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how to express love

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ok guys i am at the age where love or falling in love or having a love interest is the most important thing in life.. this is what all my friends talk about these days..

i know back home guys are shy and stutter and shake and do not make eye contact (just like criminals) when expressing their feelings to a girl.

my question if u r a guy: have you ever expressed love to your girl and if yes how and if now why not...

girls: did a guy ever express his love to you and how and how did you react to that...

i share my experience briefly.. when i was 19 and in lucknow, my next door neighbor's son came to my house one evening and sat down in front of me (we were friends). he fidgeted and tore a piece of papaer into thousands of peieces and then said in a kinda sheiking voice that he loved me.. when i did not respond, he took off his shoe and came to me and asked me to hit him on the head with it in case he had offended me..

jeez maan i hated him for the last bit.

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yousri said Moral: Never trust BOYS NEXT ...

Moral: Never trust BOYS NEXT DOOR

"Think 100 times before you take a decision, But once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man" - Muhammad Ali Jinnah

 

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rezymalik said eye to eye contact is the ...

eye to eye contact is the best way to express love to a girl... which turns into heart to heart contact early....if you have nothing but courage...you can win her heart...in case if you really love her...

 

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ajooba said rezy whats your own ...

rezy whats your own experience man share that

 

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rezymalik said i didn't experience yet... ...

i didn't experience yet... but had been love guru... at some stage...?:D

 

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Qhris said we have this place surrounded ...

Love is best expressed when you know the person well....

For example, to many, going to the top of the Eiffel tower in Paris would be the height of romance...but my girlfriend would find it very cliche (like EVERYONE thinks the tower is romantic), so she would prefer to go to the beach that we met on.

If you 'love' someone, but don't know how to tell them then you need to wait, because if the timing doesn't feel right for you then it won't for the other person.

Assess the mood! Sometimes my girlfriend is in a hyperactive mood; that is not the right time to start a deep emotional conversation!
I think too many peeople force it.
You get swept up in a moment when the time is right, when it isn't....it is contrived and forced.

 

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rezymalik said many going to the top of ...

many going to the top of eiffel tower to jump form over there... in loving memory of someone... many go and see how much the height is.... if they jump from it... how many bones will bcom disable from 207...lol

in every action there is equal but opposite reaction...Newton's Third Law...

 

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perfectStranger said Ms Lucknow... ...

I never expressed my love to any one directly.....

I always became good friends with them... got to know them better, and when i finally felt that things could work out....I got even closer as a friend....

My motive was to inject my friendhip into their blood like drugs...in such a way that i become a need for them.
While they talk, laugh, gossip, eat ..drink they think of a good friend, which i have become already...

now slowly start giving gaps in meeting, show that i m busy..to feel how important i was to them....

and when i finally get confident that the King has no choice left..then .... "CHECK MATE"....


 

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ajooba said should a girl express her ...

should a girl express her feelings when she is in love with a man to that very man? i think not because his ego will become bigger than anything else

 

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rezymalik said yup, she should express her ...

yup, she should express her love by throwing flowers upon him... but careful... take out the vase from the flowers while throw...lol

 

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rs2009 said Red Roses all the way ...

As far as I am concerned I strongly believe in Roses ... well only Red Roses. I did write hundreds of love letters and sent thousands of Red Roses. I don't think I missed to bring home Red Roses on any Valentine's....even in Saudi Arabia where Mutawahs used to get the Red Roses out of the way on Valentine's.

Red Roses... Candle light dinners .... Greeting cards on occasions or no occasions.

I do love the whole humanity. Well, except my dear and only wife I do present Yellow Roses and greetings...


 

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casanova said Dont know much abt that.... ...

Dont know much abt that.... I wud go and say it in the most simple way...
Now thats ur problem to understand or not, I'm done with my part.

“We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

Sir Winston Churchill

 

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rs2009 said to Ajooba...expressing love ...

Coming from India, a long time ago I agree that women did not express love so freely. But there are examples otherwise and our history revolves around it. Sita and Ram. Prithviraj and Sanyogita, Krishna and Rukmini, Shiv and Parvati.

If you do love someone then you need to take a chance and say it and better sooner rather than later.

...That's one bus that you miss forever when you miss it..

 

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Salmamohd said Ajooba its not the matter of ...

Ajooba its not the matter of girl or boy...If you love him just speak out....& i agree wd Casanova just do ur part dats it:)

 

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rezymalik said just to say , its not a part ...

just to say , its not a part of our culture...where some women even feel hesitation in talking to the strangers... and some restrictions also implies specially upon teenager's...

 

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Salmamohd said Rezy if you LOVE someone den ...

Rezy if you LOVE someone den forget the culture n if u think bout the culture den just forget the LOVE as simple as dat:)

 

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rezymalik said if i love someone.... then ...

if i love someone.... then the culture ultimately binds me into some relation...means marriage... which becomes cultural love....lol..

 

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Salmamohd said Now dats perfect:P ...

Now dats perfect:P

 

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Pajju said Salma u remeber how i ...

Salma u remeber how i expressed love with u ?

 

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rezymalik said mamoo her name is salma... ...

mamoo her name is salma... not salam.... something went wrong with you...! drunked...lol

 

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Pajju said lol rezy edited :) still n ...

lol rezy edited :) still n bed :P

 

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yousri said its good to see brother ...

its good to see brother expressing love to his sister

"Think 100 times before you take a decision, But once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man" - Muhammad Ali Jinnah

 

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rezymalik said wow yousri...what a great ...

wow yousri...what a great reply... i think enough for him tonite... well Salma.... you got three bros in this thread so far...lol

 

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MagicDragon said What a funny topic. "Love Me ...

What a funny topic.

"Love Me or Leave Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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Salmamohd said Lolxxx...Yes see lucky me:$ ...

Lolxxx...Yes see lucky me:$

 

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rezymalik said why do you interfere MD.... ...

why do you interfere MD.... to make it extreme boring?....lol

 

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rezymalik said its not funny topic at ...

its not funny topic at all...its ajooba topic... and ajooba disappeared... Ajooba means Miracle MD....adding to your knowledge...

 

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MagicDragon said No, it's extremely exciting. ...

No, it's extremely exciting. I am currently conducting a serious research on how to 'express' love.
I would be pleased by any further input to this topic.

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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rezymalik said how much time does you take ...

how much time does you take express love...5 minutes or half an hour....lol... i m serious

 

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FriedUnicorn said The best way to express love is to let time ...

...take it's course. Wait it out. You will not regret it. Love is best expressed when nothing is said. Words take the life out of the expression. Don't make elaborate plans or wait for the right occassion. Let love come to you. Slowly.

Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

 

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MagicDragon said "Seriously?" More than ...

"Seriously?" More than you.

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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rein said you dont need to ask this ...

you dont need to ask this question.. if you have love, it will come out from you through your words and actions anyhow

"Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak."

 

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blue_rose said i think boys shuold say it ...

i think boys shuold say it first as the girls are shy to say fisrt..even though she love

boys have to capability to guess what girl think abt him or his love..so he can say first..

otherwise if boy is also shy then they will remain as it is without saying to each other..

"the most beautiful thing in the world is not seen or touched but to be feel by heart"


 

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yousri said MD, great stamina :p "Think ...

MD, great stamina :p

"Think 100 times before you take a decision, But once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man" - Muhammad Ali Jinnah

 

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rezymalik said well said Uncle FU ...

let love come to you slowly... till it reach... start using black hair color... and keep your mouth shut...and not let her to see ur replaced teeth...lol


 

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q_uick said hi ajooba ...

Can you say the main difference between an arranged marriage and love marriage?
both has failures if there is misunderstanding and both has success if there is understanding.that is if there is love between each other to give up and manage negative aspects of each other then they become successful partners in marriage.

If all the love marriages made with proper love and not lust then there shouldnot be failures in love.

So one should select a partner only after knowing his basic negative aspects in character and check whether that can be managed emotionally or not before confirming love.

to check it, one should talk different critical life situations faced by variuos people in dayto day life to the partner and ask his reaction and how he will react in such situation.
This shall give an idea about his/her basic character make up.

love requires plan using brain but love becomes blind as it uses emotion that is heart.this is the main problem for your confusion.

 

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MagicDragon said Stamina is more appropriate ...

Stamina is more appropriate for a horse, yousri.

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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FriedUnicorn said lol rezy...I didn't mean that 'slowly'...seriously! ...

Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

 

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rezymalik said ya once happend to me... i ...

ya once happend to me... i asked a girl confused... 'what do you think about me'... 'i think just last day i bought these new sandles and need to test on someone' she replied with anger..!!!

 

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rezymalik said horse express its love once ...

horse express its love once in a life time...ya!!

 

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yousri said Man thats why i hate BATA ...

Man thats why i hate BATA brand of shoes. They are strong enough to kill lovers

"Think 100 times before you take a decision, But once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man" - Muhammad Ali Jinnah

 

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MagicDragon said Who told you that, rezy? ...

Who told you that, rezy? Stallion get good pay for making love to numerous female candidates!!

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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rezymalik said well i heard about its an ...

well i heard about its an animal do s*x once in its lifetime...
anyway... MD great experience you had....you naughty man...:D

 

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chinx_lady said expression of love naturally ...

expression of love naturally comes from the heart.no restrictions or objections.it is free will.

 

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Alexa said blue rose...you know a man ...

blue rose...you know a man who has the capability to guess what a girl thinks????
Where did you find that one???????

either the girls thoughts are extremely obvious and simple, I just do not believe such a creature (male) exists!

" Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitude and in actions "
Harold S. Geneen


 

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FriedUnicorn said rezy...you need to watch Animal Planet more often... ...

Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

 

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britexpat said MD.. ...

For your research...

Buy her flowers. An expensive negligee. Invite her over. Dim down the lights. put on some soft music. Show her your fur lined thong and Voila!

Love has been expressed.

 

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MagicDragon said Who is 'her', brit?? "Leave ...

Who is 'her', brit??

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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FriedUnicorn said Hehehe Drac...that works...always! ...

Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

 

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MagicDragon said You have no imagination, ...

You have no imagination, drac, only rules.

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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britexpat said MD.. ...

My apologies.. In today's PC world, I should have said "partner" instead of her....

 

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aldin said Love ek ajooba hai. hahaha ...

No one can explain love , if its real you will straight up walk the talk to him or her....how to express well I think it should be kept simple, just say the 3 magic words with a true heart if other person likes you for what you are things will click , u dont want some one to be hypnotized by the filmy way u express it.

 

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ajinpt said It's just the words! but can ...

It's just the words! but can do wonders if its said on the right time. Tell him/her "I LOVE YOU" , when you are sure that you really love her/him and ready to accept whatever she/he might reply back..What you loose again is just the words and a minute of your time; but hope for the best..

---If you can't CONVINCE 'em, CONFUSE 'em!!!

 

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wacky_baby said ajinpt...i give you plus one ...

ajinpt...i give you plus one point for that ;)

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Pajju said wacky_baby ...

am missing ur tattooo

 

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MagicDragon said It was only chocolade, ...

It was only chocolade, Pajju. I ate it.

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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Pajju said MD :) ...

MD :)

 

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wacky_baby said pajju...isn't the baby more ...

pajju...isn't the baby more cute than the tattoo? ;)

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MagicDragon said The destructive engineer has ...

The destructive engineer has become constructive!

"Leave Me or Love Me"
(MagicDragon)

 

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ajinpt said thanks wacky ,, you'still ...

thanks wacky ,, you'still have the best tatoo:)

---If you can't CONVINCE 'em, CONFUSE 'em!!!

 

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Pajju said wacky_baby u said it .. i ...

wacky_baby u said it .. i love baby's

 

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wacky_baby said well i have to show my soft ...

well i have to show my soft side sometimes MD...and don't give that a different meaning lol :P

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ajooba said i did not disappear.. just ...

i did not disappear.. just went to bed early last night

 

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