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Here what happens in some shops

Khalid the tiger's picture

And what happens is that many filipina work in some shops where DVD or restaurants or any other shop give the Qatari a normal look and being nice smiling (This very good because the seller should be nice to sell the items in the shop) and the Qatari may smile and say thanks after buying the item.
On the other hand some filipina will smile and say hi habibi (love) because she see this Qatari more than one time and then this Qatari will think that she wants him, and he will run after her and think badly, but this Qatari should know all filipina are the same.
Some Qatari will not pay any attention and just leave normally or tell her please do not see habibi, and will explain to her that habibi is to be said for husband or boyfriend but not for some one you do not know.
Will let us agree that we should respect each other and respect the limits.

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DaRuDe's picture

DaRuDe said huh ...

ok so what happened next?


 

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somwerNdmiddle said did really something ...

did really something happened?

bashing through the snow.....

 

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exiledsaint said OK, so did the Qatari buy ...

OK, so did the Qatari buy the DVD? Or do they run away to Manila to secretly get married and start a rice farm?

 

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mjamille28 said "all filipina are the same" ...

"all filipina are the same" ????? according to who? according to you?? if that is so, you are so narrow minded..

 

Apple's picture

Apple said OK ...

And then?----> am done reading season 1

season 2 pls? ;)

 

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britexpat said No one calls me habibi :O( ...

No one calls me habibi :O(

 

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mjamille28 said lol Apple ... :P season 1 of ...

lol Apple ... :P
season 1 of what.. :P

 

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Pajju said and nobody run after me :( ...

and nobody run after me :(

 

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britexpat said Pajju.. ...

Let's help each other. You call me habibi and I'll run after you :O)

 

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sureshkknair said what happens in other shops??? ...

what happens in other shops???what happens in other shops???

 

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korkmazalp said Is it normal that a male say ...

Is it normal that a male say "Habibi" to another male ( Assuming that they are not g*y ) ?


 

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Khalid the tiger said Not all filipina ...

I ment not all filipina are the same.
please accept my appology, like every where there repectful people and ther opposite.
let us earn respect.

 

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stealth said if someone says habibi to ...

if someone says habibi to you, will you be running behind her Khalid???

 

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Pajju said lol brit ...

lol brit

 

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Khalid the tiger said Normally it is not good for a male to ...

say to habibi to another male

 

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coolmirror said I didn't get the story line ...

Ooooooo, I didn't get the story line

 

Apple's picture

Apple said MJ ...

Its like a series, and the above story seems not reaching its climax, no thrill, and am not even sure if it's a lovestory, actions or horror movie, loool

ya habibi taaly! :P

 

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Pajju said stealth ...

if u say habibi to me ...i will run after u :) so next meeting no habibi :P

 

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mjamille28 said LOL Apple in that case, this ...

LOL Apple in that case, this is the most boring series i have ever encountered... :P

 

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Pajju said Apple hi habibthi .. ...

Apple hi habibthi .. now blz dunt run aftre me :P

 

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Xena said I should technically be having a real problem then... ...

I call everyone Angel, cause I can never remember names:-P

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Ralliart23 said Everybody is callin me ...

Everybody is callin me Habibi...even my boss..so does it mean that he's gay? Cmon dude...
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esther said well i didnt get the point ...

well i didnt get the point what is the topic then hmmm...

 

DaRuDe's picture

DaRuDe said hold on ...

this is discrimination
they never call or say habibi they only give me a smile.
WHY?
:/


 

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Ice Maiden said Hmmm Story stopped way short ...

Hmmm

Story stopped way short of the climax. Where's part 2?...;))

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Formatted Soul said I really thought habibi ...

I really thought habibi means friend..and habibdi means darling...correct me please...

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nightwalker77 said why cant the men ...

why cant the men differentiate between a shop person being nice and polite and not wanting some creepy man to chase after her?

People complain of bad customer service, we maybe cause when someone is actually nice these guys automatically think it is an invitation to her pants.

The men are the ones who need to change and grow up

 

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pmcorrea said I think you are all missing ...

I think you are all missing the point. What was the movie that the Qatari bought?

 

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somwerNdmiddle said pm, maybe the movie of ...

pm, maybe the movie of hayden ;p

 

DaRuDe's picture

DaRuDe said Maybe movie ...

of Paris Hilton?

or Pamela Anderson?

Or Aria Giovvani?

or i dont know :D


 

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PuLover said my friend .. you didnt leave ...

my friend .. you didnt leave any comments for us ,

you just told us the whole story !!!

 

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sir dolly said i guess it depends on the nationality ...

for us Lebanese , we always say habibi and habibty...it's like saying thanks dude to a man , and thanks darling to a woman...

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DaRuDe said Habibi Sir Dolly ...

Thanks for the info :D


 

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sir dolly said :D ...

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Apple said Most Filipina thinks the ...

Most Filipina thinks the word "habibi" is just normal as like calling someone "my friend" or "my dear"...and for most of us it doesn't mean anything malicious. It is same as calling an older man "BABA"

Sometimes when I have arguements with an arabic guy collegue or I need to explain something he could hardly understand related to works, I often says "Ya Habibi! listen to me...this is so and so...". But it doesn't mean that I love him or I like him. See, the difference?

 

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vme926 said I think Khalid is merely ...

I think Khalid is merely saying that the Filipina should never call somebody Habibi since this may imply a bad connotation to a mere acquiantance ( since Habibi means my sweetheart).. so, call him Habibi only if he is your boyfriend...

But what made the conflict is that he said Filipinas are the same, which is of course, I OBJECT 100% since I am not Ms. Congeniality.. and I don't call an acquaintance (arab nationality),"Habibi", I simply nod and smile as a sign of respect. KALAS! :) No need for further conversations especially if there is no need to have one.. :)

Reminder to those being called Habibi on a first meeting, it doesn't mean anything at all..It doesn't invite you nor is the girl flirting with you.. Maybe, the girl here is just trying to be sweet to attract the customer, plain and simple.


 

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shoeaddict said somwer,lol ...

on the song lyrics...its sooo christmassy HABIBI!!!!lol

 

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kristo marco said hi habibi, hahahahah ...

hi habibi, hahahahah

 

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navdak said If habibi is said only to ...

If habibi is said only to your love then I am sooooooo GAY...

 

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Dot.Com said Khalid ...

Plzzzzzz
We need Moral of the Story???

PS: Apparently they are of 25, i guess so :~)

No one knows how it is that one glance a boy can break through into a girl's heart
N Bonaparte

 

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nicaq25 said hahahha! khalid - ...

are you also planning to make a 1-minute film out of this??? I hope you can find one filipina to volunteer as you actress,or she will slap you silly. Wait, are the you the qatari guy in the story? **confused**


 

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mmyke said oh,,so does,, ...

boy meet girl like whats normal in normal countries??

 

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Qatari55 said never seen/heard that be4 !! ...

never seen/heard that be4 !!

 

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junarc2003 said this should be in the ...

this should be in the funnies section...

"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."

 

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azilana7037 said I used to say habibi just to get a person's attention ...

and listen...but the other person knows I don't mean it as calling him "my sweetheart".

My sentence usually starts with "Listen good, habibi..." coz sometimes, they don't clearly understand what I say when I speak ENGLISH too fast for their understanding.

I agree, people should be cautious with what they say as this may be understood differently. Try "sadeeq" instead...

:-)



 

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PM said Khalid, how rude to stereotype Filipinas as whores! Shame on you ...

Would you like me to stereotype all Qatari men as DOGS???

HARAM!

 

 

 

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM


 

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azilana7037 said lol, PM...I heard a boy in our school say that ...

The said boy was blond haired but speaks good Arabic.

Saw him standing by the principal's door coz his classmates told him to their teacher that he said "qataris are animals". To think he's just in grade 1...que horror!!! :-)



 

PM's picture

PM said Azi, imagine being so NARROW MINDED that you jump to the worst ...

conclusion about people from other cultures. I feel sorry for Qataris like Khalid. He surely isn't equipped to navigate a world outside his protected little Qatari shell....
:-(

 

 

 

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Xena said Lol PM... there goes my idea for names of my book... ...

Somehow "Dating gentlemen in Doha" doesn't have the same effect;-P

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heero_yuy2 said At least Khalid The Tiger is now posting life in Qatar ...

Thats quite a change from the religious "teachings" and "revelations" he usually posts in this website. ;-)

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KHATTAK said Khalid has already clarified ...

Khalid has already clarified that he wanted to say "All Filipinas are NOT the same". Please read all the comments before posting yours.

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PM said Khattak, Khalid showed that he does not have a very open mind ...

when it comes to assuming the worst from people who don't share his culture. HE is the one who should think twice before posting and get out a little more since it is obvious he is quite sheltered and sees everything from a very narrow perspective.

 

 

 

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM


 

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twenty said Khalid thanks for ...

Khalid thanks for information habibi (love)

yesterday qatari girl said to me hi habibi but i didn't pay any attention ....

 

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KHATTAK said Okie...but what I've noticed ...

Okie...but what I've noticed is that whenever & whatever he posts...everyone would start taking him wrong or making fun of him.

Here...he was just making a point that MEN may take a woman wrong if she calls them "Habibi". Where did he go wrong?... except for generalizing it to "QATARI MEN".

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PM said Here is where he went wrong: ...

"but this Qatari should know all filipina are the same."

Bottom line is that he is assuming something nasty about Filipinas who don't know the nuances of Arabic and then justifying these men who chase after them like dogs that need to be neutered.

 

 

 

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM


 

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MagicDragon said What an a**hole!!! "If You ...

What an a**hole!!!

"If You Don't Want My Love, There's Nothing I Can Do"
(J. D. Souther)

 

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legal_pad said PM ...

You Could call me habibi, it would not bother me a bit.

Life is short. Break all the rules. Forgive quickly.
Kiss slowly, love truly and never regret the things that
made you laugh.

Graduated from Xavier Institute for Higher learning

 

PM's picture

PM said I will now be very careful about calling ANYONE Habibi ...

since narrow minded people like these will only think the worst! :-P

 

 

 

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM


 

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KHATTAK said PM...He (in his 2nd Post) ...

PM...He (in his 2nd Post) clarified that he actually wanted to write "Not All FILIPINAS....".

And I think he was not justifying or defending those MEN who runs after women like dogs. He was just advising the women not to call them "Habibi" as it can lead to a wrong impression.

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ajinpt said Thank you , HABIBI! ---If ...

Thank you , HABIBI!

---If you can't CONVINCE 'em, CONFUSE 'em!!!

 

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sandeepkadian said PM Habibi stop writing on ...

PM Habibi stop writing on this thread and comment on my one shop story ;)

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KHATTAK said Sandeep Habibi.....em coming ...

Sandeep Habibi.....em coming ;)

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PM said Sandeep Habibi -- I am sadly not Filipina so no one will ...

run after me even if I call them Habibi! :-P

 

 

 

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM


 

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sandeepkadian said Its ok, I can make an ...

Its ok, I can make an exception for you ;)

“We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone.”- Orson Welles

 

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Eco-savvy said Words of endearment are ok if said to same gender ...

esp in Islamic Countries.


 

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browny said in english ...

Do u say in english to some one you dont know :hello babe?
habibi = babe or hunny

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progression said thank you for that wonderful ...

thank you for that wonderful reminder; not to use word or words without understanding....that habibi is to be studied so you can buy....dvd? sorry. qatari....very confusing

progress

 

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