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What Women Look For In Her Man?

genuinefriend's picture

Everyone has their own idea and views on life.But most modern women are much confusing while meeting them,Most of them are highly demanding in life.So,Can anyone explain me what really a women look forward in her man?Does women who accept men as who he is still alive on this earth?Are those kind women (we used to hear in the past years) who only look for a man's character still living here?If they still exsist,where can we meet them?Genuine replies are expected.


DaRuDe's picture

DaRuDe said that he ...

shouldnt be using Viagra LOL

 

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copper's picture

copper said According to the spam mails i get ...

According to the spam mails i get, women like 'BIG' men..hahaha

 

globalmerchant's picture

globalmerchant said there are ...

"Make a difference or make way"

 

There is no particular place to meet them but there are genuine women........it all depends on how lucky u are and  last but not the least....how much actually is demanding to you.... 


 

Tigasin321's picture

Tigasin321 said Yes, I think most women do prefer ...

their men to be alive. Unless they have been married a very long time of course.

 

They spoil every romance by trying to make it last forever. Oscar Wilde


 

swarna8's picture

swarna8 said i expect a man should have ...

i expect a man should have unterstanding and trustoworthy always.

 

ringohiqups's picture

ringohiqups said    you are all wrong ...

 

 you are all wrong ... the bottom line is that most of the women these days look at the size of your wallet and the size of your?????????.so if you have one and lack the other, well they just move on......... ladies no offence, but it happens.....


 

DaRuDe's picture

DaRuDe said lol ringohiqups ...

 
honestly tell me now how many of them did ask you for the both of them :D

 

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PM's picture

PM said Different women want different things ...

I certainly want something different at this stage in my life than I did 30 years ago. I like intellect, humor, maturity, expressiveness and someone who is not looking for me to take care of his responsibilities.

 

 

A life unexamined is not worth living -- Socrates


 

ringohiqups's picture

ringohiqups said hehehe!!! well i cant really ...

hehehe!!! well i cant really say, cause my wife will kill me?????

 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said ringohiqups... ...

ouch..been burned a few times, have ya?

 

Never judge all women by the few that are looking for money/big "whatevers"...Like PM said..its the things that last in a person that count...

 

and on the other issue...the big "whatever"...I say BS....its all in how you know what to do with it that counts...

 

but, if we women were to use your line of thinking in what men want in a woman...it would be the same only add to that being a Barbi doll that hangs on your every word, can be a mommy to him, and is always there when you need her "attention"

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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mariam-mar said Genuinefriend, i know you, ...

Genuinefriend, i know you, what are you up to? Stop there, you are a blood sucker, look what you did to my friend. You think no one will know you ? Whatever name you may use, we know you.... 

 

 

 

"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches  you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."


 

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dragonfly212 said certainly dont like men ...

certainly dont like men that whinnie, lazy, smelly, dont have job to support their own life, dont have common interests, disorganize, mommy's boy, can't make decision, dummies in treating woman in general. if you one of these then good luck finding your woman.

 

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand


 

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dragonfly212 said Genuinefriend, for the last ...

Genuinefriend, for the last 2 weeks your post was basically all related about woman and their existance according to your life. tell me, are you really stupid to understand a woman or you just gay try to be a straight men. but wait, if you gay then you should knows what woman feeling/wants.

 

Sorry for being sacarstic but really you need to relax and just enjoy the moment with the woman. no need to push thing to your agenda. you will end up not happy in the end as you make her not happy.

 

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand


 

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ringohiqups said no scalett never been ...

no scalett never been burned, cause i never let it happen, but i always get it here when at the pubs without the wify with my buds... i dont mean all the ladies ,dont get me wrong, but usually the younger ones here are just out for a nice time... and that to them is not going to a church service.. i m sure if you know what i mean...but i guess it depends on who the guy is too.........

 

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Scarlett said well ringo ...

I do have to say MOST women aren't like those you've met in pubs...thank goodness...and having a nice time is fine...but never at the expense of a person...but it definitely goes both ways as far a genders using each other for personal recreational pleasures and financial advancements.

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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ringohiqups said      i agree with ...

 

 

 i agree with you ... one thing i learnt from my mum was to never argue with women... hehehe. have a nice day ...scarlett. maybe il catch you online tommorow.. im off to work now...


 

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charansoi11r said Why go after women? Go after ...

Why go after women? Go after LadyBoys. They will be all over you in no time :)

 

shaheen's picture

shaheen said in heaven ...

in heaven



 

qatarisun's picture

qatarisun said I think ...

all women accept men "for who he is"... otherwise no one girl would ever marry any man.. coz all of them are NOT perfect, as well as women...

so women love men for who THEY are, and men love women for who THEY are...

genuinefriend , I think you are the one who is extremely demanding.. Everything in this world has its own price.. remember: everything!!!

 hey for those who got me wrong: "PRICE" is not necessary measured by MONEY!

...so come down to earth and look for someone not from your DREAMS, but for one who is suitable for YOU...

 

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said wow... ...

I must be doing something wrong, I have never really gone shopping for a woman, it always just seemed to happen whether it was "love" or lust, alcohol induced or "love at first sight" it just plain happened.

Maybe I need to make a shopping list or carry Barbi with me so I can make comparisons. They need to put stickers on their "bumpers" sort of like a dealers sticker for automobiles.

 

 


 

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lovinni said i agree with you ...

i agree with you scarlett!

 

genuinefriend i just would like to ask what type of ladies you're surrounded with? because this could be the reason why you're so concern about these things.  

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said well majnoon... ...

We tried making it mandatory for males to have bumper stickers but it wouldn't pass here in Qatar...because of the licenseing law...you take your model in for renewal and they charge you a fee if your male has bumper stickers on them...sigh....

 

Thanks lovinni...sad to say there are matching bad people in each gender...

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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Living_in_Qatar said   90% of  girl friends ...

 

90% of  girl friends look at the size of his wallet..

 

90% of wives look at your love for her......

 

 

 

"Many people quit looking for work when they find a job"


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said LIQ, look at ...

your love for whom? the wife or his girlfriend?

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

Living_in_Qatar's picture

Living_in_Qatar said     ha...here this ...

 

 

ha...here this guy is only concerned of what women look for in him...

 

 

"Many people quit looking for work when they find a job"


 

QT's picture

QT said PM ...

LOL.   You're asking a lot from a man nowadays, aren't you?   Tongue out

 

GenuineFriend, I think a nice lady would prefer their man to be a little bit more outgoing and have a social life outside of the PC.

Do you not think so?   


 

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Scarlett said QT...perhaps ...

you are asking a lot of GenuineF....leave his computer for the real world

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

PM's picture

PM said Yes, QT ...

That's probably why I am not married Tongue out

 

 

A life unexamined is not worth living -- Socrates


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said lol PM.... ...

Keep looking...there are some nice ones out there!!

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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lovinni said  im sure there is a big ...

 im sure there is a big group of women out ther who will love a man for who they are rather than giving too much on their bank profiles.Cool

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said yep lovinni... ...

men just need to stop looking in bars..

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said well let me tell ya... ...

I once had a woman tell me I was nothing but a d**do with a wallet.

BTW ahem it was in the great state of Texas.


 

lovinni's picture

lovinni said genuinefriend, if you want ...

genuinefriend, if you want to meet this "woman" you need to change your social environment and be who you are.... 

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz


 

PM's picture

PM said Oh Majnoon! ...

Ouch! How did you respond to that? Tongue out

 

A life unexamined is not worth living -- Socrates


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said well majnoon ...

sometimes women are right...better check....most Texas women hit the nail right on the head...(sorry, just kidding about the first part!)

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

QT's picture

QT said Scarlett ...

What's wrong with bars?  I used to manage one and I had a few good dates.   LOL 

Undecided Yeah, I see.  That's why I'm still single.   LOL


 

QT's picture

QT said Hahaha ...

"...a D**do with a wallet..."

That's going down in my book of classic phrases!


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said bars... ...

lovely to visit, never live there..

 

QT, you crack me up....I notice you aren't with them still......

 

 

 

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said LOL...Ouch! How did you respond to that ...

Obviously I made a appointment with Dr. Phil and Oprah and they said I must have been spanked when I was a child or drank to much diet soda.

In truth I was a little flattered. No pun on the"little" Scarlett, I know what you were thinking.


 

PM's picture

PM said Oh my... flattered.... ...

I'm assuming you are not married, Majnoon Tongue out

 

 

A life unexamined is not worth living -- Socrates


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said moi, the one who had no idea what ...

even a ladyboy was??? ahh surely you jest, majnoon...I have a mind pure as the fresh snow...

 

ost folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

Majnoon Ajnabi's picture

Majnoon Ajnabi said contraire mon ami... ...

my wife is happily married.


 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said I have a mind pure as the fresh snow... ...

At the core of snowflakes, bacteria

"Bacteria are by far the most active ice nuclei in nature," said Brent C. Christner, an assistant professor of biological sciences at Louisiana State University.

 

http://www.latimes.com/news/science/la-sci-bacteria1mar01,0,1359144.story


 

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Scarlett said lol... ...

ok snow way back about the Ice age then....round about when i was born, according to my sons...

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said Ahh yes... ...

I remember those days..

 

 

A Texan and his wife were on a trip to New York. She had just finished showering to dress for dinner and noticed that she had neglected to pack her bra. She asked her husband to go down to the dress shop in the lobby and pick up a couple of 36-C bras.
He said, "Ah'l go down raht now." So he put on his ten gallon hat and went to the shop.
The saleslady said, "May I help you, sir?"
When he told her that he wanted two 36-C bras, she asked, "Would you like two Playtex?"
He answered, "Ah'd luv ta little lady, but mah wife's a'waitin fur me up in the room."


 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said one more.... and buenos noches ...

Twas 1870 and there were three people in a Texas stagecoach one day: a true red-blooded born-and-raised Texas gentleman, a tenderfoot city-slicker from back East, and a beautiful and well-endowed Texas lady. The city-slicker kept eyeing the lady, and finally he leaned forward and said, "Lady, I'll give you $10 if you show me a good time." The Texas gentleman looked appalled, pulled out his pistol, and killed the city-slicker on the spot. The lady gasped and said, "Thank you, suh, for defendin' mah honor!" Whereupon the Texan holstered his gun and said, "Your honor, hell!! No tenderfoot is gonna raise the price of women in Texas!!"

 

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Scarlett said careful there majnoon...them's fightin' words ...

on the last one..

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

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Majnoon Ajnabi said lo siento... ...

just to make it fair I'm from New Mexico

 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said Honesty ...

is the big one for me.  GF I have read your post's and have noticed that not one time after you post do you come out and defend yourself.

I thank all these ladies for what you have said.  Especially Mariam-mar.  Women need to stick together.  Men say that they want love and happiness from us and then they lie.

So GF come defend yourself to me or send me a pm.  I don't think that you have the b...s to do that.  You just want to run away and act like it never happened. You say you want a Genuine Woman and then when you find one you run. I accepted you as the person that you presented to me....but now you have shown your real "character".  So women beware of this man.

And Scarlett is right those are fighting words here in Texas.  Never Scorn a Woman from Texas.


 

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Vegas said I think GF is a reg in hiding...LOL ...

You can't teach experience...

 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said I believe that you are right Vegas. In the closet hiding????? ...

Caryllon

 

Vegas's picture

Vegas said I don'thave a closet LOL ...

You can't teach experience...

 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said No I meant GF, not you Vegas. ...

Caryllon

 

novita77's picture

novita77 said what do u have Vegas? ...

what do u have Vegas?

 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said Oh he is a reg alright and in hiding. ...

Ok I am like Novita what do u have, Vegas with no closet....


 

Vegas's picture

Vegas said Wall locker kinda thing and I can't fit in it.... ...

You can't teach experience...

 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said Then I am glad you are here to play ...

Caryllon

 

novita77's picture

novita77 said cut or fold the leg ... that ...

cut or fold the leg ... that would make it the right size ???

 

Vegas's picture

Vegas said I never go in the closet novi LOL.... ...

I don't swing that way LOL

You can't teach experience...


 

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smoke said So now let Dr. Smoke lay ...

So now let Dr. Smoke lay his wisdom upon you GF..and i dont mean to say Girl Friend. First of all dont look for what women look for in a man, men will never understand women thats just the fact of life.

Secondly its all about you, make your self worth the woman you intend to be with, a woman quiet honestly well most of them just want a man who respects them, and who is there for them when they need you. Self pity isnt going to get u anywhere, there's nothing wrong with you if some women are not really into you, coz i believe there's always someone out there for everyone.

Third whats this your ranting on about modern women? we are in modern times so be a modern man. That means posting topics about what woman want is like saying I want to go fishing in the sea but i cant fix this hole in my boat! (ok i dont know what the heck that means but shhh)

 

As for myself i can only say i am who i am and whoso ever wishes to be with me will come along one day and accept me for who i am. and if she doesnt then hell i'm going to go hunting for her. 

 

So to answer your question on where all the lovely ladies have gone.....

*QUIET WOMEN I'M TRYING TO POST SOME ADVICE ON QL* ....yeah so as i was saying...they are all locked in my basement. ;)

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

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KellysHeroes said Answer is simple ...

Women look for good company, love, security, respect and .... Embarassed

Those who look for thick wallets, they would be surprised to see the wallet full of bills and warning letters.Laughing

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smoke said LOL i have more bills in my ...

LOL i have more bills in my wallet then money... 

 

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

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qatarisun said good evening... ...

Scarlie.. and where do you suggest guys to look for the girls? in library? or at the classic music concert?...LOL...but there are some girls, that love both  classic music concerts and night clubs, some may study in the library and  then go stright to the wild punk gathering...LOL..

...by the way, i know at least two couples that have been happy married for a quite long time.. they have met in the restautant...

it's hard to predict when and how and who...I know couple ( married by now for few years) that have met at the airport.. their flight was delay, and meanwile they fell in love with each other..lol...

love is tricky thing... it overtakes  you when you don't expect it at all...

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

QT's picture

QT said Qatarisun ...

"love is tricky thing... it overtakes you when you don't expect it at all... "

Only if you're unfit!

It's the only reason I exercise, so I can run if I sense Love in the air.   LOL


 

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qatarisun said ooohh.... so here you go... ...

we have got an issue here...so you guys just "exercise", "playing in love"...! but when it comes to the real battle, real feelings, you just run away.. so don't cry then that "women are picky", "girls are selective"... you guys have a problem, not girls!

...lol...

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

QT's picture

QT said Qatarisun ...

Whoa there lady!!!!

Firstly, that was a joke...

Secondly, I've never thought or complained that  "women are picky" and "girls are selective".  I think quite the opposite, thank goodness!

(that too was a joke, lighten up girl)

I think I'm still single because us men are too picky as a matter of fact!

 


 

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qatarisun said i know it was a joke...lol.. ...

you don't have to explain it to me...LOL...

SMILE!

but seriously.. it depends on person... some fellows just don't have any problem to meet their GF/BF.... others just have a problem...lol...

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

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miss.lillywhite said Qatarisun, ...

I agree with you.  Some men run when the going gets tough.

 

qatarisun's picture

qatarisun said well..lilly... it's not from my own experience though!! ...

LOL...

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

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miss.lillywhite said I guess I should have said some men run. They want a "lady" in ...

their life, but then when it comes to comittment time they run.

 

qatarisun's picture

qatarisun said yeah lilly... ...

there are a lot of them out there...lol...let them "look for Ms Right" forever...lol...

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

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miss.lillywhite said then ...

if they want a lady in their life why do they run when it gets serious?  Is it a game with them?

 

QT's picture

QT said Qatarisun, Lillywhite ...

Men don't look for Ms Right, we don't don't want to be shackled with:

Ms Moaning, Ms Greedy, Ms Lazy etc...

Anyone will do so long as they are not Ms Wrong!

 


 

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qatarisun said I don't know lilly... ...

they have got some psycological problem, i guess..lol...

but i think it also depends on the woman.. I mean, most of the guys are afraid of dependant woman, who cannot make one step without the guy, who gets stuck to the guy, glued to him, who doesn't let him to breath, who try to control his life.. but if the girl is independant and self-sufficient, then the guy is the one who gets stuck to the girl.. and sometimes it takes time and efforts to get rid of him...lol..

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

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Scarlett said Qatarisun... ...

Restaurants are a great place to meet people..so are dance halls..which is where I met my husband of 27 years. I meant as a general rule, bars aren't the best place to meet someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. To me there is a HUGE difference in a bar and a pub. I know..semantics..but there is. Especially in different countries such as England and America. I am speaking from being in both...and observing the crowds in both. In fact, my old roomie and I used to take up residence at a table at a fancy restaurant/bar, once or twice a week, just to watch the scenarios play out on who was hitting on whom, how many folks we'd seen them leave with...We were there so often having dinner and entertainment that the manager would give us free drinks because we entertained HER with our running commentaries on the bar scene.

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

QT's picture

QT said Qatarisun ...

If you were single, I'd ask you out! Wink

Oh well, never mind!  LOL


 

QT's picture

QT said Scarlett ...

Any good pubs in Qatar?

 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said ok QT you have done it now. ...

I am not a groaning, moaning, gluey, selfish, whining crying female.  I am a mature female that knows when she has a good man and wants to keep him.  I need my space as much as he does, but when it comes down to being together I love that too. 

Oh by the way, I am not in Qatar.  I can only tell you about Texas pubs.


 

QT's picture

QT said Caryllon ...

My apologies Ma'am...

It won't happen again.


 

miss.lillywhite's picture

miss.lillywhite said I dont know any good pubs in Qatar... ...

Do you?

 

QT's picture

QT said Lillywhite ...

Sorry, that last post was meant for Scarlett!

I've edited it now!


 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said You have a right to your opinion ...

just like I do.  I am not the typical woman though...

 


 

qatarisun's picture

qatarisun said in general i agree Scarlie...pubs, bars... ...

of course, the ideal places to meet your future spouse are university/college, sport club, some cultural events... but the funny thing is that the same guys from university/college go to  the bars/pubs....lol...so the only difference is WHERE you meet them: classroom in the college  or becide the counter in the bar ...lol...

...what i mean is everything can happen.. anywhere...any time.. specially when you don't expect it...

***********************

This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

QT's picture

QT said Caryllon ...

Honestly, you can't take anything I say too seriously.  Most of what I say is in Jest or to spark debate!  I know that not all women are the same, and that goes for us men too.

Good Night Ma'am!


 

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qatarisun said QT.. sorry... ...

I am never single... since i am 14...lol...sorryEmbarassed

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This Too Shall Pass.....

magic ringmagic ring


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said QT, sure there are... ...

depends on what you are looking for in music and crowds tho...I personally like Orions, The Library and Palomas (for dancing) But they are in dire need of a country western club here for dancing!!! sighhhh  Went to a boot scoot night before last and danced my silly feet off!!

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said taste of home, right Scarlett. ...

Caryllon

 

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mariam-mar said You are right Qatarisun, i ...

You are right Qatarisun, i met my husband (my ex,HE HE) at the airport... 

 

 

"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches  you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."


 

Scarlett's picture

Scarlett said QS..one thing I have noticed in men tho ...

and some women, is that they act differently in bars in opposition to how they act on campus or daytime jobs. They look for a "different" type of person in the bar..leastwise that's been my observation.

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)


 

caryllon54's picture

caryllon54 said Hello, Mariam ...

How are you today?