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PAGMAMAHAL NA WALANG TIWALA???

It pains me really, when I heard from someone I love these words "I love you, but I do not trust you".
Is that possible?
For me, love embodies trust, hope, and respect.
Pag ako'y nagmamahal, walang kondisyon. Kung saan maligaya ang minamahal ko doon ako. And for this, I am expecting to reciprocate the things as I do.
Pardon me for my being emotional, maybe in this way I can release such tension in me and let it go.
What do you think?
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Comments
pinoyaccountant said
kaya siguro naha-highblood ako.. ,,,,, ..."Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
nicaq25 said
PA, I think it's possible ...especially when you have done wrong to a person.
My point is: Trust is earned, love is free!
sammyblue4x4 said
Mine is, Love is LOVE, trust ...Mine is,
Love is LOVE, trust is TRUST!
thats all...
'morning peeps...
"Parachutes and Mind function only when open."
Apple said
PA ...That is selfishness, she/he only love her/himself...I can't live with such type, kaya sabi ko sa asawa ko sa umpisa pa lang "papakasal ako sa iyo pero wag na wag mong isipin na ako'y isang flower vase la-ang" ;)
fRanCisM said
parang ang hirap yatang ...parang ang hirap yatang magmahal kung wala kang tiwala....
paano mo ako minahal gayong wala kang tiwala?
tsk.. tsk.. tsk.. mukhang puro strike yan sa bowling PA pag highblood ka :)
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mallrat said
.di yan pag maamahal. . .i ....di yan pag maamahal.
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.i call it "libog", whaaaaaaa...
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hawker said
trust...? diba yan yung may ...trust...? diba yan yung may dotted, ribbed, thin, flavored nyahahahahahahahhahahahahaha :P
(icu mode) how can you say, you love someone, if you don't trust him/her? baka naman, napagbaliktad na-naman ulit ang pagmamahal sa libido nito :/
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
tatess said
pwede siguro ...lalo na at may history ng pambababe /panlalaki yung isa.
Mahal mo pero di mo siya maiwanan ng matagal sa takot na baka magloko.
At saka pag may pagkaselosa/o. di ba usually walang mga trust yan.
azilana7037 said
when you love, automatic na yung trust ...kasi nga, tiwala ka na ikaw lang ang mamahalin, di ka lolokohin, at kung anik-anik pa.
Mahirap kung tiwala ang masira...kasi di na maibabalik pa yung dating samahan. Mabalik man, matagal manumbalik...at kahit makuha man ulit ang tiwala, andun pa rin ang agam-agam na mauulit at mauulit. Tamang hinala ang bagsak nyan...
hawker said
ahhhhh basta i-isa lang ang ...ahhhhh basta i-isa lang ang alam kong trust......... dito durex ang tawag nyahahahahahahahahahahahahaha :D
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
Peppermint said
pwedeng mangyari ung MAHAL ...pwedeng mangyari ung MAHAL KA BUT WALA KA NAMAN TIWALA lalo na if ung dati ka ng nagmahal at nagtiwala tapos niloko ka lang...
Kaya nga may word na SELOS!
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"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
pinoyaccountant said
wala pa ngang ginagawang masama... hinuhusgahan na eh. ...how could you call it LOVE, kung ala namang trust?
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
mjamille28 said
pwede ba yung wala pang ...pwede ba yung wala pang ginagawa huhusgahan na? hindi fair yung ganun.. meron syang insecurity issues malamang..

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pinoyaccountant said
tama ka peppermint.... maraming consequences.. ...maraming complications... pero iisa lang ang puno't dulo ng lahat. Insecurities.
Insecurities = Immature.
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
hawker said
sabi nga ng iba "love ...sabi nga ng iba "love without trust, is nine-months on the way" nyahahahahahahahaha" =D
(icu mode) baka yan yung tinatawag na "selfish love" o yung pagmamahal na nakaka-sakal, yun tipong ma-utot ka lang ay pinagseselosan na pati yung utot mo nyahahahaha :D
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
Peppermint said
PA-- baka lambing lang un ...PA-- baka lambing lang un syo... maybe hindi sa wala syang tiwala syo but duda lang (parang same lang no?)=D
Try mo na lang patunayan sa kanya na totoo ka sa lahat ng sinabi mo.
Pwede din ung may tiwala sya syo but sa mga tao sa paligid mo wala! wala! wala!
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
tatess said
meron talagang ganun ...wala ka ng ginagawang masama hinuhusgahan ka na. makita ka lang nakikipag usap sa iba masama na iniisip.
kung sa palagay mo ay di mo kakayanin ang ganyang pag uugali o relasyon ay pwede pang kumalas hanggat maaga at di pa kayo nakatali sa isat isa .
Pero kung kaya mo at tanggap naman then go for it.
Meron nga dyan ,syota pa lang pero binubugbog na at nagpapabugbog naman dahil lang walang tiwala yung isa or .And they call it LOVE. Kaya ayun sige pa rin ang relasyon nila.
Pag ibig talaga kanya kanyang drama, action at suspense pa minsan.
dyonski said
ibig sabhin nyan e ...ibig sabhin nyan e sinusuklian mo lng kung anong pinpadama nyang pagmmhal sau...
KAAWA KO!, "HIKBI EH"
"tipitipitim tipitim, tipitipitim tipitim"
Ralliart23 said
Pwede naman un e..mahal mo ...Pwede naman un e..mahal mo yung tao dahil ayaw mo xa mawala pero nahihirapan kang pagkatiwalaan xa dahil sa tingin mo may posibility xang mkahnap ng iba..tama si pepper, tawag dun ay selos..
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Apple said
Tumpak PA! ...may tama ka dyan, yun na yun! insecurity at walang self confident...ika nga paano naman magtitiwala sa iyo kung mismo sa sarili niya ay wala na siyang tiwala?
hmmm may ganun? ;)
chinx_lady said
minsan kasi minahal mo na ...minsan kasi minahal mo na sya ng tapat pero niloko ka pa rin kaya nawawala yung trust but still you love the person till the end..ang hirap...
pinoyaccountant said
natumbok mo mj. I am not saying this, on my own personal ...experiences, but to all in general.
If we are all mature persons, we can understand, na sinasabi natin itong saloobin/ talakayan na walang intensyong makasakit ng damdamin ng iba.
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
hawker said
pero kung talagang mahal ...pero kung talagang mahal nila/ninyo ang isa't-isa, ika nga ay you should learn to adjust with each other, meaning kung ganoon siya seloso/selosa ay matututunan mo rin mahalin yon, ika nga learn to love his/her short-comings. yun bang mamahalin mo ang kabuuan niya (ang pangit at maganda)
pero teka, teka, ikaw ba ito PA? kasi natatandaan ko sa isang sinulid ay isasakal ka na raw eh. hmmmm kailan mo kaya iimbitahan ang buong Filex nyahahahahahaha :P
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
Peppermint said
Parang same din yan na galit ...Parang same din yan na galit ka sa tao but mahal mo pa din sya. So ganun din ang LOVE na walang trust mahal mo ung tao pero somehow may pagdududa ka. Di dahil sa wala kang tiwala totally sa kanya but dahil na rin sa kagustuhan mong makasigurado.
Sabagay pag love talaga ang topic complicated masyado yan. Depende na rin kasi sa tao if pano nya ipapakita ung love nya.
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
Allen R. said
I agree with you Peppermint ...Thumbs up for your answers!
greentea said
sign of insecurity ...and i think it's not healthy in a relationship
insecurity can lead to obsession and it is always followed by uncalled for fights so think think think before you plunge to tie the knot
Qatar Idols said
as per ralliart... "Pwede ...as per ralliart... "Pwede naman un e..mahal mo yung tao dahil ayaw mo xa mawala pero nahihirapan kang pagkatiwalaan xa dahil sa tingin mo may posibility xang mkahnap ng iba..tama si pepper, tawag dun ay selos..."
ang mahalin ng taong ganyan. its like ginisa mo nang bonggang bongga ang sarili mo sa sarili mong mantika. parang ganun di ba. mahal mo ang tao at alam mo rin na posibleng makahanap ng iba kasi yun nga tlga ang nature nya... nakakaloka! pesteng pagmamahal kasi yan eh!
di ba ginawa ang pagmamahal ng walang pag-aalinlangan....
meaning, hindi yan pagmamahal. GUMISING NGA KAYO!!!
ang pagmamahal, hindi maramot. walang restrictions. wala kang makikita masama kung anu man gawin nya, anu man meron sya, kahit anu ano pah! kaya nga nagkaroon ng quote na "love is blind" eh, dahil sa reasoning na yan... which tama naman talaga. para din yang Diyos o Amang Maylikha. mahal na mahal nya tayo kahit ano pa tayo at kahit anu o gaano pa kasama ang ginawa mong kasalanan. yan ang pagmamahal na tinatawag.
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hawker said
o eto share ko lang from Bo ...o eto share ko lang from Bo Sanchez
Is Your Love Genuine Or Fake?
“Buy Rolex. $20 only.”
A moustached guy offered it to me while walking in a busy street.
Wow. Didn’t Rolex watches sell at $5000 each?
Because he thought I was interested, the man opened his jacket and displayed other designer watches—such as Patek Phillip, Cartier, and Omega. “Choose what you want. $20 only each.”
That was shocking. I knew some high-end Patekwatches cost $200,000. So how in the world could this man be selling them for $20?
Too bad for the watch guy, I don’t use watches. Stopped using them 25 years ago. To know the time, I look at the sun. On a cloudy day, I look at someone else’s watch.
But my buddy bought a $20 Rolex. It was a steal, he said.
Hey, it looked like a Rolex. It worked like aRolex. It felt like a Rolex. But it wasn’t a Rolex.
Five months later, my friend was sad because his watch broke down. I told him, “What did you expect?”
Let me use this to explain why we have problems in our relationships.
How To Do The Great Switcheroo
Why do so many marriages have problems today?
Because many couples built their marriage on a pirated version of Love, not Love.
The pirated version of Love is Infatuation.
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"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
chinx_lady said
love is not blind only the ...love is not blind only the lovers are blind...yah partly insecurity na rin sya but trust is difficult to patch up kung naloko kana ng mahal mo.ewan hirap espelingin!:))
fRanCisM said
yes you are right GT, and ...yes you are right GT,
and sometimes we have to consider the thought "I love you, but I do not trust you"
as part of maturity in a relationship, why?
because it will turn into a much more deeper communication,
the WHY question and an open explanation of each other.
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dyonski said
isa lang ang patutunguhan ...isa lang ang patutunguhan nyan...hiwalayan!
KAAWA KO!, "HIKBI EH"
"tipitipitim tipitim, tipitipitim tipitim"
Peppermint said
PA-- sana pinaExplain mo if ...PA-- sana pinaExplain mo if ano ang ibig yang sabihin sa"I love you, but I do not trust you".
By that kasi mas maiintidihan mo if san nanggagaling ung "DUDA or INSECURITIES" nya syo. Baka kasi unconsciously may nagagawa kang mga bagay-bagay na nagbibigay sa kanya ng reasons para di ka masyadong pagkatiwalaan.
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
greentea said
or pwede rin it's not just about you ...bka meron syang past experience/s sa buhay nya na til now d pa nag-heal. It can be a relationship with a family, friends or an ex, kung san niloko sya or iniwan that made her loss trust on anyone... the bottom line is, pag-usapan nyo ang ugat ng statement na un
pinoyaccountant said
i agree with you too peppermint. may pagdududa - ok lang ...yon kc parang thinking lang or inkling lang yon. Yung term ba na hinala. Hinala means unproven information.
Buti sana kung hinala lang, I can bear it. The term is- KAWALANG TIWALA.
Ika nga, I was judged guilty even without court hearings and investigations.
Posible yon?
Saka ok lang sana na selos or kawalang tiwala na sa lugar. Nasa ayos. Pero pati ba naman ang pag _______ at pag __________.... bawal?
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
chevydjak said
yeah pepperoni is right, ...yeah pepperoni is right, depende sa tao how express their love and how to define it... love without trust is quite possible nowadays...
PEro trust without love mas mahirap un :D
"BRING IT ON DUDE!!!"
Ang Chaka
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7 qualities to be a perfect ...7 qualities to be a perfect wife:
Beautiful,
Responsible,
Energetic,
Adorable,
Sweet,
Truthful and
Self-Organized.
In short, she must have good B.R.E.A.S.T.S
ahmary_080908 said
tama ka Qataridols "LOVE IS ...tama ka Qataridols "LOVE IS BLIND"...kung mahal mo ang isang tao you accept that "WHOLLY",i mean boung pagkatao niya.siguro normal lng naman ang selos kasi parang spice din sa relasyon basta wag lng subra,nagseselos ang tao kasi nagmahal siya.
just new...
fRanCisM said
hmmm sir dyonski, kung ...hmmm sir dyonski, kung mahal ko rin siya, hindi naman ako papayag na magkahiwalay kami ng ganun lang nang walang pinagusapan, kailangan malinaw ang lahat, kung bakit naman wala siyang tiwala sa akin...
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dyonski said
hanap ka nlng ng way pra ...hanap ka nlng ng way pra pagkatiwalaan ka.nsasaiyo dn yan.
KO!, "HIKBI EH"
"tipitipitim tipitim, tipitipitim tipitim"
ahmary_080908 said
PA baka nasabi niya sa yo ...PA baka nasabi niya sa yo yon dahil sa past experienced mo,baliktad yan sa sinabi sa akin..."i love you but i dont trust the people around you,which is true...masakit din yong sinabi niya sayo,parang tinik yan sa puso...
just new...
tatess said
yan ang maganda sa love na may trust ...pati tao sa paligid mo ay pinagkakatiwalaan kahit umagahin ka sa kanila.
kaya nga ba love ko si hubby.
Allen R. said
PA bkit di mo ienumerate ang real reason ...bkit nawala ang trust? Bka with that at least maliwanawan ang confusion mo..besides, bka namn di ka hinusgahan kundi talagang may basis kaya ganun na lang ang kawalang tiwala nya.
pinoyaccountant said
yeah ahmary, she doesn't trust me dahil sa past experiences ko. ...hindi nga nya ako hinusgahan kung anong nagawa ko dati, pero inalisan naman ang pagtitiwala sa akin. Parang ganon na rin yon di ba?
Ideally, mami tatess, ganon po ang maganda. Eh paano kung mga nakapaligid sa iyo eh wala rin siyang tiwala?
I know, in some way, it will worsen the situation, but what to do yani...
A love without trust, is not love at all. - PA
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
ahmary_080908 said
hmmm miss tatess depende sa ...hmmm miss tatess depende sa taong kasama mo at sa lugar kung nasaan tayo...
just new...
dekyo2000 said
Faith is to believe without proof, but trust without reservation ...Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. Love still stands when all else has fallen.
In short...para huwag masira ang trust...HWAG KANG PAPAHULE!!! ... at pagnahule ka ... HWAG NA HWAG
KANG AAMEN!!! (anu vah ... i'm so redundant na!)
P.S.
Love means exposing yourself to the pain of being hurt, deeply hurt by someone you trust.
hawker said
yesssssss applicable ulit ...yesssssss applicable ulit ang "Platinum rule" ni Dean Dekyo nyahahahahahahahaha :D
parteeee on :D
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
chunglai said
pasali... ..."I love you but I do not trust you"... siguro dapat me karugtong yan... "anymore"
"I love you but I do not trust you...anymore".
tama nga sabi nila, you cannot love someone kung walang trust. Madaling magmahal at magtiwala pero kapag nasira na ang tiwala, biglang nawawala, pero ang pagmamahal.. kung tunay, hindi yan biglang nawawala..
sabi nga ni chito, ang tiwala ay parang tsokolate, mahirap na ibalik sa dating hugis pag nalusaw na sa init.
chevydjak said
sorry to say PA... in my ...sorry to say PA... in my opinion...
Di dapat pagtyagaan at mahalin ang ganyang klaseng tao...
ang sakit lumilipas isa, dalawa, tatlong buwan...pero kung ganyan makakasama mo habangbuhay...mas masakit und ahil lifetime...
Kung mahal mo ang isang tao...balewala ang nakaraan nya...ang importante ung ngayon at hinaharap...
"BRING IT ON DUDE!!!"
Ang Chaka
Peppermint said
ahmary_080908's ...ahmary_080908's picture
ahmary_080908 -- "i love you but i dont trust the people around you"
Sa part na yan pwede mo pang mabago ang pananaw nya sa pamamagitan ng magsama sa kanya paglalabas ka with ur friends by that kasi makikilala nya mas mabuti ung mga nakakasama mo. But syempre dapat intindihin mo rin ung tao baka nga meron syang nakitang MALI or sa tingin nya is BI ung mga friendship mo...
Again, adjustment, adjustment at walang katapusang adjustment!=P
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
chevydjak said
welcome back chunglai san! ..."BRING IT ON DUDE!!!"
Ang Chaka
mallrat said
. .ai,.....ai.at isa pang ....
.ai,.....ai.at isa pang ai, para kay dekyo
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hawker said
korek si Chevy ang ...korek si Chevy ang importante at pinaka importante ay yung "HINAHARAP" nyahahahahahahaha :D
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."
chevydjak said
adjustment is applicable to ...adjustment is applicable to the said scenario but both of you should do that... nde one sided lang.
"BRING IT ON DUDE!!!"
Ang Chaka
mallrat said
.hinaharap(grinning ....hinaharap(grinning here)
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ahmary_080908 said
wow miss chevs touch ako ...wow miss chevs touch ako doon ah...marami ko ng beses narinig yan,,,sa mga PEliKULA...hehhehe,Sarap kasi Magmahal at minamahal...
PA pagpray mo ng mataimtim kung totoong Mahal ka Niya at ginagawa mo ang lahat para manumbalik ang tiwala niya sa yo,hindi iyan bibitaw..TRUST GOD ABOVE ALL...
just new...
chunglai said
... ...thanks chevy.. kaw talaga! hehe..
back to topic baka mapagalitan...
/-a-t-/pinoyaccountant, kakabadtrip talaga un, kung ala ka namang ginagawang masama talaga..
blueboi1201 said
... ...tama ka chevy, mahirap makasama sa buhay ang mahal mo kung wala syang tiwala, dahil lagi na lang un ang magiging dahilan ng away at tampuhan nyo..
kung mahal ka nya at kung tunay ka nyang mahal wlang agam agam/duda..
""ALAM MO YAN""
blueboi1201 said
... ...PA marami pang babae dyan na maaaring magmahal sau tulad ng ibinibigay mo sa kanya, dont waste your tym/effort, na sa tingin mo wala nmn patutunguhan..
""ALAM MO YAN""
tatess said
.. ...ahmary_080908 said hmmm miss tatess depende sa ...
hmmm miss tatess depende sa taong kasama mo at sa lugar kung nasaan tayo...
depende nga. approve ke hubby mga ka filex ,dating kasamahan ko sa saudi na nandito na at mga dati kong kasamahan sa hospital dito
importante lang malaman nya kung saan at sino mga kasama ko .approve na kaagad sa kanya kasi lahat ng mga friends ko na meet nya na.
sobra ang love and trust nya sa akin.
fRanCisM said
malufet ka talaga idol dean ...malufet ka talaga idol dean Dek,
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rockduke said
what happen to u Sir Kuya PA??? ...kng gnyn sinabi sau sbhn mo dn idontloveuanymore and idonttrust u dn lolz..bt kia my gnun its not love to say to somebody like that..
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fRanCisM said
rockdude naalala ko tuloy si ...rockdude naalala ko tuloy si sir ron_ona, bosing pahiram ha..
"The truth hurts. But the truth cares"
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rockduke said
bt mo cya naalala? blast from the past?? lolz hehehe ...MyHotComments
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fRanCisM said
sabi mo kasi "bt kia my gnun ...sabi mo kasi "bt kia my gnun its not love to say to somebody like that.."
eh ang line ni bosing ron_ona ay the truth hurts, but the truth cares, if it's not love maybe it's caring....
oooppsss walang tataas ang kilay hehehehe..
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Qatar Idols said
jan jan jaran... jan jan jaran... ......through thick & thin, for better or worst, til death do us part...
Total Recovery. Result = New life, new image, new belief...
silenced said
salamat sa link hawker. ang ...salamat sa link hawker. ang ganda ng article.
Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.
- Chinese proverb
Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.
- Chinese proverb
chevydjak said
kulang, in sickness and in ...kulang, in sickness and in health...nyahahahahahaha
"BRING IT ON DUDE!!!"
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rockduke said
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dmigtysolomon said
apilikable lang yan sa number 2, 3 , 4 and so on...... ..."I'm back, simple as that"
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ahmary_080908 said
QI mayroon pa ding ...QI mayroon pa ding kulang..kasi sabi mo "till death do us part..so pag may namatay sa isa di na mahal? mas masarap siguro ganito..."FoR better or for worst,in sickness and in health,i will love you till death death do us part and till the end of the world"..yakkksss OA na...hahhaha
just new...
rockduke said
mron pa matindi jn amhary.. ...hahahah to hell or to heaven but nver in porgatory hahaha lolzzz...
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superman09 said
Pra sa akin mahirap ang ...Pra sa akin mahirap ang ganyan katayuan sa buhay...kasi kapag nwla ang tiwla mo anjan yong lagi kayong magtatalo sa isang bagay na hnd nman dapat...hanggat maari pagusapan nyongng 2 yan kasi mahirap matulog na madami kang iniisip...
Cogito...ergo, sum.....
Cogito...ergo, sum.....
donald_duc168 said
parang may mali ..."Pag ako'y nagmamahal, walang kondisyon. Kung saan maligaya ang minamahal ko doon ako. And for this, I am expecting to reciprocate the things as I do."
kung iniexpect mo na ibalik ang pagmamahal na ibinigay mo, so you are saying otherwise... kasi kung walang kundisyon dapat walang iniexpect...
love is unconditional, whether mahalin ka man in return or not, you just show that you love he/she...
"We cannot change the past, we only learnt from it"
junarc2003 said
i can relate to this thread ...i can relate to this thread personally... kase i went back to a relationship just recently and i'm always vocal about this trust issues... it's really tough kase i always doubt the person... God knows how hard i tried to work things out but there's a certain fear that things might happen all over again... so i finally decided to end it up and move on... i realized that i can never love anyone without the trust...
"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."
you already!
nephi2kph said
maybe coz....may nagawa kana sa kanya before or.... ...may nararamdaman siya na may ginawa ka...na di niya kaya sabihin..
at least honest siya..that's the point..pede mo naman i prove sa kanya na mali ang iniisip nya..yon nga lang..
madugong pagpapkitang gilas yan..but there's no harm in trying...
"ALWAYS stretch ur HEART & Expand your LOVE so that it TOUCHES not only those whom you GIVE it to, but also those who NEED it so MUCH"
kinimoto said
I believe that trust is a ...I believe that trust is a prerequisite for love, ika nga sa nabasa kong love quote today "Love is... giving someone the power to break your heart, but trusting her/him not to."
"I don't go back on my words, that's my way of ninja"
junarc2003 said
there are some things na ...there are some things na mahirap ng i-fix... though possible pero it will take a long while... mahirap na yung relasyon na puro doubts.. madaling sabhin na nagbago ka na and this time you'll be a better partner.. pero after a while nakakalimutan na yun.. then balik na naman sa dati... kaya wag na lang...
sa tanong mo naman PA na kung pissibleng mahal mo and isang tao pero u dont fully trust the person...possible... it applies to those na nagkabalikan and may sad na past... mahirap kase maraming expectations and even the slightest thing puede mauwi sa failure... maraming doubts... maraming pumapasok sa isip.. kaya magulo... it will be so hard but if u really love the person then go for it... ako kase mas mahal ko na yung sarili ko this time kaya i just let it go...
"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."
you already!
kinimoto said
Nasapol ni donald! Sabi mo ...Nasapol ni donald! Sabi mo you love unconditionally but you are still expecting...It's like a cannot be equation.
Maybe these pressures are getting on your nerves because you're expecting too much,setting standards or requirements to how will you be loved by someone...
I'm not saying that it's not love, somethings this affection is overrated and sometimes misunderstood.
Probably you need to set things straight and putting up a good communication will be a great baseline.
"I don't go back on my words, that's my way of ninja"
angelsanddemons24 said
"I love you, but I do not trust you" ...(i speak for my self)impossible kung ang pinag-uusap here is yung pagmamahal sa pagitan ng magkasintahan or magasawa.
you can still love your brother/sister or friend kahit kulang na ang tiwala mo.
pero kung ang pagmamahal na pinaguusapan is yung pagmamahal sa pagitan ng magasawa or magkasintahan, i doubt that you can love the person without giving your trust; kasi kaya nga pinagtitiwalaan mo yung tao dahil mahal mo; may pangyayari man na nagpabawas o nagpawala ng tiwala mo sa taong yun, ibabalik mo yung tiwala mo kasi mahal mo...but if you choose not to love the person anymore, ibibigay mo pa ba ang tiwala mo kung hindi mo na sya mahal?
i-reverse natin...pwede mong pagkatiwalaan ang tao ng walang pagmamahal diba?
Peppermint said
angelsanddemons24-- ...angelsanddemons24-- "i-reverse natin...pwede mong pagkatiwalaan ang tao ng walang pagmamahal diba?"
PWEDE BAKIT HINDI?! Gaya na lang yan ng pagpapautang. Pauutangin mo sya dahil sa pagtitiwala at di dahil sa may may feelings ka sa kanya.
Sa pagmamahal din gaya ng sabi ko kanina pwede ung magmahal ka but my doubt. Di dahil sa wala kang tiwala sa kanya totally but dahil sa kagustuhan mo lang makasiguradong di ka nya sasaktan. Admitted naman tayong lahat na mahirap mapasok sa ganyang situation aside from para lagi kang takot mahirap din ung maging masaya ka totally kasi parang lagi kang may mabigat na dalahin sa dibdib.
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
donald_duc168 said
peppermint ...love and trust ay magka-ibang bagay.... tiwala na magpautang ay iba dahil wala itong kahalong emosyon.. tiwala na may kahalong emosyon ay mas higit sa lahat...
loving and getting the love back is just the bonus in one relationship, but showing your love and affection whether he.she appreciates or not should not be the issue.
you love. thats it
"We cannot change the past, we only learnt from it"
pinoyaccountant said
i can say to you nephi na i tried hard to prove na mali ang ...iniisip nya. Did all what is difficult for me to remove,_____, ______,_________, pero still parang balewala sa kanya ang efforts ko.
Tama nga ang kantang...Just once...
It really pisses me off na ginawa mo na ang lahat to please her, pero nandun pa rin ang kawalang tiwala nya at to the extent na hindi na reasonable ang pagdududa.
And still, wala raw akong ginawa to earn that trust.
Totoo nga na for a relationship to work, both sides should meet in the middle. Hindi one-sided.
Parang timbangan yan na kung nabibigatan ang isa, bakit hindi magpagaan naman ung isang kasuyo just to make things balance. You know what i mean.
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
pinoyaccountant said
yeah right, donald,... baka iba na rin ang iniisip ko.. ...maybe getting too emotional lately.
Ouch.
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
pinoyaccountant said
good comments right there angelsandemons ......but if you choose not to love the person anymore, ibibigay mo pa ba ang tiwala mo kung hindi mo na sya mahal?
And the core value is - LOVE.
At ang sabi ko nga lagi- A LOVE WITHOUT TRUST IS NOT LOVE AT ALL- Pinoyaccountant.
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
Allen R. said
IF WALA KA NG LOVE PA. WHY DONT YOU END IT? ...JUST BE DIRECT TO HER AND TELL HER.WITH YOUR MESSAGES PARA WALA NG CHANCE.THEN LEAVE HER.
blueboi1201 said
.... ...whaaaaa...
wla akong masabi!!!
Pag-usapan nyo nalng yan 2, kung di na maayos, go and move on..
""ALAM MO YAN""
Allen R. said
AND IF NASAKAL KANA PA AND IT IS NOT WORTH FIGHTING FOR JUST ...MOVE ON.KESA YUN ANG INIISIP MO.DUMP HER.PLAIN AND SIMPLE.
angelsanddemons24 said
to pinoyaccountant ...baka naman hindi sa wala syang tiwala at pagmamahal sayo...nahihirapan lang din siguro syang aminin sa sabila ng "pangyayari" eh mahal ka pa din nya...kaya lang andun din yung takot na masaktan ulit sya...
we really don't know the score, but kung ikaw ay mahal mo sya...pagtitiwalaan mo syang mamahalin ka pa rin nya ng may pagtitiwala...
minsan kasi sasabihin din natin na mahal natin ang tao, mag eexpect tayo, pero tayo, minsan nakakalimutan natin, kulang din palan yung ibinibigay natin...
pero anu't ano man...kung mahal mo sya, at sa tingin mo kahit konti, kahit konti may pag-asa pa...wag kang bibitaw...dumating man ang panahon na talagang wala ng mangyayari...masasabi mo, na may ginawa ka...wag kang mapagod...kaya mo yan...
Peppermint said
PA-- Ah basta ako wala akong ...PA-- Ah basta ako wala akong kinalaman dyan malinis konsensya ko! hahahahaha!
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."
pinoyaccountant said
kaya nga siguro allen.. hindi na nya ako mahal.. kaya ...maybe she is just saying these things kc there's no more love... kung nagkaroon nga.
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."