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Adultery or not Adultery

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If you decide to go to an open party where all the guests wear masks and you get a little busy with a minx you met there, but subsequently you find out your wife also went to the same party and it was her you had sex with, does this still count as adultery? Could you still be liable for a stoning due to your intentions? (Assuming the other people in the special party come forward and confirm your actions)

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Victory_278692's picture

Victory_278692 said It is all depend on your mindset ...

and Intentions....

If your intentions were to go for adultery; Both shall be punished even though you were married.

Allah Knows the Best and Wise; who is very well aware of your intentions and motives.

 

britexpat's picture

britexpat said Exiled.. ...

So, you're persisting with the Islam bashing threads :O)

 

Victory_278692's picture

Victory_278692 said Brit.... ...

I am waking his Religious curiousity...he has posted so many Q in this group to stir some fun?

 

Olive's picture

Olive said To be liable for stoning you ...

To be liable for stoning you need to be caught with someone else don't you? So I would say no, they couldn't actually stone you.

 

Victory_278692's picture

Victory_278692 said Olive forget about the punishments in this life..... ...

EveryOne is answerable for their deeds in the life here after! so wait for your turn...only intentions and followed actions count and duly recorded for punishments...

Allah save us from such sins.......Ameen

 

Olive's picture

Olive said He's not asking about what ...

He's not asking about what happens after he dies Victory, he's asking about what happens NOW, in this life. Hence my answer.

 

om Maui's picture

om Maui said but how comes it that one ...

but how comes it that one did not know where the other one is going that night? parties were masked ladies go to, don't really mix with the males, and if that does happen, that's a contradiction to the principle of wearing a nicab. plus, i can imagine how perverted it would be to have sex with someone and not remove the nicab during (at least).

my point is, there's a lot of perverted thinking involved, and it's not the intention or the act itself that is reproachable to God, but the LIFESTYLE.

IMHO.

 

Olive's picture

Olive said Om Maui I think he's talking ...

Om Maui I think he's talking about a swingers party or masks like carnival masks, not niqab. LOL

 

Victory_278692's picture

Victory_278692 said Even if no human sees ...

comitting crime (no evidence to prove the sin), their own guilt and conscience will kill them inside.....as punishment...for playing with somebody's dignity, modesty and chastity.

 

om Maui's picture

om Maui said lol, i misunderstood that ...

lol, i misunderstood that one. thanks for clarifying, Olive. but still, wouldn't you find it odd to do it with the mask on, or is that something i am also not understanding well? shows that i've lived here long enough, the only mask in mind is a nicab. ha!

 

mmyke's picture

mmyke said I wonder if the ...

encounter was still boring??
:)

 

Olive's picture

Olive said Not necessarily. From the ...

Not necessarily. From the sounds of it he's describing a swingers party, which means both of them are open to the idea of sex with others. So it they're both ok with it they won't feel guilty.

 

Olive's picture

Olive said Om Maui, I personally would ...

Om Maui, I personally would find it a little awkward, but maybe it's only one of those little sleeping masks or something. LOL.

 

om Maui's picture

om Maui said yikes, now that's perverted. ...

yikes, now that's perverted. i'm disgusted now :(

 

Olive's picture

Olive said Not my thing either Om Maui. ...

Not my thing either Om Maui. Personally can't imagine it.

 

snessy's picture

snessy said LOL, whether you're liable ...

LOL, whether you're liable for stoning or not, at least you won't be going through it alone, you're wife will be stoned too!

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

 

mmyke's picture

mmyke said Don't you ...

get stoned before the swinger's party??

 

snessy's picture

snessy said mmyke, great idea ...

mmyke, great idea :-)

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

 

om Maui's picture

om Maui said lol, mmyke.. yeah i would ...

lol, mmyke.. yeah i would better imagine that they were stoned to engage in such acts, and not in their right minds. i still find the question odd, wouldn't a spouse know that it is familiar territory? (lol)

 

Victory_278692's picture

Victory_278692 said This is Whacky world of imagination ...

where ES lives and enjoy provocating corrupt minds

 

mmyke's picture

mmyke said hey,,why.. ...

waste a perfectly good buzz
:)

 

exiledsaint's picture

exiledsaint said Britexpat I don't understand ...

Britexpat I don't understand your motives. Since when is asking questions about religious practise or God Islam bashing? Most of my threads do not even mention Islam by name so I am not sure how you infer that, especially as I am asking questions not attacking any particular faith or religion.

This is one of the reasons I do not post very often now.

 

britexpat's picture

britexpat said Exiled.. ...

"Could you still be liable for a stoning due to your intentions? " :O)

 

phoenix2009's picture

phoenix2009 said THANKS BRIT +100 Yalla! ...

THANKS BRIT +100

Yalla!

 

UkEngQatar's picture

UkEngQatar said Adultery, One Night Stand, ...

Adultery, One Night Stand, quickie or any other form of sex with someone you are not married to would have landed you in the courts of the past.

Funny that we in the west now take casual sex very lightly compared to sex outside of marriage while married?

So answer is yes Intention is there to comit adultery so one should be stoned etc as you are suggesting Exiled
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lobot's picture

lobot said it could be stoned if there ...

it could be stoned if there is stone in the area..but who cast the first stone?

 

Victory_278692's picture

Victory_278692 said Well caught the intentions..... ...

Thanks Brit and UKENG!
Have a good day ES :O)

 

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