...when you're hurt...

chinx_lady
By chinx_lady

when you're hurt it’s okay
to flirt,
to date,
to hate,
to mingle with other people,
to drink,
to cry,
to laugh out loud,
to scream and to dance wild,
you know why?

Because when you’re hurt you don’t owe anybody any explanation on how you choose to repair yourself.... Live you’re life as you wish, until you’re whole again..

By kuquels• 12 years 5 months ago.
kuquels

perfectly said!

By anonymous• 12 years 5 months ago.
anonymous

Sure chinx, just don't hurt anyone else in the process :)

By anonymous• 12 years 5 months ago.
anonymous

I like your subject

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

Rizks...still trying to find out "he" or "she" with the color of UW...:)

Anyways, now let me also not get branded as a hijacker...back to topic...:)

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

what's new arien?if rizks is around?

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

yep i agree to that flor....actually this is the countless time that I ever experienced and I want to get over it..so far I am on the right track even i do these diversions.i keep myself safe and sound..there is no way i will destroy myself...i just want to enjoy my life to the fullest than being bitter for the rest of my life..

By Rizks• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rizks

ok Doc !! :(

Over and OUT !!

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
drmana

Rizks, stop misleading people with your translation and come back to the original topic.

By Rizks• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rizks

lol happy...Majaak karing mere laal....

Englihs: How am i suppose to know tat u r wearing Red underwears ? :)

By Arien• 12 years 5 months ago.
Arien

Happy/Rizku .. done

chinx sorry fo rthe lil hijack

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

Rizks...ek saal mein yeh bhi nahi maloom ki happy 'he' hai ki 'she' hai...itna time QL mein rehene ka kya fayeda...:)

(English: Rizks you dont know whether 'happy' is 'he' or 'she'....did I ever flirt with you...:))

By flor1212• 12 years 5 months ago.
flor1212

even when you're happy, you do these things, meaning whatever your mood is, you do these things. But when you're hurt, there's a tendency that you overdo it, having that defense mechanism that you're just doing a diversions, a way to throw away the hurt inside. That's why I say, whether you're happy or hurt, you owe someone or not an explanation, when you do these things, put a limit in a way you know you won't totally destroy yourself unknowingly!

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

i know where to stand avvid..i don't take anyone on a rebound...thanks pal..

By gtim• 12 years 5 months ago.
gtim

doing crazy things are the outlet of anger and frustrations.

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

Arien...my pleasure..let's fix a date...:)

drmana...no issues...just wanted to know what in your opinion could be bothering me...:)

By mjamille28• 12 years 5 months ago.
mjamille28

I am so over this phase...

By Rizks• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rizks

Ariel wat do u mean tat u r straight ? did i tell you tat u structure is like a ZigZag tower ? :)

i dont know happy, how can i bring over ?

by the way, is happy "he" or "She" ?

If its "she" i can bring her over......lol

By avvid• 12 years 5 months ago.
avvid

When your soul is sucked out, and your heart has been stamped on, you need all the diversions just to go along.

But beware, that you do not take your hurt out on an innocent, just so that you hurt no more.

By Arien• 12 years 5 months ago.
Arien

Rizku sorry , am straight

lol, you can , anytime. you knows the den bring happy too. :)

By Rizks• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rizks

ArieL can i pop in too to have a lollipop ?:)

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
drmana

Happy, Everyone have their own perspective to view things or situation. There is no compulsion that your perspective should match mine or vice-versa.

By Arien• 12 years 5 months ago.
Arien

Happygo.. lol only after 6pm, pop in for drink one day :)

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

Arien...waiting for the poem to come out of you now...:)

By Arien• 12 years 5 months ago.
Arien

chinx lady chillax!! wow that rhyms :)

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

flor it is not crazy after all...it is just a simple diversion from your old self...you became fool when you're in love and get hurt so a little escapade will help not to the point of ruining yourself of course...don't go far beyond the limit mah friend.;)

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

Nope drmana....just trying to see things in perspective...:)

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
drmana

Happy, are you tempting me to hijack?

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

drmana...in your opinion what could be bothering me...:)

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
drmana

Happy, though I don't understand which "late" is bothering you, we will agree to disagree in this. This topic is about one's reaction on being hurt, on which I agree with OP. Thats it.

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

i do flor..but can't tell you the extent...

By rMs_000• 12 years 5 months ago.
rMs_000

Happy.. :)

Chinx, You silly !! :)

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

drmana...dont think that, that traffic slogan applies here..... seems out of context...:)

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

rms_000...you think QL can ever be out of daily dose of love and hurt... it can be possible for only that many days you dont login on QL...:)

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rating: 5/5
drmana

Happy, I will still say, its never too late. Late is always better than never.

By flor1212• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
flor1212

being "really" hurt. Yours is a diversion. That's why I said, crazy things because, without limit ('cause you don't owe anybody an explanation), these things you mention may or may not make you whole again. Worst it will destroy you completely and never recover.

I say again,......if you're hurt, put limit in these crazy things! Lol!My next post will tell you why!

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

rms please give this room a favor will you...?

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

drmana...I will repeat my first post "depends on what kind of relationship you are with the person who hurt you". Now do you think sometimes it can be just too late...:)

By rMs_000• 12 years 5 months ago.
rMs_000

Oops, I thought QL is out from this Love and Hurt..

-Never !!! ;=(

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

lol guys I am choosing the right person to buzz and geez thanx for the offer! *chuckles*

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
drmana

happy, its never too late for anything. Oh! stop it before I go off topic.

By Speedysid• 12 years 5 months ago.
Speedysid

"Gosh, why Lord has created their women so sensitive? why Lord has created their men so rubbish?"

Because, we need women in our lives to show us the sensitive side, and women need men to protect them from the rubbish side...

By Arien• 12 years 5 months ago.
Arien

happy possible, but thats "to hate" :)

Rizku u fork :L

By choozy_84• 12 years 5 months ago.
choozy_84

chinx

this is 100% true ...

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

drmana...sometimes it may be just too late to stop....what say...:)

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

Arien...me thinks she has already buzzed someone...:)

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rating: 3/5
drmana

Flor, try the above things once, you will feel the difference. You will know when to stop ...don't worry about that.

By Rizks• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rizks

ArieL plz buzz off ! :)

By Rizks• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rizks

crazy things ?

with things are those flor ?

By Arien• 12 years 5 months ago.
Arien

Chinx please buzz me when you are hurt :P

By flor1212• 12 years 5 months ago.
flor1212

how long you will do those crazy things? Until you're wreck? and become irreparable? How can you be whole again?

I say, ......when you're hurt, put limit on those crazy things! Lol!

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

oh really drmana...hmm i guess i am the only one who envelops this feeling right now..

By soniya• 12 years 5 months ago.
soniya

chinx,i said I WISH IF I COULD..I have yet to encounter such terrible trauma..lol..And i don't think it would come..so don't worry..

By Khan1970• 12 years 5 months ago.
Khan1970

when you get hurt, hurt others you will feel good

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

hahaha don't you dare soniya ...;p

By soniya• 12 years 5 months ago.
soniya

Gosh,so true input..I wish if i could get hurt in future and could utilize my freedom as mentioned above..lol

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
drmana

chinx_lady, I am so over with it ;-)

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

gudone you must be..promise you will feel better afterwards..

By chinx_lady• 12 years 5 months ago.
chinx_lady

on the contrary QS men are also sensitive they just can't let anyone see them in pain emotionally..:)

drmana we are on same feathers...;)

By gudone• 12 years 5 months ago.
gudone

thanks 4 tht thought.. i will surely adopt it...

By Allen R.• 12 years 5 months ago.
Allen R.

absolutely right!

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

QS...it is other way round too..:)

By happygolucky• 12 years 5 months ago.
happygolucky

Depends in what kind of relationship you are with the person who hurt you.

By qatarisun• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rating: 4/5
qatarisun

sure.. no one else can get hurt, but..

Gosh, why Lord has created their women so sensitive? why Lord has created their men so rubbish?

By drmana• 12 years 5 months ago.
drmana

I agree totally, completely.

By i am here• 12 years 5 months ago.
i am here

is it ? ;)

By Formatted Soul• 12 years 5 months ago.
Rating: 2/5
Formatted Soul

hmmm...

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