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To Be with a Non-Filipino A Sin?
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Im married to a non-filipino man and it pisses me off everytime we go out like shopping and people will gv us this nasty looks as if it is a big deal for them if a filipina is with a guy of other nationality (mostly who does this are indians). Sometimes also some kabayans would say " Nakabingwit Si Kabayan Ng Malaking Isda",it always happen to me in Souq, I mean Why? Is Loving Him A Sin?
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Don Robert said
your posting in the wrong ...you're posting in the wrong section.
warm_heart said
u r right ...Wen i used to walk with my philippina gf even in Thailand all the indians were looking in a bad and impolite way, they r like that, just ignore them, i think no hope with them, sorry but this is the truth.
iren said
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dima_123 said
am ...sure this will go a long long way AGAIN...!
mjamille28 said
just ignore.. they don't ...just ignore.. they don't know any better..
dima_123 said
.. ...this is normal specially here. just ignore 'em & live ur life...
warm_heart said
Dont worry ...Make sure that the problem is not u and ur asawa, the problem is the indians, so! no need to worry.
iren said
But sometimes it so ...But sometimes it so depressing. My husband asked me "where in the world we can go so we dont see this i*****t people?"
the bee said
Iren Who cares whom are you ...Iren Who cares whom are you married to and whom are you sleeping with. As if Indians has nothing better to do. Get a life and be carefull when you abuse people by religion,race and nationality on a public forum.
warm,heart which Indian did screw your 455 you looser? you have been crying allover against them.
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watch n have fun
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mjamille28 said
i know the feeling... some ...i know the feeling... some of them are just envious, and some are just plain narrow-minded, because they think they're just after the husband's money, which may be true BUT only in some cases mind you.. there is nothing more that can be done about these people who have such mentality.. just forgive them, they don't know what they're doing..
mamamialicious said
don't bother to mind those ...don't bother to mind those kind of peoples.the next time those peoples stares at you,just simply ask them a big "YES"?
dima_123 said
just... ...take it like this every time it happens. they envy you as beautiful couples. (inggit lang kau) lolz
citylineexpress said
Warm_heart. This is for you. ...Warm_heart. This is for you. Do you know that most Asians, American, Europeans and Arabs in Qatar contrubuted in variuos ways for the innocent people who were displaced in Philippines due to the floods? I don't blame all Philippino's. But you in particular is very ungreatful. Give a thought about it cold heart.Don't blame any race or nationality.
stanley_mnl said
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iren said
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britexpat said
I don't know what " ...I don't know what " Nakabingwit Si Kabayan Ng Malaking Isda" means, but people will always feel its their right to pass judgement. Let it wash over you.. ignore it!
LadyChaRM said
Ignore them as long as your happy and married they just envy u. ...it's bcoz of some bad reputation of filipina girls here Qatar. But I think indians must not based on one person, right? God created us to be different, all are not the same.
Good luck!
-"You wouldn't appreciate what you have until it's gone!"-
Alumnar said
ONLY ENGLISH ON THE MAIN FORUM!!! ...Stanley, you comment is gonna go poof!!! counting... 3 - 2 - 1 - GO!!!
Munna143 said
Alumnar lol gone :) ...Alumnar lol gone :)
Alumnar said
Munnaaaaaaaaaa!!! ...Hello! Are you gonna behave with me tonight??? ;)
As for the original poster - don't listen to others, don't let them affect you. They are ignorant and don't deserve a second of your attention or worry. You love your husband, who cares what nationality he is? There ARE a lot of marriages which work NOT based on money, but hey, try telling that to small minded people...!
Keep your head high and look down on those people. They will soon get the message!
dmigtysolomon said
Iren, you have to live with it........ ...it's really a bad perception created by others. It's your life and you have to live with it. Or else......
"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"
Eagle_of_Heaven said
again n again .......................................... ...Nothing is more relaxing than flying like an Eagle in Heaven !!
again n again. filipinas like any other women from other nationality. some have bad reputations and i doubt that this is correct but people think that a couple of different origins (u can deduce that from the look) are together bekoz they r in relationship (sex). their conscience think like this. they doubt that the couple are married. my friend is lebanese. he is married to a filipina now for 4 years. they r happy but they keep facing this problem here in qatar, lebanon .. everywhere.
i feel sorry for that as well ...
Munna143 said
Alumnar lol never :) ...Alumnar lol never :)
stanley_mnl said
heheheh iren ...hehehe iren they remove my msgs MHALES hahaha ill send it to you by mail
intelligent person hahahah...LOL
twenty said
Just ignore ...Just ignore them
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Never argue with an idiot,they drag you down to their level and they beat you with experience
Alumnar said
twenty... ...... I just adore that quote you have! How can I get that onto my posts? I want it please :)))
stanley_mnl said
hehehe iren ...the only way to prove that you love him is to make a baby and show it to all kabayans... heheehe im sure they will love you too...hehehe
intelligent person hahahah...LOL
iren said
We are planning to have a ...We are planning to have a baby but given we have no relatives here to help us with the kids and we both work this is an option that will probably happen only when we move to the Philippines.
Hannah Montana said
What is your man's ...What is your man's nationality and age. Old Westerner?
azilana7037 said
grin and bear it...meaning: IGNORE THEM...that's it... ...Its frustrating to hear those side comments but it's your life and your relationship with your husband is what's important.
You live your life you see fit...those i***ts are just sourgraping...hehehehe
iren said
To Miley Cyrus, What does it ...To Miley Cyrus,
What does it matter what nationality he is?????Yes, He is a westerner but we are of similar age.
Hannah Montana said
Nationality does not matter ...Nationality does not matter as long as he is from Western Europe or the US for some girls.
Have you ever thought why people stare at you? There must be a reason.
navdak said
Maybe they are glances of ...Maybe they are glances of admiration and not stares. Just give a positive twist to things..
mdshababkhan said
Friends, In this world every ...Friends, In this world every body wants publicity free of cost and she is getting what she want.
In my opinion this marrige was an intentional act of publicity stunt.
e.g. My friends it is obvious that if a cat and a lion with walk togather this will be of course a drammatic scene for all public....not only for i*****t
Just think abt it...
iren said
This is sooo shallow. What ...This is sooo shallow. What matters is love, understanding and compatibility. Marriage is not a few months thing it must be solid enough to last a lifetime.
Only thing that comes to mind is that they are retards, morons, racists and biggots that can't understand that love knows no boundries.
Sometimes I feel pity for them.
Hannah Montana said
maybe.. other Filipinos are ...maybe.. other Filipinos are jealous
Hannah Montana said
mdshababkhan, who is lion ...mdshababkhan, who is lion and who is cat in this case?
Hannah Montana said
Agree with you Iren. ...Agree with you Iren. Marriage is not a few months thing it must be solid enough to last a lifetime and until you find someone better.
warm_heart said
hannah ...Philippinos are not jelous, they are good and should be proud to themselves, she is not talking about jelousy, its curious indian ppl no more.
mallrat said
..How come when a girl ....
.How come when a girl dates a rich guy everybody calls her a gold digger?
Well if you have dated rich people in the past then people might get the idea that you just like the person for their money!
BUT think about it this way, if this person had NO money...his dad lost his job and his mom got sick so they had to pay for hospital bills would you still like him?
if the answer is NO...WELL you pretty much are.
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but if the answer is YES, then ignore the rude and JEALOUS poeple calling you that.
Be honest with yourself and try and do something to stop if you are.
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Talk to my crown......
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jervis said
Iren, you obviously love ...Iren, you obviously love your partner. What does it matter what anyone else thinks? People will stare at you or comment or pass snide remarks. So?
---I belive in ME. I believe in You---
warm_heart said
i think ...We should have a group or a society for all the philippinos who have different nationality asawa, i'll be a member.
iren said
It is people who behave this ...It is people who behave this way that make you wonder at times if there is something wrong with you or if you have committed a sin? Why do they look at us like an oddity and make us feel not comfortable being around them? Of course we are not odd or wrong. Why can't people just accept others as they are??? What makes them better or gives them the right to judge us?
jervis said
Iren: The only person giving ...Iren: The only person giving power to others opinions and ideas is you. The more you allow it to affect you the more you trouble yourself. You've found a partner to be happy with. Let that be the focus.
Admitably its different being a mixed couple. But if you want you will find multiple differences with couples anyway. Age, Religion, color, nationalities.. the list can go on. What most important is that you and your partner love each other. The rest be damned!
---I belive in ME. I believe in You---
Hannah Montana said
I am so jealous that you ...I am so jealous that you have trapped a rich guy Iren.
navdak said
Iren I am sorry but you have ...Iren I am sorry but you have been judging people since your very first post on this thread, calling them racists, bigots and what not when you don't even know why they were looking at you is judging them. They also are judgemental for the very same reasons that you are.
Hannah Montana said
navdak you are so wise. ...navdak you are so wise.
iren said
Navdak: Calling things by ...Navdak: Calling things by their name is not being judgemental.
To Hannah: You are stereotyping here. What makes you think that a westerners immediately translates into a rich guy? If we had money we would not be both working here.
best-qatar said
Be more Specific ...It would be better if you mentioned the nationality of the person to whom you are married. Because if you look like a joker pair , then ofcourse the crowd would like to take a look.
The best thing is to avoid looking at others.
dmigtysolomon said
talking about being judgemental..... ...second the motion, navdak!
"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"
navdak said
Iren I am sorry but you are ...Iren I am sorry but you are calling them "things". No matter how good or bad someone is, they are still humans and yes, you are judging them.
Harry99 said
Why do Kabayans make fun of ...Why do Kabayans make fun of you ?
gadarene said
Nobody should judge ...Nobody should judge you,you're absolutely right about that but just like every coin has two sides,the other side to this coin is the fact that MANY of your fellow kabayans are with non-filipino guys ONLY for their money & a LOT of them are visible in this country for two reasons:-
1) the high % of professional 'single'(maybe married but here on a year or two year contract without family) men.
2)the high % of 'single'(again maybe married with kids but not living here) filipino women.
So the chances of the above mentioned kind of relationship materializing is fairly high,so if your fellow kabayans are setting a precedent for these kind of judgemental looks,what you should be doing is mentioning that in your post as well & your post should actually say something on the lines of "just because a lot of my fellow kabayans hook non-filipino men because of their paychecks doesn't mean all are like that & onlookers,be they male/female,Indian/or any nationality shouldn't judge me just by looking /-a-t-/ me."...There are cases coming up every single day /-a-t-/ the Indian embassy of distraught Indian wives,sometimes with kids,having been abandoned by their Indian husbands who have just left them & are now having affairs with filipino women & in most cases,these women are aware that these men are married & have kids but thinking nothing of breaking up the marriage...so Iren,tell me something & please don't get me wrong,i'm only asking you this question since you chose to point a finger specifically /-a-t-/ Indians,why is that in almost ALL of these cases,the women in question are Filipino?...it's 50% the man's fault you may say & i fully agree,what i'm asking about is the other 50% that's your kabayan's fault...
Hannah Montana said
Not stereotyping actually. ...Not stereotyping actually. Western expatriates earn much more than others in the gulf. You both are working but there is a difference. You man is drawing 50,000k per month and you 2,500k..
YOUR average income is 51250k!
Hannah Montana said
Now you don't say that I was ...Now you don't say that I was wrong.. he is getting 49,000k and you earn 3,000k!
FriedUnicorn said
Just ignore.they will get tired.Why bother? ...Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
Hannah Montana said
gadarene sounds like an ...gadarene sounds like an eastern European.. your grammar sucks gade.
gadarene said
oops,you just gave yourself ...oops,you just gave yourself away hannah...i always knew it was you keeley or drywood or one of the many avatars you've used,just confirmed it now...thank you!
navdak said
Hannah Average Income = ...Hannah Average Income = (50,000+2500)/2= 26,250
You have an interesting way to do maths.
iren said
Have you been to the West ...Have you been to the West and seen the cost of living there? You may be awed by the 50,000 but by the time you look at the savings left at the end of the month you are not rich if you take that back to a country where a can of coke costs QR 7 and a liter of gasoline costs QR 9
dmigtysolomon said
you don't know what you're saying, Hannah....... ...is that an insult or what? Does a young woman like you see things that way? Is that your belief? What will say next, you are better than us? That westerners are better than us? Shame on you! Do not insult my kabayan! Your thinking is way below the forum's discussion!
"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"
Hannah Montana said
Who is keeley or drywood? ...Who is keeley or drywood? You always knew? drunk?
Hannah Montana said
my average is the average ...my average is the average how a woman calculates for her share. It is correct even 'mathematically'
Hannah Montana said
dmigtysolomon, No insults to ...dmigtysolomon, No insults to anyone. Just speaking my mind. I could be wrong.
iren said
Montana you are such an air ...Montana you are such an air head it is not even worth replying to your messages
navdak said
Hannah ...I never said you are wrong, I just said it's interesting. I just explained how I would look at it.
gadarene said
/-a-t-/ Iren,don't bother .../-a-t-/ Iren,don't bother replying to hannah montana...just track his/her/it's posts & you'll see what i mean...
Hannah Montana said
navdak, I have great ...navdak, I have great interest in philosophy, it fascinates me. Your profile says you are a philosopher. What is it?
iren said
We are NOT rich if we have ...We are NOT rich if we have to pay QR 2.5 million for the average middle class home in Europe. This is a lot of salaries in Qatar if you can do the math
Hannah Montana said
iren, sorry if you are ...iren, sorry if you are offended. did not mean that.
navdak said
Hannah being a philosopher ...Hannah being a philosopher means earning money for speaking nonsense all day.
iren said
Gadarene: You are right she ...Gadarene: You are right she is definitely bitter about something...
Hannah Montana said
oh oh.. so gadarene is a ...oh oh.. so gadarene is a philosopher too.
pedianurse said
it must be really hard for u ...it must be really hard for u guys...but cant blame other people..they really look down on filipina marrying other nationality..even your own kababayan may abhor u.. they never realize the good qualities of a filipina instead they think immediately about sex and money...to other filipina hope you guys will also respect your self by the way you dress and the way u behave in public places even if Qatar is open country still its a muslim country...
I salute filipino when it comes to work and camaraderie...
tatess said
Ignore them ...sometimes you are just being paranoid and observant at people around you because of you yourself is still awkward to be with somebody different from your nationality.
Believe me ,i've been to your situation before and had a fight with some filipino idi*t guys at souq. Don't get too affected with them.
Hannah Montana said
iren, be loyal to your ...iren, be loyal to your husband, love him till he becomes bankrupt.
dmigtysolomon said
iren, this is my last piece for this dilemna..... ...we always make decisions in life. And usually, we choose what best or what's good or whatever! Live the life you choose. Anywhere you go, you'll live with it and the consequence of it! No need to react violently, it's your life not there's, not our's. All the best regards to you and to your husband! Good evening!
"I'm back, simple as that"
chinx_lady said
iren , don't mind how these ...iren , don't mind how these people look at you..i understand your feelings as a woman.nevermind them.as long as you never did anything wrong then there is nothing to be ashame of.be strong sweety..allah bless you.:)
FriedUnicorn said
These guys who stare are fond of staring at beautiful women's .....butts. It's not about the nationality. It's about the Gender.
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
chinx_lady said
lols FU...:))) ...lols FU...:)))
otep said
ignore and be happy! ...ignore and be happy!
Alumnar said
Hannah.... ...... sounds like a woman scorned. Either that or ignorant! She can really spell - no doubts about that!
LeighLee said
maybe you love each other but the stereotype ...of a asian woman with a western guy especially if he is triple her age, love doesnt really come to mind.
when i went to the Enrique concert i saw the most two gorgeous beautiful phillipino woman with two huge old big humangous texas men and i looked at those poor woman and i just didnt see what attracted them to those guys?
chinitasai08 said
don't be bothered by these ...don't be bothered by these people.... just ignore them...
i can't see any problem with falling in love with other nationalities...
so be happy coz if u're always thinking about these things...
u will be PARANOID and UNHAPPY...
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FriedUnicorn said
LeighLee ...Did you consider the fact that those men might have been attractive when these women started seeing them? Would you have thought differently if the women were from some other country?
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
Alumnar said
Iren... out of curiosity... ...... how old is your husband? You didn't answer that question, which makes me think you are not comfortable with what the answer might trigger? We are giving you honest opinions and I don't see the problem in you giving us an answer too.
johndsouza77 said
no sin ....its not a sin at all..............
FriedUnicorn said
johndsouza...I hope you know that your comment is ......neither funny nor intelligent.
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
mallrat said
.guys just ignore ....guys just ignore Hannah...
her profile says:
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About me: just special
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she is special,
"special child", with special needs:(
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Talk to my crown......
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male_vampire said
its seems you only want to say about indians ...whatever you mention its not only with you its with many couple.But to give only about indian is not fair. i also merry with filipina and we are almost 10yrs now having two kids. we met here in qatar and we get merry here also.but we never bother what people thinking and saying.even many filipino guys try to change my wifes mind again me coz of my nationality. but she didnt bother. today grace of god i am having good job good position and still when ever we go mall people look at us but its not bothering us we even dont care what they think. i love my wife and she loves me.so nothing importent around us.may be you are guilty to marry other nationality. thats why its bothring you. againg dont only blame indians.