True love is love at first glance

africana
By africana

True love is love at first glance - true love is love beyond any doubt from the very beginning

If you are unsure, if you have any doubt, if you are confused, if what you do creates problems or tears, then it is NO love at all!

A guy in love needs but seconds or maximum minutes to fall in love - anything slower than that is NO true love at all. If a guy is too scared or too shy or too slow to instantly know to love a particular girl = YOU, then that guy also may need years or more each time you need true love. Such a guy may b e a friend - but never a true lover. Lovers are made by God, true lovers love from very first moment.

If you first have been just friends and only became lovers after he proposed, then it is NO true love from BOTH sides, from your side as well. To receive a proposal always is special for some girls. But true love never needs a proposal as in a TRUE love relationship love is mutual and infinite from the very first moments of love, the very very first day both meet!

You all 3 are friends - just good friends - and that is what you should remain for eternity. But you 3 are very far from being in love. A marriage is a lifetime or even beyond life-time venture with infinite sweetest love exchanges and adventures shared in love for ever and ever.

A true lover NEVER cries, a true lover only loves. A true lover never is scared, a true lover loves and shows his love from the very first moment., A true lover can talk about everything with his loved one from the very first seconds they meet. A true lover never creates doubts or hesitation, a true lover creates happiness, satisfaction and fullest stability in the life of his loved one.

You should break the engagement with the friend who proposed you and remain friends for ever an ever - all 3 together - like best friends or brother sister !!

With a true lover you never spend much of your life 3 together - but YOU and your ONE LOVE plus friends. A girl never is the one to support a guy, a guy needs to be mature, experienced and above all STRONG to be the secure resting place for his lover girl. Hence it is the guy to be the strong-hold of a family, never the girl.

You should NEVER ever marry a boyfriend. You should marry a lover at first sight. Boyfriends are friends of opposite sex - just like brothers. Boyfriends are friends for ever - but NEVER lovers for life, boyfriends are never husbands for life. Boyfriends are your divorce waiting to be executed.

Hence avoid this marriage and you'll save YOURSELF lots of tears, pain and later regrets when your divorce or unhappy decades of life take control of your life. Talk all 3 together - agree on a separation with your "boyfriend" AND restart a friendship all 3 ... just best friends for life. Mature men will understand and agree. Childish men will cry or play ego games!! A lover always says YES to the decision of his lovers HEART. True happiness is far more than going out all 3. True love includes happy loving sex-life, many sweet children, hugging and kissing, hours, days and nights skin to skin, dancing, singing, working together, sharing all life together, day and night.

God bless
hans

hans Cyberspace Ashram for Kriya Yoga | Merry Christmas | Teachings of Love | Secrets of Love | Forum for love, relationship and sexuality

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By Xena• 12 years 4 months ago.
Xena

lets hope he loves enough to not leave in the end;-P

By africana• 12 years 4 months ago.
africana

what comes to ur min about the person you love?

any experience?

By anonymous• 12 years 4 months ago.
anonymous

britexpat... it must have been in Saudi?...and your love fell on the ground and ruined the lovely carpet...lol

By anonymous• 12 years 4 months ago.
anonymous

Dracula... I am man in a hurry....

By britexpat• 12 years 4 months ago.
britexpat

I gazed ata woman for more than 8 seconds, fell in love, BUT got reported to the police :O(

By britexpat• 12 years 4 months ago.
britexpat

I gazed ata woman for more than 8 seconds, fell in love, BUT got reported to the police :O(

By Dracula• 12 years 4 months ago.
Dracula

2 minutes ???

2 full minutes?

oh my God!!!..YOU're a sex machine! :)

By anonymous• 12 years 4 months ago.
anonymous

Usain Bolt takes at least 9 seconds....

Damn! this guy is fastest draw in the west...oops Gulf :(

By anonymous• 12 years 4 months ago.
anonymous

8 Seconds?... Who?.beat my record ...of 2 minutes :(

By Dracula• 12 years 4 months ago.
Dracula

8 seconds??

you...powerful stallion! :)

By gilichem• 12 years 4 months ago.
gilichem

My mind not excepting any love becoz love is nothing infactulation but study showed something scientist claimed that 8 sec is more than enough. The study showed these results. Chk the link below

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/5046517/8.2-seconds-needed-to-fall-in-love.html

By anonymous• 12 years 4 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

My friends say first sight should be above the neck... but for me it has never happened :(

...and never judge a person from their package...that too has never happened.....(ok you dirty minded MOD...its salary package...)

By britexpat• 12 years 4 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
britexpat

If you marry the one that loves you, then you can treat him like dirt and he will always be there for you.. Through thick and thin.. Hale or Snow, Wind or rain, Heat or cold, light or dark, haze or clear, sadness or happiness ....

Need I go on ? :O)

By africana• 12 years 4 months ago.
africana

it said that first sight is forever sight but how to prove that....?

By LostInSpace• 12 years 4 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
LostInSpace

first sight yes - love no!

By Xena• 12 years 4 months ago.
Xena

what utter BullS...t.... seriously....

has anyone ever thought about this? Really? Why are these "flashes of brightness" always about one side of the relationship....

I once heard one of these pearls of wisdom... "marry the one that loves you, not the one you love"

Now please can some one explain to me.... If I marry the one who loves me.... but I don't love that person... How exactly is that person getting the one that loves them... assuming the saying is for both parties involved....

Oh dear am far to philosophical today....

*sigh* Friends with benefits is just soooo much easier....

By africana• 12 years 4 months ago.
africana

i love love.....

who doesn't love love?

By entria_qt• 12 years 4 months ago.
entria_qt

love is a many splendor thing!!!

By ruby29• 12 years 4 months ago.
ruby29

but what if after it hurts like hell you realize that you made the wrong decision but its too late to go back? how do you move on thinking how things could have been...

By britexpat• 12 years 4 months ago.
britexpat

How true! Always give when its hard and never stop till it hurts like hell ..

By vivek_planner• 12 years 4 months ago.
vivek_planner

Love is eternal....It loves, cries, laughs and does whatever....To be loved truly, its a blessing of possessing a good attitude. thats why i believe "success is all about attitude".

so my friends, to be loved truly, prepare urself to have a good attitude to love and give however hard it is and never give up unless it hurts like hell!!!

I experienced in love so much that made me fall deep down and rise again...

"Sometimes we put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down"

Luv u all...

By africana• 12 years 4 months ago.
africana

i would like to show u what love is about. keep in touch!

By Dracula• 12 years 4 months ago.
Dracula

Gents, Gents...please...don't involve my love for my Goattie here! :)

By africana• 12 years 4 months ago.
africana

This thread is just an opinion and not revealed or divine knowledge so it cant be offensive.You may take it or leave it!

By britexpat• 12 years 4 months ago.
britexpat

That lovestruck Dracula really gets my goat :O(

Most of my pictures are of a personal nature and not suitable for a gfamily site such as QL... But , since you insist....

By gkramer• 12 years 4 months ago.
gkramer

Dracula gave the link to his marriage thread yesterday, Britexpat you had something similar with the Cuban shotputter?

By britexpat• 12 years 4 months ago.
britexpat

LOve at first sight - How True....

I remember the first time I set eyes on my Cuban Shotputter as she chalked her hands. Nearby Mr. Dracula was struck by cupid's arrow as Goatey sauntered by :O)

LOVE !

By ruby29• 12 years 4 months ago.
ruby29

what's love got to do with it? lol i am sounding cynical about the word but can't help it. have had relationships in the past until now i didn't even come close to what is being said about love. they say so many good things about love being it patient, kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it is not rude,

it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered,

it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

and finally love bears all things, believes all things,

hopes all things, endures all things.love never ends. love never fails. but alas! that is only the ideal expectations of love coz in reality love sucks! its painful, its jealous, its extremely selfish but in the end we keep coming back for more. perhaps in the hope that one day, there might be such a person that will make you believe what love is all about. so far no such luck for me...

By soniya• 12 years 4 months ago.
soniya

asif, u funny man....lol

By asif_khan• 12 years 4 months ago.
asif_khan

@soniya i agree with u i still think that my ex divorce her husbands soon so that in the future i may have her hahahahaha

By Allen R.• 12 years 4 months ago.
Allen R.

"A true lover never creates doubts or hesitation, a true lover creates happiness, satisfaction and fullest stability in the life of his loved one."

Thanks for sharing!

By soniya• 12 years 4 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
soniya

"You should NEVER ever marry a boyfriend. You should marry a lover at first sight. Boyfriends are friends of opposite sex - just like brothers. Boyfriends are friends for ever - but NEVER lovers for life, boyfriends are never husbands for life. Boyfriends are your divorce waiting to be executed."

I fear if the real BOYFRIENDS may find the above comments offensive..be careful..

By anonymous• 12 years 4 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

true luve......................

By gudone• 12 years 4 months ago.
gudone

thaaaaaaaaanks..... I agree frnds r for frndship only....

By Visper• 12 years 4 months ago.
Visper

"Love is like the measles; we all have to go through it."

;)

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