Please appreciate "HER"

angel_eyes
By angel_eyes

Tomorrow you may propose a working woman, but you should marry with these facts firmly grounded in your mind........

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are asto what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly - Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER" ==========

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By angel_eyes• 12 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
angel_eyes

It's all true, but some of us choose to ignore this not because it doesn't capture our attention..(I guess so ;D) its because we don't want to believe!!!

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By angel_eyes• 12 years 10 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
angel_eyes

You are welcome!!!

At least I am doing something good for today ;)

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By aratchhb• 12 years 10 months ago.
aratchhb

am always appreciate her coz maybe she is my mother or my sister or my wife or my best friends

and will be not fear not to be like that

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By skdkak• 12 years 10 months ago.
skdkak

angel_eyes.. u have put across a great thread here and I wonder why only two comments till now.

Every word is so true of actual life circumstances but as u mentioned... not many of us (Read Guys) would understand it.

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By akkuami• 12 years 10 months ago.
akkuami

jst next to wndrful...this may work as reminder for all the bad guys around, bt am afraid there not even one bad guy in Qlers...:)

It's amazing that the amount of news that happens in the world every day always just exactly fits the newspaper.

By Nrcruz• 12 years 10 months ago.
Nrcruz

Very true!!!

By venks• 12 years 10 months ago.
venks

Well said angel_eyes. Salute.

"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it"

By qatman• 12 years 10 months ago.
qatman

Well said Angel_eyes. I hope the concerned or to whom this is addressed take a note of it and change their views in addition to appreciating.

By canuckcrazy• 12 years 10 months ago.
canuckcrazy

well said, well said,

guilty.

i will make dinner for her tonight.

thx angel

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