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Help! Is it okay to go back with your ex??

Lara_09's picture

Will you accept your ex when he/she's coming back to you? After the pain and moving on, will you start again and take a second chance?


britexpat's picture

britexpat said NO! ...

NO!

 

snessy's picture

snessy said It all depends on why you ...

It all depends on why you broke up in the first place.

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

 

rMs_000's picture

rMs_000 said Depends on each individual. ...

Depends on each individual. Right for you may be wrong for me.

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UkEngQatar's picture

UkEngQatar said Yes if it was my ex-landy ...

Yes if it was my ex-landy disco.. I would give a second chance any day..:)

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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
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syedkhadeer's picture

syedkhadeer said Only if thats the last ...

Only if thats the last option......

True Friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable.....

 

Boston's picture

Boston said No! ...

No!

 

britexpat's picture

britexpat said Has she got a "rockin arse" ...

Has she got a "rockin arse" as a fellow QLer would say ??

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said Britexpat ...

Y NOT???

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said Britexpat ...

Y NOT???

 

rezymalik's picture

rezymalik said what about the first one ...

what about the first one option... :)

 

Boston's picture

Boston said C'mon, you had a reason to ...

C'mon, you had a reason to part. Have you forgotten?

 

britexpat's picture

britexpat said As Dr. Phil would say "the ...

As Dr. Phil would say "the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior"

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said Love is sweeter the second time around.. ...

Is it not??

 

timebandit's picture

timebandit said no no No No No NO NO NO! ...

no no No No No NO NO NO! Unless he/she is now too old to go out on the pull, they will always be looking for the next conquest.
TimeBandit

 

baldrick2dogs's picture

baldrick2dogs said Brti "Has she got a "rockin ...

Brit "Has she got a "rockin arse?"
Are you talkin about UKEng's Disco there? ;o)

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said arghhhhhhhhhh.... ...

so id rather not get back to my ex then!! survey says NOOOOOOOO!!!

 

thalib01's picture

thalib01 said No way..... ...

No way.....

 

somwerNdmiddle's picture

somwerNdmiddle said love is sweeter the second ...

love is sweeter the second time around - only happens in movies lara so i say hehehe honestly don't, you'll regret it

 

timebandit's picture

timebandit said A good looking gal like you ...

A good looking gal like you will find someone much more worthy. Move forwards not back ;)
TimeBandit

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said ahaaaayayayayayyay ...

Then I'd rather not to but I really do have a playful heart!!!Darn!!

 

Boston's picture

Boston said There are bridges that ...

There are bridges that you've burnt. How can you walk back?

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said thanks timebandit! ...

that takes my spirit up!!Go girl!

 

thalib01's picture

thalib01 said its always gonna ...

its always gonna be........... "remember the last time we broke up"... unless you both have your memory wiped off. ;-)

 

chinx_lady's picture

chinx_lady said it depends on you on how you ...

it depends on you on how you feel for your ex but personally i will never!

 

rein's picture

rein said love is sweeter the second ...

love is sweeter the second time around? NO WAY!!

"Dogs don't bark at people they know."

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said chinx_lady ...

i did really fall in love with him hard..and somehow i kinda feel something the same right now that he's coming back but i don't know if he will not hurt me again..oh i so hate this feeling...:(

 

timebandit's picture

timebandit said Lara_09 you just know how ...

Lara_09 you just know how this will end if you get back with him. And I am going to say "I told you so!" over and over again. Forwards not backwards remember?
TimeBandit

 

chinx_lady's picture

chinx_lady said gurl its really hard to ...

gurl its really hard to forget the pain but if you'll accept him just make sure you can trust him..its so hard to push into the relationship if your not secure with your man.

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said guyss..... ...

You are just so right but it takes a lot of self control not to!! im just too stupid when it comes to love!!am i hopeless?

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Just look at how married people around here responds with a 'no' ...

Because they can't. LOL

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

rein's picture

rein said going solo is a lot wiser ...

going solo is a lot wiser than being in a wrong relationship

"Dogs don't bark at people they know."

 

lyrem21's picture

lyrem21 said if you still love him, go ...

if you still love him, go for it girl, as long that can make you happy. You can forget and forgive all those pain...

take it from me...i been to same exp.. :)

***Your only limitation is your soul***

 

owen's picture

owen said as you said AFTER all the ...

as you said AFTER all the pain.. not unless you are ready to feel pain again.. or if you would, try not previous issues recur, forget the past and start anew..

goodluck..
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

 

chinx_lady's picture

chinx_lady said i know how you feel lara but ...

i know how you feel lara but you should use mind over heart ...you have to make sure that he is worthy for your love and test his sincerity to you otherwise you'll end up whining the same blow from him..

 

tess_916's picture

tess_916 said If you ask me, I'd never ...

If you ask me, I'd never accept him back. I never give second chances. Once done is done for me. Kalas. No turning back.

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said rein ...

"I'd rather be with someone for the wrong reasons than be alone for the right ones."

A quote from this movie:

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

Boston's picture

Boston said I like the way rein thinks, ...

I like the way rein thinks, heero.

 

heero_yuy2's picture

heero_yuy2 said Well there's two sides of the coin from the movie quote, Boston ...

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

 

Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said yeah all point taken.... ...

guess need some fresh air to breathe!!!

 

Boston's picture

Boston said I know, heero, it could be ...

I know, heero, it could be translated into:' if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.' (Graham Nash, 1972)

 

jonald's picture

jonald said if you still love him just ...

if you still love him just take it slow. Till you are very sure to have him back.

Dagway ai!

 

fil_qatar's picture

fil_qatar said BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO'' ...

BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO''

 

snessy's picture

snessy said If it's taking this long to ...

If it's taking this long to make the decision, I would definitely say no!

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

 

warm_heart's picture

warm_heart said It depends ...

Every story has a different answer, i have a similar story but my situation may not match urs. if you want a good answer, u can tell ur (whole) story to the ppl who love u really and how have good wisedom then you can get an answer, But like that? in QL?? u would be more confused and no even 1 good answer.

 

dHey by DhEy's picture

dHey by DhEy said only friendship can i offer ...

only friendship can i offer to him..thats it..


 

MrsTimebandit's picture

MrsTimebandit said I agree with snessy.....if ...

I agree with snessy.....if you're this hesitant, the answer is probably no. Having said that, it also depends on the circumstances - I assume he left you? What was the reason? And why does he now want you back?

'Up there for thinking....down there for dancing.'

 

ms.cielo's picture

ms.cielo said duh ...

duh

 

stanley_mnl's picture

stanley_mnl said heheheh no way coz we dont wan't him, to hurt you again ...

intelligent person hahahah...LOL

 

sandeepkadian's picture

sandeepkadian said I would but that's just me.. ...

I would but that's just me..

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Lara_09's picture

Lara_09 said thanks guys! ...

Just wanted to get different opinion about it!

Thanks a lot!

 

LadyChaRM's picture

LadyChaRM said If you still love him/her ...

If you still love him/her then why not.?!

" It's not about choosing who you wanna LOVE, but it's about deciding to whom your love is worth giving." -- -"You wouldn't appreciate what you have until it's gone!"--

 

fareena's picture

fareena said going back to your ex? ...

taking my opinion... no. i never did because before i break off, i have already exhausted all my patience, understanding, love and care. I am too tired to even look back.

"To err is human, to forgive is divine."

 

MrsTimebandit's picture

MrsTimebandit said Snessy, you and I are going ...

Snessy, you and I are going to start the 'Agony Aunts Group' on QL........we'd make a fortune :)

'Up there for thinking....down there for dancing.'

 

SheDBabe's picture

SheDBabe said No way! ...

Nuff said..

If talking is from silver then silence is golden:-))

 

Bluemountain's picture

Bluemountain said Why not if your Ex is very ...

Why not if your Ex is very very good one
Hahahahahaha
FOC

 

flanostu's picture

flanostu said i'd give the "rockin arse" ...

i'd give the "rockin arse" one last hit, then dump her again.

 

Boston's picture

Boston said That's what I call ...

That's what I call pragmatism.

 

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