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why do men dominates women?

amber2007's picture

just out of curiousity, why do men dominates women? i know men literally the what we call "man" but i am really curious, should a man have to be, needed to dominate a women in all cases?, in everything? enlighten me pls.

 

 

thanks

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DaRuDe said oh no amber2007 ...

 
Its now women dominating men :/

  Really believe me.
 

 

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Afaque said no comments! no use arguing ...

no comments! no use arguing

 

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skanky said There`s no such thing ...

Depending of the relation some womans just like to follow what the man says. and others want to make the rules...

 

So depend on the type of relation and the character of the woman. I think!

 

and as you ask in all cases?? in everything??

 

There are some difference as Sports, works and many many other things.

Its a big list...

 

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irrysa said  not at all. i actually ...

 not at all. i actually know lots of men who like women to be in charge. they enjoy it-less responsibilities!

besides, more and more of the "new generation" have developed their feminine side...they even have a name for that, but i actually forgot it.

that allows them to keep their ego and self-esteem on a healthy level, so they don't have to have that macho behavior and they don't feel threatened by women at any point or family of carrer level.

 

surely, we all know the ones who have it the other way-but i guess they just have issues with themselves, been raised in the sort of families and societies where it is a normal thing. you can fight it, but mostly won't win with it, coz it's something planted inside.

 

 

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skanky said Poor Darude ...

The wild wolf is now a puppy :(

 

LOL 

 

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yehduniyameri said its not always that men are ...

its not always that men are dominating women. women too dominate men in many cases. however, man tends to see himself as the superior breed and believes that woman should succumb to his wish and command. this is when the dominance happens. however, all men are not like that. i know men who treat women like equals.

 

i believe that men and women are not equals. there are some fields where a man cannot be better than a woman and vice versa. the best part is to accept this and live a happy balance life.

Thanks,
Best wishes.

 

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DaRuDe said Skanky ...

 
My friend should i tell them what was going on at your home yesday :D

 

 

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Oryx said men dominating ...

because they are given permission to do so.......

 

women feel guilty putting themselves first sometimes they think they are being selfish, pushy and bossy.

men can be perceived as a sucessful, dynamic person after a better career etc.

 

They are behaviour labels we put on genders.

 

Even when both parties earn the same etc it is still the women in many cases who is more supportive of the man rather than vice-versa.

She is ready to listen to his problems and doesn't want to bother him with hers.

 

it takes two.... one has to allow another to dominate

 

 

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JBH said I am the boss in my ...

I am the boss in my house.

 

When my wife wants me to be.

 

And the remaining 95% of the time I just do as I am told.

 

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Call me Maninibat!

 

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dragonfly212 said I like to be dominant and ...

I like to be dominant and in the same time I can be submissive. you know wha i mean? wink

Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.

Everybody is right everybody is wrong, it depend where you stand

 

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skanky said Why not... ...

LOL

 

I dominated the situation. LOL 

 

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harsha said its just that who chooses to ...

its just that who chooses to take the responsobilties and decisions.. if the man takes and the girl follows.. its men dominated... else its the other way round.. Foot in mouth

 

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jinkz said Don't trust a man who says ...

Don't trust a man who says he's the boss around the house...he probably lies about everything too! ~lol

 

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irrysa said i watched one sit-com the ...

i watched one sit-com the other day and i've heard sth so funny but true...the man was saying "it's not me or my wife who's the boss in the house-it's the children! everyday i feel closer to her, coz the fear of our kids unites us" Smile

LOL!

    

 

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Fembot said Just a set up that the men ...

Just a set up that the men folk created and the women followed. some women of the past encouraged it too. Sadly, most women are looking for comfort and security. something which is destroying them at a slow pace.

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lovinni said why do men dominates women? ...

why do men dominates women? well we can trace that from our history...but now times have changed...

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

 

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lipstick said why do men dominates ...

why do men dominates women?

in my case, that will depend on a man..

if i let him....

chaud

 

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azee said LOL ! ...

well said lipstick !

 

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owen said do they?.... not in my ...

do they?.... not in my league... Laughing sorry guys, they don't REALLY....

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Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

 

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harsha said lipstick.. very true.. if ...

lipstick.. very true.. if the gal lets the guy dominate.. he will..

 

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DaRuDe said lipstick ...

 
by him do you mean your boyfriend Cool

 

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deji said why do birds ...

why do birds fly?

 

Everything is temporal, but...  change.

Everything is temporal, but...  change.

 

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lipstick said DaRuDe, send me pm if you ...

DaRuDe, send me pm if you really wanna know...

 

 

chaud

 

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DaRuDe said eeeh lipstick ...

 
Just teasing you gal.

 

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thexonic said I'm not so dominating as ...

I'm not so dominating as long as the girl doesnt try to dominate me lol. I believe in fairness and equality.  

 

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harsha said deji...?? why do u birds ...

deji...?? why do u birds fly????

 

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skanky said Gals & Boys ...

The neverending topic.

 

Who dominate has more responsabilities, so I will let them dominate me LOL.

I will stay at home and check the maid work, drink one glass of wine while watching TV. its perfect.

 

Gals PM Me if you really want to dominate. LOL 

 

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Vegas said Everyone knows women are the Boss...:) ...

You can't teach experience...

You can't teach experience...

 

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jauntie said No-one ever heard of that old expression ... ...

"Behind every great man, there's a great woman!"

or ...

"Behind every man there's a woman telling him he's wrong - That's probably because he is".  lol

 

and my personal favourite:

"Behind every successful man is a surprised mother-in-law.

 Hubert Humphrey 1911-1978"

 

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azilana7037 said It's a two way traffic, really. ...

As the women can and have a say in some things and so does the MEN.

Though at this pouint...I have agree with lipstick.

 

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irrysa said jauntie, LOL! i like the ...

jauntie, LOL! i like the mother-in-law one :D 

 

If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.

If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.

 

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harsha said after iryssa mentioned it.. ...

after iryssa mentioned it.. just saw that.. i passed it off thinking it was a signature.. suprised mother in law.. hehe..

 

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baedaebok said All,   Are men are ...

All,

 

Are men are supposed to dominate over women?  That's a mind-blower!

I'll have to tell dw about this.   She'll be disappointed.

 

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DaRuDe said Jauntie do you mean ...

 
Behind every idiot man there is a silly woman 

 

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skanky said Behind ...

Every wolf theres a puppy shadow! 

 

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smoke said  Look it all begain with ...

 Look it all begain with Adam...he was created first..and then came Eve...so when Eve came she was scared of all the wild animals and kitty cats that were roaming around, so she turns to Adam and says "oh ur so brave" and then Adam takes Eve showing her around the garden of Eden..and since then women have always been that way. :) end of discussion.

 

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Vegas said Hmmmm...No woman behind me...:( ...

You can't teach experience...

You can't teach experience...

 

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gypsy gal said LOL ...

Vegas maybe because you are not looking behind.....LOL

 

I thoought some is behind you......??

 

 

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samia.sheikh said I think its a mans nature. ...

I think its a mans nature. They cannot overcome this. I think both of them should equally dominate each other.I think man should dominate 10% more but plz never suppress ur woman.

Miss. Sheikh

 

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Vegas said Hmm...I'm looking back all the time.... ...

I can hear someone follow me but everytime i look back no one there???

What's up with that???

 

You can't teach experience...

You can't teach experience...

 

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skanky said am behind ...

many womans lol 

 

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samia.sheikh said may be ur woman.....spying ...

may be ur woman.....spying on u :P

Miss. Sheikh

 

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DaRuDe said samiaaaaaaaaa ...

 
no man should dominate 99.99%

  and Skanky hmm ok ok fine :P 

 

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gypsy gal said hmmm ...

Maybe because she likes to walk beside you and not behind you? so next time look beside Smile

 

 

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azilana7037 said behind a man is always a woman ...

ready to kick his behind if he goes out of line...joke

 

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Oryx said Azzi ...

I like it! they need it and we can do it with style if they have a lovely behind! LOL

 

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alltimfun said saimaaaaaaaaaa ...

saima i am agree with you. Both try to dominate to each other.

 

 

"Peace and love is real life "

 

 

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Vegas said Front Left Right Behind...No woman...:( ...

Just under me...LOL I'm just kidding Don't have a cow man...

You can't teach experience...

You can't teach experience...

 

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azilana7037 said hmmm Oryx...man's lovely behind ...

is there for the LOVING KICKING...from their caring woman...lol

 

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gypsy gal said Amber... ...

No one can dominate a person, unless they give them a chance to do so. Our culture permits men to dominate... Male domination is prominent in places where women are behind men in all aspects like age, financial stability, physical strength etc..  Most important how they are brought up in their family,  If a man see his father dominating his mother and vice versa...they tend to follow the same when they grow up....

 

 

 

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Oryx said AZZZZZZZZYYYYYYYY ...

Put them in a little pair of shorts... and... ;) ;)

AZZZZZZZZZZZYYYYYYYYYYY

you have distracted my mind now LOL

you naughty girl......

 

 

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samia.sheikh said Da now I should say women ...

Da now I should say women should dominate men 101% :P

Miss. Sheikh

 

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mortal_earthling said i would love love a woman ...

i would love love a woman to dominate me... : P

he he he !!!

 

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samia.sheikh said mortal_earthling...these are ...

mortal_earthling...these are just words :(....no reality in it.....fake...:P

Miss. Sheikh

 

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mortal_earthling said it depends which way you ...

it depends which way you take it.... i was just being vulgar...

but how do you know its fake in reality??

 

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harsha said smoke.. gud one.. wid the ...

smoke.. gud one.. wid the adam n eve concept to show how it had all started... lol

 

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nadt said This is a funny question. ...

This is a funny question. Yes men like to think they dominate thier women..and brag about being the boss to their friends, until you see the men with their women and suddenly they turn from roaring lions to cats..

 

 

 

 

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jinkz said There are two places where ...

There are two places where a woman should dominate a man; one is the bedroom, the other, is the bathroom Wink

Elsewhere? Both shall be equal and in the same level Tongue out

 

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“They say you can't live without love. Tell them oxygen is more important!.”

- G. House 

 

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azilana7037 said (to nadt) did i heard someone meowed :-P ...

or is it my mobile phone's message alert...lol

 

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ksarat16 said ladies...come on ...

ladies why is it that nowadays you gals are behind the men, leave us alone a little, come on its only outside that we get to think we are the bosses, i mean everyone know whats the inside story of the house, so take it easy, and let it go like that...come on give us a little freedom...atleast outside the house...:P...LOL...

 

Speaking of dominance...well, whats stronger love or dominance (EGO), I would say Love, so why should one find a place for dominance in a relationship...go along hand in hand people, its much easier, no need to look back or too front, jus look to the side and u have ur partner there right next to you...it always is the best way to go...

 

Now all you lovely ladies, you can always start falling for a man with this mentality cant ya...LOL( my PMs service is activated for y'll)....;)

 

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azilana7037 said you made me laugh there, ksarat16. ...

I'll remember this topic next time we meet up..shall we?

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  kasarat16, why? Anyone is ...

 kasarat16, why? Anyone is after you these days? Then I guess you are lucky man!

 

The so called "men dominate women" is simply "men's illusion" they like to do it and think they are. But if you give it a great thought, eventually, women are dominating men smoothly. LOL

 

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jinkz said hd2u ...

hands up to ya girl!

 

we dominate men in the nicest and sweetest way...surely men can't complain about that... ~lol

 

“They say you can't live without love. Tell them oxygen is more important!.”

- G. House 

 

 

“They say you can't live without love. Tell them oxygen is more important!.”

- G. House 

 

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ksarat16 said Hey there Hopelessly... ...

Didnt get what you just said there to me buddy...wanna rephrase it or just get it a bit more clearer to me...

 

Am I lucky or not...i didnt get that...one more time pls....

 

Cheers...

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  Simply, briefly, clearly, ...

 Simply, briefly, clearly, IN YOUR DREAMS TO DOMINATE US! LOL Tongue out

 

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thexonic said hopelessely ...

I dont mind if a smart girl like u dominates me. I'd love to be dominated by u lol Tongue out

 

It's always the small things that make big differences.

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harsha said hehe.. nadt ksarat well ...

hehe.. nadt ksarat well said.. braggin about dominating d wife outside.. but still jumpin when the wife calls... there is an indication there.. hehe.. so the inside story is quite clear...

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  thexonic, you have to beg ...

 thexonic, you have to beg for it. LOL hehehehe

 

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ksarat16 said Hopelessly... ...

Now come on girl, where in my words did ya find that I would want to domincate the ladies, I was just playing a bit of the lighter side that we guys get to live like that only out of the house (ofcourse when the wife's not around) and certainly no dominance in the house...Now do ya get it...

 

So having said that, where is my cup of coffee that I get for being so nice...;)

 

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thexonic said hopelessly ...

wow i have to beg to be dominated... allrite than I would beg if thats what it takes lol. 

 

It's always the small things that make big differences.

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hopelessly.devo... said  ksarat, experience your ...

 ksarat, experience your manhood dominance outside as much as you want, in the end of the day we will be waiting near the door with a long BROOM stick. LOL Tongue out

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  thexonic, TYPICAL ...

 thexonic, TYPICAL LEBANESE. LOL go man go

 

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thexonic said hopelessely ...

U will be surprised how untypical i am. See the thing is, if the girl is worth it then i would give it all even if it takes me to beg or walk an extra mile. 

 

It's always the small things that make big differences.

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Lebanon... the love of my soul!

 

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ksarat16 said Hopelessly Devo... ...

You are making me quite curious about yourself now girl, how lucrative you are getting...ofcourse this needs some Profile checking...(*Looking into your profile*)...Lol...

 

And yes, one day when I do have a wife, I'm sure she will be waiting with a broomstick, thats why I dont play dominance...its an fair and square game aint it...

 

And as far as you are concerned, are you new on QL girl, never seen this much confidence and attitude flowing out for a long time, ofcourse with a touch of spice and humour looks to be...(Didn't I sum you up perfectly...now do I get that cup of coffee from ya girl...)LOL...And it is coffee pls, not broomstick...

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  At least we have ...

 At least we have something in common! BEING CRAZY.

I thought I am crazy because I was raised outside Lebanon, but seems the Lebanese blood is the reason. LOL

 

Take my advice, mark your way while walking the extra mile, you never know when you'll walk it backwards.

 

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harsha said hopelessly.. standing with a ...

hopelessly.. standing with a brrom stick.. lol...

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  Yes it is unfair ...

 Yes it is unfair ksarat16...

what goes around comes around doubled. You don't wanna be fooled by the woman in your life, so treat her like a queen, and TRY TO GET USED TO THE BROOMSTICK. LOL Tongue out live it, love it, get used to it.

 

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amber2007 said QL's ...

Thanks for the reply regarding the above subject, now i am enlighten by it.

 

jinkz.... what is all about dominating in bathroom? i know about in the bedroom.... what is about in bathroom?

 

Darude.... i wish i dominate you... hehehe

 

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ksarat16 said My my...my...DevoHopeless ...

You sure are a person to be met in real life...rather than in reel life...

 

Look at that tantrums being thrown here...Lol...girl you sure sound quite ready with that freaking broom, pity your man :(... I just hope (if you have a man that is), he knows what kinda danger he is keeping in life...LOL...

 

And Lebanese means, you have gotto be beautiful, so the necessity to meet up makes it more interesting, (I sort of guessed it from other posts from a chap posting about Lebanese girls in particular, O dont they look steamy and cute)...

 

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amber2007 said how to dominate a man? ...

with respect and dignity, how to dominate a man? can someone share me some? a big help thanks

 

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thexonic said hopelessly ...

Dont worry, I wont be walking backwards cuz i'll know when it will be the right time to walk that mile and i know it will be the best mile that I would have ever walked in my life. 

 

Too bad my wife wont have to wait for a broom stick, cuz thats not something that queens do. But then she will have to be worthy of that level. 

 

It's always the small things that make big differences.

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hopelessly.devo... said  The beauty that matters ...

 The beauty that matters is the inside beauty. I am not so proud about my beauty as much as I am proud of my inner one, and sure my beautiful broomstick. LOL My "man-to-be" will be the luckiest (humbly), because my broomstick will always remind him how faithful he should be. LOL no GALA GALA games. Tongue out

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  thexonic, take my word on ...

 thexonic, take my word on that, even a queen with a nice shinning classy royal stick, will use the stick as a broomstick when needed. Ask a female! LOL

 

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thexonic said hopelessly ...

 Take my word for it. The day she picks up the broom, that would be the last day i'd see her face. If she'd be ungreatful than that's not the kind of woman i would wnat in my life.

 

It's always the small things that make big differences.

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Lebanon... the love of my soul!

 

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ksarat16 said hopelessly... ...

Interesting, in all this discussion, girl, you seem tohave forgotten my cup of coffee...better not alright...;)

 

ANd rightly said, there, it all matters right from within inside, and it just keeps getting better and better till it reaches outside, infact the more better it is inside, the much more better it is when you get outside...and to be a little frank, you do sound like a good person, (jst sound, now dont start flattering yourself alright...get back on the ground)...and whats with you and the broomstick girl, you are beginning to sound like a Witch from one of those Tom and Jerry Cartoons, who is always with a Magical Broomstick, take it easy and the most important part, you are single, now thats the best thing I have heard from you, Now I surely want my cup of coffee girl...what do ya say...without the broomstick please...lOL

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  God have mercy on our ...

 God have mercy on our souls!!!! TYPICAL LEBANESEEEEEEE.

Lik el Lebanese warayeh warayeh? LOL

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  ksarat16, LOL nice ...

 ksarat16, LOL nice comment. I am not, and will never be arrogant about anything which is not mine. I don't own myself, and sure did not create myself the way I am. I am only grateful and thankful.

 

By the way, Tom & Jerry are my favorite, besides Timon & Pumba. LOL

 

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ksarat16 said See hopelessly, ...

I can sense myself getting lucky with a cup of coffee, and I can see you putting that broomstick away...LOL..slowly and steadily...I am pretty sure, by the evening that broom stick would have made way for a cup of coffee..LOL...(I like to put my words in others minds...before they start realizing the other way...LOL)...

 

I'm sure you arent arrogant, and you dont sound yet, and for me to be grateful and thankful for God to make you this way, I have to get my cup of coffee...LOL...again, I dont leave any stone unturned mate...;)

 

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hopelessly.devo... said  ksarat16, you have to ...

 ksarat16, you have to prove that you deserve it. Earn it! LOL

A cup of coffee without my broomstick is out of discussion Tongue out You men can never be trusted.

 

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thexonic said hopelesely ...

U can bring a broomstick with u when we go for the coffee, if they stop u at the door, i'll take the blame that its because i did something to u. 

 

 

It's always the small things that make big differences.

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Lebanon... the love of my soul!