they eat hammos without brushin teeth!!!looool

 

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Happy Happy said najmijpr ..Re-read or have someone read my posts ...

Re-read or have someone read my posts to you. I'd still have wished you've taken the girl to the police station, instead of taking her back to the original perpetrators, who will get her back to wherever she came from. I'm sure you meant well.

I'll have to thank you for getting out of your way on that day to help a stranger in need.

Salam


 

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FriedUnicorn said Let us know if there is anything we can do...I can do that is. ...

Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

 

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edifis said Bad Bad Egybtian! ...

Bad Bad Egybtian!

 

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otep said sad to say...egyptians known ...

sad to say...egyptians known as the worst arab people!

 

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Happy Happy said Stop Egyptian Bashing...You're really sick people!! ...

Salam

 

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edifis said Why me sick? I no want to be ...

Why me sick? I no want to be sick.

 

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edifis said But Happy Happy is for sure ...

But Happy Happy is for sure good Egybtian!
Edifis good Egybtian too.

 

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Hu Wan said Natur, they are all working in an Islamic country ...

which purports to have a law and religion so intertwined you won't distinguished one from the other. These countries I have listed have the highest record is abuses according to the statistics, like Jordan which is top on the list.

But there may be more which are undocumented because the govt. simply dismiss, or sweeps it under. How many cases of rape have we read and heard over the news back home. It makes our hearts bleed because each one of them belongs to us. She may be our mother, aunt, or sister. Pisses me much hearing their sad stories. What have they done to deserve such a fate? It's my personal advocacy to discourage any filipina to work in the MidEast as a domestic helper. These places don't deserve the loving and caring that our people are known for.

Let them hire their own kind and do whatever they like for all we care!!!

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yousefmsh said The woman or any family do ...

The woman or any family do this they r not Muslims or they r far a way from Islam ,and never count that where they r from and there Nationality . but what it count is if they r far from God and Islam or not.
The family of the house, to improve the treatment of domestic servants, and respect the God in them, there is no difference at all between the server and Makhdoom to God Almighty, and we have in the Messenger of God (a good example was narrated from Anas - may Allah be pleased with him - said: "I served the Messenger of Allah (nine years told me what I do know cat: I have not done this or that, and nibble on anything at all.


 

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Jo Naras said Statistically shown that a ...

Statistically shown that a lot of Egyptian employer very rude and cruel to their maid......stay away from them

“The fool speaks, the wise man listens”

 

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berkshirelad said I would never ever wish ...

I would never ever wish anyone to work for an Egytian. In their own country they drink throughout the day, their women shake like Shakira but when they leave their country they think they are holier than the holiest. I was in Sharm Al Sheikh last year during the holy month but it was like being in Cannes..........

 

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Natur said Hu Wan ...

What has they done to deserve such a fate? I will tell you what have they done. They went to those countries although they know how it is over there. As you have said, you hear lots of rape and abuse stories in those countries. Then why do you send your relatives there?

Religion has nothing to do with it. If this is how your mind is, then i feel pitty for it, because actually Islam respects women and give them all thier human rights. You can think whatever you want about Islam and i won't preach you because I don't see it worth it. I also have my own opinion about your religion.

Wifes in US are abused as well and everywhere else, so don't tell that abuses in Muslim countries are more than anywhere else. If its true, the reason is more of your people tend to work in the middle east. If there are 1 million maid in the middle east and 10 000 maid in europe, then most likely you will hear about more abuses in the middle east.

If you are a blind, don't follow the wind

 

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tess_916 said Ban sending maids to ...

Ban sending maids to countries where there are high statistics of rape, torture and murder. The Phillippine government should start opening its eyes to the real problems of DH, and not only care of OFW remittances. One cannot blame these poor families. They go abroad to have better lives for their families. It is a gamble, but they should also be protected.

 

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yousri said Tess 916. Great choice of ...

Tess 916. Great choice of words.
No doubt Philippine government should take some steps to minimize these kind of sad incidents. If not, atleast Phillipine embassy should take some bold actions.

"Think 100 times before you take a decision, But once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man" - Muhammad Ali Jinnah

 

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Natur said Yes tess, ban sending them for thier own good ...

By the way, I have a simple question. I have not been in the Philippines yet, but i am planning to visit Philippines and some other neighbouring countries. Is Philippines free from misstreating women and abuses?

I have many filipino friends and I heared good and bad things about it. Some has told me that citizens themself are very careful and afraid of thier belongings when they use public transportation. About drunk people at nights all over the city. About gangs kidnapping women and beating them up for some reason (revenge or whatever), about Kulam...etc. About men cheating thier women all the time and so on.

Also, I heard good things like the beautiful landscape. The open minded educated and friendly people and so on.

I have friends who were living here and they moved to Canada or Australia or any other Western country. They are filipina as well. Know what they said? They said it is not safe at all there for women, especially at nights.

What najmipr mentioned could be true and yes you guys hear stories about rapes and abuses in the middle east, but I bet on that they are not as much as in other countries including Philippines itself.Its just that there are over one million made from the Philippines in the middle east and so you will naturally hear about stories like that.

Have you ever heard about what dirty and very bad things some maids were doing to the children and they were caught. Me myself have seen this very dirty and disgusting behaviour of one maid to (I think a Qatari) kid infront of Sana shop months ago. Should I come here and post a thread about it and many other stories we hear in media about what maids are doing here?

Now please, don't generalize and pre-judge people according to thier race, or religion, or nationality. By the way, I am not Egyptian:)


 

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showaffairs said Egyptians Very Bad and Lack humanity and sense of humor ...

Egyptians are damm bad peoples.. they dont have the sense at all.. but also they act as they know evry thing..tahy dont know how to care abt the humanity. . in my day to day life i come across soo many egyptians .. all are very bad. they are looking how to cheat people. one man, who is working with me took money from me and with out telling me he left to his country..any how i got the money from his uncle.. after he reaching here in doha he came to me and told me that he forgot to give money..wat an excuse.. again he asked me for som mony i told to get lost..like dat.. dont ever trust EGYPTIANS..

 

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Natur said Egypt ...

showaffairs. I was thinking the same as you before. I thought that there is no single egyptian who can be trusted. Simply, because i never met any who you can rely on as trusted friend, but guess what? My sister got married to an Egyptian. When I knew that there is an egyptian who asked for her hand, my first reaction was hell no! did u loose your mind?! Egyptian? I have never met a good egyptian and you know it well! please think it all over again. My family asked about him and sent people who we know in Egypt to ask about him and everybody has said good things about him. My parents asked my sister and she accepted him. She knew him before. He was a regular client on thier workplace and seems like they liked each other. He simply asked her for my family home number and called the house. If he was bad, he would not have marriage intention and would rather prefered to play around.

They are married for 3 years now and they are one of the happiest couple i have ever seen. I found him polite, respected with an open mind and well educated. Never said a bad thing and always good to others. She is lucky.

You know that Egyptian population is more than 80 million, so you can expect to meet lots of bad untrused people from Egypt. Lets say half of them are bad. This means 40 million and lots of them are working abroad, but if we look at qatar population, we will find that Qataris are not more than lets say 300 000 citizen. Half of this is 150 000. Out of the 150 000, you might find only 10 000 living abroad or visiting other countries such as Thailand for example. You might find 9900 of those visiting Thailand are very bad people with very bad intentions. Will this make you prejudge Qataris and tell all Qataris are bad?

 

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nohashakib said taking this whole matter ...

taking this whole matter practically is a phase, and placing curses and the worst words ever on a certain nationality coz anyone of you have a PERSONAL experience with it is another issue, so let's take it step by step.
Western families that maids PREFERE to go to .. those countries have the HIGHST raping, abuse and crime percentage all along with the US, its not me saying its the official counts, and if you dont have any knowledge of that you can watch Hollywood movies, especially the real stories ones based on crimes.
Arab countries have much safer environment, AND MOSTLY IMPORTANT more money that's why western families come here or else why they do, they could stay still at thier home COUNTRY.
to all those members who used words like bastards and bad ... etc. i never ever felt hatred like this thread, what's happening exactly, why didnt anyone of you asked a logic question, what did this maid do to deserve that?
for your info I knew families who thier flipino maid sexually abused thier kids, so why dont every one of you put himself in this lady's shoes then let's see what he will do, doesnt mean its the right re-action to take, but NEVER blame the reaction, first ask what was the action, NO PERSON IS ABSOLUTELY BAD AND NO PERSON EVER IS ABSOLUTELY GOOD.
I will ask one question, Have anyone of you ever heard of an angel-like maid and although this her landlord abuses her, never, or may be rare cases when they have problems, always the maid is the poor side of the equation, although she could steal, break, ruin your kids, and after all that you are to be blamed, you are the monster, I am quit sure that major of participants on this thread are singles who dont know what means a home, kids and a real responsibility life means.
Anyhow let's return to our seconed issue, Egyptians are bad ... why coz they have loud voice? all mediterenians have, they fight, also those are features of most of Arabs, but Egyptians tend to win the fight, that's why they r bad, meeting one, two or even 20 egyptians in your whole life wouldnt place anyone of you to judge 80 million population country, you got the scale its 20:80000000 how much is that, do the calculation, as you are smart all of you.
And if everyone of you told me his nationality, I swear to god I will tell you forgery and abuse stories more that you can imagin.
we cant judge on each other absolute judgements coz that sucks, Plus no one here is qualified to do so, so Plz no raciest opinions, no religious openions, and no politics ... as at the end of the day we are all expatriates who left our countries for different reasons, but one aim.

N.F SHAKIB

 

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Happy Happy said nohashakib ...Suppressed Racists ...

There are racists all over the world, as you can see on this thread, most of those who replied left the real issue, and showed their hatred, racism and jealousy, I think they're profoundly repressed and suppressed for many obvious reasons.

For the other few balanced voices, I admire your wisdom and effort to analyze the root cause instead of yapping like the rest.

Let them vent here, I feel sorry for them and for the abused girl, if this story is true.

Salam


 

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s2dius said Now i wonder what help the ...

Now i wonder what help the embassy was able to hand over. Just sending her home back in the Philly i guess- i think that's how it works for our hardworking maids. so sad.

I have a very good Egyptian friend. Can't judge them in general. In any nation there will be bad and good. Let us be cautious always with the people we meet.


 

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Happy Happy said s2dius ...Check the new accounts on this thread ...

Check the new accounts on this thread, you'd find new IDs signed up for slashing and bashing, just for the fun of it, and to flare it all up.

Thanks for your kind words...:)

Salam

 

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fareena said najmijpr..... that is very admirable of you... ...

bless your kind heart a thousandfold for the kind assistance.

this is the beauty of blogging sites. we learn to understand profoundly human behavior and individual differences by observing and reading posts where in the end made us draw several conclusions about issues and human behavior in itself. only by digging deeper into the issues, we learn to understand thereby avoiding premature conclusions.

we have to both look at the sides of the coin. why was the maid treated such badly? why was the master acted to horribly? stereotyping can never improve the chaotic workld we deal in, thus simply compounding the strength of the bomb called racisim.


 

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marie_2 said ....ggggggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrr ...

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...listen to the sound of silence....

 

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