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When a love seems Distant
As they say, love is real, no matter how u feel, no matter you don't see it.
LIVING ALONE AND FARAWAY: It is very fulfilling when things are goin great in your life... when everything is are easy upon your reach, sumptous food, jolly friends, happy family, good health and happy situations... but circumstances are not always pleasant. There are bits of things your heart always longs for -- the warmth love of your life... What do u do when the love seems a thousand miles away?
The deepest level in bringing relationship is faithfulness in spite of distance. But it's painful, distance draws u closer into boredom... Trusting and holding unto with it will be the sole consolation to your loneliness yet when temptations sorrounds, Gawwd! how can u carry it on and loving it more when the love of ur life seems distant?
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Vivo Bonito said
any enlightenments? glad to hear from your experiences...;) ...MagicDragon said
No enlightenment. I'm ...No enlightenment. I'm completely in the dark.
"Love Me or Leave Me"
(MagicDragon)
dekyo2000 said
simple lang bro.... ...find somebody within your reach.
absence makes the heart forget... partee on!
Vivo Bonito said
/-a-t-/magicDragon... am .../-a-t-/magicDragon... am thinking u were Dracula... ;)
/-a-t-/dekyo... waahhhh! PLDT - Touching your Lives...:D
or...
maybe, to mature a relationship, trials is really put there, to test it with periods of "seeming separation" --- times when it feels as if she has abandoned or forgotten you?
ahmary_080908 said
sorry to say that i never ...sorry to say that i never believe in long distance relationship..why??????lets say i trust my partner that much but how about the sorroundings?temptations are everywhere,and mostly those people who are serious and a faithful one are prone for temptations.this is evil trick...they will challenge your personality,then they will take the advantage of the weaknesses till you fall...asking guidance to GOD and faith and sincerity to someone you love are the best things and put always in our mind specially while we are in abroad...
mary faith said
all of us are vulnerable to ...all of us are vulnerable to temptations yet some are able to fight against it.There are positive ways to conquer loneliness and boredom..like ahmary said..ask guidance to god and faith and sincerity to someone you love are the best things u can do...
Passion said
Wag alisin.. ...ang feeling of love and magic with each other, kasi pag nandun yun, yung kilig factor laging kasama, isa pa yung memories it will also keep us close kahit malayo siya sa akin.. and lastly always remind each other how much you love each other everyday..
There is no Long Distance about LOVE, it always finds a way to bring hearts together no matter how many miles there are between us..
~ LiFe is Unfair.. but it's still GooD ~
Vivo Bonito said
salamat sa tatlong huling ...salamat sa tatlong huling comments. thanx and that made me comforted... maybe this is just normal part of testing and maturing one's relationship... each couple i guess goes through it at least at once or usually several times. It is painful and disconcerting, but perhaps it is certainly vital for the development of one's trust and faith... is knowing enough to give hope when we couldn't physically feel the the visible evidence of love?
the challenge is very clear... the most common mistakes we make in a relationship is seeking an experience rather than seeking the wonderful promise it has awaits.
britexpat said
Long distance relationships ...Long distance relationships require extreme hard work. All you can do is focus on your goals and why you are apart.
jervis said
Vivo - Brits right. Long ...Vivo - Brits right. Long distance relationships require a tremendous amount of work. But its rewarding eventually. When you move away it doesnt seem as bad at first. Once the realisiation(that you'll are apart) sets in, you may feel lost. Remember why you are in a relationship in the first place. Its easy to transfer emotions to a person at hand. Primarily that just compensating for the loss.
Communicate with your partner as frequently as you can. Use every channel possible (phone calls, emails, letters, carrier piegons.. whatever). It will keep your passion and relationship alive.
Nothing makes up for your partner not being here, communicating just takes the edge off. Good luck Vivo.
---I belive in ME. I believe in You---
Jaryz said
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS????? ...WITH CAPITALs pa yan huh???? One in a million ay nagwowork yan, ask yourself now are you 1 in those millions????then congratulations!!!
LDR will work in few weeks or few months only after goodbye bunot ka na lang.
Vivo Bonito said
thanx britex n jervis. ...thanx britex n jervis. during times of a ralationship dryness, relying patiently on the promises up to the time we'll see made me realized that it is a way taking into a deeper level of trust. the only words i hold into, "i never doubt in the dark what she had told in the light."
Trustful but feeling despair at the same time. this sounds like a contradiction. okey, i trust but am wiped out.
was it that admitting one's hopelessness can be a statement of trust & faith?
jervis said
Vivo - Yes. Hang in there ...Vivo - Yes.
Hang in there Vivo. You've got one lucky lady! :)
---I belive in ME. I believe in You---
MrsTimebandit said
Vivo... you said it all: ...Vivo...
you said it all: "the most common mistakes we make in a relationship is seeking an experience rather than seeking the wonderful promise it has awaits."
It's not easy being apart, but Jervis is so right. Tranferring your emotions to another because you feel lonely is like sticking a tiny plaster over a gaping wound - pointless. And yes, frequent communication is vital. Timebandit and I thank our lucky stars every day for Skype - it means we can be in touch constantly throughout the day, and share everything as we would if we were together. We do get down sometimes, but then we remind ourselves of why we decided to do this - in order to build a better life together in the future. That's what makes it worth it.
'Up there for thinking....down there for dancing.'
doham1121 said
JARYz are you sure of your ...JARYz are you sure of your stats? 1 in every 1 million.? hahahahah...maybe your speaking for yourself hahahah
"HIPOS DYAN!!!"
Vivo Bonito said
there are times that love ...there are times that love appears to be MIA-missing-in-action in our own life. Sometimes, waking up one morning and seems all your feelings are gone. Suddenly, you tried to reach but no replies. you'd tried to ask from her friends yet you got no clue. And then, you begin to wonder how long this relationship gloom might last? days? weeks? months?
it feels as if your prayers simply bounce off the ceiling. A situation that stretches our trust and faith most will be those times when life falls apart and the generosity of love is nowhere to feel... How do u stay connected in a a crisis without initiatives of communication?
om Maui said
Skype has a way of ...Skype has a way of shortening that distance. you get to see each other and talk as long as you want. if you are referring to your spouse, then it sounds like a lot of hard work, but pays off in the end.
but if you're into a non-committal relationship, then just quit and find a new one. what's the point of struggling so hard for something that apparently is not working?
marie_2 said
...hang on to your love mr ......hang on to your love mr vivo, if its strong enough it should pass all kinds of temptations
...listen to the sound of silence....
jervis said
Vivo - We can advise you on ...Vivo - We can advise you on what to do. Not how to feel. Thats the mystery of being in love. There isnt a fixed set rules you follow. You make it up as you go along.
How do you stay connected in a crisis without the communication? It appears you've tried the obvious channels (internet, friends, phonecalls,). Go to plan 'B'. Pray.
You're in a relationship. Give your partner the space and time she needs. She also has to cope with this situation. And she may not have QL as a forum to talk to others about it and share :)
The doubts are natural Vivo. You've probably had them when you began too. This is a new phase in your realtionship, you're bound to have these and more.
---I belive in ME. I believe in You---
smurfpet06 said
Vivo...i do believe that she is suffering too like you do.. ...maybe more ,but it's your feelings of solitude that kills you ,try to hang out with friends more often, enroll or join into some sports clinic ,or gym..but still it's your choice and your feelings that you have to follow.
Because for me if the person is worth loving,he will have my loyalty no matter what,where and when..i believe in unconditional love as well.
Temptations are everywhere, so be ready to take control of it or to take the risk of loosing the one you love for the new one if ever.Good luck!!!
Keep praying so you'll not be mislead.