how to report my boss?

cherry23
By cherry23

how to report my boss, he is offering me indecent proposal.

I told him many times that i have already a bf here.

I'm afraid he might terminate me from my work.

Please help.

By Serjoon• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
Serjoon

Take care not always recording Tel Call or Video will help, sometimes the court will not relay on those evidences, the best evidence is witness, you should let some of your friends see him when he is doing those things, any way i think the best solution is to inform him verbally that’s you r don’t want to continue with him and ask him for a release or to send u back to your country, tell him that u don’t want to create a problems to him , and you are not the kind of those people, and see his reaction !! , and if you really believe in God, believe me God will reward u with a job better than him.

Also if you can find Arabian person in order to talk to him in a polite way this will be good also.

By ei_saints• 11 years 10 months ago.
ei_saints

you should be prepared of those things before coming here. don't be stupid scared. be smart. outsmart him. be cunning. and don't let money be a reason of your demise. pera lang yan.

By kitt• 11 years 10 months ago.
kitt

Whats happening cherry.....we are waiting to hear you kicked that guys ass.

By Victoria5518• 11 years 10 months ago.
Victoria5518

...

By biersblock• 11 years 10 months ago.
biersblock

It seems you are left with two choices, either to give in or to make a bold resistance. Hope you find the wisdom to do the latter without compromising.

By biersblock• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
biersblock

Some men has the tendency or is actually a "practicing" sexual predator. They have no distinct profile. They vary from an uneducated individual to a high profile person. What is common to them is that they are just waiting for opportunity to harass women or children and take advantage of them. The male desire to dominate women or children is not primarily due to sexual desire but the craving to show power towards a helpless and vulnerable person. A classic example are those who commit incest and victimized their own relatives. It should frigthen would be victims since it is not a normal behavior and always has the potential for violence. Women and children who fall prey or is bound to be should seek immediate help either from their embassy or the the police authorities. I have a colleague who once was victimized by one of our co-workers here in doha four yrs back. She was too frightened to report to our superiors after the incident but one of our colleagues who learned about it gave the info. to one of our boss who was a european.Within less than a week, the predator was terminated from his job and was sent back to his own country. If we will be vigilant, then the proverbial saying will eventually happen which says "What he/she sows is what he/she reaps...

By Good old joe• 11 years 10 months ago.
Good old joe

Hey guys out here advising this person to report to the bigger boss is more stupid then the original act as the bigger boss is more busy having a good time himslf at the companys expense and the lower manager knows exactly what the big boss is upto and what he needs to do to keep him quiet and happy so he also can go about his dirty tricks and harassment while the big boss is at his own tricks and games

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Pfft.... your mobile number still the same?

By chinx_lady• 11 years 10 months ago.
chinx_lady

im BZ in the reality world...:)

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Oh Chinx, where were you hiding!!!!

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

hmmm, I guess she got the point and decided not to participate in the forum anymore... or not...

By chinx_lady• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
chinx_lady

if he will do any advances on you give him a power SLAP and do one thing, record the whole line to serve as evidence...keep safe..:)

By Ice Maiden• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ice Maiden

Hey inker, never mess with the jats. Remember Dharamji...and his agar tunne maa ka dudh piya hai...

trans...if you have the guts only

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Ice you still got your drinks ;)

By kitt• 11 years 10 months ago.
kitt

Cherry.....do not let this cheap rate boss get away.file a complaint.like others said,pls do get some evidence.i hope your boss is not reading these threads ,that he would change the whole scene around or something,kidding.but seriously....do not get scared,nothing will happen to your job.go girl.be brave.

By bubblymom• 11 years 10 months ago.
bubblymom

AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

i'm lost WK!!!!

By Ice Maiden• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ice Maiden

Awww and I was so looking forward to sponsored drinks.

btw I thought only Arnie had the copyrights to "I AM BACK". Damn the Indians, steal everything. Small request...do it in a leather jacket and jeans, not in a dhoti/lungi please :)

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

tinker some idiots think if someone is quiet they can go on saying anything, I was thinking he will come to his senses and stop it but since he hasn't I will stop him for good now :)

By Khawaga• 11 years 10 months ago.
Khawaga

WK: sounds like YOU need to come to girls nite out! lol

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

lol Ice, not everyone is a fox around here but some arseholes are jackals in sheep's clothing. I have remained quiet for far too long so arsehole thinks he can get away with anything. Now I am back to my best and now you know what my FB status meant, I Am Back :o)

By Ice Maiden• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
Ice Maiden

Offence is the best defence...now who said that...can't remember.

By FlyingAce• 11 years 10 months ago.
FlyingAce

Khawaga, I am a "Mind Reader"... ;)

By Ice Maiden• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ice Maiden

Each of the foxes here on QL are one worse than the other.

AAh a girl's night out. Fantastic idea. Compare notes, discuss "strategies", and catch up on the latest.

By Khawaga• 11 years 10 months ago.
Khawaga

FA: what do you mean "you people"??? LOL I've always wanted to say that! :o)

By Ice Maiden• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ice Maiden

Darude and bodyguard. Talk of the fox being asked to guard the hen house.

Girls, be armed and dangerous :)

By FlyingAce• 11 years 10 months ago.
FlyingAce

tinker, i will never ever get corrupted, you can count on me....... :))

By FlyingAce• 11 years 10 months ago.
FlyingAce

tinker, i was fooling around, you people enjoy have a great time..... :)))

By FlyingAce• 11 years 10 months ago.
FlyingAce

why would i sabotage it...... :)

any reason...

By ruby29• 11 years 10 months ago.
ruby29

tinks we need to guard the location of our girls night out so no guy will come and sabotage it hahaha

By FlyingAce• 11 years 10 months ago.
FlyingAce

tinker, can i also come pls....... ;)

By Khawaga• 11 years 10 months ago.
Khawaga

Oh yeah, one or two guys are going down!

By ruby29• 11 years 10 months ago.
ruby29

girls i think its time to get the guys busted! hahaha im so looking forward to this yeahh

By Khawaga• 11 years 10 months ago.
Khawaga

OMG when is girls nite out?? If notes are going to be compared, I'm SO there!

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ana.Ganda

you also sawthe new post? lolzzzzzz

By ruby29• 11 years 10 months ago.
ruby29

tinks i need a clue here im so lost lol what is this all about? do tell...

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ana.Ganda

why r we still talking about the indecent proposal when she already have new post... not how to get rid of the mudir anymore but how to get rid of warts this time.....she's ok now guys..

By Khawaga• 11 years 10 months ago.
Khawaga

gloomy: he just left.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

gloomy have patience ;)

I want to savour the moment a bit ;)

By bubblymom• 11 years 10 months ago.
bubblymom

enlighten me please!

whose proposing to whom?

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

gloomy we are still talking about indecent proposal. Just that the guy making these proposals isn't the OP's boos ;)

By bubblymom• 11 years 10 months ago.
bubblymom

and she's also sad already...

i need my panadol! :)

By bubblymom• 11 years 10 months ago.
bubblymom

Can someone remind me what this thread is all about?? :)

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ana.Ganda

look at this young lady now she got new post....seems that she's noT worried about her boss now...awhile ago she is asking for help how to get rid of her boss now she is asking for help how to get rid of warts in her TOENAILS?

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Actually that was expected

By Khawaga• 11 years 10 months ago.
Khawaga

That was just too easy.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

OMG I am out of here...

By Khawaga• 11 years 10 months ago.
Khawaga

Ruby is right. Jack, you know this better than anyone!

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Yeah Ruby... you are right

By ruby29• 11 years 10 months ago.
ruby29

jack quite honestly telling a guy to back off by telling him your married doesn't work too lol

if a man wants you nothing can keep him away and if a man doesnt want you nothing can make him stay.

By jolena• 11 years 10 months ago.
jolena

Try what one of my friends did once... Whenever the man is within ear shot, start talking about how you can't wait to trap a man and have at least 7 babies, etc. Just be sure to let the person you are talking to, know that you are talking bs. There must be someone in the office who notices what is going on who can be of help?

By Victoria5518• 11 years 10 months ago.
Victoria5518

@brave_heart - what makes u doubt her???

By brave_heart• 11 years 10 months ago.
brave_heart

I doubt if the OP is a Filipina.

By azilana7037• 11 years 10 months ago.
azilana7037

thanks to the OP...(*sigh)

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

Atmosphere in Doha has been spoiled by Pinoys, so everyone is taking benefit out of it and on ride. Truth is Truth, cannot avoid !!!

By Ice Maiden• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ice Maiden

If you are really interested in getting this guy off your back, draw the line in stone, not sand.

Most guys do understand when a woman replies with a firm "No", and they usually back off. It's when you keep moving the line that they start playing around. So be strong and say "No, Thankyou, NOT INTERESTED". You have to decide what is more important to you, a few measly extra bucks or your self respect and dignity.

By Andeee• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
Andeee

And another thing... I am sure your office/company has a complaint policy or greivance policy... why go to police and make it into some great big story of he knows this and that person....

simple answer - report to your HR department or to his boss and get it over and done with....

Like I said before - big story for nothing and there is something you have not told us which is basically that you would rather have the money etc then complain about him.

Where is your pride !!!!

By Andeee• 11 years 10 months ago.
Andeee

Cherry something is not right here... you say that lately he has started kissing your neck... hello - but how does he get that close to kiss you on your neck?? its not an easy thing to do so he has to be pretty close and comfortable to be able to do that and what about you ?? you just stand there quietly while he does it. i know one thing, if any guy came that close to me I would certainly notice and move away...

So I tend to think there is more to the story.. maybe you were nice and cosy with the guy and now that he wants more you are panicking... and to tell him you have a BF well thats just real clever...

SOrry I dont buy your story - there is something else you are not telling us....

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

geek what are you doing here dude??????

did you recieved my email,when do i get my hdd

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

geek what are you doing here dude??????

did you recieved my email,when do i get my hdd

By pcgeek• 11 years 10 months ago.
pcgeek

tinkerbell10 - i just hope you are right. but at least she should have move away from that pervert and not letting him kissed her. because this guy can say "ohh.. she is not resisting, i can do what i want".

By azilana7037• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
azilana7037

if you think you are weak!

I'm not being biotchy but:

- to cherry23: Your company have an HR Officer, right? Why not discuss this with them...to give it appropriate action.

Secondly, if you gonna complain to the police, you better stand firm with your complaints...as this would be a long, tedious, messy situation wherein your work will get jeopardized in the process. They ould easily turn the table on you, you being new in the job , in the company. It';; be your words against your manager.

Third, Maybe your manager misread your actions towards him. You being amiable to him and friendly may have been read/understood that you like him...maybe you should do a self-assessment.

Fourth, If you really want to keep your job and the sexual harrassment to stop...TELL HIM FRANKLY. He's educated enough to take the point. He may do something stupid for being rejected but as long as you do your job well, he can't have anything to use against you to terminate you.

From what you're posting about the situation being "complicated"...it's not.

YOU WANT THE MONEY FOR THE OVERTIME he's giving you...but YOU DON'T LIKE THE ATTENTION...THEN SPEAK OUT YOUR THOUGHTS AND TELL HIM THAT YOU CAME HERE TO WORK AND EARN...NOT TO DO ANY TOMFOOLERY....

I hope you get my point....and don't be so naive.

By Mr. Doha• 11 years 10 months ago.
Mr. Doha

teach him a lesson cherry..

By ex.ex.expat• 11 years 10 months ago.
ex.ex.expat

Is it so common in Qatar that women are victims of these kinds of wankers and have to ask people what to do because they assume there is no justice for women here? Anywhere else I think this would be a given: report him to his superior and the police.

By Victoria5518• 11 years 10 months ago.
Victoria5518

ahihi..."boyfriend-S"

By gtim• 11 years 10 months ago.
gtim

..tell your BF about your problem, maybe he can help you also.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

cherry listen do this and think about it... your boss is lebaness so the higher boss is qatari, dont worry to lose your job because he is only a GM there but he is not your sponsor, the qatari is the one who will kick him out of the office.. if you not scared now.. this are the step.. before entering your boss office take your mobile with u and start recording something.. if u can do video more solid evidence and voice record is good also but u need or conversation is involved about harrasing to u, do u get what i mean. if you get that go to the police... or use that evidence to scare him away... and dont smile on him dont give him anything to deserve your kindness..

trust me on this... because we are the same on this kind of situation... in this country u need to be strong and smart specially to us girls..

By johninqatarliving• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
johninqatarliving

Dont Worry Cherry, Have Faith In God. We will Pray for you to get strength and courage to face this problem.

Dnt Leave that bugger, Complain immediately to Police.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

You told an Arab guy you had a "boyfriend"?

You seem to be too new here...

You have to tell them "Married" and not shaging with "boyfriend-S"...

By Peppermint• 11 years 10 months ago.
Peppermint

hit directly his FOREHEAD then sign ur name! hahahahahaha!

Is there any company here selling teargas???

By Victoria5518• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
Victoria5518

cherry you can always find urself a new job. i think you are qualified enough to get urself a new job (no more excuses).

i have experienced this as well, i may say frequent, either i quit the job and find another or i show him how straight i am in office (do not discuss anything personal or any unnecessary small talk).

Do not encourage talk beyond work. That's all, if he still continue to harass u go straight to the big boss.

Its up to you if u want him to respect you.

Cheers!

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

its simple,DONT BE A DUMB!do what is the best to caught this guy.

By Oryx• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
Oryx

if he is lebanese then the connections are a bluff. take the good advice.

But make sure you are cold as ice with him and tell him firmly that you are NOT interested.

By Victoria5518• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
Victoria5518

cherry you can always find urself a new job. i think you are qualified enough to get urself a new job (no more excuses).

i have experienced this as well, i may say frequent, either i quit the job and find another or i show him how straight i am in office (do not discuss anything personal or any unnecessary small talk).

Do not encourage talk beyond work. That's all, if he still continue to harass u go straight to the big boss.

Its up to you if u want him to respect you.

Cheers!

By brave_heart• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
brave_heart

Thats it pepper.

Cherry put some blade on you heel & lemon juice, then if he do it agin kick him.

Dont hesistate to fight against any abuses.

By DaRuDe• 11 years 10 months ago.
DaRuDe

just get your soccer shoes on and kick his both balls and get your name in world record list for kicking 2 balls at a time.

By Swine Flu• 11 years 10 months ago.
Swine Flu

if possible change your job.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

pm me in private and give me ur number,i will call you,i have a lot of authority connection here about that,in instance we will bust his a55 and send him to his country back,dont tolerate this kind of person,they are doing like this to all fellow filipina not only like you,its just because of other filipina here(simple hooker).pm me and we will give him a experience that he will not forget to the rest of his life...please pm me cherry.thanks

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

or maybe she was shocked at what happened, let's hope it's for that reason... but I hope if he ever tries again, that she get the courage to stand up for herself and do something... for her own sake..

By Peppermint• 11 years 10 months ago.
Peppermint

he did it to u once... he can do it again!

Be ready next time... hit him with ur high heels! =D

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

pm me in private and give me ur number,i will call you,i have a lot of authority connection here about that,in instance we will bust his a55 and send him to his country back,dont tolerate this kind of person,they are doing like this to all fellow filipina not only like you,its just because of other filipina here(simple hooker).pm me and we will give him a experience that he will not forget to the rest of his life...please pm me cherry.thanks

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ana.Ganda

u let him kiss un in the neck....damn

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

pcgeek, that's exactly what I said earlier...

By Cupid s_Victim• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
Cupid s_Victim

Get some proof then talk to your boss that you felt your being harass so he should stop. If he didn't change for about a week then go ahead and report him at least you try to warn him.

By pcgeek• 11 years 10 months ago.
pcgeek

i have this feeling that you liked what he did to you. because in the first place, you did not even made any action when he kissed you on the neck. jeeezzz...

By an_na• 11 years 10 months ago.
an_na

idea rev.s..or cherry can give the moble no. of her boss..on QL and all QLers will keep him busy all day...he will not get chance to think about cherry.!!!..lolz

By stanley_mnl• 11 years 10 months ago.
stanley_mnl

agree, if you really want to complain, do it now.

if u don't, wait for another kiss or hug heheheeh

By Arien• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
Arien

Have the proof ready. a recorded fone convo with enough evidence will do.

Save the file in a pc or a memory card to have it safe if someone forcefully deletes it from fone.

Report to the management and police , together. Dont leave the moron from this, he should not do this to another girl.

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ana.Ganda

yeah right.....

pansin ko din

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

Pepper, well he'll be inclined to think that if the girl didn't do anything ya?

By Peppermint• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
Peppermint

MJ-- well he might think that she's also enjoying it!

By brave_heart• 11 years 10 months ago.
brave_heart

Ahh ok. and also because here in QL many Filipino post nonsense or sometimes sensitive nonsense issues that we bacame laughing stuff here.

pansin ko lang.

By brave_heart• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
brave_heart

So thats it, its clear it is not an indecent proposal anymore. It's abuse..so ask some good Kabayans here to got to the police and report the incedent.

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ana.Ganda

they thought that all filipinas are easy girls......bec some of our kabayans are like that.....very very sad...

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

geez how can you let him get away with it? you should've done something right away when he did that to you.. he must've thought you have no objections over what he did!

By Rev.s• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rev.s

Give his number we will all come to your office beat him up and wont actually tell him the reason for beat ups lol

By Peppermint• 11 years 10 months ago.
Peppermint

Yeah right Azi "Purely-Business Relationship"

NO MORE, NO LESS!

By Angelo• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
Angelo

hi there,

1) first get solid proof of his advances.

2) Do not show encouragement by smiling when he offers you something you dont like.

3) Inform the HR or change the department you work at.

4) You may be scared, but dont let it show in your face or body language

5) Use, going to the Police as a last resort.

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

brave_heart its not only proposal, he started to kiss me lately in my neck and hold my hands while giving some documents.

By brave_heart• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
brave_heart

Azi is right..but still someone can help her. As you said its Indecent Proposal, Its just a PROPOSAL...but if he started abusing you, its another story. You can report him to the police/CID, OWWA or maybe the Philippine Embasy.

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

thanks just1s.

thanks the courage. i will try it at night, he told me to take OT again today.

By stanley_mnl• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
stanley_mnl

just call 999 and they will come for you, police in here are good and kind unlike other countries.

By brave_heart• 11 years 10 months ago.
brave_heart

Ana ganda what you the same?

By azilana7037• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
azilana7037

BOTTOMLINE: if you're not interested, just tell him you're not interested...that's it.

You have to stand firm and tell him you prefer to keep your working relationship on the professional level.

Stop whining...no one could help you but yourself.

By Peppermint• 11 years 10 months ago.
Peppermint

So what if he knows somebody from the CID? why need to be scared if u know that ur in the right position?

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Ana.Ganda

thats the sad part of it....the way they look at filipina has become stereo type... they thought that all are the same..damn.......

By Peppermint• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
Peppermint

avoid accepting any gifts from him. He might think that u also likes him or giving him false hope....

at the end he can used it against u... SO BE CAREFUL!

By just1s• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
just1s

IF THIS YOUR REAL IDENTITY, CHANGE YOUR PROFILE AND NAME NOW AND REMOVE YOUR PHOTOS. YOUR BOSS MIGHT BE AROUND.

YOU WILL BE IN DANGER. HE WILL HAVE AN IDEA NOW HOW TO GET GETAWAY WITH THIS.

YALA ..... MAKE YOURSELF INVISIBLE.

By just1s• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
just1s

you better do this ask for assistance of POLO locate in Bin Omran. NO NEED ARABIC TRANSLATOR

By brave_heart• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
brave_heart

So many good advices. Its up to you. If you dont want to be abused, so fight and never let somebody do it to you.

You can talk directly to some Kabayans here.

You're boss might also be here in QL and if thats youre real name and picture this will be disadvantageous to you.

By Peppermint• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
Peppermint

if ur really want to report him, i think u also need substantial evidence like pictures, video or voice record.

its also better to always dress decently and avoid being too friendly or talking to him re personal matters.

By stanley_mnl• 11 years 10 months ago.
stanley_mnl

make sense....

By just1s• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
just1s

Cherry u are still confused. Don't show him any weaknesses,

your boss is thinking all filipina's are the same, he might do this thing in some women before, he might be expert of this activity.

Dont be afraid to lost your job otherwise you will loose dignity etc .....

you know what i mean.

BE STRONG AND FIGHT!

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

anyone can help me in the capital police and explain it to arabic?

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

everything is fair in pervert life.

By DaRuDe• 11 years 10 months ago.
DaRuDe

they sucked out all his power and the poor guy had to crawl to the hospital.

By stanley_mnl• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
stanley_mnl

as long as u feel that he really abuse you, no need for any proof, this is a muslim country and harram for their religion to do stupid move like this... got it

By Swine Flu• 11 years 10 months ago.
Swine Flu

take print of this thread & give it your boss.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Da I am not Tarzan after all, couldn't handle them all :(

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

britexpat

ever u heard of

"a fcuked arse can't be agressive"

By an_na• 11 years 10 months ago.
an_na

ofcourse ur job is important, but u can't continue ur job like this. may be the situation will become worse.so better collect some proof and report to higher person than him in ur co. or report it to police.

collect proof first..using pen cam as darude suggested..or ur mobile (if it has recording option).

By DaRuDe• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
DaRuDe

yes sure you enjoyed it and ended up in hospital with energy drips going up your body

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

Try to record a call with him on ur mobile, ask him to call u after work time and give him all the freedom to say what he wants to say and record it, then go to the police or labor office.

By britexpat• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
britexpat

You could always give in to him. Record the "naughty bits" and then blackmail him foir a higher salary and better perks..

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

where is the capital police located? i can't speak arabic.

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

uhh why do I get the feeling that you don't really wanna sort this issue out?

By stanley_mnl• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
stanley_mnl

call 999 now and complain, the police will give u full support and they will arrest ur boss (lebanese) if they terminate you the immigration officer will give you release and u can find another sponsor.... chow cheer up men.

By just1s• 11 years 10 months ago.
just1s

Cherry, Make sure before you report anything, you have to provide a solid proof of evidences or anything that leads to harassment. This is Qatar you cannot just go to police and tell them that you are being harassed by your boss.

Make a seamless recording (sounds or video) or photos from mobile that he cannot recognize. always turn on your mobile videos before talking to your boss by simply holding your mobile, (at least voice can be recorded).

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Oh Da don't remind me of that nightmare :P

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

apparently u r confused.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

That was his payment and now he expects sex in return. Not unheard of in these parts, tell him firmly NO and don't report then.

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
mjamille28

so sometimes he is good to you, that doesn't excuse him harassing you!

By DaRuDe• 11 years 10 months ago.
DaRuDe

you can teach her your trick that happened with you when you were assaulted by group of chicks and stripped

By happygolucky• 11 years 10 months ago.
happygolucky

If it comes down to showing proof.... get him caught red handed by taking police in confidence.

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

it's complicated, thought sometimes he's good to me.

and he's always giving me overtime pay which i really need to pay off my debt in the Philippines.

By Ana.Ganda• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
Ana.Ganda

if ur mobile has video recorder try to use it but be careful ok....damna that boss.....he is crazy really...

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

cherry

i can understand ur feelings, this once happened with me, when my HR manager (She) offered me in same way.

Better u report him to capital police.

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Where is lemontree, he can provide tips for recording :P

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

try to be nice with him and grap him into net

by taking video record to him trying to make sex with you

it's easy not hard

then you threaten him

orrrrrrrr

talk to his wife

By DaRuDe• 11 years 10 months ago.
DaRuDe

i saw an ad pen cam buy that record all and show it to the police.

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

would you rather stay scared the rest of your life and take it and take it and take it?

you're better off losing your job if it comes to it, than be in the situation you're in right now.. I'm sure you'll find an alternative job.. what's more important right now is you sort this pervert out!

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

He is bluffing about the connections. Call his bluff now.

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

this is the problem. what kind of proof?

By flor1212• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
flor1212

and try to record him. Unless he is the owner of the firm, you have someone higher than him to report to!

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

i'm afraid of him. don't know what to do. I'm the bread winner, i cannot afford to loose my job.

By Swine Flu• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
Swine Flu

that is a false threat. You just complain to capital police directly. But you need proof ennough I think(Not sure).

By mjamille28• 11 years 10 months ago.
mjamille28

you're doomed if you let some jerk scare you off like that.. do something and do it now!

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

cherry he is bullshyteing you, don't get scared and tell him to fcuk off. report directly to the owner

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
cherry23

he threatened me once, he told me that he has some friends in the CID. and he has some connections with the police.

By DaRuDe• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
DaRuDe

to the company chairman then

By cherry23• 11 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
cherry23

he's the GM. (lebanese)

By anonymous• 11 years 10 months ago.
anonymous

Has your boss got a boss?

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